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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I don't know if I can handle another break-up, should I stay or let him go?
Q. I need some help. So my "bf" and i were engaged but broke up because i sexted another man. I have appologized. I knew it was wrong. He just made me feel wanted because at the time my bf was not treating me all that well. Ive since gone to ...
A. 10 April 2012: I love cakes pies and candy… they are really really BAD for me… so I can’t have them.
You don’t cook for him
You don’t clean for him
You don’t have sex with him
YOU DON”T LIVE WITH HIM. Are there friends or family members you can live wit... (read in full...)
My husband keeps 'liking' a pretty ex-coworker's pictures and statuses on Facebook, should I be worried?
Q. My husband is fasebook friends with an ex-coworker, a long time ago he told me he thought she was pretty. I've noticed lately he keeps liking her status and My husband is fasebook friends with an ex-coworker, he told me he thought she was pretty. ...
A. 10 April 2012: I doubt it means much..
I like things all the time on facebook including my ex husband's picture of the ring he bought his fiance...
big deal
have you ASKED him what he means by it?... (read in full...)
Is it best just to stay away from my abusive mother?
Q. I am just writing this for some advice regarding my 68 yr old mother. I am a 46 mother of two and grandmother of one. -ever since i can remember my mother has always put me down - and is constantly nasty. If i ever question her ways she just replies ...
A. 10 April 2012: It's perfectly fine as adults to avoid toxic people even if we are blood related to them.
your grown children have the same right....
if she is toxic and mean and nasty, she does not deserve to be treated with love honor and respect.
Make... (read in full...)
I lied to her and told her I am still a virgin
Q. Before I officially went out with my girlfriend, I was a virgin. However, during the time I was getting to know her (we weren't going out yet), I had sex with two other girls. A few weeks after we actually decided to make it official that we...
A. 10 April 2012: Trust me on this one OP,
you must be brutally honest and trustworthy TO A FAULT NOW.
eventually trust can be rebuilt but it's very very VERY fragile and easily broken again...
it will take MONTHS to rebuild this so be patient.
goo... (read in full...)
He was supposed to be back over a week ago and I still havent heard from him! What should I do?
Q. I have been friend with this man via dating online for over a year. We’ve met at last and like each other a lot. We grew closer and closer day by day. We text each other daily even though only 2 or 3 words – just to say hi and sometimes more ...
A. 10 April 2012: glad to hear I was wrong!... (read in full...)
B/f doesn't know that I can get into his facebook and see him flirting with his ex
Q. hello i really need some help please. so im dating my boyfriend for ten months now. we're both eighteen. well one of his ex's added him on facebook a few months ago. well now he goes on everyday and talks to her. he lies to me saying he's talking to ...
A. 10 April 2012: Not much trust in this relationship is there?
You are spying
He is lying
If you don’t trust him why are you with him?
Either leave him
Or trust him.
... (read in full...)
People think I am dating my bi-sexual best friend but its not true, yes we are both single but not together! How do we stop this so it doesn't give the impression we are unavailable?
Q. Most people think I'm dating my bisexual best friend. It's not the case. It's true that we're very close and for instance, when we go out we hold hands or hug a lot, but that's how are friendship has grown. I don't want to change the way I act ...
A. 10 April 2012: stop looking like a GF when you are with him....
... (read in full...)
What does prolonged eye contact mean?
Q. Prolonged eye contact? What does the prolonged eye contact means? When and why do you guys use it? Sometimes when a gal catches a guy constantly staring at her, she's trying to decode what is he trying to tell. Does he flirt? Does he like her?...
A. 10 April 2012: its when your eyes meet and you don't look away the second you know they are looking at you...
women do it too hon not just men..
it means the person is interested in you (or trying to intimidate you)
... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can handle another break-up, should I stay or let him go?
Q. I need some help. So my "bf" and i were engaged but broke up because i sexted another man. I have appologized. I knew it was wrong. He just made me feel wanted because at the time my bf was not treating me all that well. Ive since gone to ...
A. 10 April 2012: Ah he has his cake and is eating it too...
I'd leave.
then he can decide really quickly if he can learn to trust you again.
right now why should he... he's got the milk and the cow and the cake... YUMMY...
sex and a caretaker and no ne... (read in full...)
Should I stay with mummy's boy?
Q. Hi guys, I'm really struggling with this situation and could do with some advice. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 26. I love him dearly, but it seems he is a lot more concerned with worrying about and fussing over his mum than he is with building a ...
