I am tired of feeling unsatisfied and sexually frustrated!
Q. My boyfriend of over 1 year now will not satisfy me sexually. I feel like my needs do not matter to him! When I say I still haven't cum yet. Hes like "well what do you want me to do?" Then I tell him to finger me or something. He usually falls ...
A. 1 October 2017: His an uncaring oaf who leaves you sexually frustrated and then makes you feel bad about yourself. You want to stay with this chsrmer why? ... (read in full...)
He's starting a new job and I've begun to worry about it!
Q. Hello everyone! My hubby has been unemployed for over a year. Last summer I encouraged him to apply for a good job I knew he wanted... and today we got the news that he got it and he starts on Monday!! Exciting, right? Well... I was excited at first ...
A. 1 October 2017: You need help. I'm not judging or trying to be funny but jealousy such as yours can wreck a marriage even a strong one.
You either trust your husband or you don't and you don't which is sad. It sounds as if you have a solid loving relation... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this planned weekend getaway? I've decided I don't trust him!
Q. Hi i was seeing soneone 2 yrs ago and he started seeing someone else. He denied it and lied left right and centre then he got her pregnant. During all this time he hasnt let go of me. I told him i was not prepared to be a bit on rhe side. Now they ...
A. 29 September 2017: Why don't you trust this guy? Other than the fact that you know he's a liar and a cheater.
You call him or email and you tell him you have changed your mind about the weekend and that time you slept together was a mistake, you're interest... (read in full...)
Why am I the one suffering when all I tried to do was help my family?
Q. I am in some real need of help here. Or maybe just a little support. Its a long story but here goes... ok so after 25 years my husband left me, my kids were 18 and 23. My daughter moved in with her then boyfriend. My son,who was my best friend i...
A. 29 September 2017: I am sorry for the loss of your son and for how your daughter has turned out. Your daughter knows that you are one of those women who put her children above all else and is using that and your grandchildren to take advantage of you.
I'm gues... (read in full...)
I am exhausted and my boyfriend is no help.
Q. I know I'm right but someone please knock some sense into me. I'm in a relationship, we don't live together but I spend a lot of time at his house. Work everyday and come home to him sitting on the couch everyday watching tv and has done nothing ...
A. 29 September 2017: You are upset because too many women are trained to put everyone else, including sorry losers like this one ahead of themselves.
You deserve better than this guy. You're not married to him, you don't live together but you do everything for him ... (read in full...)
Am I lacking backbone?
Q. Hi there, I wonder if you can help me a little further. I am fundamentally unable to deal with mood swings from my wife. They are rare and for the majority of the time we’re absolutely fine. Then suddenly, out of the blue she will descend into wha...
A. 29 September 2017: The strong silent nonsense is why men die so much earlier then women.
You say your wife's mood swings are going to affect your marriage. I would say from the tone of your letter that it has already affected your marriage.
Sit your wife down a... (read in full...)
Should I stand firm or offer reconcilliation?
Q. Hello aunts, My question here is simple. I fought with my wife last night. The reason was that she started complaining and saying she wishes she didn't have to pay rent (we pay half-and-half currently) so that then she could buy more things. ...
A. 29 September 2017: If you have no children, Leave. This woman does not respect you and I doubt that she loves you so leave. There is no reason for you to have put up with this type of emotional abuse and manipulation.
If you stick around prepare yourself for a life... (read in full...)
Fiances mother is refusing to come to our wedding unless we change our plans
Q. firstly, thank you for taking the time to read my post. I'm having problems with my fiancées mother. Backstory: me and him met in school, at15, we've been together ever since. We got engaged may 2016 in Fiji we had originally planned a two wee...
A. 28 September 2017: Personally I think destination weddings are BS and the ultimate bride/groomzilla act but it's your wedding and if this is what the two of you want then tell future MiL that you want her there but if she refuses to come you will miss her. Your ... (read in full...)
Tough love or does my dad mean it when he says it?
Q. I have a job which I'm not enjoying and parents who flip out at me, I suffer with depression and find that when I'm backed into a corner, I lose my anger and have to defend myself, ive been in trouble with the law, had partners who have cheated on ...
A. 27 September 2017: Your father shouting from the roof tops about your gambling problem seems the least of your worries. Did your father mean it maybe he did so what?
You need to concentrate on getting help for the myriad psychological issues you listed. Gambling depr... (read in full...)
He is married and will not stop contacting me for sex
Q. I dated this guy that stringed me along for 7 months - through therapy and maturity I realized it was my fault for "wanting to prove him wrong" when he said "I'm afraid of commitment" - I don't want anything serious- him being a ghost for a month ...
A. 27 September 2017: It's happening because he wants to get with you again. If you're not interested why haven't you told him you know he's married and for him not to contact you again. Then block his number.... (read in full...)
My past won’t go away, should I talk to him?
