What can I do to help him understand he is ruining our relationship?

A female age 41-50, *icoya writes:

Im in a relationship with a younger man there is no doubt on my mind we love each other, he goes to work I am home I rarely go out I pretty much stay to myself before the relationship began I was always surrounded by fam and friends they were always at my house, since the relationship that has change quite a bit friends come by once in a long while do to the fact that he is very jealous, I get constantly accused of cheating and having feelings for my male friends that are more like family for 20 plus yrs,I am totally against cheating and I hv a pep peave lying unacceptable as far as im concerned, I have tried everything to get him to understand im not this deceitful woman he portrayes me out to be, he has cheated infact every time we get upset n break it of the first thing he does is run to these other girls he flirts with n sees behind my back, what can I do to help him understand he is ruining our relationship?

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