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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Husband of many years has changed. Is he cheating?? Or does it sound like he is?
Q. Hi Everyone I have many questions but first let me explain. I have been married almost 20 yrs, I'm 38 he's 46. We have 3 beautiful children 22, 21 and 14. My 1st child is not his blood but there is no step anything in my home, however problems h...
A. 14 February 2013: wait wait wait.. you have savings accounts that you don't know where they are or have access to?
do you have other financial issues that he controls and don't have access to? I would change that ASAP
no i would not force him to go to c... (read in full...)
Is this a good idea? She's never been in a relationship and I want to be her first big crush
Q. I have a huge crush on a girl in my college. She is my junior. We are good friends. Problem is she is a teenager and i am 21 years old so i dont know how to tell her that i like her. She's never been in a relationship and i want to be her first bi...
A. 13 February 2013: you are 21
is she 17 or 18 or is she 14 or 15 because the difference is huge.
if she's under 18 you need to wait till she is 18
if she's 18 or older, you can't force her to feel about you the way you WANT her to feel but you can ass... (read in full...)
Are my fears valid? I am afraid that if I lose weight, I will get noticed just as a person up for sex and they will take no notice of my personality.
Q. Is anyone having a hard time losing weight, because they fear that they will attract guys/girls for the wrong reasons? I am significantly overweight, and am invisible to the opposite sex. I am perfectly presentable, and kind, and likeable othe...
A. 13 February 2013: Yes if you lose weight you become visible. It sucks to know this. And it’s not so much in your day to day life with folks that know you but rather with strangers… and to be honest who cares what strangers say or do? AT nearly 300 pounds.. no one ... (read in full...)
Does this kiss between my wife and friend mean anything?
Q. Weve known a married couple 10+ years, they are a great couple and really close friends.I feel there is an attachment, not sure whether its emotional, physical-just different to previous friendships.We see each other almost every week, always a ...
A. 13 February 2013: Trager,
Thank you for the compliment. I know most folks speak negatively of the swinger lifestyle without having had any personal experience with it… I have had a negative experience with it but I have seen LONG term positive experiences for othe... (read in full...)
I found out accidentally that my friend is transgender. How can I help her?
Q. This is more of a question on friendships rather than relationships, but I didn't know where else to go to for advice. Basically tonight I done something I shouldn't have, I went on to my friends email account- totally innocently to resend an email...
A. 13 February 2013: ouchies... hard to know what to do.
not sure what to tell you but my first thought is this:
maybe find a way to mention to her that you have been reading about LBGT folks and that you are learning more and more about transgendered folks ... (read in full...)
Un-Happily Ever After
Q. At first glace it would seem that things are fine, however, I have never been so lonely and miserable in my life. My husband is not home very often and goes to his friends’ houses, his dad's house or fishing after work most days. When he is at home ...
A. 13 February 2013: I think you are wasting your life with him.
DO NOT stay because you are worried what the kids will think.
IF you want your kids to grow up thinking that his behavior is acceptable then stay with him. Your son will learn to not be a parent s... (read in full...)
Do girls speak with their actions not their words? I'm confused!
Q. I have a complex question or to me its complex. I have no idea where i stand maybe someone can help me? I am 20 years old. I have been with this amazing girl for 2 years. We both are in school. She started last September me just last week in Feb...
A. 13 February 2013: Usually actions speak louder than words... but in this case I'm going to caution you to listen to what she is saying.
You are both young and still emotionally and mentally maturing... you have been with this girl since age 18 and trust me wha... (read in full...)
My friend manipulated me and I cant forgive him, what do I do?
Q. Hi guys! I am having a very big problem right now and would love to have someone elses opinion on what I should do. For the past few months I have been hanging around with my friend of 8 years much more recently because we decided it would be g...
A. 13 February 2013: You have to be 100% open and forthright with folks like this guy. You need to basically verbally "hit him over the head with a 2x4"
in other words you say
[guy's name] I'm flattered by how you feel but I have to stress that there will NEVER... (read in full...)
Is she playing games or is she not interested?
Q. So I met this girl online a year or two ago. Long time, anyways, we just casually chatted for all that time and I wasn't really into her, I just wanted to be a friend to her. She's a shy type and I supposed she wanted me to ask her out but I never ...
A. 13 February 2013: I have to admit that it seems like she's a nice girl but either she is very very shy and nervous or more likely, she's not that into you.
... (read in full...)
Why does my male friend treat me differently from his other friends?
Q. Hi everyone. Can you help me figure out why this guy seems to treat me differently from our other friends. We hang out in a group of friends. I see him checking me out all the time from across the room or looking at my butt etc. He smile...
