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i'm -Angelicc- that's what my friends call me. i'm a friendly, bubbly, outgoing, open-minded person. there alot to my personality too much to write. okay what do i believe qualifies me to help people, well i'm caring, i have some experience in some situation, i'm open-minded, i'm not very judgemental, i'm not really bias and the fact i want to help people is basically it. okay where do i live, well i live at home in london, england, Uk.
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We argue on the phone but not in real life!
Q. My boyfriend and I are really happy..when we are together. We never fight when we are around each other..but when we talk on the phone or anything, we tend to fight more than what i would consider normal. He tells me that I piss him off with some of ...
A. 1 April 2006: the way some people talk to people online/over the phone is different then face to face. when your talking to someone on the phone/online you feel you have to fill every void of silence but when you face to face the silence just feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
Should I try and take it further at the risk of our friendship?
Q. heyy heres the thing. theres this guy *dean. i only met dean at the start of the school year and our personalities clicked straight away. so now were the best of mates and i love him to pieces. but recently some of our other mates have been sayin we ...
A. 1 April 2006: i agree with smeedle entering into a relationship with this guy may ruin your friendship but some risks are worth that. maybe being a couple is the right next step for you two.
bu before you take it you really need to think about whether the risk... (read in full...)
My mom won't let me do anything!!
Q. hello there! im a teen in need of help. Me and my mom used to get along very well but everything is so different. Now that im 15 (turning 16 real soon) she treats me different. She's very old fashion and girl/boy relationships are new to her. She ...
A. 1 April 2006: All mothers tend to be over protective they have a right to protect there children. mother tend be more worried about there daugther rather there son. they believe that there sons can protect themselves and there daugther need protecting.
so wh... (read in full...)
Unhappy with him or unhappy without?
Q. Hey. Im 17 and my boyfriends 18, we've been dating over a year now and ever since the begining our relationshi has had problems. Alot of them have involved his ex and im so sick of it. He lies to me, and treats me horriably. i want to break up with ...
A. 1 April 2006: You should leave him because if you unhappy with then whats the point of being in the relationship with him. at least if you leave him you'll can move and maybe be feel happy again.
if you dont leave him the way he acting towards you will crush your... (read in full...)
I called a break and now I want him back, how do I go about it?
Q. I got this problem. I dated this guy for almost 5 years and recently i thought i had feelings for another guy so, we took a break. But it turns out i didn't have feelings for that other guy it was the same guy all along. I love him more then ...
A. 1 April 2006: Explain to him why you needed the break, explain to him how you feel. just tell him how much you love and want him back in your life. tell how you think the break was a stupid idea but help you to realise how much you loved him. just telling him the ... (read in full...)
Is my conern for her justified?
Q. I am wondering if I should be concerned about this. The other night I called my girlfriend and she was drunk. I talked to her and she happened to be very horny and was discussing what she wanted to do with me sexually. anyways we talked for a few ...
A. 1 April 2006: Yes you concern is justified if your girlfriend is going out getting drunk and not remembering what happened the night before. you should be especially concerns if she's doing this often and if she contacting other guys while she drunk.
As when... (read in full...)
He just goes soft and doesn't come... Should I walk away now?
Q. I'm a 30 year old female and I am dating a 39 year male. We have been having sex for two weeks now (about 8 times) and are not using a condom because we both got checked for STD's. My problem is, and I have never had this happen before, that no ...
A. 1 April 2006: i think if your in a sexual relationship you should be comfortable enough in your relationship to say what you like and dont like. you should try talking to him again tellig him how this is really worrying you. if that doesn't work then try ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and pregnant! HELP!
Q. I am only 12 and i am pregnant.Me and my boyfreind wo is 13 nearly 14 used protection but it split.Only me and him no but i need to no what to do.PLEASE HELP!(i have gone a few weeks)...
A. 1 April 2006: i meant mother not more
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I'm 12 and pregnant! HELP!
Q. I am only 12 and i am pregnant.Me and my boyfreind wo is 13 nearly 14 used protection but it split.Only me and him no but i need to no what to do.PLEASE HELP!(i have gone a few weeks)...
A. 1 April 2006: Okay if you had sex within the last 72 hour, grab your boyfriend, grab some money and run down to the nearest drug store and get the morning after pill. If not then you need to speak to an adult, possibly be your mother to discuss your options. You ... (read in full...)
How do you build trust in a long distance relationship? Any ideas?
Q. How do you deal with a long distance relationship and not worry about them cheating or doing something behind your back? Just mainly how do you deal with it?...
A. 31 March 2006: Well myself i am in a long distance relationship, have found it to be hard work but dont have an trust issues with my boyfriend. i guess the best way to feel trust in a relationship is to be open as a person. you to should be able tell each other ... (read in full...)
