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Hey All,

i'm -Angelicc- that's what my friends call me. i'm a friendly, bubbly, outgoing, open-minded person. there alot to my personality too much to write. okay what do i believe qualifies me to help people, well i'm caring, i have some experience in some situation, i'm open-minded, i'm not very judgemental, i'm not really bias and the fact i want to help people is basically it. okay where do i live, well i live at home in london, england, Uk.

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She wanted to go to the next level, I refused, and now she "hates" me

Q.   Along time ago a close friend of mine started coming on to me and one night while talking to her she was really tryig to get me to get down with her. Knowing her past and all the guys she got with I played it off giving her the hit that I was cool ...

A.   25 July 2006: Your very welcome, your choice was a hard one but i have all respect out to you for making it. Friendship is sometimes more important then your desires.... (read in full...)

I don't believe my boyfriend when he says he isn't cheating

Q.   I have a boyfriend and I think I love him.He says he loves me too.But I don't know if he is cheating on me because he hardly ever calls me and he is always getting text messages and calls on his cell phone from other girls.And he always talks about ...

A.   25 July 2006: Well kierra you have to think is do you want to carry on a relationship with this guy? do you think you can learn to trust him again? do you think you love is strong enough to withstand this betrayel? do you think he won't do it d... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is bored with "just" me!

Q.   Hi need some help guys! I've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now, and we have an amazing relationship and are so in love, well at least I still am. About two weeks ago she went on a sports activity week and things were fine. Bu...

A.   25 July 2006: Maybe shes seeing the possiblities and the exicitement of not have attachments and just wants a little space to try them. Doesn't mean she wants to cheat on you just she doesn't want feel tied down. Like she as to spend all her time weith you, maybe ... (read in full...)

My mum thinks this guy only wants me for sex, but I'm sure he doesn't!

Q.   Hi, I'm feeling really confused at the moment. I've liked this boy for over a year, but I've never spoken to him and we met on the streets. I was chuffed when he asked me for my digits today. Problem is, he's 22 and I'm much younger then him, and...

A.   24 July 2006: Your mums just trying to protect you from a possible mistake you could take. She just want you to end up in a relationship where you'll be used and abuse, where you could lose your virginity to guy who wouldn't really give a damn about you. All i... (read in full...)

She wanted to go to the next level, I refused, and now she "hates" me

Q.   Along time ago a close friend of mine started coming on to me and one night while talking to her she was really tryig to get me to get down with her. Knowing her past and all the guys she got with I played it off giving her the hit that I was cool ...

A.   24 July 2006: I think you made a decsion that you felt was right in your heart. so if you think it was right to save your friendship instead of throwing yourself into a relationship that probarbly would of end badly and be the end of your friendship. Then you did ... (read in full...)

Worried about body hair

Q.   i seem to be worried about puberty im 16 yrs old and i seem to ave alot of hair on my legs from my thighs to nearly my feet, is this normal or is it not plzzzz hellppp me...

A.   23 July 2006: It's completely normal for guys to get very hair thru puberty, espeically if you have a mediterranean background. So don't worry... (read in full...)

The boy wants to take it to the next level

Q.   ive been going out with this boy for a week today. ive snogged him a few times and he wants to finger me already. Do u think this is a bit fast? ...

A.   23 July 2006: For me personally it would be too fast but that just me. If you feel it's too soon in you in your relationship then tell him your not ready.... (read in full...)

We were close friends, she asked to take it further, I said no and now I regret it!

Q.   im in a bit of a dilema here. let me start at the begining of it all. there was this girl i was best friends with and eventually she started hinting that she liked me in that way, she then asked me properly if i would date her but i didnt want it to ...

A.   23 July 2006: You can't do anything you missed your chance she's moved on and you've gotta let her go.... (read in full...)

A teacher is letting me get away with a lot of offenses. He winks and stares at me and I'm getting freaked!

Q.   I am very confused by the behaviour of one of my teachers towards me. He is a very strict teacher who never smiles and always seems annoyed and a lot of people find him scary. The problem is he behaves completely differently towards me. His face lig...

A.   23 July 2006: I think it's possible that he does feel attraction to you. If your really worried about it or your fighten that he might at on it you should ask to be moved to another class. You teacher should be making you feel uncomfortable.. or you cou... (read in full...)

Stuck in a love-triangle with a guy who doesn't know I fancy him!

Q.   I have fancied this lad for near enough three years and I can't get over him because he's really good-looking and funny and he's really sweet to me. A few days ago, I was talking to this girl in the year beneath me at school and she really likes hi...

A.   23 July 2006: Why haven't you told this guy you liked him? The girl shouldn't of made the promise she made to you but you can't stop him going out with who he pleases. If you never let this guy know how you feel you'll never really let go and move on. He may not ... (read in full...)

