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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Boyfriend will not acknowledge me on facebook
Q. I have been with a man for 1 year ..we get together every other weekend as my 10 yr son goes to his fathers house. I have travelled with this man and still I find it troubling he wont ackowledge my relationship status on facebook, I am getting upset ...
A. 28 February 2013: I understand what you are feeling and why OP and yes if he lives his life on facebook it's an issue... but if he's only an occasional FB user... No big deal
the fact that he has a history of cheating.... yeah I see your point.
I hope you ca... (read in full...)
What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.
Q. I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...
A. 26 February 2013: if you do not live in the home it's even easier... just do not put yourself in the situation where your parents guilt you and your siblings beg...
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52 year old male with 3 late teen daughters seeing a 20 year old woman?
Q. I'm 52 and divorced with three daughters ages 21, 18, 17. I have been seeing a 20 year old woman. My daughters think this is very bad. The 20 year old wants me to choose her over my daughters. I broke it off with the 20 year old because of my ...
A. 26 February 2013: OP,
you saw her for two weeks and were having sex with her and introduced her to your daughters... wow!
did the fact that she was so sexual with you so quickly not concern you?
and now a mere two weeks later she's off and running with o... (read in full...)
He needs some foot hygiene help! How do I do that without embarrassing him?
Q. My 28 year old boyfriend and I were hanging out at my place. He was exhausted from work, so I offer to give him a foot massage. His skin is a little hard and dry but the feet don't smell. At a certain point I notice that he has some white cotta...
A. 26 February 2013: doesn't athletes' foot itch???
btw you soak your feet so long with a professional pedicure most of it soaks off....and they are so used to to crud they wear latex gloves to give pedicures...... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to have fallen for him? He's 17!
Q. Hi this is a tough one, Im a 27 year old woman and i recently started back at college in september last year, I became close friends with a 17 year old boy we have become really close we get along so well and have same interests and hobbies our ...
A. 26 February 2013: i have friends who met when he was 18 and she was nearly 30... their daughter is now nearly 5.... their wedding... beautiful
my only concern is that he's only 17..... ... (read in full...)
Am I sexually satisfying my bf enough?
Q. I am 24 and recently moved in my bf of 1.5 years. I am FT grad student and used to work PT but it was alot so he pays everything until I finish ( a year). He is 30 and an attorney who makes over 6 figures. He said he doesn't mind and loves taking ...
A. 25 February 2013: Twice a day when you are working full time and going to school is a lot....
i think all he was saying is that he is happy and loves having sex with you.
... (read in full...)
Why won't my amazing, lovely wife have sex with me with the lights on?
Q. My wife is amazing in bed,even after 20+ years together,3 kids I still think she has a fantastic figure,the only problem is she still won't have sex with light on,let me me see her naked or have sex in daytime,I keep telling she's got a lovely ...
A. 25 February 2013: Have you asked her why she does not want to?
It may very well be that she's modest...(were you at the birth of your children?)
it could be that she was raised that bodies are private...
it could be a religious thing depending on if... (read in full...)
He needs some foot hygiene help! How do I do that without embarrassing him?
Q. My 28 year old boyfriend and I were hanging out at my place. He was exhausted from work, so I offer to give him a foot massage. His skin is a little hard and dry but the feet don't smell. At a certain point I notice that he has some white cotta...
A. 25 February 2013: or if he's like me his feet are so far away from his brain he forgets about them.
if you are not sure you want to bring it up with him perhaps you could suggest mani pedi night... my hubby and I go every 5 weeks and he gets a manicure and... (read in full...)
How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?
Q. My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and...
A. 25 February 2013: Ok I will excuse him only seeing them on birthdays and holidays since he lives a 5 hour flight away... ugh that is hard....
the only person that can speak to him supporting OTHER children in addition to the two he already has is him.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps teasing me about being loud in bed, and it's making me self-conscious!
