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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I am tired of living with a dog I don't want and a wife I don't trust.
Q. I live in a small 2 bedroom condo with my handicapped wife and our two girls, 8 and 5. We run a business out of our home as well. Needless to say, the place is crowded and life for me is restrictive. For years my wife has asked if she could get...
A. 9 April 2012: Dear OP,
I’d like to quote MYSELF from my original reply on March 15th:
“The poor dog. Your poor kids. AND POOR YOU… I get it. And it’s not about the dog.. it’s about the lack of respect your wife shows you and the lack of trust she has no... (read in full...)
I am tired of living with a dog I don't want and a wife I don't trust.
Q. I live in a small 2 bedroom condo with my handicapped wife and our two girls, 8 and 5. We run a business out of our home as well. Needless to say, the place is crowded and life for me is restrictive. For years my wife has asked if she could get...
A. 8 April 2012: lies of omission are still lies OP. I gave honeypie her deserved high rating for calling you on the way you presented your story to elicit tea and sympathy.
your anger, perceived emasculation and resentment are palpable.
YOU SAID:
", I th... (read in full...)
Genital warts! Deal breaker or not?
Q. I met this girl a little while ago and she told me she had genital warts!!!!! weve been going out for like 2 months mainly getting to know each other and she told me. We havnt done anything sexual yet. Cause we just got out of relationships and ...
A. 20 March 2012: It may be a deal breaker for you but it’s not for me. She was honest with you. And I think you need to give her kudos and tons of respect for that. If she was honest about it and she is being treated for it and knows not to engage in ... (read in full...)
Dumping a guy over pornography use?
Q. Has anyone here ever dumped anyone over pornography use? How bad was it? I want to find a man who doesn't use it so I can feel special for once....
A. 20 March 2012: Why do you think that only a man who does not use porn can make you feel special? I am with a man who uses porn AND also admires young pretty things out on the street (and is vocal and honest about it with me) and YET I feel special with him. I ... (read in full...)
Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?
Q. Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind ...
A. 20 March 2012: So, porn is not ok but masturbating is… that’s great..
and just what is he supposed to think about when he masturbates, the stock market? I do not use porn to masturbate but trust me the visions in my head would make a porn star blush… what’s... (read in full...)
At what age do you think should people think of getting married and having children?
Q. What age do you think is people should start having a family? I have a 25 year old daughter, who is very accomplished, smart, beatifull, full of life....and doesn't want even to think of getting married and have children just yet. She is still s...
A. 20 March 2012: I am 52. I want my GRANDs too… my mom had two grandkids by the time she was MY age. I am resigned to having no real grandchildren. My oldest son is going to be 28 but is emotionally disabled and will never marry or reproduce.. My younger son is ... (read in full...)
I can't believe my wife might may be harboring one of the strains of HPV virus just because she gave a few guys blowjobs before she met me!
Q. My wife is always getting cold sores in her mouth. We've always just used over the counter medicine to control/heal it. Finally, after dealing with this for a few years, I took her to see our doctor. He did a checkup, checked out her cold sores, ...
A. 20 March 2012: I can see the doctor thinking it’s Herpes as they are the same strain as cold sores (and some are sexually transmitted and some are not). Shingles and Chicken pox fall into this realm too. I have never heard of HPV of the mouth only the cervix… ... (read in full...)
How can you treat someone that you plan to take on as a life partner, like this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend 2 years, we just had a fight 3 days ago and he has not communicated by phone, email or text since, and he doesn't answer his phone when I call. I don't know if he's alive or dead. Now I know a lot of people will be ...
A. 20 March 2012: Clearly if your bf has done this before it's how HE deals with it.
IF you don't agree with this way of dealing with it you must discuss it with him and let him know that it's not working for you.
IF you can't compromise on how you deal wit... (read in full...)
We've been married for 10 years but I fantasize about making love with another woman!
Q. Do i love my wife? We're married for five years but no one knows i have a fantasy about making love with another woman! WHat should i do? I don't want to get divorced!...
A. 20 March 2012: It's a FANTASY... and it's PERFECTLY NORMAL in my opinion...
It is a SPECIFIC woman that you know (i.e. do you have a crush on someone)? or is it just a generalized feeling?