I lost my viriginity, I bled, I am sore, could this cause me any damage?

Q.   I lost my virginity last night and it bled a little bit both times i had sex (we did it twice), and was very painful at first then it was fine. The thing is i think i'm still bleeding now. Is this normal? Also, the second time we had sex we had b...

A.   20 July 2006: No long time damage, when my ex and i did we went at it for hours morning, noon and night. I always end up being sore, you just need to take break and give you vagina time to recover. ... (read in full...)

Guys think I'm attractive, and I know I'm confident, but I just don't get any attention!

Q.   Why don't I get attention? My friends say that I'm really pretty, but boys just don't think so. I'm not being big-headed here, but I'm quite pretty, I spend quite a bit of time on my appearance and I'm quite confident, but not too much. I've not...

A.   20 July 2006: Maybe it's not your looks but your personality. You remind me of my friend, she thinks she very pretty which she is but she pissed at the fact i have guys interested in me. Guys think she pretty and apporach her but she thinks too high of hers... (read in full...)

What does it mean that my man wants to "think about things" but won't tell me what the Things are?

Q.   I'm in a realtionship with someone I love very much. It got sexual pretty quick so that complicated things. Now he says he needs time to think about things but doesn't want to talk about them with me. What does that mean and what should I do?...

A.   20 July 2006: I think you should prepare yourself for a break up. Think about things, means think about your relationship and the fact that he's not prepare to communcate with you means he wants to makes the descion on his own. So prepare yourself i've heard th... (read in full...)

Is it normal that he gets turned on my porn, even when he's got me?

Q.   Please help me. Is it normal for your boyfriend to be turned on by a porn video or some other girl even when he has a girlfriend? Please help me xxx...

A.   20 July 2006: Very...many guys get turn on by other women who aren't there girlfriends or wifes.... (read in full...)

Losing your virginity. Does it hurt much?

Q.   Does it hurt losing your virginity? I read a book about it and it said it hurt a lot.....

A.   20 July 2006: Omg is everybody looking to lose their virginity this summer. Yea sexual intercourse can hurt the first couple of time but afterwards its just pleasure.... (read in full...)

Just dumped by my first boyfriend. What do I do now?

Q.   Hi, I am 15 and my boyfriend has just dumped me and I don't know what to do. I am really up set about it. He was my first boyfriend as well, so can any one help me? If you can, I will be very happy. ...

A.   20 July 2006: Break up for the first time can be rough espically if your dumped. But good thing to do is get your girlfriends together, have a girly night. Forget him he's not worth your tears, just move on. ... (read in full...)

Are we just friends??

Q.   Hey! Well theres this guy, lets call him Andy, and he moved into my class half way through the school year. at first he was really annoying and stupid but got to be friends with him. I ended up getting a crush on him, but theres this other girl that...

A.   20 July 2006: I'm sorry to say but i think he only sees you as a friend and that he doesn't want to ruin your friendship that's why he felt guilty about saying no. Do you think maybe you could of read alot more into what happened after lunch between you too.... (read in full...)

Where can I explore sexual ideas?

Q.   Is there a site where you can explore ideas for sex?...

A.   20 July 2006: http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/ It's not real people but it's helped discover a few postions i never knew.... (read in full...)

We did somethings and now I don't know what to do or say around him.

Q.   i am going out with this lad who is 6 years older then me. i could say i love him but if i was to be honest i dont. i went out last night with one of my sisters mates just for a laght but my sister being older they where all older. we all got drunk ...

A.   20 July 2006: Tell him straight that you feel that what you two got up to was a mistake and can't be repeated but you don't want this to ruin your friendship.... (read in full...)

Do I chase her or move on?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 12 months. Previous to that we had been good frinds for years and new we would be together at some point. I also have a daughter from a previous relationship. My girlfriend cant excpept my daughter in my life and ...

A.   20 July 2006: I can understand you girlfriend being upset about you daugther but she needs to understand that she's second best to your daugther. I think if this woman can move on so easily then she isn't worth you time. If she really loved you she would of tried ... (read in full...)

Does it still hurt after the 1st time?

Q.   I lost my virginity last night and everything was as i had expected (pain/blood etc). The thing is, what happens about your 2nd/3rd/4th time having sex? Is it normal to still bleed and does the pain ease up slowly or is it just the first time that ...

A.   20 July 2006: The first the three times are known to be quite painful. Afterwards it just pleasure and fun...and be careful going at for hours it makes you sore and you vagina will tighten up.... (read in full...)

If I dont see him around, will this help me to get over him, and how long will it take ?

Q.   hi, i fancy this boy and simply cant get over him, he doesnt like me thats y im trying to get over him. now he has left school i am upset cos i will never see him again! will this help me get over him by not seeing him? if it will help then how lo...

