He's asking about people I've slept within the past 2 years!
Q. I've recently got into a relationship with a guy i've been seeing on and off for a long time. We've only been together a couple of months officially but he's began to ask about people i've slept with over the past two years. He's quite insecure as ...
A. 6 July 2017: My old grandpap used to say "A man who can't put the past behind him is doomed to live in it."
Tell him that you are not going to discuss your past love life with him. Give him one chance. If he brings it up again dump him. Because he's going to c... (read in full...)
She strung me along to cancel three times ...
Q. Hello everyone, so about 2 years ago I was in a short film with an actress and we hit it off really well, great chemistry. There was a kissing scene but it wasn't awkward at all. She even suggested "practice kissing" during rehearsal. However, ...
A. 3 July 2017: Why string you along? Because she's a mean girl. She didn't know how to tell you to get lost. There are any number of reasons. None of which matter. The point is she is not in to you. You know it now forget about her.... (read in full...)
He cheated, we broke up. He's never apologized and its weird being in the same group of friends
Q. The guy I was seeing exclusively for the past few months recently cheated on me when he was drunk and I found out about it from my friend. At the time I was obviously very angry and upset when I spoke to him and so even though he apologised it ...
A. 26 June 2017: What does the group have to do with this. What happened was between the two of you no one else. He apologized and has moved on you need to be an adult and do the same. If you choose not to accept his apology that is your problem and If you try to ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend had me arrested for harassment charges! Has anyone else experienced this?
Q. I need some advice please. I was with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and the relationship was great, we had so much in common and were lovers but also best friends. I have abandonment issues and eventually started to self destruct until, after weeks of...
A. 26 June 2017: Leave him alone and get a good lawyer. If the chargers are false it will never get to court. But you'll know this guy is a duplicitous liar and someone you need to avoid.
If they aren't false the law will run it's course.... (read in full...)
My partner will not admit that she uses a vibrator and its making me feel inadquate
Q. I've recently discovered that my partner if 6 years is secretly using a vibrator when she thinks I'm asleep. This has been ongoing now for 5 months and every time I ask her she becomes very angry and denial sets in. We have a very open relationship ...
A. 26 June 2017: I would tell you to let this go but how do you let it go when your wife is lying to your face? I find it peculiar as heck that she feels the need to lie and becomes defensive when you raise this subject.
My guess is that she is unable to orgasm t... (read in full...)
How can I break this impass on marital strife?
Q. I've been with my wife for 12 years. We've been going through a bit of a tough patch lately, but I don't think it's something that we can't work our way through. Now, please don't think that I am claiming to be perfect - I have problems that I need ...
A. 26 June 2017: One of the good things about having friends is that you can share your problems with them. Your wife is attempting to stop you doing that. Do not let her. If she is isolated it is a prison of her own making do not allow her to drag you into it.
I... (read in full...)
Am I foolish to forgive my girlfriend for cheating?
Q. In January I found out that I'd been offered a promotion at work. A fantastic opportunity to change my life, but it involved 6 months living abroad. My girlfriend of 4 years didn't want me to go initially, but after talking things through she agreed ...
A. 25 June 2017: Yes you are being stupid if you forgive her. Think about this; there are about 3.5 billion men on this planet she could have slept with any one of them. She chose the man you thought was your best friend. Why? Because she was lonely. What kind of ... (read in full...)
We don't want kids or pregnancy but husband is against abortion. Help!
Q. My husband and I never wanted children. I dislike children and the thought of being pregnant. He is fine with them but prefers not to have any of his own. We have always used condoms. I have never used any other kind of birth control. I do no...
A. 22 June 2017: Your husband wants children but the price for being with you is that he says he doesn't want them. He doesn't want to have surgery himself because he figures if things so south with you he may someday meet a woman who does want children. He doesn't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still hasn't told everyone that he is gay or about me. How should I proceed?
Q. Hi there, I'm an out gay man and have known my boyfriend for 8 months and been with him 6 - he was in the closet when we got together and is still partly so. He recently came out to his parents and has said during every conversation on the topic ...
A. 22 June 2017: The problem with dating someone who is in the closet is that it drags you into the closet with them. Do you care for this guy enough to continue to be his dirty little secret? If not tell him the price for being with you is that the two of you are ... (read in full...)
I think my wife cheated on me
Q. Hi people, I have been married for over 3 years now and I believe my wife cheated on me. I am usually an entrepreneur, I make enough in the first quarter to be able to pay for the rest of the year. I suddenly wanted a more abundant life so...
