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HI everyone i am 20 yrs old i live in pa with my husband who is 27, we met when i was 17 and got married at 18, things are good between us. we are expecting a baby boy in july, my pregnancy is not going to well i have been on bed rest for the whole time. I grew up a hard life so i know what others are going threw, i am here to try and answer any questions the best i can.

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I have trouble reaching orgams, Only one man made this happen for me, what can I do to make them part of my sex life ?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I do have one more question. Im 29 years old and having trouble having orgasm. I was 22 years old when I first had one and that was with my daughter father. It's like even today he is the only person that I can have one with. I had ...

A.   17 April 2007: Dear Sasha gurl, Try being really relaxed with this guy, and try to guide him alittle bit what i mean by that is when he is down there eatting you out just kinda be a freak and pull his head to the spot that it feels the best to you and when... (read in full...)

How can I trust him ? its not his fault, I just cant seem to trust as Im scared to lose him, what do I do ?

Q.   hi, my relationship is in pieces i love him to bits and i am sure he loves me but i dont dare let him go out or anything i cant trust him he has never gave me any such reson not to trust him but i just dont, i dont even know how to start trustin...

A.   17 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Ok hun it sounds like you was hurt plenity of times befor, i was the same way with my fiance everyday i think that hes out cheaten on me when i know damn well that hes not, but then i had to give him slack cause i was ... (read in full...)

We are both bisexual, I've just discovered how many women hes slept with and its bugging me, hes done way more than me, I want to commit to him but at the same time want to experience more!!

Q.   Hi, Im a 21 year old guy who up until a year ago thought I was straight. I have since managed to become attracted to a 30 year old guy and we have fallen in love. Everything I lived and thought before this relationship was real, and i know that....

A.   17 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Hey hun its ok if he had more sex in his life then you have cause that does not mean anything, some people experice alot more in life then others but that should never bring two people in love down, you shouldnt worr... (read in full...)

Im underage and he wants to have sex with me, I love him, but I dont want to get pregnant and I dont want to dump him!

Q.   hi,I have this boyfriend who I luv 2 bits but he wants to have sex with me.plus I'm under age!I don't want 2 get pregnant but I don't want 2 dump him either what should I do? ...

A.   17 April 2007: Dear hanz1993, Listen you are still really young to go through all this with a guy and you still have school ahead of you, i know he probly has told you that he will use a condom and nothing will happen well dont belive it condoms break! But ... (read in full...)

How do I stop wondering about my gf's past relationships?

Q.   I know its none of my business, but I cant help but to wonder about my girlfriend's past relationships (what all she did with them). Why do I do this, and how do I stop?...

A.   17 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Just ask her what she did with her ex cause you are curious to find out, but when she answers you dont get all pissed with her and cant stop thinking about it, but try to forget it and not worrie about it just think abou... (read in full...)

We both feel like everybody in our families don't want us to be together and we are wondering why? How should we handle this?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months now an we are really serious about each other and i mean really serious. i am 14, 15 in november, and he is 16 just. i live in wakefield and he lives in sheffield and we see each other every ...

A.   17 April 2007: hey hun this is hard on parents when there little girl is growing up, if you are the only child then they will be very pertective of you or if you are the first child to date, but if you really want to find out if your parents like you guys together ... (read in full...)

Any side effects to using 'penis pills'?

Q.   what would the side effects be of a 15 year old using penis pills?...

A.   17 April 2007: Dear Gerrard, You are still to young to be thinking about a penis pill but read it up on the box most pills have age limits on it to show how many they can take and i dont think your age will be on it cause young boys shouldnt be using them... (read in full...)

Problems with the pill. It's affected my period! Can anyone help me figure this out?

Q.   To whom it may concern, I am writing to you because of a problem i have atm, regarding my period. I started taking the pill about a week ago, because i wanted to be prepared and didn't know the implications of starting taking it when my next per...

A.   17 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, I would go to your doctors and tell the doctor what is going on with your period, some girls can not take the pill because of the side effects, but stop taking them and see if all the pain comes back. here are the side... (read in full...)

He kissed me and I told him to get off but at first he wouldn't. I don't feel I can trust him anymore. Any advice?

Q.   Im going to make this quick. Theres this guy, Boy we'll call him. Hes much older than me... 4 yrs. Im twelve hes sixteen. We have been freinds forever and I invited him to this chocolate fondue party. He was in my room eating chocolate. Appare...

A.   17 April 2007: dear xoTrineyxo, The best thing for you to do is talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about this, just put it to him and tell him i liked the kiss but when i tell you to stop doing something stop, and if he cant accepet the fact that... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as a 'need-to-pee' orgasm?

