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Married to my wife for 20 years, but I have this thing about other men's penises! Any advice?
Q. I am a married man and have been with my wife for 20 years. I love her more than anything or anyone else. I have no complaints and our life together is fantastic. I have never cheated on her. My problem is that in the last few years I have enj...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi hun there are a couple of things you can do. 1. you can tell your wife the feelings you have been having and talk to her about it. 2. you can go out and cheat on your wife and have a chance of losing your wife of 20 yrs to something you just want ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his ex are going away together without me
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months still talks to his ex. He doesn't try to hide anything but says they are still friends. They are both going to an out of town wedding of a mutual friend. I am very concerned about this and wonder if I should tell him how I ...
A. 2 July 2007: Hun you should always tell your partner what is on your mind the more you hold in the more you will fill worse and not feel the same for him, so always tell him what is on your mind.... (read in full...)
Will it hurt me if he puts his fingers inside me?
Q. I am 14 and have a 14 year old boyfriend. Alot of my friends have finger banged or gave hand jobs. My boyfriend has finger banged before, but i havent done either. I want to do both with him and i feel ready and i know he is too. We talk about it ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hey hun, you are still young to be doing this but i am not her to judge you and what you do. But yes it will hurt even if you have got your period. When you are ready to get fingered have him get his finger wet or with ky jelly which makes it go ... (read in full...)
His best friend is a constant source of problems for us
Q. My boyfriends best friend is a woman. They have known each other since they were children and there is no romantic attraction, at least on my boyfriends side. She, however, loves him in the same way that I do. She is a wonderful person and has ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hun there is nothing wrong with the way you feel. I would be angry if this was happing to me specially if you dont see him that much, but once you have dinner with them then just tell them both you dont want to cause a fight and you like this girl ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her I've changed?
Q. Hello, I have a hard question to ask? Me and my (i guess i should say ex-girlfriend) have been going out for almost three years until we just recently broke up 2 weeks ago. The first two years of dating were absolutely great, only a few arguments ...
A. 30 June 2007: Dear onyx,
It takes alot for someone to belive that the other person has changed cause 99.9% of the time when someone says they changed they always change for a month or so or intil they get what they want and then go right back to being the ... (read in full...)
I need the father of my daughter to give me what he's owe for her
Q. My daughter's father gave me a money order for $19 ($15 for child support, $4 for medical bills). I never felt as insulted in my life. He showed me his pay stub to show me how much he gets paid. Which I could care less. All I want is for him to ...
A. 30 June 2007: Hey hun, The way you can keep him away from you and stop bothering you is when you see you lawyer again tell him that you would like to get a pfa against him, which that means he cant go so far near you and he is not to call or talk to you and if he ... (read in full...)
Should I give in so we can be together?
Q. Dear Cupid... I have an ex-boyfriend his B. I still like him alot but I guess all he wants to do is have sex with me, In fact we broke up because I didn't want to have sex....Should i give him what he wants so we can be together again?...
A. 30 June 2007: Dear Tera,
You should not give into him no matter how much you like him, you shouldnt have to have sex with him to be with him, Only time you should have sex with someone is when you want to and when you are ready and it sounds like you are ... (read in full...)
Should my friend have sex with this guy?
Q. should my friend have sex with him? there is this guy my friend works with and he is leaving soon. she has liked him for the past year and now he is leaving he has asked her to have sex with him she doesnt know what to do as she really likes the...
A. 11 June 2007: it sounds like he just wants to have sex befor he goes honestly it is her call but no matter how much she likes him she shouldnt because he had all that time to be with her and never did and now that he is leavin it sounds like he is taking ... (read in full...)
How can I resolve the tension between us, without ruining our friendship?
Q. dear cupid, I have this best friend, and we've been friends for like ever... we were friends since kindergarten and now were going into grade 12. That's all fine and dandy, the problem comes when we drink together. Obviously I want to party wi...
A. 10 June 2007: Growing up that long and always being best friends is hard cause one day you will find a guy and then move on, she is probly a depressed drunk when she gets drunk and sees you with guys she prolly gets depressed and thinks that if you get with this ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I think this guy likes but then he acts like he doesn't! What's happening here?
Q. i dont know what to do. i really like this guy but he likes someone else, his sister told me. but she also says that he gets over her and then moves on. hes my brother's friend but hes in my grade. sometimes i think he likes me but then he acts like ...
A. 10 June 2007: If you really like this boy you should talk to him about it and ask him what he feels about you or have your brother do it, but some way talk to him and ask him what he thinks about you, boys at your age are always liken diffrent girls and then ... (read in full...)
We don't want the baby now! How can we stop this?
