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Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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My daughter is having trouble with her father and his fiance. Is there anything I can do to help?
Q. Hi, my daughter has been having trouble with her dad and his new fiance.They have been together for about 18mths and engaged for two. When they first got together my daughter happily went to their house.She has three children and things went. I...
A. 1 March 2013: I think Cindy, that in that case (if I'm remembering correctly) the "new family" in that case were HALF sisters/brothers to the left behind child who was OLDER as well.... to me that's a bit different in that the kids are actually blood related ... (read in full...)
My daughter is having trouble with her father and his fiance. Is there anything I can do to help?
Q. Hi, my daughter has been having trouble with her dad and his new fiance.They have been together for about 18mths and engaged for two. When they first got together my daughter happily went to their house.She has three children and things went. I...
A. 1 March 2013: iamHereToHelpYou nailed it! perfect. I cannot improve on what she said.
Is your child support garnished or does he pay directly... I'm wondering if this jealous, immature, self-absorbed woman your ex is marrying will try to cut your child su... (read in full...)
How long should I date a guy before asking to be exclusive?
Q. I was using an online dating site and met a guy two months ago. He lives in another town about 45 minutes away. We see each other once or twice a week and communicate daily. He has a full time job, goes to school, and has a son. Recently he's been ...
A. 1 March 2013: ok your update helps me...
if he's still on the dating site he's NOT ready to be exclusive....
but his contacting you first is a good sign
but saying he wants to get married again is just words... it's probably true... but I'd forget... (read in full...)
In love with my ex's little brother
Q. I lived with my ex for 3 years, during those years 2 of them his younger brother lived with us... I was very close to his brother we spent way more time together, way more then with my boyfriend... Over the years I fell in love with him, but noth...
A. 28 February 2013: I'm with K_c_100 and can't improve on her advice.
It's 13 years.... you are not children...
... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend no longer want to date me if he finds about my family history?
Q. Hey everyone, I have a boyfriend who knows everything about me apart from certain things about my family I omitted like...my dad's sister ran away against the wishes of her family and got married to a convict whose been involved in a lot of crimes,a...
A. 28 February 2013: If he leaves you because of what someone else in your family did , then he was never really with you.
We cannot and should not be held accountable for the bad behaviors of others unless they are our minor children.
... (read in full...)
What do I have to do to make my boyfriend realize that what I do for him/his family is out of love?
Q. Is it possible for someone to never be satisfied with you,rather not see how much you care.. My boyfriend of 5 years never really sees the good in me..I'v been taking care of his autistic sister for the past 4 years not because I have to but beca...
A. 28 February 2013: Yes OP it’s very possible for someone to never be satisfied no matter what you do to please them.
So you want to take care of his sister… if he was not your boyfriend would you still want to take care of her? If he was not your boyfrien... (read in full...)
My daughter is having trouble with her father and his fiance. Is there anything I can do to help?
Q. Hi, my daughter has been having trouble with her dad and his new fiance.They have been together for about 18mths and engaged for two. When they first got together my daughter happily went to their house.She has three children and things went. I...
A. 28 February 2013: oh your poor daughter. Her dad's a wuss and thinking with his dick isn't he? (sorry I have no better word for this)
Does her dad know that his fiancée told his DAUGHTER "your dads with me now so any spare time he has is with me."
if h... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have fantasies about being anally raped?
Q. I'm just your normal, every day 17 year old girl. Sometimes I like to read erotic stories online. About two months ago, I stumbled upon this story where a teenage boy forced himself onto his sister, anally. I don't know why, but this turned me on ...
A. 28 February 2013: Rape fantasy is common.
Anal sex fantasy is common
I've seen so much written porn with incest (years and years ago even) that I'm going to say it's common....
(although for me it's not on my plate)
If you want to end this fantasy hon... (read in full...)
Relationship Questions. Here are a few to answer or ponder on. What do you think?
Q. Hi folks,could you please answer the following questions? 1. Do you agree with this statement? -- "Men do not want female friends. They have their friends, and aren't on the lookout for new females to add to their circle, unless, of cours...
A. 28 February 2013: I’ll take a hit at it..
1. I don’t think that men seek women to be friends with like women seek other women. I think if a man meets a woman and they have stuff in common they could become friends. I personally do not have any CLOSE male fri... (read in full...)
I miss him and don't want to be with anyone else but he doesn't want a relationship
Q. Please Help! I was in a 5year relationship that ended less then a year ago. He actually broke up with me over text because he couldn't face me. The reason our relationship failed was bc I wanted to get married and he didn't. Marriage scared ...
