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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 19 March 2012: Yay! thanks for the GREAT update...keep on growing!... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: yes but if you want to get back at him remember that living well is the best revenge...
YOU control your own misery.....
be fabulous
be beautiful
be happy
it will so be better then.... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. I'm almost 17 and my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active. I lost my virginity at a young age and I feel like I'm old enough to tell her that I'm not a virgin, however I'm scared because she had me when she was my age. How can I tell her and ...
A. 15 March 2012: Honey if she asked, she’s ready to hear it. Trust me I’m a mom and I lost my virginity at 14 and I was more afraid of my kids having unwanted pregnancies than anything so I was VERY receptive to hearing them come to me as an adult and say “mom I ... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: I think that you are trying to punish yourself (subconsciously) and that’s a hard place to be. I get it. You are angry at yourself for using bad judgment and trusting someone who betrayed you. Now you feel like your judgment is being questioned. ... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: why is the fact that he was your first so important to you that you want to keep him around?
why do you feel that you can't move on from him?... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. I'm almost 17 and my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active. I lost my virginity at a young age and I feel like I'm old enough to tell her that I'm not a virgin, however I'm scared because she had me when she was my age. How can I tell her and ...
A. 14 March 2012: if she told you to tell her when you are ready then tell her... she's open to hearing it.... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: Because at 26-29 you ARE young. The fact that you take it as an insult just proves my point sadly.
Just like we think we are mature at 16, and then at 18 and then at 21... etc.
I DID NOT become a grown up till I was 35..... even though i wa... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting this way?
Q. My boyfriend of two and a half years broke up with me almost three months ago. Sometimes I miss him other times I don't really care. In either case I don't want to lose him and I do want him back. We had a great relationship up until the last little ...
A. 14 March 2012: 1. the relationship with the new girl is not a rebound as he broke up with you... she may be transitional but I don't think she's rebound....
2. he's lying to you about her so you will still have sex with him...
3. he does NOT want to get ... (read in full...)
Not turned on by straight porn when I'm in a relationship and I only seem to be turned on by gay porn! Does anyone else experience this?
Q. Hi im a female and i was wondering is there any other women out there who aren't turned on by straight porn enough to masturbate over it? I like watching it to remind me of sex when I'm single and imagining me and my boyfriend. I used to get turned ...
A. 14 March 2012: Lots of women don't like porn at all...
many women don't use porn to masturbate... I don't. my brain has much better visuals....
What porn turns you on does not define your sexuality.
... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm cheating on my b/f because I'm attracted to another guy
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend that I lost my virginity to for nearly 2 years. We've been rowing a lot lately but we always have rows. Lately I've been put into a paired group project with university and have been really getting along with this ...
A. 14 March 2012: You do know that texting with a man on a personal level while being attracted to him and keeping it a secret from your boyfriend is a fine line of cheating…. It my rule book that would be cheating.
I sense from your post that your relation... (read in full...)
He asked to be my FWB, I turned him down because I want a relationship, then he claims to have feelings for his ex wife but got upset when he saw me kiss another man! What is going on?
Q. Hi everyone this is the situation, I met a man a year ago today, he had split from him wife nearly two year before we met. we agreed to take things slow then he asked me if we could be fwbs to which I told him no I want a proper relationship with ...
A. 14 March 2012: What Aunty Em said. Totally. I am one of those RARE people that my FWB turned into a full fledged relationship… but it is so rare and it happened due to a bizarre set of circumstances…
Most people are possessive… MINE… is a term we use in o... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. I'm almost 17 and my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active. I lost my virginity at a young age and I feel like I'm old enough to tell her that I'm not a virgin, however I'm scared because she had me when she was my age. How can I tell her and ...
A. 14 March 2012: I knew when my stepdaughter lost hers but I didn't tell my mom...although she found out after a bit.
is there a need to tell mom?... (read in full...)
Can 13 year-olds find a lasting relationship, or is this just puppy love?
Q. Ok... know a lot of you will disagree with my view on this but oh well...I'm 13, and I have a boyfriend of 8 months, we really get along and we have almost everything in common, he told me he loved me and I told him I loved him too but then i felt ...
A. 14 March 2012: My grandparents met in the orphanage when they were 10 and 12…. This was the early 1900s… they married over 20 years later and were married 67 years till my grandpa died…. Sure it happens but not often….
