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writes:I am 13, but I am still having difficulties. I have a boyfriend, but I really like this other guy, who happens to be my best friend. They both like me, but I like them both for different reasons. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): go with the best friend cause if you have feelings for him your feelings for you boyfriend are not all that strong
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): weigh the pros and cons and see where it takes you
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reader, xxnessiexx  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 Hum it's hard but I guess you should stick with your boyfriend, after all you love him too. And by dating your best friend you might ruin your friendship AND lose your boyfriend, I guess you don't want to lose both. Hope I helped!
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reader, Thorn,  +, writes (11 October 2010):
If this guy is your best friend then would you want to ruin this friendship by dating him - what if it didnt work out? would you two still be friends? you need to ask yourself what would happen if things were different and would it make you any happier?
I think you should stick with your boyfriend but dont take the whole relationship thing to seriously your only 13 and more serious relationships will come.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (11 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Does your boyfriend treat you better than your friend... Or is it the opposite? Depending on the way you guys act towards eachother. I'm not sure if you feel more attracted to your best friend than your boyfriend.
But if one of them treats you better, makes you feel better about yourself than go with your instinct. Another thing is that IF you DID break up with your boyfriend for your best friend your kind of risking your friendship, like it didn't work or for instince, you and your friend might not be friends anymore. Anyway, I hope you make the right decision for yourself. Good luck xoxo.
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