Q.   Can girls really have more than one kind of orgasm? I heard that they can have two- the "normal" kind, and another kind. The "other" kind was once described to me as a sudden need to pee. Does anyone know how much of this is old wives' tale, and ...

A.   17 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, I have searched this up when i wanted to learn how to squirt and pretty much when that pee feeling comes to you its cum that cums out but it feels like you are peeing but your not its just cumming...so its up to you if y... (read in full...)

I only like much older men, guys my age just don't do it for me. Has anyone else felt this way?

Q.   Recently, I have realised that I only like much older men than me, I have dated guys my age but it just doesn't do it for me. I'm not talking a couple of years older either, I mean men in their 30s and 40s. Now I have never had a relationship with ...

A.   16 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, There is alot of girls out there that find they like the older men better for many of reason, guys the same age as you are more of a heart break then older guys, when i was 15 i was with a guy my age he treated me like... (read in full...)

She's going to a different university. Do I end it now or carry on?

Q.   I met my girlfriend just as I left for college. I was enrolled at the Univeristy of Nebraska at Lincoln, and I am still attending. My girlfriend now wants to go to college... she is going to the University of Nebraska at Omaha instead... I am ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear rk06, Wait and see what happens if you two went through all freshman year all the way up to collage then just wait...dont ever think that you are wasting time on a girl that you care about, cause no matter how far you two are away you will... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks I'm a slut for not saving myself for "the one" !! Am I?

Q.   i lost my virginity to a guy i wasn't in love with or in a relationship with (though i was really attracted to him). i have no regrets about not "waiting" or "saving" myself for "The One." to me, the sex was a purely physical thing. does that make ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, A guy will call you a slut if you have sexx with one guy but he can have sex with 50 girls and be called a playah and its the best thing....but whatever hun dont worrie about it if he breaks up with you a guy who call... (read in full...)

When are you not a virgin?

Q.   do you have to orgasm to say that you've had sex or do you just have to have been in and out...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear Mullen, pretty much when you go in and out...but if you have oral sex you can say you have had sex to...but most people would say when you had the penis in and outta you...... (read in full...)

I'm still a virgin an I'm scared first time sex will hurt! Any advice?

Q.   I am 18 and i am still a virgin. i dont no what to do and am scared it will hurt. what if im too tight? ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, It is gonna hurt when u have sex for the first time and sometimes after but just be relaxed i know most guys like girls on top but when you first do it lay down on your back and let him do it, use a condom mainly the one ... (read in full...)

We are from the USA and my bf thinks that we wont be able to mess around below the waist as I will be classed as a minor even though I'm 17, anyone know if this is true ?

Q.   I'm 17, he's turning 18 in a month. We both want to stay virgins, but he's telling me we won't be able to mess around under the waist because I'm still a minor, and I would have to ask specifically for it every time with nothing from him. It sounds ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear annieseven7, I know this is about you but i just want to put my story in to let you know whats going to happen. i was 17 when i met my 25 yr old fiance and i was stoped by the cops and they asked me if i was with my fiance and i told them... (read in full...)

My mother's driving me insane! I have no social life...

Q.   i know this isnt the right place to ask help for this matter but i really need some advice. me and my mum dont get along with each other at all. we have a fight every single day bout the littlest things. its like she loves 2 fight!! it really ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, hey hun life is tough when you live under your parents roof you have to do what they want they want, but why dont you look for a job while you are on the internet and tell her that you have a job and you cant watch you ... (read in full...)

We only know each other through Myspace but we are in love!! His Ex is getting in the way, what should I do!?

Q.   I am going through a long distance relationship with my boyfriend.We have been going out ever since february and his last ex was a long distance relationship too. We both have a myspace, and so does his ex. Alex's ex,in which she lives on the east ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear ilovealextucker, she is sending you messages askin about you two because she is jealious of the both of you..i dated my ex on myspace and he still had pics of his ex on there and it bothered the hell out of me but i keep in my mind im the ... (read in full...)

What can I do to make his first night back romantic?

Q.   hi guys, Havn't seen my bf as he's been away visiting family for a few weeks and i want to do something special for him when he gets back. Was wondering if i could get some ideas to make our first night romantic and let him know i missed him! Wha...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, I am not a guy but i am use to doing this my fiance is a truck driver and hes gone 3 wks at a time so i do all the good things for him when he comes home....heres what i do i go to the movie store and find movies he like... (read in full...)

I get night-time erections!

Q.   as soon as i fall asleep i get an erection until i wake up in the morning! why is this? how can i stop this? i'm 16....

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Hun nothing to worrie about every guy goes through this get use to it you will have this happen the rest of your life...you cant get rid of this...... (read in full...)

How can I get my bf to like my parents?

