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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 19 March 2012: Yay! thanks for the GREAT update...keep on growing!... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: yes but if you want to get back at him remember that living well is the best revenge...
YOU control your own misery.....
be fabulous
be beautiful
be happy
it will so be better then.... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: I think that you are trying to punish yourself (subconsciously) and that’s a hard place to be. I get it. You are angry at yourself for using bad judgment and trusting someone who betrayed you. Now you feel like your judgment is being questioned. ... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: why is the fact that he was your first so important to you that you want to keep him around?
why do you feel that you can't move on from him?... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 14 March 2012: Exactly what Cindy said.. you are not worth any effort if you are not spreading your legs for him.... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 13 March 2012: no not weird at all... perfectly normal to have mixed feelings about this.... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 13 March 2012: or he's biding his time waiting for you to assume he's gone and in a few weeks... oops a text from him....
just be very careful... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 12 March 2012: And that, OP is what he is counting on. he is hoping your determination to stay strong and not see him will waiver..... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be upset about the fact that my girlfriend still keeps photos of her boyfriend who died 12 years ago?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for three years. She kept photos up of her and her deceased boyfriend (posed together) who died 12 years ago. We had none of us. After we had been togehter 2 years, I mentioned that I felt that she was living in ...
A. 12 March 2012: You are wrong. He's not an EX he's deceased.
that is akin to my father's live in girlfriend (that he's been with for 16 years now) asking him to not observe the anniversary of my mother's death (as is our religious custom) because it's living i... (read in full...)
In a breakup why do people take the cheaters side?
Q. I was watching George Clooney's The Descendants the other day. The movie is about a character that doesn't know his wife was cheating on him. Everyone knew and didn't tell him. He never treated the wife bad or cheated on her. She screwed him over ...
A. 12 March 2012: “why should I do the right thing?”
You do the right thing because you live your life FOR YOU not for them… YOU DO THE RIGHT THING because you are an adult and do what’s right.
How others choose to live is their choice…do not stoop to their l... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 12 March 2012: IGNORE HIM! Block him. IF YOU tell him to leave you alone he will know it bugs you and he will keep doing it.
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE!... (read in full...)
Scared about having sex, what should I do? My girlfriend keeps asking me and I don't know why I'm so scared
Q. hi im a lesbian woman and i just wanted some advice due to sex. i really do not like anything inside me, fingers anything and have never had sex before as im scared to. well not inside me anyway. why is this. nothing has ever happen bad to me...
A. 12 March 2012: have you ever put your own fingers inside your body?
I would try that first...
then you could do it with her holding you while you do it so you could learn to feel safe while with her...
just go slow and build up to it...... (read in full...)
Does he want to be my FWB again?
Q. A guy friend text me last night but I didn't reply because we're both in relationships now and even though we're just friends we used to be sort of FWB and the last time we met up he kissed me. He text me at 10:30pm asking if I wanted to go for a ...
A. 12 March 2012: A text at 10:30 at night is nothing more than a booty call.
YOU have a boyfriend now… why even entertain the idea of meeting this other guy?
WHY would it be MEAN to mention your boyfriend?
He’s not ignoring you he’s just not horny in the lig... (read in full...)
How can I increase my chances of having twins?
Q. hello everyone, i have a very simple question. im trying for another baby but i would like to concieve twins.... any ideas how to increase my chances? iv heard about eatting sweet potatos any thing else?...
A. 12 March 2012: here I googled this for you:
http://www.justmommies.com/articles/natural-ways-to-conceive-twins.shtml... (read in full...)
How do you deal with a partner's thick pre-ejaculate?
Q. Hello all and thanks for reading :) I've given my new partner oral sex in the shower and in bed, but it was after having made love already earlier that evening. However, most recently, we were getting into the mood, lots of foreplay, so I too...
A. 12 March 2012: Just keep a cup of water or other beverage on the night table and take a sip as needed....... (read in full...)
I pushed him for comittment and he made his excuses, now I find pictures of nude girls on his phone!
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a few months, at first everything seemed great until he started acting strange disappearing not calling as much, texting ppl late etc... When I started pushing commitment he started saying I have too many make friends ...
A. 12 March 2012: he's a dog... you're not delusional...
NEXT!... (read in full...)
He's playing me in a FWB while cheating his Gf. How do I break it off with him and mean it?
Q. I am 32 and been divorced for about 3 years now. I have known a guy who is way younger than me as long as i can remember. He will be 20 in 2 months. We have been in a FWB relatinship since he was 18 (legal age in my state). We would fight and brea...
A. 12 March 2012: You don't know if he's playing you?
Come on YES you do know....
he can't be with his girlfriend and leave you alone because YOU AlLOW him to use you...
