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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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I want to call my ex but he says he needs time!
Q. my ex boyfriend has recently split up from me and i am finding it very hard to forget him he is always in my mind, and all i want to do is call or text him. i feel it wasn't the right thing to do but he said it was and wants to remain friends. but ...
A. 7 March 2013: I do not think you will be able to be friends for a long time if at all ever.
writing down his number is not healthy.. you delete it so you forget it honey....
clearly he knows you are not letting go... you need to let him go... it's over ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my mother will be disappointed that I'm pregnant
Q. I'm 24 years old and almost 2 months pregnant. I don't know what to do. I have a completely understanding family's and my child's father is in the picture and he's completely supportive. I haven't told my mother. I'm afraid that she will be ...
A. 22 February 2013: OP I wanted to add that while her initial feeling might be that of disappointment, it will hopefully be fleeting and she will become excited about being a grandma shortly after getting the news...
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My Girlfriend Wants to Sleep With a Guy at Work, What to Do?
Q. Me and my girlfriend got together young - she was 17 at the time and we have been together 9 years and I'm more in love with her now than i have ever been. A few months ago i started to get the feeling that she was thinking about being wit...
A. 22 February 2013: I come from a swinger lifestyle. I was in an open marriage. IT DID NOT SURVIVE!
The only time folks survive open marriages is when they are NOT doing it to fix a broken relationship.... your relationship is broken right now.... "letting... (read in full...)
I Proposed to My Pregnant Girlfriend, She Accepted!
Q. hi Aunts ahd Uncles... im the man who orginally posted about my pregnant girlfriend. the title was she posts everything on facebook. you all wanted me to come back and prove you wrong. well guess what? my baby BOY is due in june, i proposed to her ...
A. 22 February 2013: Dear OP,
Mazel Tov (Yiddish for Congratulations) on your engagement and the upcoming birth of your child. May you and your fiancée live together for 120 years.
I do want you to come back and prove us wrong. I said in ten years…. Not ten ... (read in full...)
My drama with dating an actor
Q. Dear Cupid, My story is long but I'm really suffering.. I will start at the very beginning. In high school I had a crush on a boy Named Dakota. And I never got crushes. I had one boyfriend before this, But we broke up because I had fallen o...
A. 22 February 2013: Dear OP,
You said: (and it’s not highlighted as verified from the OP but I’m assuming with the name calling you’re upset.
“Your (sic) all dicks I come here for help and get shot down. I'm not asking him to not act! I'm asking him to not go fo... (read in full...)
Has he Lost Interest in me After Only Two Months?
Q. Hi everyone (: My boyfriend and I are dating since two months and a half, I know it's not a long time, but it has been a lot since I had a "serious" relarionship. I am not the kind of girl that wants her boyfriend to call her every time, or text her...
A. 22 February 2013: Sageoldguy (as usual) makes a great point I missed....
if you have had sex and then he got distant... well then that's the answer... if you have not had sex then my answer that he's not that into you stands.... (read in full...)
Has he Lost Interest in me After Only Two Months?
Q. Hi everyone (: My boyfriend and I are dating since two months and a half, I know it's not a long time, but it has been a lot since I had a "serious" relarionship. I am not the kind of girl that wants her boyfriend to call her every time, or text her...
A. 21 February 2013: if he's not rowing the relationship boat and just coasting along with you making the plans, then I'd say he's not as into you as you are into him.
Stop calling him and making the plans and see what happens.... (read in full...)
Why Did She Lose so Much Weight in Such a Short Time?
Q. Is this really something that can happen? My girlfriend has had the hardest week with a project that she was given by her company, i've never seen her that stressed before! But what was interesting is we live together and not once did I see her ea...
A. 21 February 2013: you did not see her eat... that does not mean she did not eat when not with you.... I know my hubby thinks I don't eat because there are nights I do not eat at home.
and yes if I didn't eat at all for a week and also got dehydrated I could prob... (read in full...)
Do I go out with my former FWB who no longer has a girlfriend?
Q. Ok, last year I was seeing a guy who had a gf (please no judgement) for about 2 and a half months. It was strictly sexual, I told him I didn't want it to blossom into anything more than that. However, he finally told me that he would break up with ...
A. 21 February 2013: It's a personal choice.....
if you go out with him and get into a relationship with him, will you trust that he's not cheating on you like he cheated on his last girlfriend?
do you want to be FWB with a guy that wants more?
... (read in full...)
I want to call my ex but he says he needs time!