A. 13 February 2013: IF he is in a relationship the reason he ignores you, is probably to not lead you on.... He may find you intriguing and attractive and feels that being friendly with you would be unfair since he can't be anything more than a casual friend, he'd ... (read in full...)
Could it be that my boyfriend still loves his ex? He tells me he's slept with her several times since they broke up
Q. My boyfriend told me that he has slept with his ex several times since they broke up, she is the mother of his children. This has made me feel paranoid that this could happen again or that at least he still fancies her. I hate how this has made me ...
A. 13 February 2013: ya know, yeah I have to admit I read it as he's sleeping with her WHILE he's your boyfriend.
if he did this BEFORE You two got together then my response is very different...
IF he did it before he met you and they are not apart all that l... (read in full...)
I've never been with a girl before and now don't know how to proceed with her? She's stopped replying to my messages.
Q. Hey everyone! I'm in need of some advice, thanks for your help in advance! I've been messaging with a girl for a few months now. I've actually never been with a girl before, but for some reason she and I seemed to connect from the very first secon...
A. 13 February 2013: so you sent a text and got no response?
you said you wanted to "ask her out in my second message
DO NOT USE TEXT MESSAGING for important things like asking for a date!
I would make ONE phone call... if she does not answer, leave a voi... (read in full...)
Am I sending out the wrong signals in regards to dating?
Q. I'm a college student and hardly have any time to date. However, I'm getting to an age where all my friends are meeting great guys out of the blue and getting into serious relationships. So, needless to say, it gets frustrating and lonely not having ...
A. 13 February 2013:
I get the whole “noah’s ark” thing… your friends are paired and you are not and you are feeling left out…. That’s normal
You say you feel like you are sending out “signals” that are off-putting…. Do you have any idea what they are or are ... (read in full...)
My estranged mother is threatening to tell my father about my secret engagement! I'm not ready for anyone to know!
Q. My mother moved away without telling me or my dad. I don't know where she's living now, and my dad is buried in debt because of her. She did some things that I felt were very wrong (like stealing things from the house), so I just didn't even have...
A. 13 February 2013: i think long and/or secret engagements are silly and game playing.
take the winds out of her sails... break the engagement and date your boyfriend till you are ready to be a grown up and share your joy with everyone.
I assume you don't have a... (read in full...)
Online guy seems to have vanished! I'm disappointed did he get the wrong impression?
Q. Hello I'm hoping someone can shed a light please?... Last week I met a guy online. We exchanged loads of messages and seemed to get on really well and have loads in common. I told him my interests ag walking, camping and he hinted that he would ...
A. 13 February 2013: you walked away from a conversation without telling him? well no wonder he's being distant.... that was not nice.
as for pics... did he want face shots or dirty pictures.
I see no problem with face shots..... if it was just face shots he a... (read in full...)
LDR--is it normal for him to masturbate every day?
Q. My fiance and I are on a long distance relationship due to work. We see each other twice o thrice a month (on weekends). My concern's that he masturbates almost every day ( I know because he sends me pics and we talk about everything in our ...
A. 13 February 2013: yes it's normal for him to do it daily I'm married and I live with my hubby and I still do it almost daily sometimes more than once a day...
and yes if he is ejaculating daily it can impact his sperm motility and the amount.
He should h... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend getting satisfied?
Q. My boyfriend makes me wonder because he's been ejuculating outside , everytime he takes it out when the big moment comes . I'm worried if he got satisfied or ?????...
A. 13 February 2013: have you asked him why he does it?
have you asked him if he's satisfied?... (read in full...)
How important is a mans height in society
Q. I have an acquaintance who is a few centimeters from being 6 feet tall and he believes he is short and worthless because of it. He brought up a lot of articles and facts about how being short is the worst thing a guy can be and that being 6 feet ...
A. 13 February 2013: the average man is 5'8"
I heard 6'2" is 4.6% of the population... (it was on CBS sunday morning just last weekend)
my hubby is about 5'7 or just under and he's perfect for me.
many of the men I work with are well under 6 feet tall and v... (read in full...)
My husband talks to 5 women daily but does not care about me
Q. I have been married 15 years and it has been rocky but I am working on me and fixing me and letting him do what he needs to do and we are doing better. But I still am working on some jealousy issues. He has 5 lady friends he likes to talk...
A. 13 February 2013: I would be crazed if my husband did this. the fact that he gets defensive indicates to me that he knows he's wrong.
I agree that if you want to stay married to him (and for the life of me I can't imagine why you want to stay with a man who s... (read in full...)
