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writes:I have worked with this guy for 2 years.. we have been through a lot together. I really really like him and we hang out all the time. Our personalities just match perfectly we have never fought and we really enjoy each others company. The first time we kissed was about 3 months ago. I could tell we were both really nervous and we were both shaking :) after that kiss we started hanging out more, he took me on dates and treated me like his girlfriend, still we had no commitment. We have spent the night together 3 times, no sex involved mind you. We really enjoyed each others company all night, snuggling and kissing. I am really falling hard for this guy but i dont know why he doesn't want a commitment.. I talked to him a few times about making our relationship legit and becoming committed. I told him that i wanted him to be only mine and for me to be only his. He told me that he wouldn't have time to have a relationship because he is going to be owning and running his own business..I know for a fact that this business is going to be his whole life for the next year, he will be the only manager and the owner therefore he will work all day everyday. I told him that i didnt care if i didnt see him a lot i just wanted to be with him. He told me that it wouldn't be fair to me to have him not be there for me. He has had past relationships fail because he cant be there because of work and he doesn't want us to end like that. Last night he came over to my house and we had sex for the first time. It was amazing i am falling really hard for him.. I just really really want a commitment. I am so confused about what he is thinking i know that he cares about me because he never goes a day without trying to talk or hang out. When he is with me all he does is cuddle and kiss me he is so sweet and really everything i am looking for in a significant other. Does it sound like he really likes me and wants to be with me? or does it sound like he is just using me to get attention and affection? another thing is that he told me that if he wasn't going to own this business that we would be together...
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reader, perfectdovez12 +, writes (15 October 2010):
perfectdovez12 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you soo much for your advice it is greatly appreciated!! :)
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reader, perfectdovez12 +, writes (15 October 2010):
perfectdovez12 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaww thank you for your advice ?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] i really appreciate it. It has helped alot!
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (14 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) Just understand that the business is his priority atm. Once he hires staff, managers, and gets everything situated. I'm sure he'll plan on making a committment with you, and you will be together. I really think he does like you, and he isn't using you for anything. The work issue just seems to be the only thing that is keeping you from making it official. But since he likes you, there is no doubt in my mind that he'll keep you waiting for a long period of time. Be patient, xoxo.
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