Q. Hello everyone! I'd like to know if you think I'm being too sensitive about this issue or not. Every so often, my boyfriend starts teasing me about the fact I can be rather, erm, vocal in bed. I know he doesn't do it to be horrible, but he does like ...
A. 25 February 2013: if he's teasing you in private... let it go and stop over thinking it...
as long as he doesn't do it in public or in front of others it's no big deal... if he embarrasses you in front of others, then that's the issue to address...
but his t... (read in full...)
Are we Platonic or not? While telling me he's a "Player", now he wants me to meet his sister.Why?
Q. If your guy friend wants you to meet his sister(after 9 months) is my relationship with my guy friend platonic or not? Why am I confused? It's because he has been saying that she wants to meet me, and now he's actually putting something to...
A. 25 February 2013: maybe you and his sister will hit it off.
stop reading things into it...
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What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.
Q. I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...
A. 25 February 2013: I've always said we can choose our family but not our relatives.
if you don't like the people you are related to, don't be around them.
I'm not even sure my mother in law knows her only son got married in October. Her son (my husband) doe... (read in full...)
What can I do about my fiance who continues to lie to me? Money is tight yet he still spends on things we can't afford.
Q. my fiance keeps lying about stupid things and its driving me up the wall. He's not working at the moment so money is tight, I have spoken to him about how much he keeps spending several times now. He has two kids from a previous relationshi...
A. 25 February 2013: if it's HIS credit card, don't pay it.
if it's YOUR credit card and he's an authorized user... pull his usage on your card.
I get how he is. I used to be that way. Now my husband is in charge of the money and I admitted I'm no good at mone... (read in full...)
How do you cope with an annoyed partner?
Q. How do you cope with an annoyed partner - he's annoyed basically because his brother in law (my brother) has not yet bought his Christmas present (yes, Christmas just gone). I'm fed up with hearing about it - although I do agree with him to an e...
A. 25 February 2013: oh please,
you teach YOUR CHILDREN manners, etiquette and politeness... not other adults.
your OH wants to say something because he's pissed. Too damn bad. Adults learn to live with annoyance and disappointment.
sounds to me like... (read in full...)
How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?
Q. My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and...
A. 25 February 2013: Dear Ella88,
You love your partner and you believe he loves you.
You wish you had met him when you were ten and he was 20…. Why so he could be your babysitter? I’m so glad I did not meet my husband when he was younger… I’d never be abl... (read in full...)
I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?
Q. Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers al...
A. 25 February 2013: just like we outgrow our clothes and boyfriends sometimes we outgrow our best friends.
in this case, you're growing and she is not.
stop asking her questions that you don't want to hear the answers to.
part of the problem is you ar... (read in full...)
My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?
Q. Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a f...
A. 25 February 2013: Well you not wanting him to get a vasectomy is really null and moot.
It's his body and he has two kids... he clearly knows he can only afford to support two kids... he's being an adult and making a choice.
I do not see how you two can be t... (read in full...)
He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?
Q. last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being ove...
A. 25 February 2013: of course you cried and begged him to work it out...
gawd it sucks when someone breaks up with you...
you clearly will tell him you respect his wishes if you leave him alone and get on with your life.
I'm sure he expected you to cry i... (read in full...)
My abusive ex is still controlling my life today.
Q. I was dating this guy a month back, we broke up because my so called 'best friend' was a lying cow and took advantage of his paranoia to break us up then tried to get in there herself. But that's another story. The important thing here is that my ...
A. 25 February 2013: he's your ex why do you even talk to him?
you want him back you say... WHY?
why do you want this boy back?
this boy who didn't trust you so much that he took your "friends" word over yours
this boy who tries to CONTROL you?
... (read in full...)
Why isn't she getting back to me after she shows interest?
Q. I got a cute girl's number, we texted, ended up going out and had a great time. She even suggested "grabbing dinner next time." I asked her out again, and she agreed, but she said that she had to check her schedule and get back to me. A couple days ...
A. 25 February 2013: sounds like she's not that into you or she's playing games.
either way I'd just say "NEXT" and move on.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl uses exclamation marks in her messages?