A. 10 April 2012: A year is not going to change him.
He will always clearly be overly attached to his family.
As parents we have to give our children two things.
roots (clearly he has those)
and
WINGS... his mommy has clipped his and he's not fight... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore
Q. ive been with this guy for a little over 18 months and im not sure how i feel anymore. most of the time i feel like the boyfriend he never ends up having any time and has never even bought me flowers. But i honestly love him i just dont know if im ...
A. 10 April 2012: what's the difference OP between love and IN LOVE?
tell me all the things that are wrong...
he has no time for you? when? every day? weekends?
he has never brought you flowers... did he get you a holiday gift? a birthday gi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not have sex because I have a teenager in the house
Q. hi my bf of 2 years, Steve, finds it difficult to relax and be intimate with me because my teenage son lives at home and rarely goes out. This got worse last year and our sex life decreased so much so that we havent had sex for six months now. I...
A. 10 April 2012: He's using your son as an excuse...
what's the old saying "women need a REASON to have sex, men just need a place"
granted if you don't have kids you need to LEARN to take it when you can get it... or be quiet about it.
he had a perfec... (read in full...)
How do you end things when the other person is ignoring you?
Q. Last August my boyfriend of 5 years just uppin left me .. 3 days later I got a text message saying he was moving out and we were done. Then 3 days after that he was seen with a new girl at work. That ended about a month later. And we started talking ...
A. 10 April 2012: Yay OP! congrats to you!... (read in full...)
He doesn't believe in living together before marriage
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year now. Things are pretty great between us and I am considering living together but he seems to disagree. Both of us currently work part time and live at home, whilst saving up for a deposit. However, usually ...
A. 10 April 2012: Neither of you is correct.
It is what it is. Until I was older I did not see ever think I would live with someone.
My BFF does not believe in it.
One of her children did it
ONE did not
My father thought it a horrible idea till he m... (read in full...)
Are we having to much telefonsex?
Q. Uhm ... Hello. This question is a bit embarassing for me but uhm ... yeah. My boyfriend and me are having a long-distance-relationship so we don't see each other very often but we are telephoning and chatting all the time. Two months ago we start...
A. 10 April 2012: do you know this boy in real life or is it just on the internet?
if you are worried then it might be over the top and you may want to cut back, especially if you have never met IRL....
... (read in full...)
Happiness after you end an affair?
Q. Of those that ended a long term affair, did you eventually find happiness in your marriage? (Assuming spouse never knew) Looking back, are you happy you ended the affair? If so, what did you do to get over the relationship?...
A. 10 April 2012: My parents marriage survived an affair.
my mother forgave him
he cried like a baby when ten years later she died in his arms...
... (read in full...)
Paranoid about loose skin and having a sagging tummy after birth....
Q. I'm about to give birth in a couple months and I am paranoid about loose skin and having a saggy tummy for the rest of my life. Most girls I know get permanent saggy bellies after giving birth yet there was one who has had three babies and yet looks ...
A. 10 April 2012: Sagging is genetic to some extent.
Use lots of good moisturizer (my plastic surgeon likes Vitamin E and Cocoa Butter) and when you can go back to exercising. Be aware that almost all women have lost muscles in their abdomen during pregnanc... (read in full...)
I don't know if we're ready for a child! Should I ask my wife to get an abortion?
Q. Hello. I am 25 years old and I'm graduating from college with my bachelor's degree in three weeks. I've been married for two years and my wife is 21 going on 22 in september. Here is my dilemma. My wife has one more semester to go after the end of ...
A. 10 April 2012: You must discuss with your wife.
I am assuming your birth control was adequate and it failed.
Truth me told while your ideas are solid and make much sense, many times babies come for a reason.....
and babies at first live very nicely i... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex is telling their children she won't be their mom if they talk to me
Q. Hiya, hope you can help me cos I am torn here... I have been with my fella for 9 months, very happy togeether and planning our future together. However, he has 2 wonderful children who I adore and they like me. However his ex is tearing me apart...
A. 10 April 2012: 1. BLOCK her on facebook.. then she can’t see ANYTHING about you and YOU can’t see her.
Problem 1 solved.
2. As for the abuse she is heaping on her children, your boyfriend has to deal with that. He may require an attorney and a court interven... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has low self esteem and doesn't believe me when I say she's beautiful
Q. How can I boost my girlfriend's self confidence? We have been together for three years and over time she has gained some weight. She is still as beautiful as ever but she is really down about the weight. I keep telling her she is perfect but she ...