Q. Hey aunts! Quick advice please! I post a few years ago asking well venting about my situation. When I was 22 I got pregnant by this guy I was dating and I thought the best decision for me was to have an abortion. At the time the guy ag...
A. 27 September 2017: He keeps finding you because he is actively searching for you. You made a mistake reaching out to him the first time. Don't make that mistake again Block him and move on. If you decide to open up a social media account don't use your full name. Keep ... (read in full...)
Unsure how to proceed I've fallen in love with my 2nd cousin
Q. So long story short, I'm in love with my second cousin. I went to Lebanon earlier this year, and met this girl there. From first sight we both looked at each other and thought "wow". We got along like a house on fire, it really was scary how we...
A. 27 September 2017: Second cousins? In my view walking away from a woman you love because she is distantly related is foolish. I don't know what the law is like in your country but there is nothing blocking second cousins from marrying in the US. You can do an ... (read in full...)
If she wasn't interested why did she bother to text me?
Q. Hello, Before I start I am a gay girl, 24 years old. So I went on a night out on Friday with a group of people, and got very drunk. We all ended hooking up with someone (everyone else is straight) and we went out until about 6am. The girl...
A. 27 September 2017: She had a bit of sexy fun time with you. People do that. She may have actually been interested. She then remembered that she is in a relationship and decided her relationship is important to her. Forget her and find someone else.... (read in full...)
Why am I stuck with the girl that doesn't want to give but wants me to do all the work?
Q. I been in relationship for 4 years. She was virgin before we met. I have high sex drive , she doesn’t. I tried to accommodate this by doing stuff in shower and not bothering her. Sometimes I ask her to go down, and she won’t put in effort, when she...
A. 27 September 2017: You're only stuck if you refuse to leave. If you're not happy tell her goodbye and find someone you are compatible with.... (read in full...)
Is she hiding something or cheating?
Q. Before I get started let me just say that women have the right to enjoy sex as much as men. I'm not a sexist person and raised a Young lady on my own. I met my high school sweet heart after 30 years of no contact. We had sex later that evening. We ...
A. 27 September 2017: A lot of issues there. It may be that the new relationship energy has worn off for her and that's why the sex has slacked off.
You don't say that you have talked with her about any of this. If you haven't this would be the place to start. ... (read in full...)
Its been over with my boyfriend, I'm pregnant by someone else but I'm afraid if I end things he will try and kill himself
Q. I've been trying to end my relationship for the last 8 months without feeling a massive amount of guilt. The situation I'm in has became incredibly messy and I just feel very broken by what has happened over this passed year. I've been with...
A. 27 September 2017: You are in a prison of your own making. This individual has manipulated you into staying with him. It is long past time for you to move on with your life.
You cannot be responsible for someone else's life. Move in with your bf. And tell this othe... (read in full...)
I went along with planning for a big wedding. Now I don't want it!
Q. Hi I'm getting marrried in a few months and having some serious regrets about the way we've gone about things. We're having quite a fancy wedding with around 100 guests. I thought at the start that a big wedding was what i wanted but now I'm havi...
A. 27 September 2017: Are you having second thoughts about the marriage or the wedding? If you're having second thoughts about the marriage tell him now before it's too late. If you don't want the big wedding it's not too late to back out.
Tell him now and send out lett... (read in full...)
Hard to love a man's children like my own.
Q. I've been dating a man for 7 months. I have no children, he has 2 daughters ages 9 and 7. He doesn't see them very often (once a week) on the weekends. I have spent almost every weekend with him and when he gets them. They are great kids don't get ...
A. 26 September 2017: If you want to have a child of your own and he says he is done having children then he is not the man for you. You're not going to change his mind and you shouldn't have to compromise. Do not listen to anyone who tells you are wrong to feel the way ... (read in full...)
He says he will never marry me because of my past!
Q. Hello, My question is...is there any hope for a future with my ex-boyfriend? We dated for six months and he always suffered from retrograde jealousy for me. During this time I foolishly, casually mentioned my exes, not fully grasping what to...
A. 25 September 2017: As US sex and advice columnist Dan Savage would say. DTMFA or Dump the Mother F**ker Already. He has said he wil never marry you. What else do you need to know? There are no magic words to make him not the jealous person he is.
If you want to be m... (read in full...)
She said she wants to hangout with her friends which is fine except for my concern about this one male friend!
Q. My gf of 1.5 years is amazing for the most part. We have talked about getting married and moving in together and everything. We plan on moving in in the next 6months. Recently she told me that she feels that she will miss out on being young cause ...
A. 19 September 2017: It may be time for a break. If your girlfriend has spent more time with another single straight guy then she has with you and it's not because of her job she is sending you a message. And the message is she is looking elsewhere.
At 22 you are both... (read in full...)