JUST say NO... this is not about his age or your age... it's about your willingness ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an alcoholic mother. Should I feel scared to drink in front of him?
Q. Hello dearcupid, My boyfriend has a very troubled past. He grew up very poor with an alcoholic mother. It sounds like she was a cold woman who only cared about drinking when he was growing up. He told me that when he moved out he attended a g...
A. 12 March 2012: I agree with Cindy an entire bottle of wine in one night is way too much.
It's recommended that women have ONE glass of red wine per day for health reasons.... ONE glass not one bottle... and they mean like 6 oz.... too much alcohol is bad for ... (read in full...)
In a breakup why do people take the cheaters side?
Q. I was watching George Clooney's The Descendants the other day. The movie is about a character that doesn't know his wife was cheating on him. Everyone knew and didn't tell him. He never treated the wife bad or cheated on her. She screwed him over ...
A. 12 March 2012: It's not true that everyone always takes the cheaters side.
my last marriage was unusual in that it was supposed to be an open marriage... hard to cheat right? but my now x husband would LIE to me about who he was with and what he was doing wi... (read in full...)
I am 30 years old and desperate to be loved - if only for one day
Q. Hi, sorry for writing a lot but I hope someone here can help me. I am 30 years old and desperate to be loved - if only for one day. All my friends all the people I know in my age group have had at least one relationship. I know that some o...
A. 12 March 2012: I am going to make my standard suggestion for women to meet men.. Try Board Gaming…. I met my fiancé board gaming. You have to do it face to face in a controlled environment… many of the men are single… it’s mostly men to be honest… I’d say 80% ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know if he can be my b/f but yet he keeps texting me
Q. So I'd been seeing this guy for three weeks, known him for a month. We'd seen each other 3 times in this period of time. I finally plucked up the courage yesterday to ask him what was going on between us and he said he wasn't sure what he wanted and ...
A. 12 March 2012: I agree with the poster below me... just lay low and let him come to you... 3 weeks is WAY too soon to be pressuring him for a commitment.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend identifies himself as "queer" Does that mean he doesn't consider himself male or female?
Q. hello people, quick question. my bf says he gender queer does that mean he doesn't identify as being male or female. assuming I'm right about the above, what does that make his pronoun, he she? neither? both? thanks for any help you give ...
A. 12 March 2012: you need to ask him what he means
when i was growing up queer meant gay... it might have changed now....... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he is attracted to another girl
Q. Okkk...my boyfriend is steady saying he loves me but yet he told me that he is atracted to this other girl.he also told me that he isnt falling in love with her or anything he only loves me but i dont know what to do about this...an we broke up 2 ...
A. 12 March 2012: He's a really nice boy but you are both so young that you are still figuring out what you want.
You can't make him not like other girls and it's best if you not get your hopes up that this is going to work out.
It sucks to be your age and hav... (read in full...)
Is it OK if the girl calls after 4 dates, or does that ruin 'the chase'?
Q. Guys Should we call you after say 4 dates? Or do you lose interest and back off if you dont feel like you're in " the chase" Honestly. If you've started calling/texting less what gives?...
A. 11 March 2012: I've always chased what I wanted. And gotten it.
That being said... if he's calling and texting less, then he's not as interested as he was....
... (read in full...)
Should I go out with the guy that I broke up with my boyfriend for?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend because I fell in love with another guy..is that bad...? Me and my bf had a long dist relationship for 8 months but we wre together for A year before that...the problem is that when I moved I fell in love with anothe...
A. 11 March 2012: no you moved away and tried to make it work but sometimes you can't make it work.
being honest with your ex boyfriend was the best thing you could do.
you did not betray your ex. if you want to date this other fellow then go for it.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my LDR boyfriend that I don't like what he gets me? He doesn't know what I like
Q. im in a ldr. we always communinicate and have ups and down but this valentines day he send flowers and cake, but he forget my bday, and he didnt give me pressies. which is ok.but it really upset me.. and this next month, his comming over but i ...
A. 11 March 2012: Agree with Ciar. Either it was ok or you were upset... it can't be both.
My fiance knows me and yet I still give him my Amazon wish list to help pick presents.
You should tell him you were hurt that he missed your birthday but you can't be... (read in full...)
He wants a FWB relationship and I don't think I can do that
Q. Hi, I have just come out of a relationship and my man told me he wanted to be friends as he just isn't in the right head space for a relationship. He then said he wanted to get to know me more sexually. I asked if that meant friends with benefits, ...
A. 11 March 2012: You did nothing wrong.
Basically he wants to have sex with you without all the emotional work that goes into a relationship.