I like him but I'm too shy to speak to him!
Q. Theres a guy i really like and i'm pretty sure he knows that. The problem is i'm quite shy so I can never speak to him in person. Now i'm sure theres this other girl who likes him as well but he's always flirting with her. I've liked this guy for ...
A. 31 March 2006: I'm myself am a bit shy around guys, the first step is the hardest but once you take it just gets easier.
the first step could be just saying hi, how are you? what you been up to? not only does help you get over being shy, it also start a conv... (read in full...)
My bf dated my sister and me at the same time..how do I find out what they did without it looking like I don't trust him?
Q. okay i just found out my boyfriend and my sister were dating while i was dating him. and i am unsure how far they went together and if he expects the same from me. i have forgiven them both but i wish i knew how to ask "bob" what they did without ...
A. 31 March 2006: Well you must be very much in love or very forgiving person to forgive your boyfriend for two timing with your own sister. i personally think you have a reason to distrust you boyfriend for what his done to you. if you really want to know whats gone ... (read in full...)
I make him super horny and he's a virgin...am I being fair to him, trying to take his viginity?
Q. ok my boyfriend and i are in a weird part of our relationship and he has changed from not sex ever to what happens happens to he would do me the second he had the chance. we are in our third month and i am not sure if i just pushed him into having ...
A. 31 March 2006: no one male or female should feel there being pushed into a sexual relationship. so no i don't believe you should. you should wait until he feel his completely ready to take that step with your relationship. you should just repect the fact that he ... (read in full...)
I met another man who is good to me..but I don't want to lose my ex. What should I do?
Q. im reli stuck i have been wiv ma boyfriend 6 month n i love him sooo much but we split up but i always think about him alot and i have met another lad but he is 27 and im only 17 but he is reli kind to me and makes me laugh but i just dont wanna ...
A. 31 March 2006: okay you and your ex boyfriend have spilt up do you even know if there is a chance of you two getting back together. i know you love him but does he feel the same way, does it want another go at the relationship. you should speak to your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to fancy my ex's friend, is this good or bad!?
Q. Hey guys, another question on a slightly different subject. I have been talking a little bit with this one girl who is friends with both me and my ex, and is also the ex-girlfriend of one of my buddies. She is cute and easy to talk to since sh...
A. 31 March 2006: If you believe you are still in love with you ex then you shouldn't move on her bestfriend.
1. if your in love with your ex then its unfair to enter in a relationship know.
2. if you do enter in to a relationship with her may end up a just rebond g... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a distant relative...
Q. Hi I am 13 and have a lovely boyfriend but he's related distantly. Is that OK? And also I think I'm fat around my tummy. What can I do to stop this? I think I'm pretty and stuff but I think my tummy is fat. ...
A. 31 March 2006: i'm fine a little fat round my stomach too, i find sit up and not eating things that make me bloat up helps.
the distance relative thing well its not illegal but it may cause your problems in your families.... (read in full...)
Online dating hooked me up with a cute chick, aged 18... who then turned out to be 16!
Q. Hello. I'm 28. I've met this great girl through an online dating service which of course you are required to be 18 for and it even asks for credit card info. She said she was 18. Three weeks into the relationship, she confesses to me that she is ...
A. 31 March 2006: Well i've myself have lied about my age onces or twice but thats for different reasons.
Altho i wonder why she was in an over 18's dating serive, at least she did confess to you in the begining. it's obviously you have an attraction to her as you ... (read in full...)
I'm 30, he's 16, I love him but he won't meet me!
Q. hi, well I'm confused he's 16 I'm 30 we like each other and get along too. We met on the internet but he's saying he wants to wait 1 to 2 years for we meet. How can i cope with the distance and without seeing each other we are falling in love too. ...
A. 31 March 2006: i'm 17 and i would never even consider going out with anyone over 23-25...30.. wow what attracts you to him. your 16 so you have to be careful there a many pedfiles out there. i'm glad this man said you should wait becuase its unsafe for you to be ... (read in full...)
I don't know how he is, I would like to help, but not sure if I should....
Q. I want to know how he is doing, but afraid that it would send mixed signals or open healing wounds. I ended us and it wasn't very pleasant, it was very verbally brutal. SInce then he went ahead and sold his house without a plan, when he put it u...
A. 31 March 2006: You should just leave him alone, you can't just walked out then walk back into someones life.
You are the one who broke up with him, so give him the time he needs to get over you.
Break ups are never easy. if you contact him now he many not get... (read in full...)
Can a first kiss tell a relationships future??
Q. Is it possible to tell how a relationship will go from the first kiss?...
A. 28 March 2006: Why would you want to know the future thro a kiss, you'd miss all the fun and excitement of seein whats going to happen.... (read in full...)