Q. my girlfrend is about 35 days pregnant? but we dont want baby now? is thr any way to stop her from not becoming pregnant? will it affect her in later age,if she stop now? wat medicine should she take...
A. 10 June 2007: NO, dont try doing anything to that baby on your owne, you should really go to a doctor to do it the right way she can get a really bad infection and there is a chance she wont be able to ever have a child again and if someone finds out you killed a ... (read in full...)
Moody bf is obsessed over the fact, his kids are not allowed to meet me and come to our home! What should I do?
Q. My partner is very moody, depressive really we live together and share a mortgage. However both me and my partner are both still married. I have no contact with my husband but my partner has to have contact because there are children invovled. ...
A. 10 June 2007: He should really go to court and try to fight that, i know when my parents got a divorce my dad tryed to hold us back from going to my moms and we went to court about it and he had no say in us going to my mom, so if he really wants the kids to come ... (read in full...)
Having our 2nd baby and I think he's cheating with my little sister!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and are gonna have our 2nd baby...i have been having a lot of trust issues with him since we broke up like 6 months ago for about a month, due to rumors of him cheating on me, now i am so insecure ...
A. 10 June 2007: you should really talk to your little sister and ask her if anything is going on with her and your boyfriend, it maybe hard to talk to her nicely but the nicer you are then they speak the truth, if she dont look you stright in your eyes and tell you ... (read in full...)
My husband has been watching shemale porn.
Q. My husband has been watching shemale porn....
A. 10 June 2007: what is your question here? does it bother you that he watches shemale porn? if it bothers you then talk to him about it and ask him what he sees in a shemale? ... (read in full...)
Want bigger breasts with out the padded bras!
Q. hi i was wondering how i can make my breast's bigger by not buying a padded bra i am a 32 A and i want too look at least a B how can i?...
A. 10 June 2007: hey hun you are still young you have time for your chest to grow on your own, a padded and water bra is the only way you can go and wear tight shirts...good luck they will grow soon... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is on my case because i always look at other females. Isn't this a normal thing for guys?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now. Things have had their ups and downs and we have had more than our fair share of major rows and the like. The problem is my girlfriend is extremely insecure and always thinks I am looking at ...
A. 10 June 2007: Everybody looks at other people, females look at guys and the guys look at the females, i am married and i do not mind my husband looking at other females because i feel as long as he is comming home to me what is a look going to do, yeah she maybe ... (read in full...)
He said if it wasn't for his wife, he'd ask me to marry him! any advice?
Q. I am in love with my best friend.... Ok so my best friend in the entire world means everything to me. We have been through a lot together. He is the only person who can make me laugh and smile no matter what I am feeling. I have fallen head over...
A. 10 June 2007: you need to back away from him for a while and let your feelings go away he is married even though he may not be happy but its the fact that he is married and him messing around with you can get him adultry and other things, so you should wait intil ... (read in full...)
I feel as if she's not in love with me any more as she's gone off sex.
Q. dear cupid me and my partner having a few problems, i wonder if you can help me? The first is that I think she has gone off making love to me but I don't know why, the second is that I think she is falling out of love with me please can you help ...
A. 7 June 2007: you should really talk to her about this problem, ask her why she stoped making love to you and ask her if she still loves you and tell her how you feel about this! i dont really know whats going on with you two, you didnt say if you have been ... (read in full...)
What can these bumps on my penis be?
Q. hello i am a virgin and i am 13 years old. i have been noticing bumps on my penis. They are located on the sides mainly but a little on the side.They are the color of my skin.I cannot pop them. They are not so bad but my penis looks wierd. i think i ...
A. 7 June 2007: alot of guys have bumps on the penis, if you are going through puberity it can be an in grown hair, its nothing to worrie about alot of guys get them and you cant pop them. if they start to bother you then go to a doctor and talk to them.... (read in full...)
I often feel disgusted when my fiancee touches me. Was this because of the way my ex bf used me, sexually? How can I get over this?
Q. What can I do to get over this and move on with my life? I was in a relationship for four years. My boyfriend at the time would often sexually abuse me by messing with me in my sleep on a regular basis. I would often wake up with him inside ...
A. 7 June 2007: hey hun many girls and ladies go through this when something like that happens, have you gone to anyone to talk to about this like a counslior? go to someone for help with your fiance and talk about it and things should get better and you will be ... (read in full...)
Having so many mixed feelings about my relationship with my guy! What should I do?
Q. It'll be a year in a week that my boyfriend and I have been together. We are currently living together, and I'm not exactly ok with it. I am very catholic and this keeps crashing into my moral nerve. We did it mostly b/c it's easier financially on ...
