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I cant get over the fact that my older boyfriend has been with so many other women before me!

Q.   There is a 5 year age gap between my boyfriend and I, I am 16 and he is 21. We've been together for 7 months and his past has never bothered me until recently; ofcourse he was going to be more experienced than me etc but he's slept with 20 maybe ...

A.   28 August 2008: he has chosen to be with u and that should come as good news for you because, yes .. maybe he has had a few lovers but at the end of the day he has chosen to be wit u. Yes its hard to come to terms with his past ...... but that is all it is - his ... (read in full...)

We would text all the time. Now he won't reply. I don't mind if he doesn't fancy me anymore, I just want my friend back.

Q.   I have been texting this guy that is around my age...a few months younger. We flirt all the time and he always compliments me which makes me feel really good and also makes me like him more. For example, if we see eachother that night and I am ...

A.   27 August 2008: men really enjoy the chase ... no matter what age. they are programmed that way! so my suggestion is that you just leave him for abit... i know it is really really hard to especially when you like him as more than a friend. but this way u can see if ... (read in full...)

Why is anal so painful? Only once it surprisingly worked by using lubrication.

Q.   Whenever we try doggy style, it really hurts. We've tried using lubrication, and one time it surprisingly worked, but all the other times we've tried I've felt ill with the pain. He knows this, so we don't do it, but I know he wants it. I'd love to ...

A.   5 February 2008: anal is where the penis penetrates the anus (bum hole) doggy style is the penis penetrating the vagina from behind just like dogs do - which is why it is called doggy style. if u need anymore advice just message me!! xxxxx... (read in full...)

How can I shave and not bleed?

Q.   Pubic Hair.!! i have only recently started shaving. and wen i shave up wards it really hurts and it bleeds. its there any cure on stopping this? because if i shave downwards it doesnt get rid of any pubic hairs..?...

A.   1 November 2007: hey! have you tried using hair removal cream? or waxing? shaving is more common but less effective if not done with a good razor and cream. Just remember which ever option you do choose - exfoliate! if not you can get ingrowing hairs which do hur... (read in full...)

Any new ideas for bedroom "spice"?

Q.   I feel like trying something new in the bedroom - any ideas of something exciting I could do for my man?!!...

A.   18 April 2007: well what about a sexy strip tease for him, it drives all men insane especially if u do it with music. or how about a hot and cold blow job, get some ice cubes and warm water (not too hot) and when ur giving it him suck on an ice cube so ur mout... (read in full...)

I used to masturbate to climax, now I cant and feel empty, am I not ready for sex ?

Q.   Hi ive just turned 19. i strated to masturbate when i was 14 everyhthing was great, got my orgasm and reached my climax and went all the way, you know to the end when u feel that youve released all the tension. i dont feel that any more, i get ...

A.   8 April 2007: this feeling really doesnt have anything to do with if your ready to have sex, being ready for sex is about being mentally capable to cope with such an initmate connection. when masturbating your not getting a connection and now your body is use t... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong about being a virgin at 17 ? How can I reduce the tension ?

Q.   Dear cupid... im a 16 ( almost 17 ) year old female and i was wondering if there is something wrong with me.. ive been with my boyfriend who is 20 for almost a month and we've started talking about sex witch doesnt bother me except that im ...

A.   8 April 2007: There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with being a virgin at 17! and you shouldn't let your friends or anyone else make you feel that it is wrong. your body and mind will tell yourself when you are ready and it will flow easily - the first time that you... (read in full...)

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