A.   20 July 2006: "Out of sight, out of mind" is the best way to move. you may not get the closure you may think you need but I believe if he isn't around it's easier to move on. No one can tell you when you'll move on but when you ready to you'll know.... (read in full...)

He says hes too tired for sex, but is he!?

Q.   ever since my boyfriend got this 3rd shift job, he says he's to tired for sex and he's never to tired for sex. what is going on with him?...

A.   20 July 2006: If he's taking on extra work then he could be telling the truth. The question is do you trust him??... (read in full...)

I cant *bare* the thought of him seeing other women naked.. please help!!

Q.   ihave been with my bf for 3yrs but over the last 6mths my jealousy has become worse. i hate the thought of him seeing any other woman naked. its ruining our relationship help!...

A.   20 July 2006: Yea why would he see other woman naked? you need to put more details in your question.... (read in full...)

Any ideas on what I should do about passing this police physical?

Q.   Hi all, Well I have been waiting to join the police since i was in year 5. I had to wait 3 years to get in and now I have passed all the theory work and physicals. I have one more physical to go and one more exam. But the problem is I have hurt m...

A.   20 July 2006: Don't give up on your dreams, you've got three weeks right. These pills the doctor giving you aren't fast active so they'll take some time. In the mean time you see a specialist doctor or a physio who sees this time of thing all the time. Find out ... (read in full...)

Sex hurts and I can't achieve orgasm

Q.   i am 20 years old and i have only engaged in sexual intercourse 2 times before i met my boyfriend.the 2 times before him i never went all the way through with it.now that were having sex it really hurts but its more uncomfortable than anything else. ...

A.   20 July 2006: Not everyone achieves orgasms during sexual intercourse and they feel their doing something wrong. Just because you haven't achevied it yet doesn't mean can't enjoy the intercourse your having with your partner. If he's hurting you then maybe yo... (read in full...)

My hymen won't break!

Q.   I'm a virgin and my bf and I tried to have sex for the first time. He couldn't get his penis in. He tried to use fingers first but they wouldn't go up more than about 2cm ... and it hurt badly! Am I abnormal? What should I do?...

A.   20 July 2006: The fact that your boyfriend isn't able to enter you isn't down to you hymens. It's because your too tight or aren't wet enough. So try to relax, try a lil more fore play to turn you on so you'll be come looser and wetter. The fact you might be... (read in full...)

My man has almost cut me off completely!

Q.   I have been seeing this great guy. Things were going fine. We talked every day and got along great until a few weeks ago. Now, I hardly ever get to talk to him. He sounds glad to hear from me when I call but I feel uncertain about what's going on. ...

A.   20 July 2006: If you never said "Am i still his girlfriend?" i would of never had that idea you two were together in that way. It sound as if you too were friends or you two felt an attraction for one another but nothing more. If your really worried about your... (read in full...)

She changed her phone number - is it because of me?

Q.   i need help about a month a go me and my girlfriend broke up we had been together for about a year. we knew each other since we were kids and then she moved away. A friend of mine was seeing her and through that became friends again. I fell in love ...

A.   20 July 2006: Why do guys always asume if you change your number it's down them. I change my number all the time just mostly because so many people of got i get calls from people know me but i don't know them. Just because she changed her number after your brea... (read in full...)

Am I gay and should I date this girl?

Q.   hi im a 16 year old girl.ive only ever dated boys but now ive been lookin at girls and thinkin wat it would be like to be with a girl. my friend is gay and told me she likes me and wants to be with me,i have been thinkin about it and i do like her ...

A.   20 July 2006: Okay firstly do you want to risk your relationship by using your friends as an experiment to see if your gay, straight or bi. If you think your friendship is the worth the risk then go for it. Never let people judgements stop you from living your ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive?

Q.   hi my boyfriend of 5 years had just told me last night that he has been seeing someone else at work. he said that they did not have sex but they have kissed touched etc. he is feeling really bad about it and is ready to do anything to make up for ...

A.   20 July 2006: Do you want to forgive him? do you think your relationship is worth another chance? Do you really think you can forgive him? ... (read in full...)

How can I get over this guy and move on ?

Q.   How do you get over someone? Apart from getting with someone else, or turning your affections to some one else. As both of those are easier said than done. The boy I'm trying to get over messes me about, and doesn't like me, and there is no-one that ...

A.   20 July 2006: I'm going thru the same thing, best thing is to work on yourself. Enjoy being single, dress sexy just to make you feel good not for any guy. Flirt with guys just to flirt. Enjoy being you, that's what i'm doing. ... (read in full...)

He has a sort-of girlfriend, but he still flirts with me. What does it mean?

