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Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a relationship?

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Question - (27 May 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Is 15 and 21 a big age gap for a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship?

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A female reader, sofiamorgan United Kingdom + , writes (27 May 2008):

sofiamorgan agony auntAt your age it is a big age gap...but when you get older you will find that it matters less and less

Good luck with everything!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

Yes. What could a 21 year old man/woman want with a 15 year old girl/boy?? When I was 21, I was finishing up my studies at university and starting my career. The only reason I could see a 21 year old wanting to start something up with a 15 year old, is if they themselves were of the same mentality as them. Of course there are mature 15 year olds blah blah. It's just really weird to me.

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A female reader, Emivia Ireland + , writes (27 May 2008):

Emivia agony auntIt's a little bug. But that's because you're a teenager. As you get older you'll find the gap gets smaller and smaller.

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntno its not really their are bigger, age is just a number, but ide wait till your 16 before having sex..hope this helps aphexy

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

It seems to make more of a difference when your younger. I mean a 47 and a 41 year old wouldn't be a difference would it?!

Personally I don't really mind about age differences and if you love them that's what matters, you only live once, whatever makes you happy etc etc that kind of attitude.

HOWEVER!!! - At that age they might want to use you in ways you might not be comfortable. Don't become a slut!! Don't let them use you!! Just be weary, but yeah go for it!

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom + , writes (27 May 2008):

Its bigger than usual but not neccessarily too big.It all depends on what you both want from a relationship. Especially as you are just shy of 16. (the minimum legal age to have sex)

I met my last boyfriend when I was 16 and he was 21 and we were together for a couple of years.

As long as you both respect and understand each other I dont see a problem.

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