Why is it so important to you that it ... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: The OP said: “I think you do have a problem with it old gel, otherwise you wouldn't be getting on at me now would you!”
OP if this attack mode is how you deal with your partner that could be a big part of your problem with him….. Cerberus... (read in full...)
How can I show this girl that everything would work if she would bring our dating out into the open?
Q. Until recently I was dating a girl in secret for 5 years. She didnt want anyone to know because there was a 12 year age gap, and she was convinced everyone would make her end it. She is 27 now. After 5 years I wanted it to be out in the open as w...
A. 14 March 2012: I strongly suggest moving on... she used the "folks would make us end it" ruse to keep you a secret till she was done with you.... AT 27 being out in the open with your partner regardless of his/her age is what adults do.
she's not an adult an... (read in full...)
Is vasectomy really reversible?
Q. hey guys...i hope everyone is doing fine..i want to ask if a vasectomy can really be reversed? Like my bf had one and he doesnt have any kids..im just qurious if we will ever have our own one day if he says he is ready? I googled but im not ...
A. 14 March 2012: every tried to stitch two pieces of overcooked spaghetti together when they are a smidgen too short?
that's about how hard it is to do a vasectomy reversal....
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How do I get over my younger FWB?
Q. I have left my 19 year old FWB and now I miss him more then ever. I have gone in a depression mode. At first it was just all for sex and then i started having feelings for him. I want a relationship with him but he doesnt. I really dont think he ...
A. 14 March 2012: "I miss him more than ever"
What EXACTLY are you missing about him?
do you miss him using you?
do you miss him lying to you?
IF all you miss is his body.. (cause clearly you didn't have his brain) you can replace that easily.
Brea... (read in full...)
My boss is married. He rubs and pats me at work. What are your thoughts? He's older but attractive to me.
Q. I've been working at a local restaurant in my town for almost two months now. It's the first real job I've ever had. I've been recently getting vibes from my boss. Last week, we had a moment. The area behind the counter is very narrow. My co-wo...
A. 14 March 2012: You have a crush! so cute. Sounds like he's just a touchy feely kind of guy...
he's your boss and that I'm sorry is a big huge no-no
he's also married and that's a big no-no
enjoy your crush... it can't and should not go further.
... (read in full...)
Is she just flirting of possibly really interested?
Q. hi i started a job in october and i am 19 this year. a woman who works in the same office as me is about late 20's early 30's I think she's cute but left it at that. she always say "hi love" when i walk past her and we ask each other if eve...
A. 14 March 2012: she may be flirting and it may mean nothing... some people are just flirty and friendly...
IF you are interested (not that i think dating co-workers is a good idea) you could ask her for coffee or something....... (read in full...)
How do men react when they get to know that their partner has been masturbating in secret?
Q. what are men's reaction to their spouse's secret masterbation? im 34 and Ive been living wth my bf almost 11 years ... its been almost four years he lost his sex derive ... we do it almost once a month ... and Im always horney ... we love each oth...
A. 14 March 2012: I do not think he doesn't love you... and I'm sorry he won't go for help...
I really really REALLY like my hand held shower massager... and he will never catch you in the shower...... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 14 March 2012: Exactly what Cindy said.. you are not worth any effort if you are not spreading your legs for him.... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: Well, I don’t agree with JustHelpinAgain or the OP’s last post.
To JHA: I don’t mind my man using porn and I wish we had sex more often than we do. I go after him and he turns me down and yet he still uses porn. I don’t’ get sex when I want... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 13 March 2012: no not weird at all... perfectly normal to have mixed feelings about this.... (read in full...)
How do you turn down a guy in a respectable way?
Q. hello! im not the most attractive person out there, and im aware of this, so please no one take my question as a conceded one.. i get alot of guys approaching me, all of the time, and i dont do anything to initiate it, i dont think.. it seems like ...
A. 13 March 2012: IF it's EVERYONE that you deal with then the only thing that's the same is YOU... so you need to look at what you are doing or saying or wearing or whatever it is that's making them all ask you out and when you says "thanks I'm flattered but I'm ... (read in full...)
When he confessed it wasn't what I thought it would be!