I have a BF. Yet I'm seriously questioning my sexuality. What can I do?
Q. Hi everyone, So here is my problem. I am in a happy, loving, stable relationship of 2.5 years with the man of my dreams. I really, truly can't picture myself not being with him. He feels the same, but... something isn't quite adding up. Ever...
A. 13 February 2013: OP if it helps I can tell you how I define cheating...
CHEATING is anything you can't won't and DON'T tell your partner.
so if you go to your bf and say I would like to try this on my own with your permission and blessing and I can't... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him but he has a girlfriend
Q. Hey guys, I need some help big time. I have a best friend, Of whom is a guy... We met a while back, and we just clicked. I dont think I need to explain how the chemistry works as I'm sure you all understand. He's quite abit older than me (24), bu...
A. 12 February 2013: Trust me a 24 year old boy/man who gets along with a 16 yr old girl is immature no matter what you believe.
You think you have fallen for him… NOT good.
He lives with his gf… he is off limits. Does his live in girl friend know about her b... (read in full...)
Are my parents right to be worried and should I worry a bit more about my crush on this 49 year old salesman?
Q. I am a 19 year old apprentice hairdresser, I have fallen for a 49 year old salesman who delivers product to our salon. I have always fancied older men and have had a few affairs and slept with them. My parents are worried that he his using me and...
A. 12 February 2013: I think you are nothing more than fun and games to him...
that you mean nothing more to him than a wisp in the wind.
I'd dump him.... (read in full...)
Are my parents right to be worried and should I worry a bit more about my crush on this 49 year old salesman?
Q. I am a 19 year old apprentice hairdresser, I have fallen for a 49 year old salesman who delivers product to our salon. I have always fancied older men and have had a few affairs and slept with them. My parents are worried that he his using me and...
A. 12 February 2013: I think you are nothing more than fun and games to him...
that you mean nothing more to him than a wisp in the wind.
I'd dump him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend married someone else a few weeks ago. Should I listen to his words that we could be together?
Q. my boyfriend got married to some other person few weeks back. He says they are not staying together, and he still tells me that he loves me and want to be with me forever and will marry me. i am not getting what to do I am not able to go away ...
A. 12 February 2013: what you need to do is accept that he's not leaving his wife
he's not marrying you
he's lying to you
move on from this man.... (read in full...)
Was my Bf out of line for objecting to the discussions I had with my best girlfriend who is newly married?
Q. My best friend got married recently. I had a text chat with her regarding her sexual life and she told me about the things that happened between her and her husband. My boyfriend saw those chats and started fighting with me that how can I talk l...
A. 12 February 2013: my girlfriends and I talk about sex all the time.... we don't get into specifics about size or how long a guy lasts or anything like that
but frequency... and what we do and do not like... all those things are talked about.
I guess you... (read in full...)
Guy at work who I really like. But we both have partners. Due to his actions should I change what I wear, so he does not get distracted?
Q. Hi well this is my first post on here so here it goes. There is this guy at work, whom I really like, but we are both with people. We have been flirting even though a friend has told me he's not worth it. Well today as I was walking out the o...
A. 12 February 2013: it's easy
you stop flirting with him in any way that could be misconstrued as leading him on. You remember that you have a partner that you love and don't want to lie to or cheat on (and remember anything you can't won't or don't tell is cheat... (read in full...)
Could it be that my boyfriend still loves his ex? He tells me he's slept with her several times since they broke up
Q. My boyfriend told me that he has slept with his ex several times since they broke up, she is the mother of his children. This has made me feel paranoid that this could happen again or that at least he still fancies her. I hate how this has made me ...
A. 12 February 2013: I'd not only be paranoid I'd be PISSED
He is your BOYFRIEND and he's sleeping with his EX while he's your BOYFRIEND?
and this is OK with you? did you give him permission to sleep with her while he's your BOYFRIEND?
should you be par... (read in full...)
Is he going to ask me to marry him? how would I know ahead of time if he is intending marriage?
Q. Is he going to pop the question....soon? Well here it is again he refers to my mom as MIL His mom gave me pictures of when he was little; he's asked me if he can be my daughters step dad? He's always talks of our future selling his current home...
A. 12 February 2013: to be honest the only person that knows is him.
However, it sounds to me like you want it and he's just giving you lip service to what sounds good.
If you want to know.... you have to ask him.
... (read in full...)
Still getting over breaking up with a girl I loved. Will I ever find love again? It's difficult for me to meet girls and I have few real friends.
