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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Should I send Valentines cards to the 2 girls that I like?
Q. I am becoming more confident in asking girls out, but I'm not sure about these, so I need some advice: The girl who does my massage has a great personality and is very sexy. I have had feelings for her for a while now, and when I go and see her w...
A. 19 March 2013: If you are not sure if she is single the BEST way to find out is to ASK HER...
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Why does my husband have no interest in sex?
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years, two teens, good life, great sex......until about 2 years ago. In the last 2 years our sex life has dwindled to nothing.....literally nothing. He has not touched me in 8 months. He is a ...
A. 15 February 2013: I totally agree with Eddie that you can’t fix this alone.
Since this all started after his last tour, then it’s probably PTSD related. That does not mean he has the right to NOT fix it if he can.
And now you have a decision to make. If he won... (read in full...)
Wanting to end the distance in an LDR but worry being apart for the whole summer.
Q. So here goes : I've been seeing this guy since september 2011. In December of the same year he moved to the US, and I currently live in Canada. We've been dating ever since and the distance was not a problem up until lately. He's had financial ...
A. 14 February 2013: Oh LDRs are so hard and being so far apart as to not be able to see each other regularly would make me crazy.
You need the program to further your education and your career and eventually your future. This is clearly a case of delayed ... (read in full...)
I'm going through a divorce and my 2 year old wants to call her father at night. Is this a bad thing to do?
Q. Going through a divorce and I have full custody of our two year old daughter. She's very sad, mostly around bed time. Saying she misses daddy and wants to go home, I comfort her and it breaks my heart she's hurting. He doesn't try to see her and I ...
A. 14 February 2013: Oh how hard for both of you.
my kids were 3 and 5 when I split from their dad... thankfully however he was an awesome dad and very involved with them..
I know your little girl is confused and sad and so are you...
My advice... you ... (read in full...)
My younger boyfriend told me I'm ugly, stupid and I'm not smart enough for him! How do I cope with this?
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years tod told me that i look ugly, im stupid and i dont measure up to him and he wants to break up. We had problems before like he never spent anytime with me, always ignores me and never responds to my mails or texts. ...
A. 14 February 2013: If he wants to break up there is no way you can make him stay.
He does not spend time with you…. Strike one
He ignores you….
He never responds to your mail or your texts
He tells you your ugly
He tells you that your stupid
He tells you that you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was cheating on me online and has some fetishes I never knew about, how do I get through this so we can work things out? I'm so scared of getting hurt again....
Q. Wondering if anyone can give me some much need advice and reassurance, I am really hurting and not sure where to turn for help! My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years we have a 7 month old baby girl, I love this man desperately and want to ...
A. 14 February 2013: You say you can’t lose him but you say you will leave if he cheats online again. You wonder how you will know….
You told your guys that if he cheats online again you will leave. I can see giving him a second chance, but the truth is you h... (read in full...)
I am married but sexually frustrated. What can I do?
Q. I got married with 10 years age difference. Usually I get sex mood but he can't do no longer ..he leaves me a month for job .... Now in my mind I'm full of sex mood with another guy but I did not say to him.... What can i do plz help me....
A. 14 February 2013: I'll assume he's in his 30s... still very young...
He "can't" have sex? do you mean he cannot get an erection... if that's the case he needs to see a doctor and find out what the problem is.
If he gets erections but does not want to be s... (read in full...)
I can't help myself I love her so much. What can I do? She freaked out and told me she only likes me as a cousin.
Q. hi, i fell in love with my second cousin and things were great. I never thought this would happen i love her and when i told her this she kinda freaked out and told me she likes me as a cousin. I'm crazy about her and I don't want to stop talking...
A. 14 February 2013: Sadly I do not think you will get what you want.
she's made it clear she is not interested in you as a romantic partner. That will not change. If you can't bear to see her as just a friend, then I think you need to not be in contact with her... (read in full...)
Who to choose, my controlling bf, or the one I always wanted?
Q. I have been dating my bf for 2 years now,and i love him incredibly, but at times, he makes me extrememly misrerable, especially with his controlling attitude..i've been cring for the last week because i feel like a bird trapped in a cage. To make ...
A. 14 February 2013: Men in love do not control
MEN in love do not have to give permission for you to contact friends.
Men in love do not blame you for a fight
you are not his child
you are not his possession.
he does not forgive?
does he bring up ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend stood me up for dinner but is giving me the silent treatment saying I didn't text him back "I love you".