Q.   I am with my boyfriend for a year now, and early in the relationship their were harsh words exchaged with my bf and my parents. I love my family so much, and I love my boyfriend so much too. We plan to get married in the future, but my boyfriend ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Hun he doesnt sound very good, if he really loves you he would suck it up and deal with your parents its not like he has to live with them or see them all the time you arent asking for a lot from him and if he wants to m... (read in full...)

bf is very controlling in our relationship. Am I wasting my time?

Q.   I'm with my boyfriend a year and it's been a little rough. We're a lot better now. I'm 19, and I just got an awesome job. Pays a lot. I moved in with my bf months ago, we're paying $800 for the basement of his mother's house. He doesn't have a job ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Honestly if you are paying 800.00 a month to live in that basement and paying for the car and everything else then you are better off going and getting your owne place, listen to your family its not healthy this guys is l... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has absolutely no confidence and is always putting herself down.

Q.   hey. me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 3 and a half months. i really like her in fact i think i love her. im 17 and shes only 14 but we both say age doesnt matter. i am not pushing her into anything. we have had sex twice but i dont ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Your right you should never let age get in the way of being in love but the law will get in the way! you have to be very careful about what you do with her once you trun 18 you will be in jail but also right now you can ... (read in full...)

Does a girl need a PAP exam even though she's on birth control?

Q.   If a girl is on birth control for her periods, does she still need to go get a pap exam if she isnt 18 yet?...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Yes a female should get a pap smear if she is on birthcontal, a pap smear shows all the results in a girl if she is sexually active she could catch stds or something and the pap will show it and they can help her, once... (read in full...)

I am a small B-cup so what I want to know is do some guys prefer small breasts?

Q.   Dear cupid, sorry i know this is a boring question. now i dont compare myself to my friends or anyone else for that matter as i would rather be just me. It seems though, that when we're out almost all the guys go for them as almost all of them are ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, hun i grew up with a small chest i am a 34 b and i seen lots a guys go for my friends with big chest but then i found lots of guys who say they like the small chest, like my fiance he loves small chest ladies...this is h... (read in full...)

How do I convince my shy wife to try a threesome?

Q.   I am trying to get my wife to try a threesome. She is a little shy. How can i convince my wife to try it?...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Three sums are alot of mens dreams but alot of ladies downs... Alot of times the lady dont mind having three sums and she may not be shy about it she maybe scared to, she may feel threatend by it where you will leave her ... (read in full...)

Bf of 7 years, has a habit of buying calling cards to call other women, he claims are 'just friends!" What's really happening here?

Q.   Random Text Messages and Buying Calling Cards? So I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years and he has a habit of buying calling cards to call other women. He also gets text messages at random hours from women. I never see these text messa...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear SteppedOn, Hey hun, what kind of cell phone does he have if he has a monthly cell phone you can go to the internet site for example if he has verison go to www.version.com and set up an account for that phone and some times they have a pl... (read in full...)

She had a light period when she had unprotected sex! Could she still get pregnant?

Q.   Ok, so someone i know just had sex with this guy, and they didnt use protection, BUT she had been on her period for 3 days, and it was light, is there a chance she could be pregnant?...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear jcilenti, Yes you can still be pregnet if you get your period and specially if it was very light, when i was pregnat i have gotten my period and i know a few ladies who have the best thing you can do is get a pregnacy test and take it and ... (read in full...)

Does he like me? I don't understand his actions

Q.   Ok well I am 15 and the guy I really like is 20. Crazy thing is he was the one who was checking me out first, then he started winking at me, then talking to me and about a week after we started to talk he broke up with his 22 year old girl friend. ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear xBrokenSmilex, Hey hun, you shouldnt worrie about this guy, he is 20 yrs old and you are 15, i am not tryin to be your mom or ne one like that but i just want to help you and give you advice, i know its only a 5 yr diffrence but the thin... (read in full...)

In love with my friend and I told her. Now I am waiting for her to respond...how can I make her love me?

Q.   I am now in love with my friend and i have told her am waiting for the answer, pls i need some information how to make her love me more pls i need this information....

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, You cant make someone love you, just be yourself and give her time to think wheater or not she wants to be with you if you rush this girl then it will never work out between you to cause she will date you just so you will... (read in full...)

The condom broke! But she still got her period-however, can she still be pregnant?

Q.   the condom broke on me and my girl last weekend. she said her period was supposed to come the 13th. it came today,the 11th. could she still have a chance of being pregnant?...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear oooshit, The chances of her being pregnat is slim seeing that she got her period, wait intil next month and see if she gets her period and if she dont then have her take a pregnacy test and see what that comes out to be, and if you cant... (read in full...)

Her parents dislike me-her mom thinks I am controlling ! What should I do?

