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i'm -Angelicc- that's what my friends call me. i'm a friendly, bubbly, outgoing, open-minded person. there alot to my personality too much to write. okay what do i believe qualifies me to help people, well i'm caring, i have some experience in some situation, i'm open-minded, i'm not very judgemental, i'm not really bias and the fact i want to help people is basically it. okay where do i live, well i live at home in london, england, Uk.
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He's taking his time to propose - should I ask him?
Q. I want to know if I should propose to my current partner. We have been together for just over a year and get on so good. We have talked about marriage and kids and have decided we want both but he's taking his time to propose. He tells me he loves ...
A. 16 March 2006: i agree with willywombat wait for him to ask you. he most likely going make it into a big thing....making big arrrangemennts if you ask him it might spoil it. wait ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'm ready to take the next step?
Q. I have been seeing my b/f now for 6 months and all has been going very well. I am ready for the next step in our relationship of moving in together but I am not sure how he feels about this, I don't want to be rushing into things. I am not sure ...
A. 16 March 2006: firstly wow...you must feel very serce in your relationship and you obviously see a furture for you two. you must remember this is a very serious step for you to be taking, you have to be completely sure this is a step you wish to take. because once ... (read in full...)
What IS love, anyway?
Q. How do you know it's real love and not just the love of having a warm body next to you or a love from being touched or kissed? How can you tell the difference and not fall for the wrong love?...
A. 16 March 2006: Love can't be defined as its different from person to person. i personal believe that you can never really love two people the same. thats why sometimes you love some people deeply, obsessively, passionately because theres are so many emotions that ... (read in full...)
Can I trust her if her job requires her to flirt with men!?
Q. i met this woman who works in a club, we hit it off, and we've even had a lunch date. she calls me often, and she shows all the signs of atrraction. but can she be trusted if her job requires her to flirt with men? what do i do?...
A. 16 March 2006: Flirting is part of most people's personality, most people have to flirt a little in jobs, so it doesn't make her untrustworthy. if you truly would like to begin a relationship with this woman then you should of this problem with her flirting. if it ... (read in full...)
So shy I run out of things to say!
Q. I'm shy around my boyfriend. How do I just act like myself without having to run out of things to talk about?...
A. 16 March 2006: if your with your boyfriend and you have silent moments it feel weird awkward but if your truely comfortable with some you don't need to fill in the silences, its all about being with each other. i sure he cares about is spending time with you. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me, but wants time?
Q. Dear Cupid, If My Boyfriend say's he loves me, but he can't say either way that he wants to split up with me and he has asked to give him three weeks to decide what he wants, does this mean? it's the end? or have I got hope?...
A. 14 March 2006: your boyfriend as asked you for a break it doesnt mean your relationship is over. it might mean he needs time to consider if this relationship is for him, what he want's and how he really feels. so no it doesn't mean the end theres still hope. the ... (read in full...)
Teething trouble in a secret relationship - should I let her go now?
Q. I've got myself into a complicated situation and really don't know what to do. I first met my close friend's sister about 4 months ago and we immediately had feelings for each other and the second night we met we were making out at a club. I'm 31 ...
A. 14 March 2006: if your having worses and stessing about your relationship you should speak to your girlfriend, because i'm sure she would tell you that the age gap doesnt matter. that she happy in the relationship with you. speak to her, because if you just let ... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about my Brief Encounter - but could there be a future for us?
Q. I have met a guy who I think is really incredible, but he lives abroad and we only met for a couple of days when he was here visiting family. He is a student, just finishing a degree this year, and so he is completely broke all the time and can't ...
A. 14 March 2006: You have to be prepared for a lot of hard work, emotional ups and downs, alot of temptions, lack of phyiscal contact these are just a few things that come with a long distance relationship. there incredible hard and testing. so you have to think if ... (read in full...)
I wasn't enjoying our sex as much as my boyfriend, so now he's not enjoying it much either!
Q. My boyfriend and I just lost our virginity to each other, and everything is OK but it's hard for me to have an orgasm and he usually comes much too fast. When I recently told him, he was anxious to make me have an orgasm but now when we have sex...