Q. My 28 year-old boyfriend was here to dine with me. He got a call from his mother, who asked him to meet her to give her something. He left and said he'd come back very soon. So I left his food on the table and waited. He didn't show up. An h...
A. 14 February 2013: “was here to dine with me”
At your home? A meal you prepared???
His mommy called him to ask for something… if it was NOT an emergency then she needed to wait. The fact that his mommy said JUMP and he did is a bit disconcerting un... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't really ejaculate, he says that's normal for him but I don't think so?
Q. My boyfriend and I have just started getting really intimate and I have noticed that he doesn't ejaculate.. not really anyways. Like I'll keep doing things to him and he will get really hard and talk about how good it feels and that I give him like ...
A. 14 February 2013: My husband is one of these guys.... in all my 39 years of being sexual with men, he's the first I've ever seen this with...
I am used to large amounts of ejaculate to let me know my man was done... with my husband... I have no clue... sometime... (read in full...)
Is this a "no harm, no foul" situation or is this the kind of thing I'll probably end up regretting?
Q. So, here's the situation. While I welcome any opinion I would very much like some female input. There's this girl I was working with (we both got laid off very recently) who I'm quite attracted to and really enjoy spending time with her. She ha...
A. 14 February 2013: I don't think beating around the bush is a good idea here.
I also don't think you should make any assumptions.
While her relationship with the boyfriend may be ending, until she's done with him she is "taken" Think about how you would feel i... (read in full...)
My much older boyfriend gets frustrated when I ask him why he's with me
Q. My boyfriend is a lot older (he's 46 I'm 24) and I asked why he was with me. His first response was "I don't know the answer to that" later he said "because I like you". I want to know why he's with me but he just gets frustrated when I ask. I am ...
A. 14 February 2013: I have to retract a statement I made last night...
I did ask my husband about looking at local ESCORTS...
we do not have escorts in our state it's illegal but he came from a state that had legal escorts and he did use them in the past.
He ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so jealous its absolutely crazy!
Q. Hi!!! Please some one help me. I'm engaged to my girlfriend of 3 years. She's soo jealous it's not even funny. We have had our issues in the past mainly because she's goes crazy when I look at girls. Or a movie with a sex scene in it...not a porno...
A. 14 February 2013: She's not stable enough right now.
IF you love her it's going to be hard to postpone the wedding if a date is already set but I'd consider not getting married at this point.
Jealousy is rooted in insecurity. She is very insecure in your... (read in full...)
Why didn't he want to kiss me?
Q. I have been out with this guy a few times. He seems like a really good guy and I hope something further will develop. The first two times we went out, we had a few drinks with dinner and ended up kissing a lot on his couch. We then went out dancing ...
A. 14 February 2013: I kiss my husband all the time AT HOME.
I may give him a peck hello or goodbye when we meet in public but to kiss him more than that... NO WAY
to me hand holding in public is fine. occasionally arm in arm is ok. a brief hug...ok a pe... (read in full...)
Should I send Valentines cards to the 2 girls that I like?
Q. I am becoming more confident in asking girls out, but I'm not sure about these, so I need some advice: The girl who does my massage has a great personality and is very sexy. I have had feelings for her for a while now, and when I go and see her w...
A. 14 February 2013: At least you know your taste runs to women with morals and ethics... telling you she's seeing someone is hard to hear but it means that she is loyal and trustworthy... says a lot for your taste in women.
BTW if it ends with her current fella, n... (read in full...)
Best friends nightmare son affecting our friendship! Help!
Q. My best friend whom I love to bits has a four year old son that is a NIGHTMARE... I am pretty sure he is ADHD.. and I have commented about this before and she rejected that so fast! But he is such a nightmare to be around. When they come to my ...
A. 14 February 2013: I’m so very sorry that the child is difficult. Do not be so sure he has ADHD. It’s very over-diagnosed. Usually the kids that get picked up very young have other issues that make it worse and that’s why folks think it’s so easy to spot. ... (read in full...)
Would you help your ex raise a child from another woman? He says we can't get back together except as friends
Q. ok, has anyone ever encountered this before? my husband, well ex now once asked if he went and got someone pregnant would i help him raise it? i told him no im too old i have already raised my children. oh we could not have any together because of a ...
A. 14 February 2013: I helped raise a stepdaughter... she was 9 when I became "mom" and i had her for ten years....
I would NOT take back a man who went out impregnated someone and then wanted me to raise the baby. In fact, it almost seems as if the whole scenar... (read in full...)
What does it mean when men act this way?