Q.   I am 18 years oly. My girlfriend is 16 and we have been dating for 10 months. At first her parents were awesome, i would want to go over there all the time not just to see my girl friend but to see her parents. But things have slowy started to ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear just4kicks07, this may sound really stupid to you but honestly it works my ex boyfriends mom really hated me and she thought i was trying to get her son into trouble but what i did was write a note to him and say all the good thin... (read in full...)

She is spectacular! And I am kicking myself for being too shy to talk to her! Any tips to helping me here?

Q.   Dear Readers How are you and thanx for reading. I am a teenager 15 and there is a girl I like alot. I think she is the most spectacular girl I have ever met and I am too shy to ask her out She is about 5,5 and 120 pounds blond hair green ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear Kody, You need to get over your shyness and dont ever put yourself down,alot of guys are shy my finace was too shy to ask me out and he almost lost me bc i was gonna go out with my ex, but what you need to do is just go up to her and ask ... (read in full...)

Sensitive problem needing advice please!

Q.   My friend has a problem and she's not quite sure what the solution is. She is not willing to ask a doctor, because she wishes to remain unknown. She came to me for advice but i dont know how to help her. Her hymen was already broken so this ceases ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, I looked it up on the comp. i went to a few sights to help you out, theres nothing for her to worrie about she can have a cut in there from her fingernails or anything and it is causing that are an infection, if she is s... (read in full...)

What if the guy you love is dating someone else? What should I do?

Q.   what if the guy u love is dating someone ele? i really love him see befor we got together i told him i was pregnet and he said he didnt care he said it was gonna be his and he tells me so many things so sweet.... i really love him and i dont wan...

A.   10 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, First of all are you pregnet with his baby? If he is with someone else and dont want to be with you just let him go you have more importent things to worrie about you have to worrie about that baby, you are still to youn... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and barely hugged a boy while my friend has scored with someone! I need advice on how to do things with the boys??

Q.   im just 13 i've started 2 talk 2 a boy whos 14 and i really like him but hes into se and everything..my best freind is going out with sum1 and scored and i've bearly even hugged a boy. i just want 2 fit in but i don't know how to do anythink i've ...

A.   10 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, Take your time with this boy you are still young and there will pleinty of guys you will be with, when the time is right you will know, it doesnt matter if your friends have went all the way with people be yourself and ... (read in full...)

Are there any ways of making anal sex for a girl less painful?

Q.   Does it feel better when a guy's giving a girl anal sex or having sex the regular way? Also..are there any ways of making anal sex for a girl less painful? I recently discovered that when my bf fingers me there it feels really good, but i'm re...

A.   10 April 2007: Dear anonymous writer, I think it feels better the regular way but i feels good anal sex sex to, there is diffrent ways i found where its not so painful you are still going to feel a little pain but not as much, lay on your side and have the ... (read in full...)

My menstrual cycle is all over the place! Can anyone shed any light in this area ?

Q.   hi everyone i am a 18 year old girl and i am having female problems... the last period i had was sept,2006 it lasted a week and then feb2007 i was spotting for a day and then it went away and then april7,2007 i started bleeding and it only lasted an ...

A.   10 April 2007: When i went to the hospital for my car accident they found a cyst and i am making a doctors apointment, because i was doing some research on it and that maybe why i am bleeding. I dont really want my period cause its a pain in the ass but i also ... (read in full...)

I really like him but he's unsure of the age gap. How will I know if he likes me?

Q.   well i've liked (practically loved)this lad for about 3 years, recently he broke up with his girlfriend and i wanted to try and get with him. There is 2 problems though - one he is nearly 5 years older than me and second he is my brothers mate! I...

A.   9 April 2007: Dear RXX, Honestly i am not trying to be a mean person but i just want whats best for you and not see or hear anyone get in trouble but if i was you i would just be friends because you are either 16 or 17 and he is 5 yrs older then you and you ... (read in full...)

What does "age of consent" actually mean?

Q.   The age of consent in my state is 16. Does this mean if I'm 16 I can consent to sexual activities with someone over 18, 21, etc? All my friends and I keep arguing back and forth about the meaning of 'age of consent'....

A.   9 April 2007: Age consent means that you can give consent to have sex but no you can not have sex with anyone 18 or older cause they will charge that person with charges, but you can have sex with someone 16-17...if you was under the age of 16 and someone truned ... (read in full...)

I'm just 18 and I am so embarrassed about my body! How do I deal with this?

Q.   HI everyone i just truned 18 and im so embressed with my body i am getting married in may and and feel uncomftable about it.....i have stretch marks all down my thighs and it seems like they are getting bigger and darker, and i have them all up the ...

A.   2 April 2007: Thanks for your advice but i dont eat junk food at all....i eat healthy and exerice but i cant get rid of it ... (read in full...)

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