Q. There's this girl I like. I only got back in contact with her recently after 2 years. I know she had a crush on me last time I saw her. She uses exclamation marks at the end of all her sentences. I know it's speculating, but what does this mean? ...
A. 25 February 2013: it means it's her favorite form of punctuation.
I love the ellipse...
stop trying to see something there that probably isn't.... (read in full...)
Relationship ending due to cheating but stuck in an apartment together
Q. hi Im really hard a time thinking about this me and my ex gf of almost 4 years broke up with me she said she couldn't love me anymore because she cheated on me she says she doesnt want me to get hurt anymore, i did forgive her for the cheating, i ...
A. 25 February 2013: she used HER cheating on you as a reason to break up... she just does not want to be with you any more....
time to move on I'm sorry.... (read in full...)
Getting married in May but fiancee called another girl beautiful on the phone.
Q. Dear cupid friends, help! I have been dating my fiance for 7 years. We are supposed to get married in May. He knows I already have trust issues with him. Well the other morning I looked at his phone and to my shock he had texted some other girl and ...
A. 25 February 2013: I would not marry him. calling off a wedding is much easier than getting a divorce.... both are painful and expensive... and embarrassing.... so you have to decide which pain you are going to have...
there is flirting with friends for... (read in full...)
He wants to be friends yet flirted with me. Where do I stand?
Q. I'm a junior in high school and i like this Guy a lot. He is a grade below me but he's only 2 months younger than me. He had a gf but they broke up a few days after he found out that i like him. I didn't actually tell him myself until after they ...
A. 25 February 2013: he already told you he only likes you as a friend.
this is a case of having to listen to his words....
i flirt with folks all the time... it doesn't mean I want to date them.. I'm married. I wonder what you mean by flirting....
als... (read in full...)
Has anyone suppressed their feelings when it comes to loving someone they're dating?
Q. Has anyone suppressed their feelings when it comes to loving someone they're dating? If so.. Did it work? What was the outcome?...
A. 25 February 2013: ah so you have feelings for him and you don't want him to know...
at least that was my first thought....
why do you want to suppress the truth from him?
I mean there are times my hubby pisses me off and I want to tell him what a jerk h... (read in full...)
I thought, due to his own issues, that we were going to be FWB. Yet is he getting attached to me?
Q. I just started seeing this guy for a month, even we never talked about our relationship status, it's more like fwb or f*buddies.. In the beginning, he didn't really seem to give a thought much about me Recently, he acts like he is my boyfriend w...
A. 25 February 2013: my husband and I started as FWB.... never thought it would change.
he remarked the other day that having sex with someone releases the endorphins and chemicals that make you care more.... he's right. it worked for him and for me...
I act... (read in full...)
Should I forget about my wife's past with my friend?
Q. When my wife and I got together she just come out a brief relationship with a friend of mine,he was known as a bit of a player i was relatively inexperienced at sex where my wife was very experienced and very good at sex,when I asked my wife about ...
A. 25 February 2013: she's your wife.
i think that if you married her knowing this information, then yes you should leave it it the past and move on.
if you just found out after you got married... well then I wonder why she felt the need to tell you now...... (read in full...)
My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?
Q. Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...
A. 25 February 2013: does she have any limitations such as ADHD?
I'm very ADHD and I often don't SEE the mess. or I lose track of the time.
my husband is OCD and both of us have had to learn to compromise... OCD people don't do well with ADHD folks, we are ... (read in full...)
I don't want to divorce. Yet what can I do? Since retiring my husband likes to behave like a bachelor.
Q. I am a 55 year and a working adult. My marriage was never and easy one because our was a arranged marriage. I have been married for 35 year. My spouse is a highly egoistic character. Since day one i was not able to communicate with my husband....
A. 25 February 2013: well I suggest if you don't want a divorce you have two options
a. do nothing and smile at him when he gets home from his visits.... and keep him happy at all times while you are miserable
b. move into your spare bedroom, start moving m... (read in full...)