A. 22 June 2017: She's talking to men on Snapchat and getting penis pics from them and you're asking us is there a problem. I don't know if she is cheating I suspect yes. But either way there isn't something seriously wrong in your marriage
You need to sit down... (read in full...)
I even left my daughter at home for 4 days for the sake of my affair and now he's disappeared. I feel so lonely!
Q. I met this guy in Vegas over two months ago. He approached me and my friends at a club. I told him from the beginning I was married and he respected that . The night went on and everyone was having a great time. He would dance next to me because he ...
A. 22 June 2017: You got played! Accept it and move on. Perhaps learn from your experience,; don't sleep with strangers.... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my husband so I might be able to be with his friend?
Q. Hello! I'm 25 and I've been married for 3 years, and I have been relatively happy until now, when I suddenly realized (or suddeny admitted to myself) that I am not in love with my husband any more, and I don't think I have been for almost our whole ...
A. 22 June 2017: You should divorce so that your husband can find someone who loves him. The poor guy. ... (read in full...)
Told my boyfriend I got a new job at a hotel. He was concerned men would look up my skirt.
Q. I told my boyfriend I just got a new job! It will help me pay my bills and I really needed a job right now. It's in housekeeping at an upscale hotel. The first question he asked is what will I be wearing? He was concerned it would be a skimp...
A. 22 June 2017: Your boyfriend is jealous and insecure. He told you about the puke and feces because he doesn't want you working. If you're out of the house and working you may meet someone else. He isn't worried about you he's worried about himself.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to buy a cheap car instead of one I can actually afford
Q. So I'm in a conundrum. My bf and I have been dating on/off for 5 years. We were friends for years first before dating. Currently, we disagree on a car, to understand the struggle, a lil history is needed. In the very beginning of our relationship...
A. 19 June 2017: It's your money if you can afford it buy it.... (read in full...)
I like him but didn't want to date a guy who has kids
Q. Hey guys, just in need of a little advice! I recently started dating a guy I somewhat work with. I work at a car dealership and I'm in new cars and he is in used.. I say kind of because I'll probably run into him once a week durin our Friday meeti...
A. 17 June 2017: If you don't want to be in a relationship with a man who has a child then stop dating him. There is nothing wrong with feeling the way you do. There are billions of nice good looking young guys out there who do not have children. Go find one.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wanted to use an old tube of lubricant during sex but I got upset because he's used it with previous partners. Am I being silly?
Q. Hi Everyone, So I have a bit of an awkward question, but genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting and too embarrassed too ask friends/family. So my boyfriend of 1 year has had a tube of lubricant in his drawer for a while, I noticed it a whil...
A. 17 June 2017: Yes!... (read in full...)
What goes through a man's head when he sees his wife having sex with another man?
Q. To make it short my husband and I are into guys joining us for sex . But husband has always joined for sex until recently when at a party when a black guy paid attention to me more than normal. So at husbands request I invited him home for a ...
A. 17 June 2017: The idea is so foreign to me that I have no idea. I would suggest you ask him.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure that I want to return to my husband. He can become abusive and violent
Q. I am currently separated from my husband as he is staying with his family abroad due to family matters. My husband can have an extremely bad temper and I have always been scared of him and nervous around him and not the happy person I used to be be...
A. 15 June 2017: Why in the name of heaven would you even consider going back to this man. You got out with your life you will not be so lucky next time. ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over this love? Its been 2 years since we broke things off
Q. My heart is still broken after almost 2 years. We did continue to see one another until 8 months ago, off and on. He is much younger, 14 years, and from another country. We were together for 11 years. I felt l knew him immediately and have always ...
A. 15 June 2017: You didn't break up two years ago, you broke up 8 months ago. You were together 11 years. Someone once told me you need one month of separation for every year you were together to begin to heal. And when I say separation I mean separation. No ... (read in full...)
I'm married but cheating with my old flame and I'm hopelessly in love
Q. I went to a reunion and as soon as I stood in front of my old flame I knew. I hadn't thought of him in 40 years. I'm happily married and live a plush life. He never married. Even though we live in Different states we've been together twice And...
A. 12 June 2017: Divorce your husband. You have been married 40 years you will be able to rake him over the coals. Depending on wear you live you may be entitled to lifetime alimony. Heck you'll probably get the house you live in then you can move lover boy in. You ... (read in full...)