Q. I am 24 and I met this genuinely loving guy at a charity organisation which helps disabled children get into sport. Anyway, we started dating 9 months ago and he has asked me to move in with him. I agreed and am in the process of packing my stuff. ...
A. 13 March 2012: funny when I had to tell my partner I had money we WAITED till AFTER the wedding.... we didn't want him marrying me because of the money....
just continue to refuse any and all gifts
do not take loans or money
buy him gifts
and pay all the b... (read in full...)
Why did he delete me as a friend on Facebook when I got engaged? I want my friend back!
Q. Hi. I have been great friends (with a guy) for 13 year. We almost got together once when I was eighteen, but I decided against it because I didnt want to lose a friend if anything went wrong. He's in the navy but whenever he's back we would get ...
A. 13 March 2012: He wanted more than friends and held out hope you would change your mind.
My ex husband lost most of his friends online (they were all women who he considered friends who thought he was something more)... he was shocked that it happened... ... (read in full...)
Why cant my husband forgive me for lying about fiancial matters? I have been a devoted wife in every other way!
Q. I lied to my husband of 7 years about bills I was paying for my adult/college daugther (her car payment and cell phone)who is 1000 miles away from home,and credit cards I had that I paid for my husband found out and now it has turned into all out ...
A. 13 March 2012: You most certainly DID cheat your husband. YOU LIED TO HIM. And to make it worse you lied to him about something so critical as finances.
While he was wrong to involve his family, you kept things from him. You lied to him and cheated him out ... (read in full...)
Why is my contacting me now after a messy break up?
Q. Hi all, My ex of one year broke up with me just over a year ago. He claimed to have stopped loving me and he treated me like dirt in the weeks leading into and after our breakup. Lately, he has been calling quite frequently (about once or twice a ...
A. 13 March 2012: Why ask why? What is it that everyone seems to want to know WHY someone is doing something they don't want.
Why he does it does not matter... what YOU do about it is what matters...
why would you want to be back with him? He stopped lovin... (read in full...)
Hair extensions, whatever next?!
Q. I met this beautiful girl, she is laid back, funny, interesting, smart just a great girl! She has a great figure and is a natural beauty, unlike some the girls I see she doesn't look like she even has to try to look good. Well one thing about her ...
A. 13 March 2012: She’s not lying… she said it was extensions when the topic came up.. how you view this as lying is beyond me. I guess if she wears a push up or padded bra she is a liar too? What about if she wears heels or control top pantyhose??? Is wearing ... (read in full...)
How do men react when they get to know that their partner has been masturbating in secret?
Q. what are men's reaction to their spouse's secret masterbation? im 34 and Ive been living wth my bf almost 11 years ... its been almost four years he lost his sex derive ... we do it almost once a month ... and Im always horney ... we love each oth...
A. 13 March 2012: FWIW, in my house my guy is happy to have me masturbate.. and i'm happy to have him do it... I often involve him in it.. he will hold me and play with my breasts while I "take care of myself"
you should just invite him to join you and if he says ... (read in full...)
I would like my wife to share my sexual views
Q. I am a 45yr old male and think my my wife is not into sex. When we have sex its like a scheduled event and if I can not preform right, she says its ok maby next time.I am very sexual and like alot of stimulation in all my private parts but she will ...
A. 13 March 2012: Many straight men like anal stimulation it does not make them freaky or gay. The prostate is rich in nerve endings and is best stimulated through the anus….
I’m sorry if your wife can’t deal with these facts… have you talked to her about it... (read in full...)
He will not marry me until I am submissive. What should I do?
Q. After a long four hours discussion with my man yesterday, I found out the reason he is having fear in proposing to me is because he feels I am somewhat of a dictator in a relationship. He feels like I like to be the man in the relationship. And he ...
A. 13 March 2012: I am not allowing him”…. What do you mean you are NOT ALLOWING HIM?? He’s a grown up he makes his own decisions YOU are parenting a grown man with this type of attitude…
YOU cannot be with a person with cheating tendencies… he has them so why a... (read in full...)
Would you go back to an ex who cheated on you with your friends?
Q. This question is for the guys out there. Why would you leave someone who treated you right for an ex who has slept with all of your friends and cheated on you? Is it possible that this cheater will change?...