Q.   I have a problem for you...first off, I have liked this boy for ages and met him when he was sort of seeing another girl. He used to flirt with me all the time. Then I found out he and this girl had gone out one night and ended up now as boyfrien...

A.   20 July 2006: To me he just sounds like a flirt, a guy who enjoys the attention, nothing more. He never made you any promises, he never said he liked you or tho of you in a girlfriend way. He's done nothing wrong.... (read in full...)

Shall I ignore him, or just tell him to stop contacting me completely ?

Q.   Shall I tell ex not to text/email or I just ignore? Still dearly in love with him, but I dont feel he loves me back in the way I want. He ignored me and put his friends first. We broke up 3 times, every time he got me back because I love him so mu...

A.   20 July 2006: Move on and tell him you've decided to move on. He obviously doesn't feel the same as you do for him, no point in waiting around for you.... (read in full...)

I think I love this guy, but is he interested in me... or just my boobs?

Q.   I love this guy but he likes my mates. I love him so much but he never will like me and people say he is only talking to me because of my boobs. What should I do? Leave him, move on or what? Remember he is my first love. Help me please. xxxxx...

A.   20 July 2006: Being a big breasted gurl myself i know how you feel. But the people who say guys are only interested in you because of your chest are just jealous. This guy may not be interested in you but there will be loads other. Just move on. ... (read in full...)

I don't believe my boyfriend when he says he isn't cheating

Q.   I have a boyfriend and I think I love him.He says he loves me too.But I don't know if he is cheating on me because he hardly ever calls me and he is always getting text messages and calls on his cell phone from other girls.And he always talks about ...

A.   20 July 2006: So your boyfriend is popular with girls doesn't make him a cheat, it's not like he's walking away from you to take the calls. It's all about trust, do you think you can trust him? If it's really bothering you talk to him about it. But if your one ... (read in full...)

I got dumped for being "too quiet"!

Q.   I had a bf but we broke up b/c I was to quite. I just didn't know how to have a relationship at the time. I still don't. How do you have one? I can flirt and everything but when it comes down to like the serious stuff I get nervous and choked up. ...

A.   20 July 2006: First your boyfriend gave you a stupid reason for breaking up with you, so I think he was just looking for an easy way out. No one knows how a relationship really works it's something you have to figure out together. your boyfriend never gave you a ... (read in full...)

My ex wants to cheat on his girlfriend... with me!

Q.   Out of the blue my ex called and just wants to chat. We were together a long time....ten years and split two years ago.He has a girlfriend but tells me that he is unhappy in the relationship and says he will leave her when a current legal matter ...

A.   20 July 2006: I think you should cut him lose, don't let the guy back into your life again. He's an ex for a reason just remember that, he doesn't seem to care about hurting his current girlfriend and wants secret meetings with you. this is not a guy to be ... (read in full...)

I like it but got freaked out... What should I do now?

Q.   Hey guys i really need some advice. im 16 and my boyfriends 15. weve been together 3 weeks and things have started to get a little intamite, i mean all we've done is kiss but last time we kissed intamitly he put his hand up my top and was touching ...

A.   19 July 2006: I don't think he's gone off you but he many feel that he's forcing you into something your not ready for and doesn't want to push. Speak to him about find out from him... (read in full...)

Do I date my best friend's girl? It's his feelings or mine..what should I do?

Q.   hi i like this girl and she flirts with me but the only thing is she goes out with my best friend do i hurt my feelings or his thank you Unhappy_guy...

A.   19 July 2006: It all depends on what means more to you, your friendship with your bestfriend or dating this girl? Thats what you gotta think about. ... (read in full...)

I think I masturbate too much...

Q.   Hi, I'm 26 and although I've had relationships I find I seem to enjoy maturbation more than everything else. It's got to the point now where I masturbate whenever I'm alone and have an erection. I know it' normal to pleasure yourself but I would li...

A.   18 July 2006: It sounds pretty normal to me and I think you should enjoy it. Cause when your 50 and can't get it up you be wishing for an erection.... (read in full...)

Can u get pregnant with anal sex?

Q.   Can u gt pregnant or catch sti from havin unprotected anal sex? if u can which ones? are they treatable? Plz help......

A.   18 July 2006: You can't get pregnant thru anal sex but you can catch a sexually transmitted diease like an STD - yes, or STI - yes or even HIV - yes. So protect yourself yea. ... (read in full...)

What is he trying to say?

Q.   I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now. And he's told me previously that he thinks I'm pretty, and that he'd like to feel me up. A local club holds an under 18's night, where he goes regularly, my friends go too and I'm planning on ...

A.   18 July 2006: This guys sounds like he's only into using girls not looking for anything serious. he all about have fun with girls (meaning more then one) so don't expect him to change for you.... (read in full...)

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