Q. My boyfriend and I had an argument. I told him I didn't really think he liked me anymore because he doesn't seem to want to get to know me. He basically said "I can't change who I am I just don't like what you're interested in." He later apologized ...
A. 14 February 2013: It's not men... it's some men (and some women)
and it's YOUR current boyfriend.
Here's the deal... he's not that into you...
be thankful he apologized. My husband does not apologize and he just starts acting like NOTHING is wrong... I"m... (read in full...)
My much older boyfriend gets frustrated when I ask him why he's with me
Q. My boyfriend is a lot older (he's 46 I'm 24) and I asked why he was with me. His first response was "I don't know the answer to that" later he said "because I like you". I want to know why he's with me but he just gets frustrated when I ask. I am ...
A. 14 February 2013: OP thank you for the honest answers.
here's my take on each one:
good reasons to stay in a romance, not much to base a life on.... so are you with him for a reason a season or a lifetime? or do you not know?
glad to see you met in person... (read in full...)
I found out before a co-worker that she's going to be let go! How should I handle this?
Q. I currently work for a company who are going through redundancies, and as a result a lot of us have had to re-apply for our jobs. This has been very stressful, but thankfully yesterday I was told I had been successful and have secured my role. ...
A. 13 February 2013: how about the truth "I'm so sorry to hear this"
that's all you have to say,... (read in full...)
My married ex sings songs to me is he trying to get a message through to me?
Q. My ex of many years talks to me reguarly on the phone. He has married a few years ago. Just the other day a song came on the radio "I'm hooked on a feeling" An old song. Anyway, he starts singing it while I'm on the phone with him. It was on the ...
A. 13 February 2013: Ok so he’s lying to his wife and cheating on her (in my book) because he’s talking with you on the phone regularly and he knows she would not like it. And she’s 100% correct
If you were his wife and you found out he was talking with an ex-girlf... (read in full...)
My much older boyfriend gets frustrated when I ask him why he's with me
Q. My boyfriend is a lot older (he's 46 I'm 24) and I asked why he was with me. His first response was "I don't know the answer to that" later he said "because I like you". I want to know why he's with me but he just gets frustrated when I ask. I am ...
A. 13 February 2013: I need to ask you a few questions myself
1. why are you with him?
2. how did you two meet
3. how long have you been together
4. if he told you "because your young and your breasts are perky and we have hot sex and you look good on my... (read in full...)
I had a fantasy about another girl and now I feel so guilty
Q. Bit embarrased about this, but i just need to tell this little thing somehow. I'm together with a girl wich i love with all my heart. We're together since a year now and things go well. Now, this is a long distance relationship so we only see each...
A. 13 February 2013: honey you are not cheating on your gf by having thoughts of others...
fantasy is what fuels masturbation...
I sometimes think of my hubby when I masturbate..sometimes not... sometimes i think of other people or other things...
doe... (read in full...)
I am doing something wrong and I can't figure out what it is.
Q. Hey folks, thanks for taking the time to give me some advice on helping my husband-like boyfriend. This post is long, but I feel like if you, lovely helper, are going to give me some great advice you might need some details first. My boyfriend a...
A. 13 February 2013: you gave us a great list of all the things that are wrong.
you are sleep deprived
money is beyond tight (if his primary job is slow why doesn't he get a second job)
you are going to school and running a household with children without hel... (read in full...)
Am I right to be upset that my BF is going to be roommates with a girl he used to date?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have our up and down in our relationship. We have just recent got back together and this time it really feels like things are going great and it's really working. However the timing is bad. Just yesterday he told me that his...
A. 13 February 2013: trust your gut..
i'm old school and I would not be happy if my partner was living with a member of the opposite sex.. especially an ex
you are over 18... is there a reason you have to do what your mommy wants? does she pay your school bill... (read in full...)
One month until the wedding and still no church or pastor.....does this mean he doesn't really want to marry me?
Q. First off, I'm 45 and my fiancee is 37. A year ago he gave me a ruing and asked me to marry him. We set a date for march 23, 2013. We talked about finding a church home and pastor that we know to marry us. I worked most Sundays and he was off ...
A. 13 February 2013: I would be wondering too... if he has not done anything to further the marriage plans...
Sadly you are clearly engaged about a year or so huh?
and he's done NOTHING to make the wedding happen?
and he won't budge on how you get married... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate compared to my ex, how do I get over this?