OR perhaps it's a porn star (Sunny Leone is quite the cutie) or a... (read in full...)
After 4 years I feel like we've lost the spark
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 year, and we have recently moved in together. I love being with him, and we always get on really well. Sometimes I worry because I feel like we have lost our 'spark' we don't often have sex, and ...
A. 20 March 2012: I think we need to define what “spark” is missing…. Are you still sexually attracted to each other and it’s just that your drives are off? Is it’ a timing issue (for us it’s more about timing than anything)…. And once we moved in together yes the ... (read in full...)
FWB with you ex boyfriend...good idea or bad?
Q. friends with benefits?? good or bad idea with your ex boyfriend?...
A. 20 March 2012: I did it once... it worked out ok for me.. but I was much older and we just kind of fell into it... we had once a week (on thursday) visits... it lasted a while and just kind of faded from life as I found a new boyfriend....
I don't recommen... (read in full...)
Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?
Q. Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind ...
A. 20 March 2012: So OP are you saying that masturbation is ok but not porn?... (read in full...)
Dead beat boyfriend wont get a job!
Q. What should I do about my live-in boyfriend not getting a job? We have been together for nearly 3 years now. He got fired from his job in October for leaving the property, while on the clock of all things. He hasn't had a job for going on 5 ...
A. 20 March 2012: I've always found that men are very tied up in their jobs... if they have no job they have no drive... and it feeds onto itself...
My fiance got laid off the end of January and he's just starting to look for a job.... it's been 8 weeks and it's... (read in full...)
How to get over his porn use?
Q. Does anybody have any tips on how to get over your boyfriend's porn use? I know some women aren't bothered or used to be and aren't now, I want to be one of these women to move on....
A. 19 March 2012: "The strange thing I wouldn't be as bothered if these women were plain, i'm only bothered about the ones I believe are more attractive."
I agree with Chigirl... none of the girls in porn are as attractive as I am to my man.
He see's pretty lit... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 19 March 2012: Yay! thanks for the GREAT update...keep on growing!... (read in full...)
Distance is taking its toll on our relationship
Q. So the distance is slowly getting to my girlfriend during our 7 and a half month relationship together. What should I do...I don't want her to be unhappy or hurt, please help. ...
A. 19 March 2012: we need more info
do you know each other in real life or is this a virtual affair?
how far apart are you?
why are you apart? (school? work? military?)
what is the problem?
i just finished a years LDR and we are together full ti... (read in full...)
Why does he put an xo in some of his messages?
Q. i'm 25 yr old. and i would like to know from guys and girls, what does it mean when a guy (27 yrs) pus an xo at the end his email to me? he started by doing it not me, and not at the end of all them just some. sometimes a x, xo, xx. help i really ...
A. 19 March 2012: Cerberus is totally correct.. it is full of sound and fury signifying NOTHING....
of course it's in his best interest to be affectionate in appearance... and make you feel like he MIGHT want more.. he's just throwing you a bone hon...... (read in full...)
I think he's married but he denied and now has little contact with me!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now! i have asked him from the start if he was married he has repeatedly denied that he was! the other day another woman sent me a pic of him and his so called wife. When i asked he said it was his ex. ...
A. 19 March 2012: IF you don't distrust him then why do the emails and the photos bother you... just block the sender.
I think you don't believe him. I think you don't trust him.
otherwise this would be a non-issue.... (read in full...)
I think he's married but he denied and now has little contact with me!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now! i have asked him from the start if he was married he has repeatedly denied that he was! the other day another woman sent me a pic of him and his so called wife. When i asked he said it was his ex. ...
A. 19 March 2012: Why did you/do you suspect he is married?
usually our guts are right you know....... (read in full...)
He won't give me oral, but I give it to him, am I being unreasonable in wanting it?
Q. Hi everyone. Iam experiencing sexual troubles with my boyfriend. Iam 21, hes 22 and we have been going out for almost a year. We started having sex pretty recently and its pretty decent, except for one thing. I love recieving oral sex more than ...