A. 10 April 2012: you can't boost her SELF-esteem... it's called SELF esteem for a reason.
she's not happy with her weight but she had to do something about it.
all you can say is "yes you have gained weight, yes I notice it and NO it doesn't bother me"
... (read in full...)
Is my high sex drive normal for a 47 year old male?
Q. I'm a 47 year old male and I've been seeing the same girl for about four years now. It seems as if my sex drive is only increasing in intensity, although I have always had a high sex drive. Is this normal for a man my age? We have sex about 2...
A. 10 April 2012: It’s normal for YOU… that’s all that matters.
Sadly for most women our drives increase dramatically and we end up with men with decreasing drives. Your lady is lucky.
Although I know for a fact my grandfather was very sexually active with my g... (read in full...)
Can it be harmful to have sex during a period?
Q. So..me and my girlfriend had sex while she was on her period. ( please don't judge) I was wondering if this was bad in any kind of way? Like can it harm our bodies and stuff like that. Thank You...
A. 10 April 2012: Why would we judge you?
There is nothing wrong with sex during your period… it can be messy that’s all
Put down some old towels under her…. As we say in our world “damn the sheets full speed ahead”
... (read in full...)
Is it just sex or more?
Q. i have been having sex with a guy for about 2yrs now.. in the begining he and i was jst hooking up... 2yrs later... i am soo much in love... i dont think he feels the same way. he probably likes me... or does he jst like having sex with me. he ...
A. 10 April 2012: You keep saying “I didn’t place any blame on him” WHY OP is this so important to you?
Very bad timing? Easy… it means he doesn’t want to be told he can’t get laid any more…
it doesn't matter what he meant by it to be honest.
he wants to... (read in full...)
Questions about getting breast transplants
Q. I have a few questions for the ladies. I am seriously considering breast implants. I am 46 years old and about three years ago, I lost a good 40-50 pounds, got back in shape again and have become a gym rat and regularly swim and have turned most...
A. 10 April 2012: Dear OP,
Congrats to you for losing a good amount of weight and getting healthy.
I am 52. At age 49 I had gastric bypass and lost over 100 pounds. This past June at age 51 I had a tummy tuck and a MASTOPEXY at the same time.
YOU do no... (read in full...)
I ended it, and then I said I didn't want to lose him and he said you already have!
Q. On friday night i ended things with the guy i was seeing for 2months. He said he was sure he was ready for a relationship and i wasn't prepared to wait around. At the time i told him i couldn't be friends as i would be upset when he started seeing ...
A. 10 April 2012: yeah watch people... go to museums... sit in outdoor cafes sipping coffee and smiling at babies...
ENJOY your holiday... it's not much of a holiday if you drag home with you now is it?... (read in full...)
I ended it, and then I said I didn't want to lose him and he said you already have!
Q. On friday night i ended things with the guy i was seeing for 2months. He said he was sure he was ready for a relationship and i wasn't prepared to wait around. At the time i told him i couldn't be friends as i would be upset when he started seeing ...
A. 10 April 2012: if he poked you on facebook all day it's because YOU POKED HIM BACK.
sadly it means nothing
I would ignore it.... (read in full...)
Should I end this "tradition" with former co-worker?
Q. I met this girl thirteen years ago and we worked together for three years. She was weird in many ways, but a nice person. We kind of became friends, but I was never comfortable with that friendship because of, how should I put it, the undeserved ...
A. 9 April 2012: if all you do is get happy birthday and holiday wishes from her, do nothing...do not respond...
it's a couple of times a year and if you don't reciprocate eventually she may fade away.... (read in full...)
Do guys give oral sex if they have no feelings for you?
Q. In a sex only relationship (booty call) do guys usually go down on girls if they don't have some sort of feelings for them?...
A. 9 April 2012: if they like going down on a girl sure they will...... (read in full...)
I lied to her and told her I am still a virgin
Q. Before I officially went out with my girlfriend, I was a virgin. However, during the time I was getting to know her (we weren't going out yet), I had sex with two other girls. A few weeks after we actually decided to make it official that we...
A. 9 April 2012: Why yes you do sound like a real dick.
But that’s ok… see men place way more importance on virginity than women do… at least from what I can tell of human nature…
The fact that you slept with these girls while you were getting to know your cu... (read in full...)
I really love him and want to be with him but I haven't been able to ignore that online situation that he has going on, which I've tried so far.
Q. I have to make a final decision and was wondering if I can get some opinions/advice here. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year 5 months. Well, I recently (December) found out that he's been having an online relationship wit...