Q. my ex boyfriend has recently split up from me and i am finding it very hard to forget him he is always in my mind, and all i want to do is call or text him. i feel it wasn't the right thing to do but he said it was and wants to remain friends. but ...
A. 21 February 2013: you must give him time... if he said he wants to be friends but needs time, give him time.
I'm personally not a big believer in being friends with ex partners.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't have sex because she is pregnant
Q. Hello every one. I've been dating this girl for 3 yrs now and things have been moving on well. just last year she got a new job and since them things has been going on funny. For the past 6months i've gone to bed with her just once and now she is ...
A. 21 February 2013: Wait wait wait....
how far along is she????
you have had sex ONCE in six months and she's pregnant.
are you 100% sure you are the father???
if she's not having sex with you and she's pregnant and not letting you touch her she s... (read in full...)
I'm supposed to be getting married in May. My fiance has been again been caught talking sexual on dating sites!
Q. I am supposed to be getting married in June. The honeymoon is even booked. After the wedding she would have been moving into my house. We have been together for over 5 years. It has been an off and on relationship for the last 3 years. Mainly d...
A. 21 February 2013: I would break the engagement and not get married to her.
She's angry at being caught...
I do not think that it's controlling or jealous to not want your fiancee to NOT be on dating sites.
you have given her chance after chance.... sh... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend used to have sex with high end prostitutes. I'm not quite sure how I feel about this
Q. Hi All, Last night my fiance of four years (he is 34) admitted to me before we start dating he used prostitutes from time to time. The first experience being when he was 20. We have an open and honest relationship, quite understanding to...
A. 21 February 2013: I walk in your shoes. My now husband was using escorts before we met... he was always honest and open about it and coming from my sexually open and non-mainstream past I was perfectly ok with it.
it made me sad for him that he could not co... (read in full...)
Can you redo projects when you are in university?
Q. I know this a relationship website, but does anybody know if at university you can re-do your projects? I am on a course which doesn't do exams, so luckily enough I just do a lot of practical projects over the course of the year. The thing is, this ...
A. 21 February 2013: the best thing to do is talk to your academic advisor or your professor.
... (read in full...)
Friends are inviting both my and I to events. I don't want him to go if I'm going but he won't respond to my emails
Q. I met my ex thru a group of friends and when we broke up things ended quite badly because I confronted him of a big lie. The problem is that I have gotten so close with the rest of the group and he hasn't really but a couple of the group members ...
A. 21 February 2013: In my opinion, you have no right to ask him not to attend events he is invited to by his friends. You also have no right to ask your friends to not invite him.
What you do is you go to the parties and events and you are cool and civil to... (read in full...)
It's has been 4 days and no text. Is he still into me or not?
Q. So, I met this guy through a family friend, and its been a week since we met. He and I had so much fun on a date (not an official date). He and I flirted- so I'm pretty sure that hes interested. We exchanged numbers, and he even gave me his US ...
A. 21 February 2013: texting is a lousy way to have a relationship.
if you like him and want to see him, call him.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend always accuses me of having sex with other men but then gets off on it
Q. This might seem strange but the guy I'm currently with is extremely jealous , through out our relationship of nearly a year he has constantly accused me of havin sex with other guys. If I go out for a few hours and am late back he would take me to ...
A. 21 February 2013: the fantasy of your partner with another person is fairly common.
accusing your partner of cheating is NOT
if he's jealous and controlling it's his insecurity and not love.
if you are in any doubt that this is healthy it is not.
I ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend suggesting a threesome because I am cheap and easy?
Q. We are together for more that 3yrs we fall in love with each other its just happen im not sexy not literally his type of girl we have great sex even sometimes rough and he wants 3some.he admit he never ask his past girlfriend about 3some.he never ...
A. 21 February 2013: He wants a threesome... he asked you.. that does not mean he sees you as cheap and easy... but maybe he senses that you are desperate to keep him and will do anything to please him...
... (read in full...)
My drama with dating an actor
Q. Dear Cupid, My story is long but I'm really suffering.. I will start at the very beginning. In high school I had a crush on a boy Named Dakota. And I never got crushes. I had one boyfriend before this, But we broke up because I had fallen o...
A. 21 February 2013: The one who is being selfish is you to be honest OP.
He wants to be an actor. He's always wanted to be an actor and being an actor requires him to live in a particular place and take particular actions (kissing women in his role). You knew thi... (read in full...)
Need some advice on first time sex.