A. 19 March 2012: Sex is NOT tit for tat.
YOU don't GIVE oral to GET oral.
YOU give oral because you WANT to give oral
YOU receive oral because you want to receive it.
IF you are with a partner who does not like to give oral then you have two options... OPTI... (read in full...)
My four year old's 73 nyear old Daddy ignores her existance.
Q. I have a four year old child by a 73 year old man!we live in the home with him! He refuses to claim her as his child when his family ask him. I have asked him on several occasions to prepare her for the future in case he dies ber=fore e pass away so ...
A. 19 March 2012: You need a DNA test and you need court ordered Child support... if he 's getting SSA she's entitled as his child to those benefits NOW as well.... (read in full...)
We have agreed to not have intercourse, but he keeps on asking me! Should I be more submissive or stand my ground?
Q. It will be a year next month since I have been dating my boyfriend. Things are going quite well between us and his family accepts me well. We have been spending more time together recently which has always been a pleasure. However, he would randomly ...
A. 19 March 2012: I don't know that I totally agree with YouWish.
Personally, if you are doing the 'technical virgin' thing I think it's a tease at your age more than anything.... (read in full...)
How to get over his porn use?
Q. Does anybody have any tips on how to get over your boyfriend's porn use? I know some women aren't bothered or used to be and aren't now, I want to be one of these women to move on....
A. 19 March 2012: Well since I'm one of those women it doesn't bother... I would need to know what it is about his porn use that bothers you before I could advise you how to deal with it.
Personally I think that men that like to use porn should be with women th... (read in full...)
I'm conscious about my weight and worry that my boyfriend will cheat on me!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I have lately been super self conscious about my weight. I have been working out trying to make myself feel better and that part is working. But I have also been super paranoid like my ...
A. 19 March 2012: I worry that I'm too fat for my fiancé. When we met I had lost a lot of weight and I had horrible saggy skin and then I had plastic surgery.... and got down about 15 pounds lighter than I am now... and I thought he was happy. he got much happier ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get a true life long partner when you are gay?
Q. Hi everyone. First, I am a gay. Second I can not find my real love, alhough I have made a lot of effort for searching. I have the feeling that maybe men do not want a serious relationship with a man; maybe just some sex and no responsability. The ...
A. 18 March 2012: Well my brother and his husband are together over a decade and very monogamous. they have many long term monogamous couple friends both gay and straight...
My aunt and her wife are together 20 years...
of course they were not married all ... (read in full...)
I finally broke with him and he already has somebody new.
Q. Hi just need some advice how do you get over the pain and heartbreak of splitting with someone me and my boyfriend were together over a year I really loved him but he treated me terribly he only came around once a week wanting sex he would go to ...
A. 18 March 2012: I strongly agree with Worldlywise... he was no boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
We live 2 hours apart, should I break it off because of the distance?
Q. Hi I have been talking to this guy I met on an online dating site, and I really like him. But I'm concerned about the distance between us. I mean its not that far really, but its far enough to make it difficult to see each other (about 2 hours ) ...
A. 18 March 2012: IF you feel that two hours is insurmountable then you should be nothing more than friends.
I had a 2 hour by car LDR. WE had made IRL a few years before so we actually knew there was a physical and chemical bond as well as a mental bond and it w... (read in full...)
I've got a deadbeat dad!
Q. Okay so I'm gonna make this short and sweet. Has anyone else had an experience with a deadbeat dad and found themselves weirdly attracted to men at least 10 years older? Maybe that's not why I, as a teenage girl find myself attracted to muc...
A. 18 March 2012: I don't actually agree with the whole theory of "daddy complex" if all you have is an attraction that feels sexual... if you want them to parent you, that's a different issue.
I am attracted to men young enough to be my sons (I have two sons now... (read in full...)
Is this masturbation pattern normal?
Q. Well, I'm 17 and i have a problem. I masturbate every night. I constantly think of my gf, especially of the days we have sex. I went on a college tour and i didn't masturbate. I went on a trip and i didn't do it. Only at night when im most ...
A. 18 March 2012: sounds perfectly normal to me.... (read in full...)
I want to have a relationship--but I find women utterly annoying!!