My husband has me earn lovers by performing painful or degrading acts with him
Q. Hi I'm a bit lost and in need of help. I have been married for 20 years to a man I have always loved. He has always had strange sexual practices and I have always played along, I have always looked up to him and always felt that he was better t...
A. 10 June 2017: Your husband has abused you and beat you down to the point that you can no longer think clearly. What you need to do is get the hell out now! If you need help call the National Coalition against Domestic Violence. NCADV..org. They will help you.... (read in full...)
Should I stop saying "I love you" to her since she says she feels hot and cold about it now?
Q. I have been seeing the most amazing girl in the world for a few months now and I think everything is going really well but last night she dropped a bombshell on me. I had said I loved her a few weeks before in what felt early but felt right and s...
A. 8 June 2017: Give her some space. Stop telling her you love her. You probably said it too soon and she finally said it back to you because she felt pressured. Your continuing to say it after she told you she doesn't feel that way about you is only going to make ... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair with a married woman and she doesn't know if she can ever leave her husband for good
Q. I am a 26 year old man. I work in a school system and I have now been dating one of my co workers for exactly a year (June 9th) The big problem here is that she is married, with 2 kids, and 11 years older then me. But this is not an affair like ...
A. 8 June 2017: She would do anything for you but leave her husband.
Accept this for what it is a cheap tawdry affair that allows her to have it both ways. A loving clueless husband at home who pays the bills and helps raise her children and a hot young lover on t... (read in full...)
My partner for 3 years loves me. Would it be wrong to take a chance with another man who I've loved for 27 years?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have recently been contacted by the man I've been in love with for 27 years. There are songs I couldn't listen to, our anniversary date that I still hold dear to my heart. I hadn't laid eyes on him in 18 years and that one time wa...
A. 8 June 2017: You should definitely go with the guy you love. Your partner deserves a woman who actually loves him not someone who sees him as a consolation prize.... (read in full...)
I did not choose the dress my boyfriend loved. Did I make a mistake?
Q. Hi. I took my boyfriend shopping. He is one of the rare guys who enjoys shopping with his girlfriend. He likes to help me find clothes and watches me as I try them on and always gives me his honest opinion. Yesterday we were out shopping...
A. 7 June 2017: A sexy black dress to your sister's wedding? I think you wanted the dress for the shock effect it will have at the wedding. But that's between you and your sister. What you buy with your money is your business. If your bf likes the green dres... (read in full...)
Has my love faded?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a few years now but for the last month I have been feeling bored with him.....When we kiss I don't feel any passion, and sex is pretty boring... I don't get any pleasure from it....Is it normal to feel like this? ...
A. 3 June 2017: Relationships sometimes run their course. This may be one of them. Take a good look at the relationship. If you think it's worth saving you can talk it over with him and try to find things that will revive your interest. If that's what you really ... (read in full...)
Recently, my girlfriend starts to bleed everytime she orgasms. What could be wrong with her?
Q. Hello all, I've been with my girlfriend for around seven years. We are our firsts in pretty much everything. Love her to bits still. No fights, good sex life, nothing wrong really. However, something has occurred in our sex-life which I...
A. 3 June 2017: SHE NEEDS TO GO TO HER GYNECOLOGIST! If anyone says different ignore them and encourage her strongly to GO TO HER GYNECOLOGIST NOW!... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't want to move abroad
Q. We've been dating for only a few months, our first month I told her I have a dream to move to another country and she said "Yeah if you go we'd break up because I wouldn't leave my family behind!" We decided to stay together but recently a few d...
A. 2 June 2017: You want different things. She is not going to move. The question is will you resent her if you don't take a shot at living abroad. The truth is if you don't want the same things it's best to find it out now before you have made a permanent ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my fiance how I came up with the name for our unborn daughter?
Q. Hi guys So I am 29, engaged and pregnant. To be honest life couldn't be better right now. My summer wedding is around the corner and everything's great. Here's my question. Me and my fiance are having a girl and have come up with the best n...
A. 1 June 2017: How many people know the story of how you came up with the name? Imagine you don't tell your fiancé and then your mother or your best friend spills the beans by accident.
So you can tell him, if he is confident in himself he'll laugh it off and ... (read in full...)
I need help so I can stop having an irrational hatred towards women
Q. I did some therapy but it didn't really help. Through strength and determination I’m a much more positive person that I was a year ago and I’m proud of myself for my growth. Core Problems: 1. My earliest experiences with the opposite sex were ve...