Q. I am eighteen and was dumped a short while ago by a girl i loved to bits. I'm worried that I'll never find the right girl. I know im still a little young but im getting older. I'm just upset all the time because i have about three real friends. A...
A. 12 February 2013: you should continue to live your life to the fullest and once you are fully healed from the last relationship, be open to meeting new folks and new experiences.
I laughed the other night at the grammys when a 30 yr old said "we are not young"
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Is it too soon to spend the night on our special St Valentine's date?
Q. So this old high school classmate of mine that was never more then an acquaintance and Facebook friend recently came into my life by way of working at my job once a week... We ended up talking more on FB which lead to us exchanging numbers....
A. 12 February 2013: is there a guest room for you to sleep in?
if so I would stay in the guest room.... no sense in teasing each other by sleeping in the same bed.... (read in full...)
The personality is there. What are the positives and negatives of not having a big physical attraction to the person?
Q. Please consider if someone has the personality, but their looks aren't all the way to what you'd like and you're considering them for a serious relationship, possibly marriage. What are the positives and negatives of not having a big physical attr...
A. 12 February 2013: if the only issue is that she's a bit thin for your taste but everything else works... i can assure you that most women gain weight as they age and with pregnancy child birth and nursing.... weight is a very fluid thing for many of us.
if ... (read in full...)
Since our break-up have I made a mistake by ignoring him?
Q. My boyfriend and I split up a while ago due to arguments. I really love him and want him back. My friends have said to ignore him which I have done for the entire week. And through out week he has sent me a few messages asking me out to movies an...
A. 12 February 2013: you say you split up a while ago... when did you split up?
then you say you have ignored him for the entire week... what made you suddenly ignore him for the week. what was your rationale for ignoring him? was it to get him back or for you to h... (read in full...)
I lied to my employer when I handed in my notice. Current employer offered me better position. Should I accept it or just leave?
Q. Last year my grandfather died and he left some of his money to me and to my brother. Here's my dilemma... I have worked all my life The problem is that the line if work I'm in, customer services pays badly and there is zero respect in the j...
A. 12 February 2013: I would take the job offer from the current company and give them 150% effort.... (read in full...)
I've cut off my jealous relatives because they bad talked about me and my parents. Why are they like this?
Q. Hey everyone, HATE is strong word but here I want to use this word and say I absolutely HaTe my relatives! They want everyone to act like their slaves, for 15 years I didn't say anything they would trash talk my dad soo much, my family put us do...
A. 12 February 2013: What I have learned is there is family and there are relatives.
your relatives are those folks you are legally related to by blood. if they do not behave properly it's ok as far as I'm concerned to ignore them totally.
FAMILY on the o... (read in full...)
Woman I met on a lesbian dating site is actually bisexual and married! How could she be so deceitful, and should I confront her?
Q. I'm a lesbian and a few months back I joined a lesbian dating site. Shortly thereafter a member contacted me and expressed an interest in me. I was impressed with how she presented herself, what she conversated about. I have since taken a fond ...
A. 12 February 2013: what will "confronting her" do for you? for her?
she lied.
that's so very wrong. I assume not only is she lying to you, that she's lying to her husband as well.
people are unethical and deceitful because they can get away with it.
... (read in full...)
The personality is there. What are the positives and negatives of not having a big physical attraction to the person?
Q. Please consider if someone has the personality, but their looks aren't all the way to what you'd like and you're considering them for a serious relationship, possibly marriage. What are the positives and negatives of not having a big physical attr...
A. 12 February 2013: When you say “their looks aren’t all the way to what you’d like” what do you mean?
My husband likes dark straight hair. I had curly red hair when we started dating… He survived. He’s not happy with my current hair style but he lives with it…... (read in full...)
Husband of many years has changed. Is he cheating?? Or does it sound like he is?
Q. Hi Everyone I have many questions but first let me explain. I have been married almost 20 yrs, I'm 38 he's 46. We have 3 beautiful children 22, 21 and 14. My 1st child is not his blood but there is no step anything in my home, however problems h...
A. 12 February 2013: have you asked him if he's happy? If he says "yeah sure" or anything else like that, then you have to ask "can you tell me why"
at 46 he may just be slowing down sexually.
I understand being focused on the kids when they are younger but... (read in full...)
I'm going away for 2 weeks and we went on one date. Will he forget me in that time?
Q. Hi im on an exchange in germany at the moment but just before I left me and this guy ive liked for weeks went on a date it went really well so the day I was leaving we met up. That went really well and we kissed and he was on about meeting my family ...
A. 12 February 2013: Serpico and CMMP are right... if he does forget you in two weeks, there was nothing there and he's not worth the effort.
to be honest however it sounds like you are trying to find something to worry about....