Q. Ok, so heres my situation... I'm almost 18 and I'm a virgin. This guy I've been talking to him for quite sometime, and he is absolutely amazing! I feel as if I am ready to take the relationship to the next level, its just that I'm afraid and I need ...
A. 21 February 2013: your talking to him....are you DATING HIM? is it a relationship?
what do you mean your TALKING TO HIM? what does that mean?
(I sometimes don't understand the younger generation's terms that's why I'm asking)
it can hurt if you are ... (read in full...)
I love her but she's ready to settle down and I'm not sure that I am. What should I do?
Q. I am 25, she is 30. We got together when I was 22. Our relationship has come to the point where she is ready for engagement, marriage and kids (completely understandable). I love her with all of my heart. She is the one I want to be with for the ...
A. 21 February 2013: Her being younger may or may not make a difference... if she was your age she still might be ready to settle down with you.
I married my first husband at 21. He was 23... we had two sons and a very amicable divorce....
ready to settle d... (read in full...)
When he tried to break up with me I started crying so hard he started crying to and said he would stay but now he doesn't text or call like he used to.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three months now. Everything was okay before one of his ex girfriends decided that she wanted to "reconnect". From the actions he is showing he doesn't want her back but she has basically pushed him ...
A. 21 February 2013: basically the crying you did emotionally bullied him into staying with you.
Once a boy comes to you and wants out, there is no sense in trying to keep him as yours.. he's already gone...
call him and say you thought it over and he's right ... (read in full...)
To Contact Or Not To Contact. Dumped And It Was All My Fault.
Q. Hello! Thinking about breaking no contact by leaving chocolates at her door on vday. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago because I pestered her for a non committed relationship to test if she really loves me because before we started dating, she said ...
A. 21 February 2013: YOU blew it with your silly "test". Live and learn.
maybe with the next girl you won't be so foolish and childish.
use this as a learning experience and be an adult and RESPECT her wishes. Leave her alone. stop trying to read into her ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my mother will be disappointed that I'm pregnant
Q. I'm 24 years old and almost 2 months pregnant. I don't know what to do. I have a completely understanding family's and my child's father is in the picture and he's completely supportive. I haven't told my mother. I'm afraid that she will be ...
A. 21 February 2013: you must tell them you are pregnant.
you live with them... will you continue to live with them when your baby is born? what will you do if they don't want a baby in the house?
I admit that as a parent I would be very sad if my child got... (read in full...)
Since I found out about her history I'd like her to get tested
Q. Hello all! I come with a questions and concern. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and it's been great, I know I love her and I know I will spend the rest of my life with her. The problem is, I knew her back in grade sch...
A. 21 February 2013: on fidelity with a woman who has had an "active" past
I met my current husband when I was in an open marriage. I was a swinger.... multiple partners (alone and in groups) both men and women....
we are totally 100% monogamous now. MY ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend still text this woman? He knows she has feelings for him!
Q. I met my boyfriend on a dating website about 3 months ago. Our relationship is exclusive and he has told me he has fallen in love with me. We live an hour apart. We see each other every weekend and once during the week. Problem... He met this...
A. 21 February 2013: “he does not feel obligated to talk to her about our relationship”
WTF? That’ is not good. That means mentioning “I’m going to a friend’s for the weekend” not MY GIRLFRIEND…. He’s playing both ends….
IF he's NOT interested ... (read in full...)
Online woman is pinning all her hopes on me but we are not exclusive. Is it ok if I meet someone else to date till we meet?
Q. I been single over 12 months and joined a few dating sites. Have been chatting to a woman in the USA for about 2 weeks and we really get on. Because we get on she has now set her profile to 'private' so she can concentrate on me, and she has plans ...
A. 21 February 2013: I would make sure you are VERY clear with her that you are still out there meeting other women. AND I would do it ASAP. AND FREQUENTLY.
She has the right to do what she pleases based on accurate information. She may still come to see you. Sh... (read in full...)
Girl I am dating does not know I am older than she thinks! HELP
Q. Ok, I met a wonderful woman online, and we really, really hit it off. She is 31, and I am 48. We want the same things. Neither of us have children and both want them, and believe in marriage, commitment etc. Very attracted to each other and both ...
A. 21 February 2013: I always have sucked at math and I stand corrected.
... (read in full...)
Since I found out about her history I'd like her to get tested
Q. Hello all! I come with a questions and concern. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and it's been great, I know I love her and I know I will spend the rest of my life with her. The problem is, I knew her back in grade sch...