A. 9 April 2012: Here let me interpret for you:
“it was only a game that got out of hand”
TRANSLATION: I don’t love you enough to control myself
“it’s cooled down a lot”
TRANSLATION She won’t play with me any more
“ cannot stop talking to her beca... (read in full...)
Is my LDR committed or am I falling for him too much?
Q. I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm in the US, he's in the UK. We've been together for over 10 months and in the course of that time we've only shown each other a photo, and as of recently started texting each other. We met online, and have ...
A. 9 April 2012: you've talked about a lief together with someone you have not seen or met?
not very realistic I'm afraid.
ten months and you've not talked to him with voices?
ten months and you've not video chatted or talked on the phone
have you seen... (read in full...)
I feel guilty dumping my Facebook/Long Distance friend. So should I go back and say sorry?
Q. I met a girl in facebook and she became my girlfriend for one(1) year. It was a long distance relationship and she lives 8-12 hours away from me. We only met around 4 or 5 times throughout our relationship and per meeting, I stayed at their house ...
A. 9 April 2012: I think that you should move forward.
If being so far apart you had problems with her mood swings do you think being closer day to day will make it better? It won't.... (read in full...)
He's ignoring me because he doesn't see any future for our relationship
Q. hello.i m a grl of 18.i met a guy on fb.he is of24.i m an indian nd he is pakistani.we were initially good frnds.we chat daily on fb for hours nd hours.after somedays i came to know dat i love him nd cant live widout him.i was on his ...
A. 9 April 2012: I agree if he really wanted to be with you that he would move heaven and earth to do so.
Meeting online is lovely but it has to progress to being together in real life….
If you must meet him (and get your closure) and he is willing (if he ... (read in full...)
Why do men in their twenties date teenagers!?
Q. In all honesty to men between the age of 22-26. Why would you date a girl who's 18 or 19? Surely at that age you would rather be looking to date someone who you might want a long term relationship with. Is their an ulterior motive here, do ...
A. 9 April 2012: Why do 52 year old women marry 38 year old men?
BECAUSE WE CAN!
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My mom thinks my boyfriend is sponging off of me and doesn't want me to help him
Q. My mum shouted at me yesterday because i told her that i was going to take some food to my boyfriend's house. It was only a pizza, and it only cost £1. She said my boyfriend was scrounging off me ( or sponging off me ). She was supposed to give me a ...
A. 9 April 2012: I would stop giving him money when he asks.
I know that HERE getting a government disability payment is NOT a "living wage" My son gets federal funds for his disability and still has to be supplemented by parents in order to LIVE in a decent p... (read in full...)
Am I being petty over my husband's friend?
Q. Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...
A. 9 April 2012: I agree do you KNOW for a FACT that your husband told her not to contact him or did he just tell her that you were going to get back together and work on your marriage…. Two VERY different things.
Sounds to me like he didn’t want to give up his f... (read in full...)
My Husband Seems to Prioritise Cats Over Baby Daughter
Q. My husband and I have a 3mo old daughter. The other day I mentioned it was time to start thinking of what methods we needed to use to childproof the house in the near future. I said I would like to move all the cats' litter boxes upstairs cos if B...
A. 9 April 2012: My father had Cat Scratch Fever.
I had a child bitten by a dog once. I put the dog down the next day. I get your feelings.
A bedroom is an odd place for a litter box.
my cats were given one of the extra bathrooms... and cat doo... (read in full...)
I like my girlfriend but love my friend?
Q. Ok please do not judge me but 5 years ago i met an Irish woman who i loved from the day i met her . I feel that i had such a connection with this woman and it killed me when she told me her age i at least expected only 10 years of an age difference ...
A. 9 April 2012: Sorry I think you should have gone for the younger woman if she was open to having you.
to discount someone JUST because of their age is wrong...
if you think about this 20 something and cant' be true and faithful in your own brain with the w... (read in full...)
Is she playing hard to get or having trouble with her ex cheating?
Q. Hi ive known a girl for a few months now but we've only had one "date"--she was with someone at the time we met--and i havent seen her for a couple of months since. She has recently had a hard time becuase this guy she was with has cheated on her. I ...
A. 9 April 2012: she just broke up with him she may not be ready to have a new relationship...
you may actually want to ASK her where you stand with her...
let her know how you feel... it's a risk but at least you will know.... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance at all with my friend?
Q. Dear aunts, I begin by admitting am at a point in my life when I feel I need a man not just for company but for sex as well. But ave never dated really so am not experienced. So there is this guy who is my friend. We flirt a lot, well he initiate...