2 weeks is NOT a long time... n... (read in full...)
Is it worth staying in a relationship when its difficult to get along?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for a solid 9 months. He is older than me. I am 18 and he is 27. HE is an illegal immigrant and he has a 1 year old daughter with his ex. I found out about his daughter and literatly unbalanced ex 2 months ...
A. 12 February 2013: So you are dating an older man who is illegally in this country (breaking the law)
He barely speaks English and from your post you indicate you have a hard time communicating because you do not speak Spanish, this is a big huge problem as communic... (read in full...)
I'm getting mixed signals from ex
Q. So, me and this girl broke up about 9 months ago. I've met and dated other people, lived my life in the meantime. Yet I can't get over her, my mind keeps going back. We still meet every now and again and get along great. People who don't kn...
A. 12 February 2013: There is nothing you can do to make her change her mind and I think she's being very unfair stringing you along like this.
This is why you should not be friends with ex partners. it's confusing... you are confusing her being kind and friendly... (read in full...)
Are there income disparities in your relationship?
Q. I moved to another state to be with my fiance after he asked me to move in with him. I sold my house and moved away from all my friends to a small rural town. I am from a big city. I got laid off, lost my husband--all life changing events. He r...
A. 12 February 2013: What income disparities do you speak of? The fact that he makes 50k and I make nearly 90k? we don't see that.
what we see is OUR HOME and OUR life and OUR money.
My background story: met him in person in mid 2010 started an "affair" ... (read in full...)
Is love enough? Will we hurt our families too much if we try to be together?
Q. My husband was a pastor, had 1 emotional affair another affair that was physical, I also had some affairs as well. He's wanting to make the marriage work, but I'm not. I met a man and he's in a bad marriage as well, we both have older children, but ...
A. 12 February 2013: You are serially cheating on your husband. Regardless of what your current affair partner wants to do, I think you should consider the divorce as a healthy action.
You say you don't want to make the marriage work. That's all I need to know.. i... (read in full...)
I've never been with a girl before and now don't know how to proceed with her? She's stopped replying to my messages.
Q. Hey everyone! I'm in need of some advice, thanks for your help in advance! I've been messaging with a girl for a few months now. I've actually never been with a girl before, but for some reason she and I seemed to connect from the very first secon...
A. 12 February 2013: I'm thinking if you like her and she likes you that she's ready to take it to the next step beyond just messaging...
text messaging is not a way to have a relationship....
how about you pick up the phone and call her and ask her out for coff... (read in full...)
I have a BF. Yet I'm seriously questioning my sexuality. What can I do?
Q. Hi everyone, So here is my problem. I am in a happy, loving, stable relationship of 2.5 years with the man of my dreams. I really, truly can't picture myself not being with him. He feels the same, but... something isn't quite adding up. Ever...
A. 11 February 2013: Well if he knows you question it, wouldn't it be best to figure out what's going on?
If you are bisexual (I am) then you have some choices to make...
I am monogamous so while I miss my girl play, I am now with a man and will not (even with ... (read in full...)
Does this kiss between my wife and friend mean anything?
Q. Weve known a married couple 10+ years, they are a great couple and really close friends.I feel there is an attachment, not sure whether its emotional, physical-just different to previous friendships.We see each other almost every week, always a ...
A. 7 February 2013: OP, you can't worry about keeping the friendship unless it's more important to you than your marriage.
Have you told your wife what he said?
IF so, what did she say?
IF not, why not?
The fact that you told him it's a major t... (read in full...)
Does this kiss between my wife and friend mean anything?
Q. Weve known a married couple 10+ years, they are a great couple and really close friends.I feel there is an attachment, not sure whether its emotional, physical-just different to previous friendships.We see each other almost every week, always a ...
A. 24 January 2013: Ah I love follow-ups… thank you OP for clarifying so many things.
1. DO NOT EVER consider swinging. YOU can’t handle it, based on your follow up.
2. I do not know what ^^^ed is supposed to mean but no one said she was drunk or irrespons... (read in full...)
Does this kiss between my wife and friend mean anything?
Q. Weve known a married couple 10+ years, they are a great couple and really close friends.I feel there is an attachment, not sure whether its emotional, physical-just different to previous friendships.We see each other almost every week, always a ...
A. 23 January 2013: alcohol makes us do things we would not and should not normally do.
I would LET IT GO
and NOT joke about this.
Swinging has ruined more marriages than I care to admit.
My last marriage was open and it was the death of the marriage.... (read in full...)
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