A. 13 March 2012: I’m not a guy and I’m not a cheater… but I’ll try to respond..
Let’s start with Is it possible that a cheater can change… Yes it’s possible especially if cheating was a one shot deal… if it’s an ongoing pattern of behavior I hold less hope for... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my boyfriend so he can experience the life he wants?
Q. I am 27 and my boyfriend is 22. We've been together a year and a half. Recently we have been arguing because he's starting to feel like he's been missing out on his youth. I've had more partners than him and got to party and enjoy my 20s and he says ...
A. 13 March 2012: Let him go.... he's being honest that he wants to go have fun and not have to think twice about it... he's not ready to make a long term commitment to anyone but himself right now.
Nothing wrong with him.. he just wants something differen... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 13 March 2012: or he's biding his time waiting for you to assume he's gone and in a few weeks... oops a text from him....
just be very careful... (read in full...)
What do I say to my crush?
Q. This sounds pretty pathetic, i mean i'm 27 for goodness sake and can easily talk to others, but i'm genuinely stumped on how to go about this!!! I work for a bookies and recently transferred to a different shop closer to home. Whilst in my old...
A. 12 March 2012: Yay! What GREAT news!... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 12 March 2012: And that, OP is what he is counting on. he is hoping your determination to stay strong and not see him will waiver..... (read in full...)
Do I get over it and move on with my life, or wait for him?
Q. I'm 18, he's 17. We dated for 5 months, then he abruptly ended it. He said he didn't feel like he needed to be dating, and that I could wait until college. That was in November. I was hanging out with my bestfriend, his sister. Me and him started ...
A. 12 March 2012: don't wait for him sweetie... he just does not want more than close friendship and if he was not your BF's brother I would tell you to go NC to get over him.... (read in full...)
I still feel pain after the relationship had ended
Q. i was involved in a serious relationship with a guy for several years. Even though the relationship ended i still feel pain. what should i do?...
A. 12 March 2012: how long ago did the relationship end?
It can take a while for healing to occur.... (read in full...)
How do I convince him that I love him and he should stay in this country with me?
Q. This guy is from Lithuania originally and I met him a couple of years ago when I started working at the same place as him. We have really gotten to know each other but he is so shy, even now! I know he has feelings for me and he cares, but he's been ...
A. 12 March 2012: have you told him how you feel?... (read in full...)
He will not marry me until I am submissive. What should I do?
Q. After a long four hours discussion with my man yesterday, I found out the reason he is having fear in proposing to me is because he feels I am somewhat of a dictator in a relationship. He feels like I like to be the man in the relationship. And he ...
A. 12 March 2012: “he wants me to be…” “however I totally disagree with him”
The above are FUNDAMENTAL differences. HE WANTS something TOTALLY OPPOSITE of who and what you are…
Booking a trip for two of you without consulting with him is NOT about you... (read in full...)
I feel I'm losing him. I love him. But the trust is not good and we are fighting. How can this be fixed?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been good for the most part. We tend to get into arguments once in a while, and just got over a big one about two weeks ago. Thought we were going to be broken up after that one but we are back, although he is having a to...
A. 12 March 2012: Explain to me how you asking to use his phone and him refusing ended up with HIM saying he doesn’t TRUST YOU…. To me him not letting you use his phone reeks of him keeping something from you.
He says he’s not happy. You have had several fights… ... (read in full...)
Is it bad if he doesn't get jealous?
Q. My boyfriend of 10 months never gets jealous, and I don't understand why. I ask him this everynow and then but I try not to get into it because i would rather him be un-jealous like then super crazy jealous. We have a very close relationship so I ...
A. 12 March 2012: jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity it does not come from a place of love.
So many folks think a man must love you to be jealous but in actually, the only person a very jealous man loves is usually himself.
it's a good thing when there... (read in full...)
What is too much when it comes to checking up on your man?
Q. Ladies: do you check up on your man? If so, how much and to what extent? I'm asking because I'm wondering what is "normal" when you are in an exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship like I am. Do you check his cell phone every once in awhile? ...
A. 12 March 2012: I do not check up on my man. I have no need to. I had no need to when we lived 2 hours apart and didn’t see each other for days on end.. I don’t’ have to “check’ his cell phone as it’s available to me anytime I like just like mine is for him.