Q. Hiya, hope you guys can help me move on. I hads my first real relationship but split up with my ex four months ago. He could be rude, snappy, very negative and would criticise my appearance. I also suspected he may have been cheating. I deci...
A. 13 February 2013: I have no ability to have 16 people at a party...
I have very few friends... I can think of 3 good friends off the top of my head and a bunch of acquaintances...
having 16 people show up for a party does not validate that you are a good perso... (read in full...)
What makes a woman approachable if she is already in the right place to meet people?
Q. They say that people are more likely to find their partners when they were not looking I would like to know what other peoples experiences have been to back this up. I have been single for a while; I attend several voluntary events, groups, and do a ...
A. 13 February 2013: The problem is you are looking... even if you say you are not...
The fact that you are putting so much thought into it says that.
MEN are just like women... why would they approach a stranger and start a conversation and risk being rejected?... (read in full...)
Who to choose, my controlling bf, or the one I always wanted?
Q. I have been dating my bf for 2 years now,and i love him incredibly, but at times, he makes me extrememly misrerable, especially with his controlling attitude..i've been cring for the last week because i feel like a bird trapped in a cage. To make ...
A. 13 February 2013: I Love him incredibly you say…. How do I love thee… let me count the ways.
Left side of the page list one thing on each line all the things he currently does that makes you love him… NOT the things you want him to do… not the things he di... (read in full...)
Is my weight putting boys off?
Q. I am 17 and i am 5'7" and nearly 160lbs. i have always been bigger than my friends but now its really getting me down. right now all my close friends and sister have boyfriends and i really want one. is my weight putting boys off? it makes me feel ...
A. 13 February 2013: I don't think that 160 at 5'7" is that bad... especially if you are young and fit.... actually at 17 and 5'7" your bmi is 25.1 or so and that's HEALTHY
when I was your age I thought I was fat. I would kill to weigh what i weighed in high sch... (read in full...)
What can I do to make sure I stay awake for Valentines Day?
Q. Here's my dilemna. I NEED TO STAY AWAKE FOR VALENTINES. I'm a nocturnal creature. I work the graveyard shift and sleep all day. My girlfriend is the complete opposite. She has a regular 9 to 5 and she's in bed by ten. For valentines I hav...
A. 13 February 2013: Coffee does not do it for me... sometimes strongly brewed Ice tea will keep me up....
you are young... you should be able to miss a few hours of sleep....
you are totally correct that having sex for the first time on valentines day is la... (read in full...)
Is it OK to see someone you've broken up with one last time to end things on a positive note?
Q. I met a man a while ago and we started dating. It was going well and I really liked him and still do, but unfortunately, because of circumstances outside our control, we have to go our separate ways. I won't go into it because it's a long story but ...
A. 13 February 2013: it sounds like it's an amicable break up... you've talked and agreed it's not going to work.
I understand your question but I don't think you should see him one last time if you have both agreed you should move on...
why drag out the inevita... (read in full...)
I’m terrified of getting my heart broken and it’s pushing everything I want away.
Q. my self worth is so low I am 18 years old and I have never been in a “relationship” i’ve never had anyone reciprocate love to me…I always give myself and my emotions to people but never get anything in return no one has ever gone out there ...
A. 13 February 2013: My self-worth is so low
I’ve never had anyone reciprocate love to me
No one has ever gone out of there (sic) way to do something nice for me or show that they care for me
I’m so damaged and insecure
LOOK UP AT WHAT YOU WROTE…. Look at the ... (read in full...)
Got involved with married woman.... Big mistake!
Q. Dear Cupid, Aunties and Uncles! Please help?! I imagine this will be quite a lengthy question so please be patient with me. I am looking for some serious, honest advise. This will sound like something out of a movie but what I'm about to tell...
A. 13 February 2013: you get threatening text messages? have you reported them to the carrier?
they come to your house... do you have a sign up that says "no tresspassing?" if not... GET ONE... a BIG ONE, one that is easily seen that says VIOLATORS will be prose... (read in full...)
My married ex sings songs to me is he trying to get a message through to me?
Q. My ex of many years talks to me reguarly on the phone. He has married a few years ago. Just the other day a song came on the radio "I'm hooked on a feeling" An old song. Anyway, he starts singing it while I'm on the phone with him. It was on the ...
A. 13 February 2013: He’s your ex and he’s married. Does his WIFE know he talks to you regularly on the phone? Is she OK with it?
I would not read too much into it at all that he was singing “hooked on a feeling” (btw was it the blue suede version or the BJ Thoma... (read in full...)
Why does my husband have no interest in sex?