I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now. My mom is an alcoholic. She wasn't always--but she got into an abusive 2nd marriage and we couldn't get her out of it. It started very soon after her and my dad divorced. Because of her...
A. 25 February 2013: Sweetie,
Listen to me, I live with an alcoholic. when he's not drinking he's a delight... drinking, drunk... he's a nightmare...
but I know that an intervention won't work. I know that treatment is not going to work till HE IS READY.
I c... (read in full...)
Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...
A. 25 February 2013: OP I have the benefit of your follow ups
He makes you feel insecure. Well… no he doesn’t MAKE you… you feel insecure based on his behavior and your interpretation of what he says and his prior actions.
Yes you should have mentioned that h... (read in full...)
Is he sticking around for sex or he genuinely likes me?
Q. Met this guy online. First date was at his house, and yes ended up making out in his bed but no sex. Second time i was drunk and lonely. He texted and ask if i want to go over to "cuddle". again i agreed, and i ended up at his house. No sex as ...
A. 25 February 2013: You canceled two dates.
then when you said you would get in touch with him you got too drunk to do so.... and again you broke your word.
if you are not playing games on purpose with this guy you are playing games subconsciously and i... (read in full...)
We have to sneak around because of my boyfriend's best friend. Do I just drop both of them?
Q. i have a man i have been seeing for a three months ..i would not say we are in a relationship because neither one of us has committed however we talk on the phone everyday and i see him often. To make the story simpler though i will call him my ...
A. 25 February 2013: Well yeah you guys are not teens.... and to me it's school yard games at this age...
when my husband and I started out it was fun and games... and as such he allowed his 'friend" to say things like "it's old and not that attractive hit it and b... (read in full...)
The guy that I've been dating for 3 years has done the disappearing act!
Q. So the guy that I've been dating for 3 years.. has done the disappearing act.. No contact or communication whatsoever..lately.. There was no arguments nothing of that nature.. I feel like he's either one of two things.. Has a fear of taking our ...
A. 25 February 2013: if you know he's ok
and he just fell off the face of the earth
well it's over
and the way he did it stinks and it's wrong
The only thing I can say of comfort is that this is not a reflection on you....... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not acknowledge me on facebook
Q. I have been with a man for 1 year ..we get together every other weekend as my 10 yr son goes to his fathers house. I have travelled with this man and still I find it troubling he wont ackowledge my relationship status on facebook, I am getting upset ...
A. 25 February 2013: my husband doesn't even have a facebook page...
I read your post and had to check your age... .
It’s facebook… it’s not real life…
You say “I catch him on facebook” and “to know he’s been caught”
Wow that’s rather parental of y... (read in full...)
Will he ever believe me?
Q. Hi my bf and I have been together for 10 months. From the beginning hes had control, jealousy,.and trust issues. They seem to be getting worse. He had my fb and hotmail passwords and yes he gave me his I looked maybe twice he was on my lots daily...
A. 25 February 2013: no he will never believe you and to top it off his behavior will get worse over time.
his rules are different for you than for him... to me that's the biggest issue.
IF his rules are good enough for you they are good enough for him... if... (read in full...)
Guys, do you compare gfs with porn actresses and think about them in sex?
Q. guys, be honest, do you compare your gf's body to those of the women you see in porn? and do you have mental images of the women you watch in porn when you're making love with your gf? thanks for any answers :)...
A. 25 February 2013: As a woman who watches porn now and then, who has had multiple partners I can tell you that I never compare my current hubby to my former partners, nor do I compare him to any porn stars I've seen
and when I'm with him, I'm with him. I reserve ... (read in full...)
What can I do to prevent my boyfriends from gaining weight while they are with me?
Q. I have a problem, and it is becoming more noticeable with each relationship I have. The last 3 boyfriends of mine have put on significant amounts of weight. I am talking about 30-40 pounds. Not muscle, pure fat. I want to know what I can do to ...
