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I'm not gay, but I like to watch gay porn. Help me!

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Question - (23 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I am between 18 and 21 and i've never had sex (with a male nor female). At age 15 and 16 I started watching regular porn, and masturbated. After a year or two I began getting interested in the guys in the clip. In regular porn the girl has to be amazingly hot, and the guy has to be "buff". If you had a blonde hot porn star and a fat, sloppy disgusting guy, I wouldn't be satisfied.

Lastly, I began watching gay porn about a few months ago. However, certain things make me disgusted!! I could never see myself touching another guy let alone kissing one. I wouldn't EVER because I just don't like that. I can't see myself having sex with another guy but watching two guys gets to me... It's freaky and I don't think im gay, but honest opinions please?

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A male reader, hamwitch United States +, writes (28 February 2010):

hmm im not liking the porn addiction vibe on this page.

so ill tell you straight up 2 things one. just cause you like watching gay porn does not make you gay &2. get sexuality out of you head(what you like is what you like dont label who you are) look at like the romans man they had sex with men and women and those dudes where meanly men's me. and this might be bad advice but if you really want to get laid(helped me watch less porn when i did)

um your an adult go goole "adult friend finder"

go have sex believe it or not after haveing sex a few times you'll clear up alot of questions about you "sexual preferences" just remember a few things

1."don't be daft wrap your shaft"

2."Especially in December, gift wrap your member"

3.and last my favorite "Don’t be a loner, cover your boner"

just wear a condom

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010):

A lot of guys go through a period where they watch male porn, yet are disgusted at the thought of touching a guy let alone being with one. I went thought his exact same thing and like you, was both worried about what I was doing and disgusted at the same time. You need to know that it is all perfectly normal. As aphexinfinite points out, "if you don't like men and don't want to make love to one then you are not gay".

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A male reader, seany001 United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2010):

seany001 agony auntYou may have a porn addiction!

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2010):

aphexinfinite agony aunti think you may have an addiction to porn! you shouldnt rely on something to get you off..secondly if you dont like men and dont want to make love to one then you are not gay you are just watching something daring something different. every person has something quirky some may like to watch the same sex but not wanting it.. i know a few people who watch the same sex and they know their not gay and have questioned it! but realise that they want the oposite sex that they want that sort of thing..hope this helps aphex

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