Q. My husband and I have been married for almost 20 years, two teens, good life, great sex......until about 2 years ago. In the last 2 years our sex life has dwindled to nothing.....literally nothing. He has not touched me in 8 months. He is a ...
A. 13 February 2013: 2 cans of snuff a day will destroy his jaw and his mouth... I do not think it will mess with his libido. It may however mess with his ability to have an erection.
of course at his age (I assume he is in his late 40s or so) he may be starting... (read in full...)
How much time should you know a person before taking a move for dating/relationship?
Q. Hello, I am 21 studying at university. I wanted to ask about how much time you should know a person before taking a move for dating/relationship?? And how do you show you are interested and take the move?? please share your views and ex...
A. 13 February 2013: Tongue in cheek reply: how long should you know a person before you move to a dating relationship: an hour. Or less.
If you meet someone and you want to get to know them better… ask them out… no need to pussy foot around and wait weeks or... (read in full...)
Am I doomed for a lonely life because I am fat? Are all the good men shy? And can men see beyond the weight?
Q. I am fat, and I think that is why men don't notice me. I dress up, take extra precautions to be presentable, and work hard to not be a turn-off and seem friendly in general. I am pretty well educated, usually non-controversial, and can carry a ...
A. 13 February 2013: Nope you are not doomed. I was 290 pounds when I married my ex husband. He left me when I lost weight. There are lots of men out there that prefer overweight women.
I will tell you that the reason you currently don’t have signific... (read in full...)
Mooching Friends.. getting tired of it
Q. I need a bit of advice. I have these two friends (who are very close, roommates with eachother, etc). I enjoy spending time with them as they are very fun, artsy, funny but I feel like they really take advantage of people.. especially me. They don't ...
A. 13 February 2013: Like Nancy Regan said over and over "JUST SAY NO"
you have fun with them so you are afraid if you say NO to them they will stop asking to spend time with you...
are you afraid to find out they only like you because of what you do for them?
... (read in full...)
Troubles. All I seem to do is work and sleep. So why is she so distrustful? why does she think I'm cheating?
Q. My gf has been thinking I've been cheating on her. I work hard and once and a while I have to work late. She thinks I should have bankers hours. I have a kid and I scream at her in front of him and it really upsets me. All I do is work and s...
A. 13 February 2013: You have a child. is it HER child too? because if it's not her child why does she have any say in who babysits your child?
if you only work and sleep you are not playing and all work and no play makes jack a dull and lonely boy...
if yo... (read in full...)
Can I move on from my resentment towards my ex boyfriend and his lies and this other woman?
Q. Even though we had broke up again, this time he had a threesome with his up stairs neighbors. He said it happened only one time. The husband and my boyfriend had sex with her that was her fantasy My boyfriend denies ever being with her befor...
A. 13 February 2013: so you resent your ex boyfriend for being a liar and a cheater and want to know how to get over it?
if that's what you are asking my advice is to block him from your phone, your email and your social media and live well as best you can.
Li... (read in full...)
Is this a good idea? She's never been in a relationship and I want to be her first big crush
Q. I have a huge crush on a girl in my college. She is my junior. We are good friends. Problem is she is a teenager and i am 21 years old so i dont know how to tell her that i like her. She's never been in a relationship and i want to be her first bi...
A. 13 February 2013: you are 21
is she 17 or 18 or is she 14 or 15 because the difference is huge.
if she's under 18 you need to wait till she is 18
if she's 18 or older, you can't force her to feel about you the way you WANT her to feel but you can ass... (read in full...)
Should I send Valentines cards to the 2 girls that I like?
Q. I am becoming more confident in asking girls out, but I'm not sure about these, so I need some advice: The girl who does my massage has a great personality and is very sexy. I have had feelings for her for a while now, and when I go and see her w...
A. 12 February 2013: well then maybe a card for the one girl and flowers and a card for the massage girl...
I only worry that the massage girl is nice to you as you are a client and that her personal feelings are not really there....... (read in full...)
Should I send Valentines cards to the 2 girls that I like?
Q. I am becoming more confident in asking girls out, but I'm not sure about these, so I need some advice: The girl who does my massage has a great personality and is very sexy. I have had feelings for her for a while now, and when I go and see her w...
A. 12 February 2013: a very small (like 2 or 3 pieces no more) box of chocolates might be ok... but NOTHING over the top...
I think it's nice to give cards to folks you see on a regular basis.... but yeah flowers should be saved for women you are involved wit... (read in full...)
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