A. 7 June 2007: hun this man really respects you it is so hard to find a man who wants to keep his gf a virgin,and specially a yr and more, it sounds like you have been hurt befor and you dont want to leave this man but you are afraid that somethin is going to ... (read in full...)
He wasn't on the up and up about a night out with the lads! Do I have a right to be upset?
Q. i have been with my bf for almost 3 yrs so we really love each other. he is goin away in 3 weeks for 2 months and i wont see him. he is also goin to a festival this weekend and has decided to go early tmo without telling me. when i rang him earlier ...
A. 7 June 2007: no you have the right to be upset, because if he is telling you that he is going to hangout with his best friend then telling you he is going out with the lads then he should have asked you to come, seeing that he is going away for awhile, but just ... (read in full...)
Who do I believe...my bf or my ex best friend?
Q. Ok...I'm super confused! and i have no idea what to do! ok, this is complicated so read it slowly to understand. I'm in love with his guy who also loves me. (or so he says) and I've believe this for 6 yrs but today I have doubts. We haven't bee...
A. 7 June 2007: hun, this may sound crazy but 3 way them have your best friend call him and listen to what they say but dont say nothing and tell your best friend not to tell him that you are on the phone to...and if he says that he likes her you know its true, ... (read in full...)
My mum had a smear test today and she said the pain was unbearable. Now I'm terrified to ever have one!
Q. Hi, this is for the girls to answer only! My mother has had her smear today - before today she had always said how 'unpainful' it was, there was just a little bit of discomfort and that is all. However, she came back from doctors today and said the...
A. 4 June 2007: hun it will be ok, ive been getting pap smears for 8 yrs now and they really never bothered me only time they did was when they had to scrap me, sometimes they hurt but only for a second, it all depends on the doctor and what they are doing so dont ... (read in full...)
I am getting married in a couple of days from now, I am all excited but its too much stress.
Q. hi all i dunno whether this is even a problem but i may as well post this question. I am getting married in a couple of days from now, I am all excited but its too much stress. i am worried about leaving my family, our future and about the big day ...
A. 4 June 2007: hey hun i am 18 yrs old and i got married 1 week ago and my husband and i had the same problems we was fighting and ect. but once it is over and you go on your honeymoon things will be alot better....you dont need no counselling it will be all ... (read in full...)
When I have sex with my partner my whole body tenses up.
Q. Im 24 years old and have been in a releationship for 3 years im also 8 months pregnant. The problem i have is that ever since i was 18/19 i have never really enjoyed sex i have it but only about 2 or 3 times a month i dont want to lose my partner ...
A. 2 June 2007: hun, how long have you had this problem? because when you are pregnat things change and you may not want to have sex some ladies enjoy it when they are preg. and some dont it all depends on you hormons, if he loves you he will not leave you because ... (read in full...)
He wants me to take a lie detector test to prove I haven't slept with anyone.
Q. i have bin with my partner 4 7 years, we have 3 kids about a year ago he found out I had kissed someone else, I have never done this before and it was only a kiss but he thinks I slept with him, he now wants me 2 take a lie detector test 2 prove i ...
A. 2 June 2007: if you have nothing to hide and you told him all that u have done then take it to prove to him that you are better then that, but honestly its pretty much a waste of time if he is going behind your back and cheating on you i would leave his ... (read in full...)
Should I stay and see if things get better or should I break off with him?
Q. This is the third time me and my boyfriend have gone out and all the times before have been great but now it's different. we don't spend that much time alone together and he would rather hang out with other people than me. He asked me out and now I ...
A. 2 June 2007: hun, you should really talk to him about this and ask him how he feels about you and ask him if you are wasting his time and tell him why you feel that way and see what he has to say about it... (read in full...)
Should I stay and see if things get better or should I break off with him?
Q. This is the third time me and my boyfriend have gone out and all the times before have been great but now it's different. we don't spend that much time alone together and he would rather hang out with other people than me. He asked me out and now I ...
A. 2 June 2007: hun, you should really talk to him about this and ask him how he feels about you and ask him if you are wasting his time and tell him why you feel that way and see what he has to say about it... (read in full...)
I fancy my aunt like mad, even although she's married. Should I try anything on with her?
Q. i have an aunt and she is good looking. she is actaully my step aunt if you will. she has been married to my uncle for about 10 years now. she has now starting to feel comfortable around the family. she is starting to wear clothes that show off her ...
A. 2 June 2007: If i was you i would back off her she is your uncles wife, and he will find out about this and your going to lose your family over this, sometimes its better to keep things to yourself and keeping doing what you are doing...... (read in full...)
What are the signs that the one I love loves me back?
Q. How would i know if a man i love feels the same way about me?...
A. 17 May 2007: Dear nickylovely,
Simple, ask him how he feels about you.... (read in full...)
