Like what
she writes?
... Add *o_Very_Confused to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *o_Very_Confused a private message | | *o_Very_Confused's Ratings | |
| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
Do as I say not as I do |
|
| Latest articles: How to get many answers to your question.
This question has 7 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
25 November 2012: So many times folks submit good questions but, get few answers. It's very frustrating to have an important topic you need advice on and not be able to get it. While talking with friends is easy to get to what you need, asking in written form can...
Am I Co-Dependent?
No replies yet... 24 October 2012: So often folks will ask "am I co-dependent" or will label someone "co-dependent" There was a period of time that it was the "popular" diagnosis of mental health disorders. I often wondered if I myself was co-dependent. I read many books ...
Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
This question has 2 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
6 December 2011: Being in a relationship where you have regular face to face contact is difficult enough. Being in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) is more difficult. Local Relationships (LRs) require a few things; Honesty, Trust, Commitment, and ...
How you can tell someone loves you
This question has 3 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
23 November 2011: So many times we see folks here saying "I know he loves me he tells me he does all the time" “But” I want to scream, “but how does he SHOW you he loves you” because I learned that WORDS without ACTIONS are meaningless. A partner that says “I lo...
Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?
This question has 24 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
|
She has started wearing revealing clothing when she goes out without me, am I being controlling by asking her not to do this?
Q. Women, is it OK for your man to try to control what you wear? My wife sometimes wears very revealing clothing when we go out. I like it. I can see people stare. i dont mind that so much because in those instances she is clearly taken. Late...
A. 4 April 2012: Tennisstar88 said cleavage and foot...
oy is TOE cleavage allowed? I personally think toe cleavage is sexy.... if a guy had a foot fetish would his wife/gf not be allowed to wear shoes with toe cleavage???
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't respect girlfriends wishes
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. We've had alot of ups and downs. Here recently I told him I wanted to try to connect better on an emotional level rather than physical. (no sex). He still tries to get me to give in, but ...
A. 4 April 2012: So if all you do is have sex and do nothing else then you are a FWB…. Is that what you are saying?
I was LDR with my man for a year... in the beginning, yeah we stayed in and had sex all the time... but we also went out to dinner and after a ... (read in full...)
She has started wearing revealing clothing when she goes out without me, am I being controlling by asking her not to do this?
Q. Women, is it OK for your man to try to control what you wear? My wife sometimes wears very revealing clothing when we go out. I like it. I can see people stare. i dont mind that so much because in those instances she is clearly taken. Late...
A. 3 April 2012: OP I was reading your reply while talking to my fiancé. I asked him if he felt that men have less respect for HIM if I dress sexy (the way he likes me… short skirts, high heels and cleavage).. and he smirked and said “NO” and added “tell the man ... (read in full...)
Do men like when their girlfriend calls and texts them first?
Q. My questions is, do men like when their girlfriend calls and texts frequently? I usually wait for my boyfriend to send me the first text of the day, and I usually don't call- I let him call me because I don't want to seem overly clingy or like I'm ...
A. 3 April 2012: when my fiance and I lived apart (an LDR) I needed way more contact than he did (at least at first) and I felt rather insecure...
eventually we talked about the fact that I needed more contact from him... and we set up the plan:
I calle... (read in full...)
Should I send them my number?
Q. Okay. Let me start by saying i got this two friends ive made on the internet social network. We have been sharing texts for a year and 3 months now. One of them is male and the other one is a female. We are both from different countries. Today they ...
A. 3 April 2012: if your gut says don't trust them then don't trust them.... (read in full...)
Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!
Q. ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Ve...
A. 3 April 2012: Quoting KC_100 because it's CRITICAL to this whole thread:
"At the end of the day you know that going back to a guy's room equals sex. You didnt want to 'chat' - you knew this guy was into you and you were flattered by the attention, and when... (read in full...)
Four years of talking online but I still don't know his real name, or phone number
Q. Hi Users, Where do I begin?. I'll just write what comes I suppose. For four years I have been talking to a man online. We talk every day at least 3 to 4 times and sometimes more. We log onto MSN in the mornings, during breaks at work, after wor...
A. 3 April 2012: OMG you are in love with someone who you don’t know their name or their age or anything else about him.
What would you say to your friend who said “I know this guy and I’m in love with him”
“I’ve known him for four years”
She says: “what’s h... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't respect girlfriends wishes
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. We've had alot of ups and downs. Here recently I told him I wanted to try to connect better on an emotional level rather than physical. (no sex). He still tries to get me to give in, but ...