A. 12 March 2006: You need speak to your boyfriend, sex isnt all about physical contact it's also about communication, understanding. you need to talk about it, if your not enjoying the sexual side to your relationship then you need to work at it together. maybe you ... (read in full...)
I'll keep this one simple...
Q. my boyfriend avoids sex and love with me. and he tells lies should i get rid...
A. 12 March 2006: wow that was simple, but nothings that simple. obviously you just want to get rid of him but you just think other should tell you. so i cant place my opinion upon your situation. i hope you get whatever you want out of this question you placed. ... (read in full...)
My friend tells stories to try and win sympathy
Q. Well, I've got this 'friend' who really annoys me. She's always talking about how her brother beats her up, but she never has bruises and she smiles like it doesn't matter when she tells us, then she looks all sad and expects us to be sympathetic. ...
A. 11 March 2006: i have a friend like that she a compulsive liar she can't help but to lie. ever time we meet up she's got a whole knew lie for me. she doesn't do it for sympathy, i think she does it for attention and the abliy to fit in with everyone else. she's ... (read in full...)
We're taking a break and now I think of him all the time... Even in my dreams!
Q. Hey all, Well it’s almost 5 days since my boyfriend and I decided it was best to go on a break. It's been so hard trying to not contact him or leave a message for him. I scared that we’ll never get back together after this break. This is just mak...
A. 11 March 2006: thax anonymous female reader thats a very detailed step by step for me to be follow. i plan on following as much as i can, i really love him and don't wish to lose him, so if this helps i thank you. bye i'm gonna started on that now espeically step ... (read in full...)
Am I lame for being so excited to know I make her happy?
Q. i recently read my girlfriend's AIM profile and it says in captions "(a certain date) - happy again" i felt so happy because that certain date was when i asked her out or when we became official. i jumped up and down 10 times and i did push ups even ...
A. 10 March 2006: i'm so jealous, i wish i could as happy as you right now. it's nice to read a letter thats about the happiness of a relationship for a change. i hope it all goes well for you... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him that I finally fell for him, HELP!
Q. My old best friend (a guy) told me ages ago he fancied me and then suddenly we started drifting apart. For a while we spent no time together at all and only spoke to eachother when completely nessesary. We never argued or anything it just happened. ...
A. 10 March 2006: yea i think the anonymous male readers right, you should take the risk....its your second chance and you may not get anotha. Love is worth the risk...take the chance.
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I'm pregnant while he's seeing another girl and he asked my ex-mate to marry him!! Advice needed
Q. IVE BEEN WITH MY BFRIEND FOR AROUND 2 YEARS NOW,IN THE FIRST YEAR I WAS A BAD GFRIEND I CHEATED ON HIM WHICH I REGRET TOTALLY NOW PLUS I ALSO LOST HIS BABY WHICH STILL HURTS NOW.HE DID LEAVE ME IN JAN 2005 AND WENT OF WITH MY SO CALL BEST MATE WHICH ...
A. 10 March 2006: I completely agree with willywombat you should dumb him. i have to admit that your first year of your relationship sound a lil like mine. i cheated on my boyfrend and i lost our baby, at the moment were on a break. but i would like to believe that ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is sick and is letting go of us and I am feeling guilty. HELP!
Q. My Girlfriend and I broke up last night, and it hurts like hell. But yet it feels like a dark cloud is lifted off my shoulders. Let me explain… We’ve been dating for 8 months, and we have had some trying times. Let me start by saying that she is 15 ...
A. 8 March 2006: the situation is one of the worse ones to be in. i know you being with her brings you alot happiness and alot of pain. the fact that she's broke it off with you just shows how much she loves. she wishes to save from her illness. the fact you feel a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is sick and is letting go of us and I am feeling guilty. HELP!
Q. My Girlfriend and I broke up last night, and it hurts like hell. But yet it feels like a dark cloud is lifted off my shoulders. Let me explain… We’ve been dating for 8 months, and we have had some trying times. Let me start by saying that she is 15 ...