I want my husband to share me
Q. i want my husband to share me. i have had this desire for a long time. it started when my husband told me, during foreplay one night, he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. we talked about it and i said i would like to do it. but afte...
A. 17 September 2017: Many men have the fantasy of seeing their wife with another man. I don't understand it but it's there. Your husband has that fantasy but I suspect it is just a fantasy and he has no interest in really seeing you with another man.
I would let it g... (read in full...)
Boyfriend won't speak to me. What did I do wrong?
Q. I'm with my current boyfriend for about 2 years and yest was hia bday. He thinks bdays are overrated, but I still got him gift card and since he didn't want cake, got him a small cake and went to see him. I was hungry by the time I reached his ...
A. 17 September 2017: Leave him alone, permanently. Giving someone the silent treatment as he is doing to you is cruel and childish and you did nothing to deserve it. So stop contacting him and stop seeing him until he is willing to behave like an adult. ... (read in full...)
I had a friend check on what he told me and he cut ties with me. Did I do something wrong?
Q. I met a guy online 4 months ago. All along he has been telling me about the particular company he works for and has talked about work at great length because he works really long hours. I have a friend who works for the same company. I told her ...
A. 11 September 2017: Did you do something wrong? From his point of view you did. Which is a good thing because it turned out he's a liar.
Was his reaction justified? Of course it was. Because he was lying to you about something as fundamental as where he works! He is e... (read in full...)
I moved to be nearer to her, now she has broken up with me.
Q. I'm fifty years old and moved over a year ago to be near my girlfriend she is 48 and I thought she was the love of my life. Suddenly she started saying she was busy all of the time and tired So I havnt seen her in two weeks. Tonight she broke up ...
A. 11 September 2017: I'm sorry for the way you have been treated but at least you found out what she is like before you married and bought a house with her. Look at it this way any woman who would do to you what she has done you want no part of. It will take some time ... (read in full...)
I'm on the verge of having an affair
Q. Dear Cupid, I am about to start an affair, I'm 30 year old woman, in along term relationship. I've been married for so many years and we have 2 children. I have a stable life, extremely loving husband, too loving he doesn't get the concept ...
A. 10 September 2017: Divorce. Why stay in a marriage with someone you clearly do not love despite your claims at the top. An affair isn't going to make things better and if he finds out it will make things considerably worse.
Go see a lawyer and discuss your opti... (read in full...)
Angry about my parents divorce.
Q. Long story short, when I was 6 my mom cheated on my Dad with a married man that has 2 kids older than me. Less than a year they both left their spouses for each other. When I grew up my step siblings ignored me like I don't exist. My step dad son ...
A. 10 September 2017: A lot of people will tell you to forgive and forget. I'm not one of them. But I will tell you that carrying around a grudge toward your mother is like drinking poison hoping that it will kill your enemy.
You know what your mother is and what she ... (read in full...)
She says she will leave him for me, but wont say when!
Q. I need some advice. I know that what I am about to say isn’t the best situation or the moral thing to get involved in, but it just happens. Now i fell in love and I don’t know what to do. There are so many parts to this story and I will try to keep ...
A. 9 September 2017: She had a year and a half affair with another man while married. Now she is having an affair with you while married. She will be married after she is done with you and with the next guy. She is using you for sex nothing more.... (read in full...)
She suggested a holiday but then didn't raise the topic. She finally said it was too expensive, is this a sign of problems ahead?
Q. My girlfriend suggested we go away a few months ago on a specific date. Since then, shes never raised it - but I have on numerous occasions, offering to book things, asking if she was still interested, or even not wanting to go, and all the time she ...
A. 6 September 2017: You could always ask her what's going on. She may have a perfectly good reason for her actions but you're not going to find that out here.... (read in full...)
My co-worker is trying to paint me as a bully!
Q. Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles. I work with this girl who is trying to paint me as a Bully. We don't always see eye to eye. She says I pick on her when I have to tell her she is doing something wrong. I don't like being that person. Its because I have a...
A. 6 September 2017: Are you her supervisor? It doesn't sound as if you are. This question reads like a busy body trying to justify her bullying.
If this woman is doing something wrong keep your mouth shut and do your job. It's the supervisors job not yours to dire... (read in full...)
Why won't he be honest?
Q. Why wont he tell me the truth? Me and my ex split in 2013 both are choice. He moved to the north of the midlands. Anyway last yr he got bk in contact with me and since we have met a few times and he's been on weekends away with me and my little on...
A. 4 September 2017: We won't tell you the truth because he is still with the other woman. Why would you continue to be with a man who is lying to you?... (read in full...)
We're on an experimental break for two weeks given the LDR and my gf seems fine but I'm miserable and paranoid that I'm going to lose her
Q. Sorry for asking again so soon, I just have nobody to talk to anymore and my problems are bothering me a bit. My life's in a focal point right now and I need blunt non friend and family advice.Thanks. Long story short my Girlfriend for over 1 and a ...