... (read in full...)
Should I move in with him when I turn 18? or wait?
Q. Hey there, I'm in need of some advice. I'll be 18 in June. Don't let that deceive you I'm a very put together kind of girl. I would say I'm very mature for my age but how many times do you hear teens say that? Anyways, I'm with this guy, shoc...
A. 12 March 2012: You are 18 and he is 20… so his dad fathered him when he was 70…. Where is his mother? She has to be much younger….. why does she not care for this man?
HOW long have you been seeing him? Why would you sleep better knowing he was beside you… ... (read in full...)
My current boyfriend wants me to delete FB pictures of my ex and I! Should I do this or not?
Q. My boyfriend feels uncomfortable seeing videos and just a handful of pics on my Facebook page of my ex boyfriend, it's vids and pictures of him and a few if my friends hanging out and normal pictures of me and him.. He's asked me previous times to ...
A. 12 March 2012: I have to agree he’s not being controlling… He’s asking you to move on from an ex and focus on the present. Is making a point worth losing a relationship???
Put them on a flash drive and label it. Put it in the memory box of stuff you have… in... (read in full...)
Do I make a move yet, or just wait and invite her over as a friend?
Q. I have liked this girl for a long time. We're great friends and I would love to be with her. However, she has always had boyfriends, and when I did ask her out, she sent me a nice email saying that we would never be more than friends (that was ...
A. 12 March 2012: I agree 100% with Blonde68
you don't make a move and you don't wait...
you've liked her a long time and she's made it clear to you that she's not interested in anything other than friend zone with you.... you have to respect that.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be upset about the fact that my girlfriend still keeps photos of her boyfriend who died 12 years ago?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for three years. She kept photos up of her and her deceased boyfriend (posed together) who died 12 years ago. We had none of us. After we had been togehter 2 years, I mentioned that I felt that she was living in ...
A. 12 March 2012: You are wrong. He's not an EX he's deceased.
that is akin to my father's live in girlfriend (that he's been with for 16 years now) asking him to not observe the anniversary of my mother's death (as is our religious custom) because it's living i... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 12 March 2012: IGNORE HIM! Block him. IF YOU tell him to leave you alone he will know it bugs you and he will keep doing it.
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE!... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Cindy is right... IGNORE him totally.... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Ignore him OP, this will stop... you know he can't be just friends... that's just a ruse to make himself feel good about himself..... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Well Done.... and continue to be strong....... (read in full...)
What do I say to my crush?
Q. This sounds pretty pathetic, i mean i'm 27 for goodness sake and can easily talk to others, but i'm genuinely stumped on how to go about this!!! I work for a bookies and recently transferred to a different shop closer to home. Whilst in my old...
A. 8 March 2012: 3 years is a long time when you miss someone you want to be with... but 3 hours is doable 2 times a month easily....
do not cut off your nose to spite your face... leave the options OPEN ....... (read in full...)
What do I say to my crush?
Q. This sounds pretty pathetic, i mean i'm 27 for goodness sake and can easily talk to others, but i'm genuinely stumped on how to go about this!!! I work for a bookies and recently transferred to a different shop closer to home. Whilst in my old...
A. 8 March 2012: how far apart are they?... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 6 March 2012: Do you think that the fact that he was scum and just wanted to use you reflects ON YOU? It does not. His choice to be a scumbag is NO reflection on you. You said NO you did the right thing.
he’s the one who’s wrong and needs to reflect on his a... (read in full...)
What do I say to my crush?
Q. This sounds pretty pathetic, i mean i'm 27 for goodness sake and can easily talk to others, but i'm genuinely stumped on how to go about this!!! I work for a bookies and recently transferred to a different shop closer to home. Whilst in my old...
A. 5 March 2012: start with friending him and saying HI
go from there.... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 29 February 2012: Ah well your update is more telling… so he comes to bed after whacking off alone downstairs and doesn’t want to touch you at all… yep that’s a problem AND there’s a double standard where you are not allowed to look at porn but he is? THAT is ... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 29 February 2012: Unlike most of the women on this site, I don’t think your response is normal or natural.
I am a 52 year old woman and I think that porn is perfectly fine. I have no problem with my partner looking at porn, I have no problem with my partner ... (read in full...)
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