He's just NOT that into you sweetie.
At least he was honest about it.
Do not sleep with him.... and since you... (read in full...)
He doesn't know if he can be my b/f but yet he keeps texting me
Q. So I'd been seeing this guy for three weeks, known him for a month. We'd seen each other 3 times in this period of time. I finally plucked up the courage yesterday to ask him what was going on between us and he said he wasn't sure what he wanted and ...
A. 11 March 2012: Personally I think after 3 weeks you jumped the gun a bit...
But what's done is done.
If you have slept with him STOP.
if you have not slept with him, DO NOT.
he may be confused and not know what he wants.
he may like you enough t... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Cindy is right... IGNORE him totally.... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Ignore him OP, this will stop... you know he can't be just friends... that's just a ruse to make himself feel good about himself..... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Well Done.... and continue to be strong....... (read in full...)
B/f inexperienced and winds up hurting me while trying to make me feel good
Q. Ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we both virgins and want to stay like that till we both feel ready for sex. The problem is when we do make out he likes to rub my clit but he rubs with alot of force which leaves me ...
A. 10 March 2012: how about saying "ouch that's too hard could you rub a bit lighter please?"
if you don't tell him he won't know. men like a firm grip when they masturbate they just assume we do too.... (read in full...)
He's A Gamer! ..Which means I come second
Q. My boyfriend is a gamer. we live together. I love him, but he spends so much time on his ps3, i find myself becoming resentful. I don't mean 1-3 hours per day, i'm fine with that! I'm talking 6-10.. whenever he's not sleeping or working, he's ga...
A. 10 March 2012: We had to set up rules. My fiance is addicted to City of Heroes. He plays from after dinner till bed time...
but he has to take a break for dinner with me and if I ask for a special time, he will normally comply.
can you guys set up a sc... (read in full...)
I want to leave abusive spouse but don't want to end up in a shelter!
Q. Hi agony aunts, I'm in need of some help. I am married with three children and I am living with a physically and emotionally abusive spouse. He has cheated on me in the past several times and he said he would change but he has not. I want to leave ...
A. 9 March 2012: Trust me the short term living in the shelter is the lesser of two evils vs learning that lying cheating and abusing a wife is an acceptable way to live.
C Grant gave you great advice and a link for help.
Trust me when I tell you that the wom... (read in full...)
Am I wrong because on our 1st official date I turned down giving oral sex?
Q. Dear Cupid, So i've been seeing this guy but not for that long. We've hung out briefly and last night he took me out on an official date. After dinner we left and went to a park to check out the view and went back to the car. He kept asking if I...
A. 9 March 2012: He's scummy... asking for sex from you on a first date.
I hope there won't be a second date....
YOU are NOT wrong... if they have to ASK then it 's too early.... (read in full...)
Why does my b/f want a threeseome with 2 girls but won't even consider 2 guys?
Q. hi so i need some good advise ive been with my bf 3 yrs now he watches porn which is not a problem i watch it with him but he likes to watch group sex and said it really turns him on then the other night he asked me if i would have a 3 some with him ...
A. 9 March 2012: I don’t’ think it’s a great idea.. first of all the fantasy is always better than the reality. Secondly if you are not totally wedded to the idea and are doing it just to make him happy that’s the wrong reason to do it…
To be honest many men are ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my boyfriend or give my ex another chance?
Q. Hello, My question isn't a dire circumstance as most questions on this site often are. It is just a confusing situation. About a month ago I was in school in Indiana, I began dating and met a wonderful man (lets call him Dan). He has a job, he ha...
A. 9 March 2012: IF nothing has changed with your ex what makes you think it will work this time???
you know you can END one relationship and not go right away to another.... just be by yourself... figure out what you want....... (read in full...)
I have been paying for everything while he saves his money...should I leave if he doesn't follow through on his promise?
Q. I havent been wed very long but me and my hubby both work, we both earn about the same plus I have outgoings and he doesnt. The problem is is that I pay for everything and and its been this way all the time. before I met him I had savings. I could ...
A. 9 March 2012: I don't understand how he can think it's fair that you pay all the bills.
Personally in my relationships it's always been what's mine is yours and what's your is mine. We have both paychecks go to our joint account and we pay the bills out of t... (read in full...)
Is there any way to make sure you fall in love and stay in love?
Q. My on-again-off-again boyfriend is coming over this weekend. We've been "off" for a little less than two months now. My concern is that every time we get together after a few weeks apart, the passion we have for each other is intense. But then over ...
A. 9 March 2012: The on again off again part concerns me as healthy relationships don’t go on again off again but they do wax an wan in terms of passion levels..
There is no way to guarantee that you fall in love and stay in love but I think the problem for you ... (read in full...)