A. 8 March 2006: the situation is one of the worse ones to be in. i know you being with her brings you alot happiness and alot of pain. the fact that she's broke it off with you just shows how much she loves. she wishes to save from her illness. the fact you feel a ... (read in full...)
I have fantasies about my twin brother!
Q. I am 15 and I have a twin brother. Nothing has ever happened between us but the other day I walked into the bathroom and he was in the bath and I saw that his penis was erect. Since then I have had fantasies of him making love to me and I know that ...
A. 8 March 2006: i haveny myself have felt that way but i have read about a few people who have. some have acted upon it, the others haven't. the real question is do you really wanna act up on it, your brother may not feel the same way, if your parents found out it ... (read in full...)
My gf needed space, but I want to be with!
Q. "my girlfriend wants "space" and i have given it to her, but i just want to get us back together!" me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for 2 year 8 months and she says she still loves me and wants to get married and have kids but sh...
A. 8 March 2006: i'm in a similar situation myself, i told my boyfriend we needed a break, he needed to figure some things out and i need to learn how to be less dependant on him. yesterday i regreted it so much i wanted to tell my boyfriend, but some people on here ... (read in full...)
Is is wrong to have sex with someone 14 years older than me.....even if I'm only 14?
Q. hi, i was wondering what u think about dating someone 14 years older, especially if ur only 14,. also would it be wrong if i had sex with him? i been thinking about it for ages and i feel ready to do it, he hasn't pressured me into it cuz he think...
A. 8 March 2006: okay firstly i just wish to ask why so many young girls are attracted to such older men. yea i like old guys but there normally younger then 25 and i'm 17. i was just wondering.
okay down to your problem, well i know you have truly strong f... (read in full...)
My two friends are so flirty with each other, and it's making me uncomfortable!
Q. I feel uncomfortable with my two friends: J (guy) and my friend S (girl). In college they're my main friends and well, S is making me uncomfortable. She's in a relationship but she's very flirty around J and keeps bad mouthing. She's a flirtiou...
A. 8 March 2006: thank for all of your advise. i haven’t spoken to them about it but i do still spend time with them sometime. i decided socializes more with the other people in my class although most of them are 2 faced but thank anyway... (read in full...)
I wanted to go on a break, but now I'm worried he don't want a relationship with me
Q. okay i have to admit i'm highly dramatic for person. just yesterday i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should go on a break. i thought it was best because i think i try to be my own person again and he needs to figure out what he wants, how he ...
A. 8 March 2006: thax willywombat i think your right i do need to keep my distance from him. he needs the space so much.....and i need to find a few new hobits. when i think about it i do think your right about the communtion between my boyfriend and i. i do think i ... (read in full...)
I wanted to go on a break, but now I'm worried he don't want a relationship with me
Q. okay i have to admit i'm highly dramatic for person. just yesterday i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should go on a break. i thought it was best because i think i try to be my own person again and he needs to figure out what he wants, how he ...
A. 8 March 2006: Thank for you opinion willywombat. I not going to tell my boyfriend how I feel about the break because he obviously needs this time to figure a few things an it would be terribly unfair of me to do that. But I do think you got the wrong idea about a ... (read in full...)
I got dumped by my boyfriend's friend and I want some answers!
Q. Hi,I am 12 and in the sixth grade and I was wondering if someone could help me out with this problem I have. You see my boyfriend of 5 months had his friend dump me this past Wednesday, but I just don't understand why. So I thought I w...
A. 8 March 2006: hey, you lot are very young and this shown by ho immature you boyfriend was by getting his friend to dumb. getting dumped by text, email and by their friend is very impersonal. he obviously could face you for some reason. if you wish to find out why ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me, then gave my number out to A LOT of people! HELP!
Q. Hi i'm 12 and i have a MAJOR problem.My ex-boyfriend who broke up with me last wednesday is a total nightmare!He hasn't talked to me or anything since he broke up with me,but has given my cellphone number out to a lot of people!!!So i did ...
A. 8 March 2006: what your ex did just shows how immature he really is, what did he think he was gonna achieve. the weird thing is he dumbed you so obvious he feels angry about something but what. you should ask him why he did that to you because giving your number ... (read in full...)