A. 20 February 2013: when my husband and I started dating I was coming from a swinger background and was already being tested every 6 months and he had a bit of a past that was none too savory so I suggested we both get tested... he hates needles and he readily did it ... (read in full...)
Girl I am dating does not know I am older than she thinks! HELP
Q. Ok, I met a wonderful woman online, and we really, really hit it off. She is 31, and I am 48. We want the same things. Neither of us have children and both want them, and believe in marriage, commitment etc. Very attracted to each other and both ...
A. 20 February 2013: Good luck tomorrow! I know you are nervous but ten years is not that big a deal in my opinion. Especially since you are both over 30....
I am 13 years older than my husband and except for a few cultural references now and then we rarely n... (read in full...)
I hurt my ex girlfriend when I finished the relationship. I know she's hurting. How can I help her?
Q. I had a 3 month relationship with this girl and we fell in love really quickly. We had some trust issues and I ended up breaking her heart. Since then she has been avoiding and ignoring me. The thing is, she is still emotionally dependent on me ...
A. 20 February 2013: I agree leave her alone and let her heal.....
stop asking your mutual friends about her or sending messages with them.
she's your ex and her issues are no longer your problem.
... (read in full...)
My shyness is taking over my life! What can I do? Where to turn for advise?
Q. I'm sorry this is long but please read it, please! I feel like my shyness is taking over my life really rapidly, I don't know what to do. I am scared of: .Meeting new people .Being the center of attention .Being watched while doing something ...
A. 20 February 2013: franny honey it sounds like you are having anxiety attacks.
you must tell mum and you can see a doctor for some help with this... there is therapy and even medication for anxiety that is so paralyzing
oh and btw honey you are VERY NORMAL ... (read in full...)
My father in law creeps me out. I spoke to him, but what more can I do?
Q. My father in law is always staring at me and gives me long hugs where I feel he tries to get a grab. I've told my fiancé I don't feel comfortable being alone with his dad so he really tries to stick around. Yesterday though they were both outside ...
A. 20 February 2013: you tell the dirty old man that you can't keep this secret and you tell his son...
then you never are alone with him EVER.
he's inappropriate and a creep.... (read in full...)
Worried that this relationship is unhealthy but I can't leave!
Q. My boyfriend and I are engaged to be married, but we've had a lot of problems. In the beginning, he was verbally abusive to both myself and his daughter. I told him not to talk to me like that and he's stopped. He's become a new man and he says nic...
A. 20 February 2013: oh so this is not about the fact that this man has done EVERYTHING You asked him to do or that you are codependent.
you asked him to stop yelling he complied
he's a nice man and supportive of your goals
you don't say you love him. you say "... (read in full...)
Can strong jet water break hymen? Please help.
Q. I can't say that it is the strongest jet water but kind of strong. If I didn't use it directly too much, could it still break hymen? It was 2 weeks ago. Today I felt like there was a emptiness. I had been feeling the pressure of my hymen but now I ...
A. 20 February 2013: I don't ever recall having a hymen. I'm sure I did at one point... but I never recall it breaking or hurting or pressure or anything.
vigorous exercise (yoga, running horseback riding, tennis) can break it... it's just a very fragile memb... (read in full...)
I fell for him, he's with someone else. No contact but I still want him back!
Q. hi there, i am a woman of 47 and have been unlucky with relationships,my first marraige i was very young and was very abusive,it took me years to get a mental state of mind back to normal,my 2nd partner started out as a lending ear, i fell pregnant ...
A. 20 February 2013: Yes! I PROMISE YOU it gets easier with time...
living well really is the best revenge...... (read in full...)
Relationship with friend went sour. Will I ever hear from him again?
Q. I have recently tried to start a relationship with a long time friend. Things were going well for the first few months but things went sour. Due to me not wanting to lose a valuable friendship I decided to go back to the way things were before. I ...
A. 20 February 2013: We have no way of knowing if he will ever call again
if you told him you were not going to call him but if he needed someone to talk to you would be there... I would not sit around and wait for him to call.... (read in full...)
My lover asked me to marry him but I'm already married!
Q. HI! I’m 27years old and I'm a married woman with two kids. I'm in a relationship with a white guy, but I love my husband and love this guy so much more than my husband. This guy asked me to marry him and I said yes to him. Now I don't know what to ...
A. 20 February 2013: I'm not able to address the issue of race... here it's not that big a deal... there I understand it is....
my bigger issue is you are married. does your lover know you are married? does your husband know you are having an affair? if ... (read in full...)
