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I'm 20, he's 18. Is it weird?

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Question - (9 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I'm twenty and there's this guy I'm starting to feel attracted to. The only thing is he's about eighteen years old. I was just wondering if that's a little weird because it's usually the girl who is younger. I know it's not a big deal for people who are older but we're still very young. Is it wrong for me to feel attracted to him?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010):

see, there is no problem with that. all my life, i've dated older women. infact, they made the approach first. the current one i'm with now is 2yrs older than me, and i'm just 23. things could work out well for you both. and see, if you truly like him, ple say it. he will love you more for just that. try and see.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010):

Its not weird my wife is older than me. Age is only as important as you make it

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2010):

aphexinfinite agony auntnot at all in the olden age the gaps used to be large normally man older but things are different now so as long as its legal and no one is getting hurt then i cant see why it matters. even though it doesnt matter doesnt mean to say our mind will tell us it will so if you like this guy and he really likes you then go for it what do you have to loose ? good luck aphex xx

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