A. 3 April 2012: Well if you could explain to me why an adult single woman in a relationship thinks that withholding sex from her partner is a good idea, I could help you explain it to him.
MEN need sex to connect emotionally to women. Women need emotions to conn... (read in full...)
My wife has finally had enough of me, but I have finally come to my senses! Is it possible to win her trust and love back?
Q. My wonderful wife is ready for a divorce after many year of neglect. I have cheated multiple time and it has nearly killed her emotionally, I cant imagine why she has stuck with me this long but, its coming to an end. She is ready for a divorce. ...
A. 3 April 2012: I doubt you can fix this. It's not like it was a one shot deal.
she has put up with your emotional abuse (lying, cheating and neglect are forms of abuse) for years.
Now she loves herself enough to not take it any more.
Wish her well. Do ... (read in full...)
He leaves me to sleep alone, our sex life has died...all because he is up all night chatting to other women!
Q. Please help! I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.8 years. The time has gone really quickly because as they say, time flies when you are having fun! Sometime into our relationship, I realised one night he was missing from bed. He has a ...
A. 3 April 2012: My finace is a gamer (COH) but his computer is in our living room and he's open and honest about it. I encourage him to game as it is a great stress reliever for him... and yes he comes to bed much later than I do. But he wakes me for cuddles and ... (read in full...)
Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!
Q. ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Ve...
A. 3 April 2012: If you are going to lie to him (which is reprehensible in my opinion and NOT a good way to start a marriage)
I strongly suggest a full medical work up for any and all STDs... I'm betting you slept with him since you "think" you used a condom. ... (read in full...)
Just a friend of the family? Or is she genuinely interested in me?
Q. I've known this girl for about 6 years. She's 25, I'm 23. In the past we've exchanged movies, chat about our lives, etc. but only once in a while. Just the other day, I asked her if she was going to a nearby college town to watch a game. At first...
A. 3 April 2012: You are overthinking this.
the worst thing that could happens is she says no.
don't treat her like a special thing...
ask her to go for coffee or dinner or stuff
just start spending time with her and see what happens.
... (read in full...)
We have been having this affair for so long, but I'm not sure how he feels about me....
Q. Hi, I need to have an opinion from you aunts about this married man i am seeing. Please i don't want any You shouldn't be doing this comments.i have been in this relationship with him for longer than i care to remember we are both mature age and i'm ...
A. 3 April 2012: IF he loved you he would have left his wife for you.
... (read in full...)
Stuck in a quandary between my wife and my married mistress
Q. I know that I am going to be judged for posting this, but that's okay. I need guidance. I am almost 39. My wife is going to be 42 this year and is already in menopause. We have no children, mostly because my wife is just not a sexual being....
A. 3 April 2012: Personally I think you owe it to your wife to sit her down and tell you you find her beneath you.
You say you love her but you don’t. All you do is justify why she’s not as good as you and why you should leave her. If you loved her you would no... (read in full...)
Boyfriend suddenly working late. Is he cheating?
Q. Hello, im slightly worried dont know if im paranoid but, but my gut feeling is telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me, and your gut instinct is always right, right? My boyfriend works at a m.o.t place not far from where i live. He normally...
A. 3 April 2012: He said it was “just because he was jealous about my ex and wanted to see what I would do”
Well that’s a lovely reason to break trust.
If you don’t trust him you have no relationship.
... (read in full...)
Not making a "quota" system. How much sex per week?
Q. I'm tired of asking the wife and keep getting turned down for sex. We have sex 1-2 per month, I get a BJ approx. 2 times per month. Again, i am not keeping score. I know EVERYONE is different. But, is that something to complain about?...
A. 3 April 2012: Um… at 41-50 having sexual activity 2-4 times per month is pretty NORMAL.
Are you ASKING “the wife”… “hey baby let’s xxxxx” cause honey that’s not going to cut it for most women…. I see Tisha already addressed that comment. I always f... (read in full...)
I know I'm overweight but my boyfriend still loves me, so why cant I get this into my head?
Q. I cant get over my weight issue!!! I am plain and simply over-weight! I dread to think how much I weigh but Im a UK size 22/24. (I have a medical condition which currently prevents me from losing weight and my bf knows about it) My boyfri...