My g/f has had 35 plus partners and I know 4 of them!
Q. my girlfriend of 10years has had about 35previous partners an i can't stop thinking about it and 4of them i know. i have these feelings of anger alot i still even think theres more an she is lying an theres a chance she cheated with 2 or 3 aswell im ...
A. 9 March 2012: “I find myself drinking a lot more as a result…” please tell me you are not blaming your girlfriend’s behavior before she was your girlfriend on your substance abuse? That my friend is a cop out.
You have been with her ten years and this is ... (read in full...)
What is he really saying when a guy says he's not ready to be in a relationship?
Q. There's this guy and I know for sure he likes me but he says he's not ready to be in a serious relationship because he broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago. He said that I'm really beautiful and he's given a lot of thought about us. What d...
A. 9 March 2012: Like Cindy said… it’s code for I’m not ready for a serious relationship WITH YOU… because next week he might meet someone who DOES resonate with him and he will be ready and then you are confused as to how he could say he’s not ready but then he ... (read in full...)
She's been dating him and me for almost 4 years, now she says she wants me. Is she lying?
Q. I'm so confused right know I've been sorta dating this girl now for almost four years now and I am madly in love with her but she also has a boyfriend of three years. And she was always sleeping around with other guys and then lieing to me about it ...
A. 9 March 2012: Run Forest RUN!
honey she's a cheat and a liar
You don't trust her....
end it now with some dignity and find a decent girl.... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant on the last day of my period?
Q. Hi, I'm sixteen years old. Last month, it was the very last day of my period and there was hardly any blood but I was still spotting and I gave my boyfriend oral sex. He came in my mouth and I swallowed it and continued to suck him off. He pulled ...
A. 9 March 2012: yep there's a chance... there is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy when having unprotected sex...
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Pregnancy Test Came Up Negative Instantly - Too Quickly to Be Accurate?
Q. I just took a pregnancy test for the first time ever...it was the CVS equivalent of the FirstResponse one, the kind that shows a blue stripe in one circle if you are not pregnant and in 2 circles if you are. It says the results can show as early as ...
A. 9 March 2012: I doubt you are pregnant but for peace of mind you could take another test and go see a doctor...... (read in full...)
He dated to me to get to a friend. Now he wants to date me again. Is he just using me to get back at her?
Q. Okay. There is this guy and in around October we started dating for a short while. It turns out he only dated me to get to one of my friends and they have dated in and off the past couple months. I've. Liked him on and off during that time period. ...
A. 9 March 2012: I would not give him another chance...... (read in full...)
What if I gain weight and my bf isn't attracted to me?
Q. I am turning 21 soon and yes I am sexually active with my bf but we do use condoms every single time and I just had my period like a week ago so I know I'm not pregnant. I just want to know why I'm soooo hungry all the time now. It's been like this...
A. 9 March 2012: What has changed in your life lately? Did you change medications? Has anything else changed? 7-9 little meals if they are made up of low fat, high protein low carb foods that are good for you should not be an issue if you only eat till full….
... (read in full...)
I broke up with my fiance because of his mother.
Q. Should I break up with my Fiance because of the way I am treated by his mother? heres a few examples: -When I go to her house she completely ignores me / gives me dirty looks. -she has kicked me out of the house and has no respect for me ...
A. 9 March 2012: You guys are quite young… if your boyfriend is not yet ready to stand up to his mom for you, then I think you really had no choice. The saying is
A daughter’s a daughter all of her life, a man’s just a son till he takes a wife.
His loyalty h... (read in full...)
He's happy to be in an open relationship with me, as I find sex with him to be not very good.
Q. So I am in a relationship with a man who is almost perfect in every way. We have been togeter for about two and a half years now. He treats me well, and takes very good care of me. I thought he was my soul mate, and we have talked about getting ...
A. 9 March 2012: Devil's advocate here:
As a woman who has only once in my life had a partner that could bring me to orgasm (and I’ve left him for someone else) I am going to tell you that if the ONLY problem is that HE can’t bring you to orgasm then you may want... (read in full...)
Should I just kiss him already?
Q. I’ve been hanging out with one of my guy friends a lot for the last couple of months (I’ve known him since November-ish). We get along really well and I enjoy his company very much. Sometimes we do kind of nutty stuff together – we once had a ...
A. 9 March 2012: what the heck why not.... and do let us know how it works out...... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 6 March 2012: Do you think that the fact that he was scum and just wanted to use you reflects ON YOU? It does not. His choice to be a scumbag is NO reflection on you. You said NO you did the right thing.
he’s the one who’s wrong and needs to reflect on his a... (read in full...)
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