I wanted to go on a break, but now I'm worried he don't want a relationship with me
Q. okay i have to admit i'm highly dramatic for person. just yesterday i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should go on a break. i thought it was best because i think i try to be my own person again and he needs to figure out what he wants, how he ...
A. 8 March 2006: Thax you very much to all. i'm still not sure that about telling my boyfriend because he really needs the break he needs to figure somethings out and i dont want to take the time to himself away him. so i think i'll telling him how i feel but i ... (read in full...)
Wanted: Your views on DearCupid.org
Q. Hi everyone Thought I would introduce myself. My name is Andrew and I'm the guy who runs this site... Yes, it is just a one-man-band! I'm looking for ideas on what new features to add to the site and want YOUR input. I am thinking of the ...
A. 8 March 2006: Hey Andrew,
i just wanted to say thanks for the site as it's helped me alot.
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A boy I like, don't like me, what can I do?
Q. i really like this boy but he doesn't like me. i've asked him out many times but the answer is always no what can i do???...
A. 7 March 2006: You should move on, you can only ask someone out so many times before the become annoeying. you may like him alot but i dont think he feels the same way. there are loads of guys out there and you'll find one that will return your affections. This ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and may be pregnant! What can I do?
Q. Hi my name is Jessica im 14 and i think i might be pregnant.but i dont know im too afraid to go to a clinic and get checked out so i know for sure.I am like 4-5 days late and i dont want to tell my mom because she might like hate me and stuff.I cant ...
A. 7 March 2006: Hey Jessica,
Well I’ve been where you are now? so firstly don't panic, being 4-5 days late is very likely to happen in the first 3 years of your period.
Secondly I think you should speak to your partner as if you are pregnant this is something... (read in full...)
Everything else is more important to my boyfriend than I am!
Q. Why am I the last thing on his mind? My boyfriend used to be so close but lately it seems like everything comes before me. Maybe I'm just being clingy but is it wrong to want the my boyfriend to more than once in a while pay attention to me?...
A. 7 March 2006: I glad i'm not the only person who feels like that sometimes. i'm trying to talk to my boyfriend about i hope it goes well.... (read in full...)
How do I move along our month-long relationship?
Q. Something is bothering me a LOT. (we're both 16 years old) My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a month and it's going nowhere (or maybe just really really slow). He goes to a school that my best friend attends and thats how I me...
A. 6 March 2006: okay what ever you do its too soon to be rushing into anything. your only a month into your first relationship there is no need to rush. he may not be ready to move on to the next step in your relationship...all you need to do is speak to him. but ... (read in full...)
Rumour is that my boyfrend is seeing someone else. Do I dump him or talk it out?
Q. I am 14 and so is my boyfriend. We are born on the same day but we do not go to the same school. My friend, who I chat to online, has told me that my boyfriend is seeing another girl but my boyfriend asked me out. What shall I do? Dump him or talk ...
A. 6 March 2006: okay you need to talk to him, you need to find out if its true. you shouldnt just dump him as you have no proof of it, all you have is a rumour that someones told you. just speak to your boyfriend.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has never said she loves me!
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend are both 19 and have been going out for 2 months now. I really love her and have told her many times. Though, she has never once said it back to me, which can get me down sometimes. I would jsut like to hear the three w...
A. 6 March 2006: There nothin wrong with your girlfriend not saying i love you. it took me a long time to say i love you to my boyfriend. all it means that her love for you is something that has to grow over time not something thats instant. if she hasnt said i ... (read in full...)
I think he spiked my drink and now I'm pregnant!
Q. I am 16 and I started going out with boys when I was 14. Up to about 3 months ago I was a virgin although I did not mind boys doing anything else to me, I would not let them go all the way. Anyway, last December I went out with a new boy to a dis...
A. 5 March 2006: i think you really need to speak to your parents. who ever you think well take it better. because what happen to you is rape and the guy who did it shouldnt be allowed to get away with it. i think you should go to police it might be hard and they ... (read in full...)
