We broke up after 15 months, a few days later I'm interested in someone else! Am I crazy?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok heres a pickle, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago. I was totally ok with it, we were together for 15 months, but had been good friends first. We just couldn't make it work, we kept having arguments and the break up wasn't messy. I thought I loved him I really did, and I thought I'd stay single for a while. But the day after the break up I met someone. I'm shocked at how little I'm thinking of my ex. I really really like this new guy, I feel like I've known him my whole life! Nothing has happened but we exchanged numbers, and he's asked me to go on a date in 2 days time. The whole thing seems pretty crazy, I know its so so soon but I feel disconnected from my ex already, maybe I didn't love my ex the way I thought I did. I'm really interested in this new guy, am I crazy? Should I give it a go?

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