A. 31 May 2017: You need to go back to therapy. If the first one didn't work find another. One skilled in cognitive behavioral therapy. He will work with you on retraining the way you think. It will be difficult but if you're committed to change and you semm to be ... (read in full...)
Is it over with my married lover? Or is he just cooling down?
Q. Hello everyone, through common friends I met a guy at a dinner and we clicked instantly. I have been single for 3 years and I'm very hard to connect with someone immediately. We spoke the entire evening and exchanged numbers. The next morning I had ...
A. 31 May 2017: Hang in there. He may come back. You two deserve each other. Of course his wife and children don't deserve this kind of betrayal. But you don't care about them and his marriage isn't your problem right. So just wait it out. A man who would betray ... (read in full...)
He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?
Q. I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy...
A. 31 May 2017: Contact The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, NCADV.org. Sorry I don't have the 800 number. But look them up online. They will help you.
Good luck to you. ... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?
Q. I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often th...
A. 30 May 2017: You're kidding right? You know she has cheated on her husband and you have the unbiased word of her family that her husband is a bad guy. So yea get involved with this train wreck. ... (read in full...)
The guy I'm dating doesn't want kids but I do
Q. I am dating a guy I am 35 he is 46 he says that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and would marry me tomorrow if I wanted it. We have loads in common hobby wise, we have similar political and religious stances. However I really...
A. 29 May 2017: He has told you he doesn't want kids. Break up with him and don't go back thinking that maybe you can change his mind. ... (read in full...)
Should I be hungrier and work harder?
Q. So I'm 25 year old guy.I've got a decent job, a home,a car. I am completely content with my life. Although I would refer to my status as 'middle class'.I look at people my age and who have the same things as me... And they're quitting their current ...
A. 29 May 2017: Are you happy? If you are why worry about what others are doing?... (read in full...)
Am I too old to expect to have a physical relationship? Should I just accept it?
Q. My boyfriend of 4 years rarely wants sex - maybe every 3 or 4 months. Aside from that he almost never touches me except for a peck on the lips. This is breaking my heart. I've talked to him about it many times and he says he's too tired but he ...
A. 29 May 2017: He has reached the age where lower testosterone levels lead to lower libido in men. Also erictile disfunction is not uncommon in men his age. He could be suffering one or the other or both. Embarrassment is probably causing him to act the way he ... (read in full...)
I pretty much hate my husband and need to find a way to get out of my marriage
Q. I apologize upfront because this will be a long one. Im just going to get things out there as i think about them so hopefully it will make some sense. Im Looking for a little advice and I'm not sure where to turn. I've been married for 12 years and ...
A. 29 May 2017: You married a man you didn't love and then had two kids with him. Now you want nothing to do with him. The poor schmoe. He thought he had a wife when in reality he was a backup plan.
Find yourself a lawyer and file for divorce. Your husband will... (read in full...)
I thought we'd made plans but she hasn't texted back!
Q. Hey all! Need some advice here please. Earlier in the week a girl said I was amazing and that we should hang out this weekend. I texted her yesterday asking if the plans were still good and she said heck ya so I replied sweet that's what I like to ...
A. 27 May 2017: Perhaps she didn't get your text. Call her and ask. You're an adult man act like it. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend hates me!
Q. I have a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend . We have been together for over a year. We get a long very well don't argue. My friends and family love him and his family likes me as well. His other friends likes me . However , his best ma...
A. 26 May 2017: This is for your bf to sort out. He needs to tell his friend that the two of you are together now and if best friend wants to remain friends he has to be respectful of you and your relationship. If your BF is not willing to do that then you know ... (read in full...)
I made a fake account and my boyfriend chatted with it!
Q. i made a fake account recently and send request to my bf...and he asked who s this and then i started talking to him by telling fake family nd fake profession and all..he shared all his personal details with me he even send his pictures to me( fake ...
A. 26 May 2017: You don't trust your boyfriend, with good reason it seems. The relationship is broken. Break up with him and tell him why. Then move on with your life.... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from my friend after I rebuffed his advances. What should I do?
Q. A friend came over we went to my room sat on the bed we talked them he touched me I moved his hands. Shortly after he left. Haven't heard him after that. He only sent me moving greetings via whatsapp. Should I try to contact him or walk away?...
A. 25 May 2017: Leave him alone. He thought your friendship was going somewhere else especially after you let him on your bed. Now he's hurt and possibly a little humiliated if he wants to contact you he will. If he doesn't you know The friendship is over.... (read in full...)
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