Feels like I'm competing with my best female friend for my boyfriend's attention...
Q. My best female friend is batting eyes for my guy...and I am paranoid! Especially when they are in the same room together. Sometimes being paranoid really gets to me, and I start crying when I'm alone. Oh, and my bf is not much help ether because ...
A. 5 March 2006: your bff isnt a very good one she doesnt seem to respect how you feel about the situation. your bf maybe trying to do a good thing for your friend surely thro she has other friends she can spent time with. do you feel that your relationship with ... (read in full...)
He read my diary and found out about me kissing another guy...
Q. My boyfriend of a year has been asking me over and over again about me kissing another guy before we were together while I was down in Florida. I kept telling him that I just hugged him because he gets upset easily and I think he's pretty sensitive. ...
A. 5 March 2006: firstly you never should of lied, it was completely wrong and disrespectful of him to read you diary as you have all your private thros. if the kiss was before you decided you wanted to begin a relationship with your boyfriend then the only thing ... (read in full...)
He hit me with a chair, and not for the first time. Should I leave?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are going through a rough patch and the other day he beat me with a chair. Not the first time hes hit me but I'm now debating whether to leave him. I do love him but I'm scared of him and I have no one else to turn to. What ...
A. 5 March 2006: i know you still love him but as soon as he hit you he showed that he as lil to no respect for. i know it'll be hard for you to leave him but its for the best. because the more he beats and the more you allow him to, the more respect he loses and ... (read in full...)
Money has brought me dating troubles!
Q. Hi. I own my own business and have done well / been lucky. I have a lots of money. This, I'm finding however, is bringing me problems. Two problems mainly. 1. I am attracting girls who are interested in me AND my money. They expect me to trea...
A. 5 March 2006: theres no need to lie to a girl about your money, all you've got to do is to try not to flash your cash. keep the fact that your rich on the down low let a girl get to know you, go thro alot dates before you tell her about your finanical status. as ... (read in full...)
Everything else is more important to my boyfriend than I am!
Q. Why am I the last thing on his mind? My boyfriend used to be so close but lately it seems like everything comes before me. Maybe I'm just being clingy but is it wrong to want the my boyfriend to more than once in a while pay attention to me?...
A. 5 March 2006: thax for the advise i'll try to follow it. it'll be hard at first but i think your right.... (read in full...)
All we've been through together...Why do I keep pushing him away and trying to break us up?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a long this long distance relationship for almost a year and three months (but it seems it’s been longer than that, like it’s been like 5 years). My boyfriend is my first love but I’m not his. I’m not the type of ...
A. 5 March 2006: Thax wannabe city girl thats really great advise, i'll try it and see if it works. thax you ... (read in full...)
My female friend is getting it on with her own sister! How should I deal with this?
Q. One of my friends (who's 16) recently told me her and her sister are so close they even have sexualy contact. She told me they perform oral sex on each other and I find this very disturbing. Her sister is 14 and they have apparantly had this ...
A. 4 March 2006: okay maybe talking your mum isnt the greatest idea but you need to really do something about the siuation. maybe your friend and sister dont see that its wrong but it is and its your job as a friend to help her see that. all these people who say ... (read in full...)
Everything else is more important to my boyfriend than I am!
Q. Why am I the last thing on his mind? My boyfriend used to be so close but lately it seems like everything comes before me. Maybe I'm just being clingy but is it wrong to want the my boyfriend to more than once in a while pay attention to me?...
A. 4 March 2006: thax for your reply, but i've tried to talk to my bf about it but each time i do i just come across clingly and over needy. which just ends up us having an arguement. ... (read in full...)
My female friend is getting it on with her own sister! How should I deal with this?
Q. One of my friends (who's 16) recently told me her and her sister are so close they even have sexualy contact. She told me they perform oral sex on each other and I find this very disturbing. Her sister is 14 and they have apparantly had this ...
A. 4 March 2006: You should speak to someone about this as there is obviously something wrong. If the younger sister was 11 when it began she will not realise that it is wrong and it may mentally screw her up. thro they are sisters and there is only two years apart ... (read in full...)
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