A. 3 April 2012: He probably does love your body.... many men prefer chubby women.... I know a lot of them.
My fiance was very happy when I added 15 pounds... and I've noticed that while he finds skinny hot young things attractive... he comes home to me every ni... (read in full...)
Men: what do you prefer? Boobs? or butts?
Q. Hi guys as a matter of opinion what do you prefer in women: boobs or a nice firm ass? I have to admit I am an ass man but what do you prefer?...
A. 2 April 2012: my fiance has a great ass..... but since he's gained a bit of weight he's getting some moobs... i'm not so crazy about those....... (read in full...)
B/f got angry at me because a guy at the club was touching me
Q. ok need some advise please ppl i went out clubbing the other night with my bf we had not spoke most of the night tbh we were out with friends he was with the boys an i was with the girls me and 1 of the girls went out for a fag and some bloke st...
A. 2 April 2012: I'm sorry but my first reaction to your statement about a man feeling your bum is to wonder why didn't you DECK HIM?
If a man came up to me and put his hands on my bum or my boobs or any other part of me other than my arm to stop me from walking ... (read in full...)
Going out as friend when he's in a relationship?
Q. Okay, the last 4/5 weekends I've been hanging out with the guys and become quite friendly with one of them, he has a girlfriend. He has asked if I would like to go out for a meal with him and a couple of drinks. Its not a date but what I want ...
A. 2 April 2012: I agree... see in my book cheating is anything ANYTHING you can't won't or don't tell your partner.
is he telling his GF he's having dinner with you?
if no... why not?
if no then I would NOT have dinner with him without her knowledge..... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to spank your kids?
Q. My mother thinks im cruel because i spank my two year old. I am not ashamed that i do. I only spank him on the rump when hes doing something he knows he shouldnt do. For instance getting into the trash, taking silverware out of the dishwasher, ...
A. 2 April 2012: Let me ask you a question....
when he spanks the dog or cat for doing something wrong will you spank him for hitting the dog? how will you explain to him why it's ok for you to spank him but not for him to spank others?
not saying that... (read in full...)
Did I have sex with him too soon?
Q. Sex too soon? I am a 30 year old woman who has been single for 2.5 years. I've never really been the type of girl who always had boyfriends (I've spend 6 yrs out of the last 9.5yrs single), though it's not through lack of trying. I'm at...
A. 2 April 2012: Since he contacted you after the sex date I agree with Cerberus... just calm down... relax and let it unfold.... (read in full...)
Is he more than a sex buddy?
Q. My sex buddy and I consider ourselves a but more than that we hold hamds , and after sec once I tried to leave and he pulled me onto his bed. He likes to wake up to me , we open up when we hangout with friends it's no surprise when we kiss. He saw ...
A. 2 April 2012: If you can't be official then you are nothing more than a sex buddy.
Why is your brother so darn important that you and this guy can't be open about it?... (read in full...)
I need to get past this shock!
Q. I've been in a serious relationship for 16 months now and everything has been perfect. We never argue, enjoy each others company. Have lived together since August and continually talk about our future together. This morning however, he popped out to ...
A. 2 April 2012:
Well I for one believe him… I don’t recall all the pics on my phone or my computer.
You worry that he’s using them to masturbate… well hon, he’s a shock for you… he was there when all those pictures were taken and he has those images in hi... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I need time to myself without hurting him?
Q. Ok so before I get into my dilemma, Let me just start off by saying I know what I did was dumb, and wrong, but now I need help... So only those with actual advice answer. Please no judgments... I am currently separated (3mos) from my husband. When...
A. 2 April 2012: Sadly there is nothing magic about it.
"bob I really really like you, more than like, but I'm freshly out of a relationship right now and I need more time alone for just me to focus on becoming the best person I can be. I'm not saying we ca... (read in full...)
I really do love her but I don't want to waste more time on a relationship with a girl with no goals or plans in life
Q. Hi ive beem dateing my girlfriend for a little over a year now. I love her with all my heart but i dont know if i see us going anywhere in the future. The problem is that shes not trying to get a job or anything and it seems like she has no ...
A. 2 April 2012: You are 18-21. How old is she… “upgrade her English to a college prep level” tells me perhaps she’s younger than you? Or not well educated? What does she do with her day?
IF you feel she’s just coasting and that’s not enough for you then yes... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm not independent enough!
Q. My boyfriend recently told me that he thinks I am not independent enough. I believe he feels this way because I always make it clear how much I enjoy spending time with him. He also feels guilty when he goes out without me - although I enjoy...