Is it good to be thinking about her ALL the time? And I mean, like, 24/7!?
Q. Hi, Im 19 and have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 3 months now. It occured to me the other day, that i think about her ALL the time, and i really do mean 'ALL' the time! Theres not a moment when shes not on my mind! I was j...
A. 28 March 2006: thinking about this girl all the time isnt necessary a bad thing. but just don't let it take over you, don't let this love you feel for her become an obsession. ... (read in full...)
Snogging...how do you do that? Advice needed.
Q. please help i dont know how to snog someone and i have never done it before but i really want to can u help me ?...
A. 28 March 2006: you could be told how to kiss, you also could be shown but nothing better then practise. the obvious people to ask is a boyfriend or girlfriend if your single then you ask a friend. you should find someone your comfortable, someone who'll be patient ... (read in full...)
Help! My mom hates my bf...should I leave him or try to make it work out?
Q. Hi i am having a problem....my mother hates my boyfreind of nine months and so she has baned me from talking to himm she took my cell phone and everything eles away she also pulled me out of school...should i leave him or stay with him and try ...
A. 28 March 2006: firstly you havent given alot of information there could be reason your mother is acting the way she is. like she may think your too young, or that you boyfriend is too old, there could may factors that you haven't mentioned.
but going on what ... (read in full...)
We are close friends and he says he loves me but we dont fancy each other!!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am really close friends with this guy. At the end of our emails we always write "love you" and have done for about 2months but i don't know if i'm leading him on even though he writes it to me to. When we went out for lunch recent...
A. 28 March 2006: You say that you two are really close friends so saying love you at and end of an email isnt really a big deal. i say to my close friends love you, its just away expressing your feelings about your friendship. but this doesn't mean your leading him ... (read in full...)
Feel upset that I'm having to set up the guy I like with my friend :-(
Q. I like a guy, and he great, but he doesn't like me. He likes my friend, and i think she likes him too, but i'm not sure. I keep telling them to get together, but even when i do that i feel jealous. I know my friend wouldn't do anything to ...
A. 28 March 2006: Okay, your friend sounds like a good one she not going to move on the guy you have a crush on this is a good thing. but if your trying to push the together then your only really hurting yourself. there not need for either of you two to be going out ... (read in full...)
I haven't met him yet, but he says we can meet sometime. What's going on?
Q. i no this boy but i havent met him but he knows me and he thinks im hot and he said can we meet somehwere out the way what does that mean ...
A. 28 March 2006: i agree with PrunellaGringepith you have no idea who this person, you dont even know i know if this person is a boy. its so dangers meet someone who knows you but you don't know. if your really going to meet go somewhere public with a few close ... (read in full...)
She's always giving me hugs, but I need to know for sure that she likes me. HELP!
Q. Theres a girl at school. She is a bit flirty around boys, ive known her for quite a while now as a friend. She is very pretty, and i sometimes feels she likes me. He does touch me a lot (as in my hand, my face sometimes etc). She also talks to me qu...
A. 28 March 2006: well, i do sometimes behave like that with a one or two guy friends. there may be an attraction there between us, but i just feel its just me being friendly okay theres a bit of firtious but i feel its just from a friend to a friend.
thats just... (read in full...)
We are no longer friends because she disapproves of my boyfriend. Why??
Q. I have written here before about starting a relationship with an age gap. I'm 18 (f) and my boyfriend is 32. I am happy in this relationship. One of my best friends has now stopped talking to me. She has never met my boyfriend, and she has let ...
A. 28 March 2006: i think that she just maybe jealous of your relationship, jealius of the fact that your happy. some people find it hard to be happy for other.... (read in full...)
He says our seeing eachother has to be a secret, what's this about?
Q. met this guy, was kissing him for a week,really nice but then he dumped me and went back to his ex girlfriend however said he still wanted to remain friends which was good because we are in the same circle of friends. but now we are still texting ...
A. 27 March 2006: i think you maybe reading too much into what he said. its nice that you've reminded friends. but you being his ex staying out his house, in his bed, i think thats something he'll want to keep a secret. thats all i think he refered to. ... (read in full...)
Call for moderators to help out with DearCupid!
Q. Hi everyone, This is another appeal for volunteers to be moderators. You get to approve and categorise questions and approve answers. If you could spare say ten minutes a few times a week, then this could be for you! Just add your name in thi...
A. 27 March 2006: i would like to become a moderator. this site as helped me out alot i think its only fair for me to give something back. plus it'll give something to do during my free time.... (read in full...)
My friends hooked me up with this girl but I don't think shes over her ex. Please help!!