I dig some digging and found out he's married. Do I tell his wife about us?
Q. I had a rough time last year, and vowed I'd spend 6 months without men, sorting my life out. In December a man chased me out of the pub and asked for my number. We went out and although I kept my distance, I fell in love with him totally. He told me ...
A. 20 February 2013: you will never get the answers you want... no matter what... he will never be able to give you a good reason.
I'm sensing he dumped you not so much due to his insecurities as his wife getting close to figuring out what's going on.
I t... (read in full...)
Why do guys treat you nice and then turn around and expect you to do everything?
Q. why is it when a guy wants u he'll be nice to you and treat you well then a week through your relationship he expects you to buy everything for him like buss fares, food and stuff he wants and u dont get anything from him. why is it when u say its ...
A. 20 February 2013: Not all guys are like this OP. IF you get with a guy when he’s nice, then when he turns not-nice you leave. Simple as that.
A boy who really likes you will continue to be nice to you after you are his girlfriend. IF he is not, then lea... (read in full...)
I've got deadlines and my boss isn't happy about my performance. What am I supposed to do?
Q. Hey everyone, I need your help! I'm two weeks away from completing my internship, but lately things haven't been going smoothly. Last week my disabled mom got severely ill and I heard my dad (who suffered a heart attack last year) may have a liver ...
A. 20 February 2013: Your boss is right.. communication is key... and honesty is key too...
My husband is sick right now and will be demanding a lot of my time off of work for medical tests, treatments and care..... I'm loathe to admit it but I went to my boss tod... (read in full...)
I like this man but my family disapproves. What do I do? Ignore him?
Q. Well, I just went to a cousin's wedding and spent a few days over. During that time span, I had one of my cousin's cousins (the son of the sister of my uncle-by-marriage) pay a little more than friendly attention to me. I liked him, he was suave, ...
A. 20 February 2013: your mother and aunt are right.. you don't know the facts of the case...
and if he's found guilty what will happen?
I'd tread very carefully... especially if HE told you he was framed by a jilted woman.... (read in full...)
Why is my ex's new girlfriend stalking me?
Q. Ok so my child's dad has a new girlfriend I have decided to accept it and move on as long as he takes care of business I just moved to his area staying with my aunt until my place comes through the end of spring and job searching before i move so he ...
A. 20 February 2013:
Do you really need to know WHY she's doing something annoying or just how to stop it? I realize you feel that she's setting you up to be the drama laden baby mama... if you are not who she wants/needs you to be then ignore her.
she may n... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend still text this woman? He knows she has feelings for him!
Q. I met my boyfriend on a dating website about 3 months ago. Our relationship is exclusive and he has told me he has fallen in love with me. We live an hour apart. We see each other every weekend and once during the week. Problem... He met this...
A. 20 February 2013: if she is texting him, is he replying to every text?
Her texting him would not bother me... his replies might bother me... depends on if he's encouraging her to contact him or not. If she sends questions that require answers, then if they are ... (read in full...)
I fell for him, he's with someone else. No contact but I still want him back!
Q. hi there, i am a woman of 47 and have been unlucky with relationships,my first marraige i was very young and was very abusive,it took me years to get a mental state of mind back to normal,my 2nd partner started out as a lending ear, i fell pregnant ...
A. 20 February 2013: I am so sorry you were fooled by a liar and a cheater. What part of his lying and cheating do you miss???
And let me ask you this… if he leaves his current gf for you, when he’s not with you, won’t you wonder if he’s lying to you and cheating... (read in full...)
I love her but she's ready to settle down and I'm not sure that I am. What should I do?
Q. I am 25, she is 30. We got together when I was 22. Our relationship has come to the point where she is ready for engagement, marriage and kids (completely understandable). I love her with all of my heart. She is the one I want to be with for the ...
A. 20 February 2013: if you are not ready to settle down then she is not the love of your life.
if you worry you are missing something,then you will always wonder and will always be looking for what you think you are missing.
if she's ready to settle down and ... (read in full...)
Girl I am dating does not know I am older than she thinks! HELP
Q. Ok, I met a wonderful woman online, and we really, really hit it off. She is 31, and I am 48. We want the same things. Neither of us have children and both want them, and believe in marriage, commitment etc. Very attracted to each other and both ...
A. 20 February 2013: I’m sorry this is not a sin of omission it’s an outright lie. You must tell her NOW. And yes you risk her leaving, not because of your age but because you lied and you continued to lie….. And ya know, it may be the only think you ever lie ... (read in full...)
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