Q. ok here's my problem. i've never really had a successful relationship with a woman. the reason is...the ones I've dated or known closely have gotten to be the most annoying, superficial. dishonest, and gossipy individuals I've ever met. i am ...
A. 15 March 2012: Google the movie "My Fair Lady" Rex Harrison played Henry Higgins in the movie... it was based on the play Pygmalion ... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: yes but if you want to get back at him remember that living well is the best revenge...
YOU control your own misery.....
be fabulous
be beautiful
be happy
it will so be better then.... (read in full...)
Without being engaged, does that mean that the long-term feelings aren't there?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, and one of my friends asked me why I wasn't planning on getting married with him anytime soon. I told her I wasn't ready to get married necessarily anytime soon, but she then asked why I wasn't ...
A. 15 March 2012: Your friend sounds like a jerk to be honest. Why in the world would you be ENGAGED without plans to marry? And since when does the amount of time you are dating someone dictate when you get engaged?
I do not think that an actual proposal or enga... (read in full...)
How do I approach my girlfriend's weight issue?
Q. In the 3 years we have been together my GF has been slowly letting herself go physically to the point where I no longer find her attractive. When we met in college, she was more physically active on a daily basis but now she has an office job wh...
A. 15 March 2012: You can tell her just like ODDS and Person12345 said. The problem is she’s not going to change till she is good and ready no matter what you say and what you want. I used to be 286 pounds and on 5’2” that put my BMI over 45… I was huge…. I tried ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. I'm almost 17 and my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active. I lost my virginity at a young age and I feel like I'm old enough to tell her that I'm not a virgin, however I'm scared because she had me when she was my age. How can I tell her and ...
A. 15 March 2012: Honey if she asked, she’s ready to hear it. Trust me I’m a mom and I lost my virginity at 14 and I was more afraid of my kids having unwanted pregnancies than anything so I was VERY receptive to hearing them come to me as an adult and say “mom I ... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: I think that you are trying to punish yourself (subconsciously) and that’s a hard place to be. I get it. You are angry at yourself for using bad judgment and trusting someone who betrayed you. Now you feel like your judgment is being questioned. ... (read in full...)
I am tired of living with a dog I don't want and a wife I don't trust.
Q. I live in a small 2 bedroom condo with my handicapped wife and our two girls, 8 and 5. We run a business out of our home as well. Needless to say, the place is crowded and life for me is restrictive. For years my wife has asked if she could get...
A. 15 March 2012: The poor dog. Your poor kids. AND POOR YOU… I get it. And it’s not about the dog.. it’s about the lack of respect your wife shows you and the lack of trust she has now created. The dog is a symptom not the problem.
That being said I want to ... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 15 March 2012: why is the fact that he was your first so important to you that you want to keep him around?
why do you feel that you can't move on from him?... (read in full...)
Do natural contraception monitors work?
Q. Hi This isnt a relationship question as such... more of a sex and practical question. I do not get on well with hormonal contraceptives. They do horrid things to me, and I stopped taking them. My boyfriend uses condoms, but it would be nice to...
A. 15 March 2012: I used a combo of barrier method (diaphragm) and Natural Family Planning (taught by the catholic church)
it involves taking your temperature and checking your cervix and mucus every day and charting it but it worked great and I knew to the day ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. I'm almost 17 and my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active. I lost my virginity at a young age and I feel like I'm old enough to tell her that I'm not a virgin, however I'm scared because she had me when she was my age. How can I tell her and ...
A. 14 March 2012: if she told you to tell her when you are ready then tell her... she's open to hearing it.... (read in full...)
Scared of sex...does it hurt?
Q. help!! my boyfriend wanted me to have sex with him but i am scared to!!! does it hurt??...
A. 14 March 2012: "my boyfriend wants"
that's nice.
what do YOU want?
if you are that scared then you are NOT ready.
so tell me are you really 18 or older???... (read in full...)
Married women: what could your hubby do to rekindle the fire of your attraction and affection?
Q. A question for the married women: what could your husband do to spark a fire of romance, excitement, strong feelings of love or attachment? I feel like my wife is drifting away. What things can I do to rekindle her interest, return that warm glow ...