Q. Hello there. In need of some help and advice! I'm 16 years old btw. Basically, my friends introduced me to this girl and we hooked up and now we been seeing each other for a week or so, But...she just broke up with her exboyfriend of 2 years (on a...
A. 27 March 2006: I'm going to say it straight your a rebound guy. sorry but its true shes just using you. move on... (read in full...)
Found my brother and our stepmum in flagrante!
Q. I am 15 year old girl and yesterday I caught my 17 year old brother having sex with our 30 year old stepmum. I was totally disgusted at the sight of brother and stepmum going at it like rabbits the moment they caught sight of me they jumped out of b...
A. 27 March 2006: i think that you really should speak to your dad, as what you step-mother is doing is completely wrong. she has been sexually abusing you brother or 3 years. speak to you dad you need to get this woman out of your life now.... (read in full...)
So shy that I can barely speak! Is there a way to get over it?
Q. I am 15 and I get really shy around guys I like. I mean so shy I can barely speak to them because I am so nervous. What can I do to get over this? Guys think I am boring or something because I can't carry on a conversation. Eventually if people ...
A. 19 March 2006: i'm the same but i still manage to get loads of guy attention. i've tried so many different things imageing them as my friends, talking about things i'm interested in. but i'm still so shy. i find flirting without words easier then with...i tend to ... (read in full...)
What's something romantic that isn't too girly?
Q. Question for the guys out there: I wanna do something romantic for my bf but everything I think of is too girly. Any ideas? xXx...
A. 19 March 2006: surprize him with something that he really likes. people get the wrong idea about romance...just think what he would really like, what would he find speical....... (read in full...)
I just want him to leave off, but how do I do that?
Q. How do I tell a guy to leave me alone? I think this guy likes me becouse he's always picking on me and you know how weird some guys show that they like a certain girl....
A. 19 March 2006: i think you speak to him, tell him how you feel about him picking on you. That your not attracted to him that you find it attention sweet but unwanted.... (read in full...)
This is starting to scare me... Is my boyfriend too obsessed with me?
Q. I'm scared my boyfriend might be obsessed with me. He is always wanting to talk to me and gets very jealous. I like him a lot but he's starting to scare me. I can't dump him because he's one of my best friends and I would hate to not speak to him. ...
A. 19 March 2006: i think eddie right you need to add more information. but i think if your boyfriend as obsession with you is down to some insecurities he may have. you really need to speak to you boyfriend about it, you may not wanted to but comunication is ... (read in full...)
He annoys the hell out me....so why do I think about him?
Q. i have a crush on this one guy, but it cant go anywhere. thats just part of this because what im really asking about is his best friend. he's annoying, constantly tries to get a rise out of me and when i tell him to stop because he doesnt know me he ...
A. 19 March 2006: the reason you spend so much time thiking about this guy isnt down to the fact you many or may not fancy him. its down to the have that he's showing you so much attention....everybody craves attention and this guy is giving something that you need. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going back to his wife, is he telling me the truth?
Q. I have been having an affair with a man for 15 months, he has been living with me. Now he has decided to go home for his daughter. He says he's told the wife about the affair and that he didnt love her, and she has accepted it. My question...
A. 19 March 2006: i think he really wants to give his family and marriage another go. i think you should accepted that your affair is over and move on. ... (read in full...)
I was drunk and my friend's father assaulted me in the bathroom! I am sick over this..what should I do?
Q. hi, i would really appreciate knowing what u think about my problem as it driving me insain and it's wrecking my life, i went to a party with my bf at new year at a friends house and there was a few members of her family there including her parents, ...
A. 17 March 2006: it was sexual assault. maybe you shouldnt of got so drunk but doesnt pass the blame of to you. just becuase you were out of it doesnt give your friend father a reason to assault. what he did was wrong, worse of all you don't realise it was wrong. ... (read in full...)
My breasts are massive and I'm only 12! HELP!
Q. I hate my body I am 12 year old girl and my breasts have been growing in size for nearly 2 years now and they are massive Iam now a 38dd and they are growing bigger by the week is it normal for a girl my age to have such large breasts or is there ...
A. 16 March 2006: i know off many girls hows breast are just as big. you shouldn't worry too much as most girls would be jealous of your breast size. but i believe you should speak to your gp because if your breat start to get really big you could develop back ... (read in full...)
He's taking his time to propose - should I ask him?
Q. I want to know if I should propose to my current partner. We have been together for just over a year and get on so good. We have talked about marriage and kids and have decided we want both but he's taking his time to propose. He tells me he loves ...
A. 16 March 2006: i agree with willywombat wait for him to ask you. he most likely going make it into a big thing....making big arrrangemennts if you ask him it might spoil it. wait ... (read in full...)
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