A. 2 April 2012: It does not sound like you are dependent on him at all.
You need way more information from him. Ask for examples of how you are dependent on him.
Perhaps he is projecting how he feels about you?
hmmm... this has me very curious.... (read in full...)
Between porn and his fantasies it seems clear I don't do it for him
Q. Hi I have a problem that is eating me up. I have been with my partner for over 7 years. He has used porn since the start whcih is something I had never even seen. Anyway I went along with it to please him!!!! pretended I liked it whcih I know was ...
A. 2 April 2012: I am fine with porn and with my man watching porn. IF my partner said to me “you only make me reasonably happy” I would tell him that he needed to be gone. That I’m not good enough for him so we are done.
If you threw his porn out, he ... (read in full...)
She has started wearing revealing clothing when she goes out without me, am I being controlling by asking her not to do this?
Q. Women, is it OK for your man to try to control what you wear? My wife sometimes wears very revealing clothing when we go out. I like it. I can see people stare. i dont mind that so much because in those instances she is clearly taken. Late...
A. 2 April 2012: It is NOT ok for my man to control how I dress EXCEPT for DATE night in our home. If you like how she dresses revealing when she is with you then you can’t expect her to dress differently when she goes out on her own especially if she dresses that ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to say to a child "I will break your legs"?
Q. Do you think its right that a mother would say to her own child "I will break your legs"?. My mom said this to my little brother who is nearly twenty but still lives at home. Apparently someone approached her and said he was with her daughter buying ...
A. 2 April 2012: Oh dear… hon I used to tell my kids “behave or I’ll give you a “zetz en kup” (Yiddish for a hit in the head)
I guess she doesn’t know what else to say to him. It’s frustrating if your kid is doing something that you don’t want them to do that ... (read in full...)
A harmless crush? Or am I right to be upset by my wife's behaviour?
Q. OK. My spouse basically admitted that she has/or had a crush on one of our male friends. She says that I should be fine with it because she would never cheat on me. I told her that I find her affection for the guy, the way she looks at him, hangs ...
A. 2 April 2012: I’m a huge flirt. If it hurt my partner I would stop flirting with that person.
She’s got it totally backwards btw that you would be the cause of the end of the friendship… it’s HER behavior that is throwing away the friendship. It’s her emot... (read in full...)
Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!
Q. ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Ve...
A. 2 April 2012: Imagine him posting here in 5 years:
"I just found out my wife lied to me and our entire marriage is a sham... she had sex with some random stranger at her bachelorette party in Vegas before we married. I feel so betrayed... I can never trust he... (read in full...)
Should I become a bad girl to get his attention?
Q. Hi i am 16 years old and have never had a boyfriend. I really like this guy but I know he doesn't like me in return and even if he does I don't have the confidence to ask him out. The thing is I am just too nice: i have good manners, i am polite and ...
A. 2 April 2012: NEVER be anything other than yourself…. DO NOT compromise your beliefs or morals or ethics to get a boy because then he is not really a person that will mesh well with the way you will want to live your life…
Trust me when I tell you that bei... (read in full...)
How many times should a couple talk per day?
Q. ok weird question ,,, how many times should a couple talk per day ,,, if they've been dating for like 6 years ?,,,, the reason i'm asking is because i don't see my boyfriend quite often because of the different scheduale and we talk like once daily ...
A. 2 April 2012: If you are dating 6 years and only see each other every week or every two weeks.. how much of a relationship do you really have?
When my partner and I were Long distance we spoke at least twice a day and emailed often more…. And spent every we... (read in full...)
Should I leave my long distance relationship?
Q. Me and my partner were set up by my sister and his best friend. We hit it off straight away. He lives 2 and a half hours away from me and we just chatted for hours everyday online then met a week later. We got along really well and wanted the same ...
A. 2 April 2012: It’s been two months… don’t rush it… you are both young… if you like him and he likes you and you get along and see each other most weekends… just do it and enjoy…..
Which one of you is going to move to be with each other? Or will you split th... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a guy who's half my age
Q. Hi. I'm a 54 yr old woman, who honestly looks about 35. I'm very blessed. I work out, and have always taken good care of myself. I place a personal ad, and hesistantly, responded to a 27 yr old. He and I have lots in common. We are both college ...
A. 2 April 2012: As an older woman with a younger man (although not as wide a gap as yours) I could give a flying fig what others do. And you need to feel that way too.
I am 52 and look every inch of it… I move like I’m 70 due to severe arthritis. My partner ... (read in full...)
Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?
Q. Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...
A. 30 March 2012: Maybe I’ve never had a man refuse to give up his porn because I’ve never felt the need to ask. Maybe I never felt the need to ask because I knew my dad kept Penthouse in his night table and found the gift of “the Joy of Sex” that my mom gave him ... (read in full...)
I cant orgasm when being fingered, is this normal? question to lesbians or girlies!
Q. This is a question for the girlies! More so lesbian girls/women...........when me and my ex girlfriend where having sex I never seemed to be able to orgasm when she fingered me. Is this like this for other women too? And how can I overcome this as I ...
A. 30 March 2012: the only way I can orgasm is through direct clitoral stimulation... fingering while feeling good will NOT bring me to orgasm.
... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy wants YOU to tie HIM up?
Q. My boyfriend is into restraints, or whatever it's called, where your hands are tied to the bedpost, and sometimes feet are tied to the.... bottom of the bed? wtf is it called? But anyways, he said once that he wants me to tie him up... What do...
A. 30 March 2012: it's called BONDAGE...
it means he wants you to tie him up and "have your way with him"...
it can be either way... many men who are powerful outside of the home tend to be submissive in the bedroom...
sometimes you have what's cal... (read in full...)
I don't like being a laughing stock!
Q. Dear cupid I am a petite person. yesterday my bf (of 2 years) told me one of our common friends was teasing abt me that how my how short i look when i drive, how tiny my arms feet look and how i look like an egg plant.... I asked him how he ...
A. 30 March 2012: other than saying you look like an eggplant, which is insulting I can't see why you are so upset.
are you under 5 feet? do you need blocks to drive? I am just short of needing blocks on the pedals to drive and I'm 5'2"... I'm teeny tiny... ... (read in full...)
How do I get people to be jealous that my boyfriend really likes me?
Q. short sweet and to the point : my boyfriend is extremely liked by many black females . he's mixed but looks black . i'm white . he's really good abt always holding my hand EVERYWHERE we go and good at looking me in my and communication . but ...
A. 30 March 2012: Why in the world do you want others to be jealous that he likes you?
Do you understand that jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity… that folks that are jealous of you are insecure about THEIR relationship with your boyfriend…
... (read in full...)
My doctor acts weird around me, why is this?
Q. Ok, I have a physician (gyneocologist) that is overseeing my pregnancy. I have been a patient of his for about 7 years. He is about 56 yrs old. Well here is the issue, he seems so nervous around me. I watch him interact with other patients and ...
A. 30 March 2012: IF you are not comfortable then switch doctors... there is nothing like not feeling comfortable with your doctor...... (read in full...)
After 8 months together boyfriend has never made me cum
Q. I feel really bad writing this but I need some advice :( me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and he has never made me come once :/ i know that sounds horrible and selfish but he doesnt even try. He asks for sex and if i want it too...
A. 30 March 2012: I left a husband after we had two babies together... of course you can leave...... (read in full...)
What are the chances of my ex falling in love with me again and us getting back together?
Q. I'm still in love with my exboyfriend. He sayes he loves me and cares for me, but not in love with me any more. We still talk from time to time and have an occasional drink every now and then. What are the chances of him falling in love with me ...
A. 30 March 2012: There is a difference in loving and being in love... if that's how you phrase it... I understand what you are saying that there is no difference but I also understand what he's saying...
I can tell you that CaringGuy is right you are wasting ... (read in full...)
Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection when they have a girlfriend?
Q. Can somebody help me? Why are men so reluctant to get rid of their porn collection even when they say their girlfriend is enough and is beautiful? Everybody says something like everyone has fantasies what does that mean? They are looking at the ...
A. 30 March 2012: Why are women so insistent that men get rid of their collection of porn when they partner up?
... (read in full...)
After 8 months together boyfriend has never made me cum
Q. I feel really bad writing this but I need some advice :( me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and he has never made me come once :/ i know that sounds horrible and selfish but he doesnt even try. He asks for sex and if i want it too...
A. 28 March 2012: ah you my dear are his "handy penis holder"
I feel your pain.. .my partner is not a great one in bed BUT he makes up for it on many levels. he will gladly touch me "down there"... he loves to hug me kiss me, grab me... fondle me... he TRIES so... (read in full...)
| *o_Very_Confused's friends
These are mutual friends, so *o_Very_Confused has
added them and they have added *o_Very_Confused!
|