A. 25 February 2013: My husband gained 30 pounds when we started getting serious.
he went to his doctor and when he got weighed his doctor said "you must be in a relationship finally" and my then boyfriend said "yeah I am" and the doctor said to him "happy c... (read in full...)
He broke my hear, yet he won't leave me alone. What are my options in this situation?
Q. My boyfriend of two years decided a week before christmas break was over and he went back to school that he wanted a break because he feels we are too young to be tied down. He's in his second year of college and I get that he feels that he hasn'...
A. 25 February 2013: He's wrong. I see NO REASON to be friends with an ex.
I can see being friendly and civil especially if you have children together but this is not your case.
IN this case, he wants his freedom but he wants to feel like a good guy... "see we a... (read in full...)
52 year old male with 3 late teen daughters seeing a 20 year old woman?
Q. I'm 52 and divorced with three daughters ages 21, 18, 17. I have been seeing a 20 year old woman. My daughters think this is very bad. The 20 year old wants me to choose her over my daughters. I broke it off with the 20 year old because of my ...
A. 25 February 2013: OP,
You say that the 20 year old was only fun and games...
if that's the case why was she even exposed to your daughters at all???
Listen I'm going to be 53 next month (and I don't have a shawl nor do I know how to knit)
my husband ... (read in full...)
52 year old male with 3 late teen daughters seeing a 20 year old woman?
Q. I'm 52 and divorced with three daughters ages 21, 18, 17. I have been seeing a 20 year old woman. My daughters think this is very bad. The 20 year old wants me to choose her over my daughters. I broke it off with the 20 year old because of my ...
A. 24 February 2013: You can't get along because no mature woman would ask you to choose her over her children.....
so the fact that she asked you to give up your daughters for her was wrong.
you ended it with her (as you should have based on her request)
... (read in full...)
The guy that I've been dating for 3 years has done the disappearing act!
Q. So the guy that I've been dating for 3 years.. has done the disappearing act.. No contact or communication whatsoever..lately.. There was no arguments nothing of that nature.. I feel like he's either one of two things.. Has a fear of taking our ...
A. 24 February 2013: do you know that he is actually ok?
is it possible that he was injured and no one knew to tell you?
that is odd....... (read in full...)
BF said "I love you" for the first time after I gave him oral sex - did he mean it?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five months - he is 30 and I'm 29. We are moving in together in a couple of weeks which seems fast but we both want to and think its the right thing to happen and we get get along really well, sex life is great and ...
A. 23 February 2013: my husband rarely says I love you. I used to say never says it but he said it last week I think... it was about the 5th time I've heard him tell me. And usually it's after alcohol.... He does love me... I know he loves me... he just never says ... (read in full...)
A big thank you to you all for your advice!
Q. I want to start off by saying THANK YOU, THANK YOU, AND THANK YOU again. All of your encouraging words and helpful advice has gotten me a long way. I do know I have a long long path still to recovery getting over a 19 year marriage. I fell to my ...
A. 23 February 2013: Thank you so much for this lovely update!
Best of luck to you...... (read in full...)
How do you cope with an annoyed partner?
Q. How do you cope with an annoyed partner - he's annoyed basically because his brother in law (my brother) has not yet bought his Christmas present (yes, Christmas just gone). I'm fed up with hearing about it - although I do agree with him to an e...
A. 5 February 2013: Your husband is annoyed with your brother because your brother promised something and did not come through.
While you agree with your husband you are tired of hearing it… have you told your husband this exactly? “honey I agree my brother did ... (read in full...)
Is he sticking around for sex or he genuinely likes me?
Q. Met this guy online. First date was at his house, and yes ended up making out in his bed but no sex. Second time i was drunk and lonely. He texted and ask if i want to go over to "cuddle". again i agreed, and i ended up at his house. No sex as ...
A. 1 February 2013: You really blew it. two dates in a row you canceled.
not good.
YOU owe him a huge apology.
BEST advice... do not text him... call him and say I OWE YOU AN APOLOGY for behaving like an idiot... can I take you out to dinner one night... (read in full...)
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