How can I trust people again?
Q. i know i'm an insecure person and i'm paranoid too !! i find it hard to trust anyone basically because when i did they let me down. but how can i change ? i tried to speak with close friends about this issue but it seems like none of them could ...
A. 17 May 2007: Dear jomana,
Once you get hurt from someone you really trust and cared about it is hard to trust again and you will never fully trust anyone again, but you just have to take your time and wait for that specail person to come into your life i am... (read in full...)
My ex is saying bad things to my current bf about me. What shall I do?
Q. I'm pretty sure I've caused a 'disagreement' between my ex and my current guy. Apologies, this will be a long post! Basically, My ex (S) and I have been together on and off since December 05. The last time we broke up was in October and sinc...
A. 17 May 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
It sounds like S is jealous of you and P, and it is ok for him to move on but its not ok for you! Alot of people go through this S. may not be over you and if he is he dont want you to move on so he is going to tell P. a... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to tell him how I'm feeling or not, because if he didnt feel the same way it would then make it really akward to see him every day.
Q. Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between ...
A. 4 May 2007: hun you should tell him how you feel telling someone how you feel about something is very importent no matter how hard it can be but you will feel alot better but honestly i wouldnt be messing with him or trying to get with him he is to old, you can ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 dating a 15 year old and her parents can't stand me! I don't know why!
Q. Hi, I'm an 18 year old guy dating a 15 year old and her parents can't stand me (I don't know why). I'm a nice guy. I respect her and I love her with all my heart. What are your thoughts on the 3 year difference and if I could go to jail for having s...
A. 4 May 2007: Dear kmbhrc10,
Sometimes parents are really over pertective of there kids daten, specially with you being 18 they may think that you are wid her for one thing and one thing only and its for sex, you are older and they probly think that you ... (read in full...)
We are both young and considering a long-distance relationship...
Q. Ok, so my girlfriend is going to highschool next year but I still have one more year of middle school left. We really love each other, and are going to stay together. What do you think will happen, although it is a long distance relationship?...
A. 4 May 2007: Dear anonymous writer,
honestly long distance relationships usally dont work out you guys will have alot of problems, but if she is only going to highschool it wouldnt be that long distance, you can still see each other after school and thin... (read in full...)
I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom.
Q. Hi Help I'm only 12 years old and I'm pregnant. I did it with 27 year old man. I don't know how to tell my mom. Help!...
A. 28 April 2007: Hun you really need to tell your mom she is gonna relize that you are pregnat and its going to be worse and plus you need to see a doctor asap so they can make sure everything is ok with that baby, trust me she is gonna get very upset but just sit ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 years old with a baby on the way and I'm incredibly afraid about my future. I need help badly!
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl with a baby on the way and has a 20 year old boyfriend. I really don't know what to do. I am incredibly afraid and I have no idea what's going to happen. I am NOT getting an abortion, it's totaly against my morals, plus I ...
A. 18 April 2007: hey hun, the best thing for you to do honestly seeing that you have no where to go and your still to young is for you to give the baby up for adoption, so someone who wants a baby and cant have a baby can take care of he or she, but if you think ... (read in full...)
My fiancee slept with my sister, so other family members say, he wont admit it. Im pregnant with his baby, but should I break it off ?
Q. what do i do if my fiance slept with my sister and i find out from other people in my family and he wont tell the truth what should i do? should i break it off? i am pregnant with his baby also. what am i to do? i am concerned because i think he is ...
A. 17 April 2007: Dear Ashley18,
First of all do these people in your family like your fiance or do they hate him and will do anything to get you two apart? have you talked to your sister about this? I would talk to him infront of your family the ones who told... (read in full...)
Am I reading this pregnancy test correctly ?
Q. Hello, I took two pregnancy test on saturday and one of the test had one line which ment not pregnant however, the other one had one dark line but, it had a second line that was really lite! How does the test work? Like it could be wrong right? P...
A. 17 April 2007: Dear LAyDEE GLAMOUR,
hey hun like i told you befor just wait intil that period is over and then take another one and see what that comes out to be....dont get yourself all worked up over something that your not sure of but i have one more thin... (read in full...)
I have trouble reaching orgams, Only one man made this happen for me, what can I do to make them part of my sex life ?
Q. Dear Cupid, I do have one more question. Im 29 years old and having trouble having orgasm. I was 22 years old when I first had one and that was with my daughter father. It's like even today he is the only person that I can have one with. I had ...
A. 17 April 2007: Dear Sasha gurl,
Try being really relaxed with this guy, and try to guide him alittle bit what i mean by that is when he is down there eatting you out just kinda be a freak and pull his head to the spot that it feels the best to you and when... (read in full...)
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