A. 9 April 2012: well you like him so why deny it?
I went from a man with NO self esteem to a man who is grossly arrogant about himself... I much prefer an arrogant self-assured man to a wimpy man who needs me to stroke his ego like his mommy....
sounds li... (read in full...)
What should I do with my hands during foreplay?
Q. During foreplay, what are some things I can do with my hands? I feel like I always just run my hands through his hair lol, and not much else. What are some ways I can touch a guy that will drive him crazy?...
A. 9 April 2012: I think she means when he's "getting busy down below"
as in you don't do 69 and he's giving you oral?
not much honey
hold and play with your boobs if he watches you.... and you get turned on by it...... (read in full...)
Why does sex hurt when he's on top?
Q. I lost my virginity recently and i have had sex twice with me on top.It didnt hurt then but yesterday i tried to have sex with my boyfriend on top and it hurt a lot!.Why did that happen and how can we make it comfortable with him on top?...
A. 9 April 2012: well it depends on what hurt...
and why...
are you wet enough?
are you angled properly so he can penetrate properly?... (read in full...)
I ended it, and then I said I didn't want to lose him and he said you already have!
Q. On friday night i ended things with the guy i was seeing for 2months. He said he was sure he was ready for a relationship and i wasn't prepared to wait around. At the time i told him i couldn't be friends as i would be upset when he started seeing ...
A. 9 April 2012: Let him go.
You want him as more than a friend and he's not ready to be more than a friend... you are holding on to a dream
I don't believe we can truly be friends with ex partners.
FriendLY yes.
Civil YES
truly be friends... so ra... (read in full...)
Am I being petty over my husband's friend?
Q. Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...
A. 9 April 2012: Well
1. it's not your place to talk to her pastor
2. she's not a whore
3. you had no right to curse her out
You asked him to stop seeing her. HE TOLD Her you are back together and she is trying to embrace YOU as a friend as well as keep ... (read in full...)
My Husband Seems to Prioritise Cats Over Baby Daughter
Q. My husband and I have a 3mo old daughter. The other day I mentioned it was time to start thinking of what methods we needed to use to childproof the house in the near future. I said I would like to move all the cats' litter boxes upstairs cos if B...
A. 9 April 2012: put low climbable gates around the litter boxes... that the cats can get to but the child will be thwarted by...
(works for Xmas trees as well)....
teach her no for those things that are not safe... but moving the litter box is not good for ... (read in full...)
How do you end things when the other person is ignoring you?
Q. Last August my boyfriend of 5 years just uppin left me .. 3 days later I got a text message saying he was moving out and we were done. Then 3 days after that he was seen with a new girl at work. That ended about a month later. And we started talking ...
A. 9 April 2012: I agree with the post that says just remove all his stuff from your home. whether you let him know you are putting it out for trash is up to you or not but that could be your goodbye text.... "all your stuff is on the curb for the trashman, have a ... (read in full...)
Is it just sex or more?
Q. i have been having sex with a guy for about 2yrs now.. in the begining he and i was jst hooking up... 2yrs later... i am soo much in love... i dont think he feels the same way. he probably likes me... or does he jst like having sex with me. he ...
A. 9 April 2012: He will never be what you want
He will NEVER love you
He will NEVER NOT USE YOU FOR SEX.
IT’s not going to make you happy to continue to let his man use and abuse you.
You are correct you can’t break up with a man you are not going with
You ... (read in full...)
He was supposed to be back over a week ago and I still havent heard from him! What should I do?
Q. I have been friend with this man via dating online for over a year. We’ve met at last and like each other a lot. We grew closer and closer day by day. We text each other daily even though only 2 or 3 words – just to say hi and sometimes more ...
A. 4 April 2012: if he was supposed to be back a week ago a text to ask 'how was your trip" (depending on what expedience with the forces means) would not be clingy or needy.
the issue is... if he is back a week and did not contact you, they he's just not that... (read in full...)
He was supposed to be back over a week ago and I still havent heard from him! What should I do?
Q. I have been friend with this man via dating online for over a year. We’ve met at last and like each other a lot. We grew closer and closer day by day. We text each other daily even though only 2 or 3 words – just to say hi and sometimes more ...
A. 4 April 2012: if he was supposed to be back a week ago a text to ask 'how was your trip" (depending on what expedience with the forces means) would not be clingy or needy.
the issue is... if he is back a week and did not contact you, they he's just not that... (read in full...)
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