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writes:This question may be a little odd for some people, but I was just wondering how many women out there have used the vibrate setting on a shower head to masturbate...I discovered this on accident when i was washing this area and once i tried it, i found that it was the best way to release my sexual tensions. Once i discovered it, I found that it was the most AMAZING feeling ever. I would get in the shower, remove the shower head, set it to vibrate and enjoy. I feel so odd for doing this, but i guess it is just like using a toy. I have never heard of anyone else doing this before though. Is there any possible way that this could harm me? I don't allow any water to enter my vaginal canal, i only assert the pressure onto the clitoris and the area surrounding it. Sometimes I aim the water straight at it and sometimes i angle it in different directions...I am scared that it will harm something down there but i don't really see how it could. Anyone's input would be of help in this situation...and GUYS, do you find it odd for a woman to do this to herself? How would it make you feel if your girlfriend did this? (my boyfriend doesn't know)...I can't bring myself to tell him. Although i have thought of askng him to shower with me and get him to use the shower head on me...(we have never had sex, we are waiting until marriage)please give any advice possible!! Thanks so much
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 None of your concerns are abnormal BTW.
I agree and am concerned about your no sex before marriage morals. You are already crossing the line. If you cross the line with your BF then you are getting nearer and nearer to having sex.
What you mention sounds great, but I cannot imagine that you could do that together without having sex afterwards. If you don't that time, it would be an inevitability at some time soon.
If on the other hand you are changing your outlook, go for it.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (29 May 2008):
None of your concerns are abnormal BTW.I agree and am concerned about your no sex before marriage morals. You are already crossing the line. If you cross the line with your BF then you are getting nearer and nearer to having sex.What you mention sounds great, but I cannot imagine that you could do that together without having sex afterwards. If you don't that time, it would be an inevitability at some time soon.If on the other hand you are changing your outlook, go for it.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 As a guy, well old-geezer but I think I can remember being a guy, no I wouldn't find it odd at all. Hot yes. Odd no.
There is just one fly in the ointment. You are waiting with sex until you are married? Fine enough, but that spells "religious nutter" to me and those tend to have different opinions when it comes to masturbation then your average guy.
Someone who wants to wait until marriage might not react as I would to a girl asking to shower with her and masturbate her. You know him best of course, how does he view masturbation and female masturbation in general?
Remember that mutual masturbation would be seen by a lot of people as definitely crossing the no-sex until marriage line. I am fine with it, most people would be, but we ain't your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): no that is perfectly fine its realxing its warm and its just water its not like your weard just because you do that. and if i had a girlfrend andshe asked me to do that id be there having a shower because it would turn me on like a light switch.
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reader, natasia +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Anything you find amazing can't be bad!!
OK, it's simple: you don't have a problem at all.
Using the shower head: loads of women do it, and men do it for women, and it won't harm you at all (but as you say, don't squirt the water inside you - no way - to be 100% sure and safe I would only ever allow what nature intended in there, ie, him, his finger(s), or his tongue).
Feeling bad: DON'T! It's perfectly fine and millions do it.
Telling him: your idea of inviting him into the shower with you is a GOOD one - do it! : )
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (26 May 2008):
 ok from what your saying is your not trying to insert the actual thing which can be dangerous. but the water pressure wont do enough damage to your genitals so your more than ok to use it to help you masturbate. i myself havent done that in a shower, but im more than sure a lot of women have done and do it to this day so dont be worried, the only thing i would suggest is do not use any soaps or shower gels as this can irritate that area and can cause problems to that area. and if your worried about telling your bf why not invite him into the shower and see what he suggest maybe put it onto jet speed and see what he says if not why not suggest it to him. dont worry about this this is a completely normal thing. hope this helps
aphexy
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): ALOT of other women do this... believe me. Dog is a man's best friend, the shower-head is a womans.
Don't worry it wont harm you, you're doing it right, water entering your vagina isn't very good, so you know what you're doing. Try not to become dependant on it to achieve climax.
I used to find it really hard to climax and it was my boyfriend who introduced me to the shower-head. It worked wonders.
You should ask your boyfriend to shower with you. I'm sure he would be delighted to pleasure you so much.
If you are too shy to ask him directly then ask him if hed scrub your back. Begin to pleasure him in the shower and when he begins to give you pleasure in return... You know what to tell him "Try this". ;)
Good Luck,
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