A. 14 March 2012: Clean up without being asked and do things that he doesn’t normally do….
Bring me flowers without any reason…
Tell me I look nice when I do…
Ask me to wear a certain outfit you really like when you take me out…
Hold my car door
Call me du... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: Because at 26-29 you ARE young. The fact that you take it as an insult just proves my point sadly.
Just like we think we are mature at 16, and then at 18 and then at 21... etc.
I DID NOT become a grown up till I was 35..... even though i wa... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting this way?
Q. My boyfriend of two and a half years broke up with me almost three months ago. Sometimes I miss him other times I don't really care. In either case I don't want to lose him and I do want him back. We had a great relationship up until the last little ...
A. 14 March 2012: 1. the relationship with the new girl is not a rebound as he broke up with you... she may be transitional but I don't think she's rebound....
2. he's lying to you about her so you will still have sex with him...
3. he does NOT want to get ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mother I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. I'm almost 17 and my mom doesn't know that I'm sexually active. I lost my virginity at a young age and I feel like I'm old enough to tell her that I'm not a virgin, however I'm scared because she had me when she was my age. How can I tell her and ...
A. 14 March 2012: I knew when my stepdaughter lost hers but I didn't tell my mom...although she found out after a bit.
is there a need to tell mom?... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: The OP said: “I think you do have a problem with it old gel, otherwise you wouldn't be getting on at me now would you!”
OP if this attack mode is how you deal with your partner that could be a big part of your problem with him….. Cerberus... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 14 March 2012: Exactly what Cindy said.. you are not worth any effort if you are not spreading your legs for him.... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: Well, I don’t agree with JustHelpinAgain or the OP’s last post.
To JHA: I don’t mind my man using porn and I wish we had sex more often than we do. I go after him and he turns me down and yet he still uses porn. I don’t’ get sex when I want... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 13 March 2012: no not weird at all... perfectly normal to have mixed feelings about this.... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 13 March 2012: or he's biding his time waiting for you to assume he's gone and in a few weeks... oops a text from him....
just be very careful... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 12 March 2012: And that, OP is what he is counting on. he is hoping your determination to stay strong and not see him will waiver..... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 12 March 2012: IGNORE HIM! Block him. IF YOU tell him to leave you alone he will know it bugs you and he will keep doing it.
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE!... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Cindy is right... IGNORE him totally.... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Ignore him OP, this will stop... you know he can't be just friends... that's just a ruse to make himself feel good about himself..... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 11 March 2012: Well Done.... and continue to be strong....... (read in full...)
Why has he stopped talking to me since I got a boyfriend?
Q. A guy friend, at least i thought he was, has basically made an idiot out of me. I used to think he liked me and we fooled around for a while but then he got back with some ex girlfriend without telling me. He just stopped taking my calls and ignored ...
A. 6 March 2012: Do you think that the fact that he was scum and just wanted to use you reflects ON YOU? It does not. His choice to be a scumbag is NO reflection on you. You said NO you did the right thing.
he’s the one who’s wrong and needs to reflect on his a... (read in full...)
Men - if you have a really attractive girlfriend, do you still use porn? Do you feel guilty for using it?
Q. Hi are there any men who have really attractive girlfriends as in lots of other people find them attract aswell and they are amazing in bed that still use porn? If so why don't you feel guilty for getting off on others? Also women who don't mind ...
A. 3 March 2012: I think that for 52 I'm pretty hot. I'm a goddess on my knees if you ask my fiance. He's younger than I am by a good chunk (13 years) and he loves porn and I'm ok with it.
I rarely turn him down for sex (well I do when he wakes me at 3 am and i... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 29 February 2012: Ah well your update is more telling… so he comes to bed after whacking off alone downstairs and doesn’t want to touch you at all… yep that’s a problem AND there’s a double standard where you are not allowed to look at porn but he is? THAT is ... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 29 February 2012: Unlike most of the women on this site, I don’t think your response is normal or natural.
I am a 52 year old woman and I think that porn is perfectly fine. I have no problem with my partner looking at porn, I have no problem with my partner ... (read in full...)
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