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*ilred112
writes:My boyfriend and I just lost our virginity to each other, and everything is OK but it's hard for me to have an orgasm and he usually comes much too fast. When I recently told him, he was anxious to make me have an orgasm but now when we have sex it seems like he is not enjoying himself. I asked him what's wrong he was like, "I'm tryin not to come and to make sure you come". What am I to do?
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reader, lilred112 +, writes (15 March 2006):
lilred112 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thammks for the advice, i really appreciate the input. I got a few ideas that i think might work out. I'll give them a shot and see if they work out for me. because i truely love him and its hard for me to pretend im satisfied when im not, when he finishes. I usually be very aggrevated.... But i'll give those things a try you guys thanks!!
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (12 March 2006):
 You need speak to your boyfriend, sex isnt all about physical contact it's also about communication, understanding. you need to talk about it, if your not enjoying the sexual side to your relationship then you need to work at it together. maybe you should explore the wider range of sex. just speak to your boyfriend about it because whats point of doing it if you aint enjoy it.
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (12 March 2006):
 try not to get so hung up on this issue, sex is supposed to be an enjoyble, spontanious experience but you appear to be turning it into a chore. If your man comes too fast then i suggest a bit of foreplay beforehand on his part, such as performing oral sex on you, don't forget to communicate though, if he's not pleasing you during oral sex then tell him how to. Also, you could try losing your inhibitions by using sex toys, it will turn him on watching you use them, trust me. Hope this helps.
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