A. 3 September 2017: There is no such thing as a two week break. She has broken up with you. Sh just doesn't want to tell you. It is time for you to get on with your life without your GF because she is nwyour ex GF. ... (read in full...)
My wife of 30 years just confessed that she was not a virgin
Q. my wife of 30 years confessed that she was not a virgin when we were married. I was not a virgin when we met and if she had told me before we were married I would have been fine with it. My problem is she made such a big deal of telling me she was ...
A. 3 September 2017: Why did she tell you this now? Was she trying to wind you up or as she trying to come clean to unburden herself. Either way being lied to for thitty years as got to hurt.
You have to figure out how to move forward from here. Think of it this way,... (read in full...)
I told him 10pm was too late for dinner and now he won't speak to me
Q. Dear Cupid; I met a man on-line, he asked me to meet him at a nearby restaurant/bar at 9:00, he then changed the time to 9:15. I texted him when I got there never got a reply. I waited for 15 minutes and as I was getting ready to leave when he ...
A. 3 September 2017: Why are you worried about this guy? You were not wrong. Find someone else.... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my b/f is into men. What are some signs to look for?
Q. What are some of the signs that a guy is gay or likes men on the down low? I caught my bfs watching shemale porn. I looked into it and found the mostly straight guys watch that type of porn. He also has a friend who is gay, he said that he didn't ...
A. 29 August 2017: Sit down and have a straight talk with him. Ask him is he gay or bi. The fact that he was looking at shemale porn indicates that he may be trans attracted. There are a lot of guys out there who are but can never admit it. The fact that the two of ... (read in full...)
I'm craving attention and wishing for a double life
Q. Before you read this. Please try not to pass judgement. I know it may be difficult for some of you and you may not understand the way I am feeling. To be honest I would pass judgement on people like me before I actually felt this way. I have be...
A. 29 August 2017: You need to break up with your boyfriend. Your relationship has run it's course. It happens. It would be better for you to end it now before he finds out you're cheating on him. ... (read in full...)
I found out my wife was cheating on me. I feel turned on and am confused about my feelings
Q. I saw my wife cheating on me with a guy but I found it a turn-on. We’ve been married for ten years and have two daughters. We’re both 35 and have jobs. Two days ago I got home early from work because I had a doubt that my wife was cheating ...
A. 29 August 2017: You're turned on by being cuckolded. To me it's weird but apparently it is a common fetish. You should talk to your wife about it. Perhaps you can make it work for the two of you, strange as that sounds.... (read in full...)
Break-up, Make-Up Cycle and After a Loving Weekend, He Hasn't Called. Why?
Q. I recently left my boyfriend two weeks ago, and now we aren't talking. My purpose in leaving wasn't necessarily to break up,but because I wasn't going to tolerate the verbal and emotional abuse. He can be extremely controlling and gonon tirades. ...
A. 29 August 2017: For the love of heaven count yourself lucky if you never hear from this person again. Then get yourself to a qualified therapist and find out why you would want to hear from him again.... (read in full...)
I feel angry because my boyfriend liked his ex's pic on facebook
Q. Should I be bothered that I've noticed my boyfriend has liked a picture of his ex on Facebook. She is 30 years old so 13 years younger than me and when I saw he had liked her with a 30th birthday balloon in feel angry and upset...
A. 26 August 2017: Grow up or you'll end up pushing him away. You want a man who can be friends with an ex it's a sign of maturity.... (read in full...)
Why won't he Marry me?
Q. Hi, I have been with my partner 6 years next month. I never wanted to get married, was never something that was important to me. Until I was in love. We have been together 6 years and have agreed to start trying for a baby next year after my friends ...
A. 23 August 2017: He won't marry you because he doesn't want to be married and face it he doesn't have to. You live together in a coupled relationship, you're about to get pregnant by him there. Is no reason for him to marry you.
He knows you want to be married but ... (read in full...)
Why won't he Marry me?
Q. Hi, I have been with my partner 6 years next month. I never wanted to get married, was never something that was important to me. Until I was in love. We have been together 6 years and have agreed to start trying for a baby next year after my friends ...
A. 23 August 2017: He won't marry you because he doesn't want to be married and face it he doesn't have to. You live together in a coupled relationship, you're about to get pregnant by him there. Is no reason for him to marry you.
He knows you want to be married but ... (read in full...)
My very best friend is cheating on her partner! Do I tell him?
Q. Please help. She is my very bestfriend for 17 Years. WE See really good with each other. I care for her. I know her very much and everything what she do is open to me. Thats how she trust me. My Problem is, i visited Her 2 months ago. Thats ...
A. 20 August 2017: Unless there is a crime involved always side with your friend. So no you don't tell her partner. What goes on in their relationship is their business not yours.... (read in full...)
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