A. 28 February 2013: You want to be married to him. He does not want to be married to you. NOTHING you do can change that because if after 5 years he’s not ready; it’s not going to change.
If you want to be with him and everything is good and the only reason you brok... (read in full...)
He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?
Q. I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kin...
A. 28 February 2013: the more you make out with him the more your feelings will grow and the less you will want to resist going further...
you are playing with fire.....
YOU are not the one doing wrong... HE is. I have to be honest I can't see in any way sha... (read in full...)
Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.
Q. My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then ...
A. 28 February 2013: even if he did it to "make you jealous" or especially if he did it for that reason... this is not a good thing.
JEALOUSY is not an emotion based on love. A jealous man may or may not love you. What jealousy indicates is insecurity and lack of ... (read in full...)
Does I'm sorry no longer have any meaning?
Q. Am I the only one who thinks that sorry has no meaning anymore? When my ex said he was sorry for leading me on, I just thought it's just a word, it doesn't mean anything to me... I find people say the word sorry too easily these days, that they ...
A. 28 February 2013: It depends on who says it, why they say it, how they say it, how often they say it... etc...
My mother used to say "sorry don't feed the bulldog" when we would say "sorry" and not back it up with actions.
"sorry" when not com... (read in full...)
How do you deal with constipation caused by too much time together?
Q. Hi =] I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half months now and things between us are going great =] However I do have an unusual problem and wondered if anyone else had experienced this. I know it's not very pleasant, but I get constip...
A. 28 February 2013: Cindy is right... Bananas will not make you go.
dried fruits work for me... or too many nuts
i love a big bowl of oatmeal with dried fruit cut up and some nuts for crunch.... ... (read in full...)
How long should I date a guy before asking to be exclusive?
Q. I was using an online dating site and met a guy two months ago. He lives in another town about 45 minutes away. We see each other once or twice a week and communicate daily. He has a full time job, goes to school, and has a son. Recently he's been ...
A. 28 February 2013: If you are ready to discuss it you can bring it up if you are prepared to be told he’s not ready to be exclusive. And if he’s not ready and he then knows you are on a different page than him (wanting to be exclusive is usually an indication of a ... (read in full...)
The man I'm supposed to marry in 2 months has been cheating on me!
Q. I need help. I love my fiance and he loves me. We have been together for seven years. I recently found out he has been flirting on his job sites and got a girls number and was texting her. And he hit on a friend of ours. He keeps telling me how ...
A. 28 February 2013: often doing what our head says is the right thing leaves our hearts breaking.... a very sad but true fact.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment? Should I give it to him?
Q. My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment. We visit each other's places often and sometimes he sleeps over or I sleep over at his place. We have been dating for 3 months. I do not want to live with him or have him live with me. He asked if ...
A. 28 February 2013: Living together is not doing the “key exchange” so don’t jump the gun.
I don’t think 3 months is too soon for a key exchange if you guys are already doing regular overnights.
I do not think it was wrong for him to ask depending on why... (read in full...)
We are yin and yang sexually!
Q. my boyfriend just doesnt get me sexually. He likes it hard and fast and athletic and it takes him a very long time to come, I like it soft and slow. I try and guide him but he just takes over!! and Im swore and eager for it to be over :( tried to ...
A. 28 February 2013: OP
please feel free to PM to discuss this further in private if you like. I totally get what you are saying
I hate a guy that takes too long and I think I have a few suggestions that might help but since we may go back and forth a few time... (read in full...)
How do you deal with constipation caused by too much time together?
Q. Hi =] I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half months now and things between us are going great =] However I do have an unusual problem and wondered if anyone else had experienced this. I know it's not very pleasant, but I get constip...
A. 28 February 2013: not to be funny but you are being a bit "anal retentive" about this.
if you don't poop one day you wont' die.
some folks are lucky they know exactly what will help them go and when they will go... others... like me... it's hit or miss on ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not acknowledge me on facebook
Q. I have been with a man for 1 year ..we get together every other weekend as my 10 yr son goes to his fathers house. I have travelled with this man and still I find it troubling he wont ackowledge my relationship status on facebook, I am getting upset ...
A. 28 February 2013: I understand what you are feeling and why OP and yes if he lives his life on facebook it's an issue... but if he's only an occasional FB user... No big deal
the fact that he has a history of cheating.... yeah I see your point.
I hope you ca... (read in full...)
Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.
Q. My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then ...
A. 28 February 2013: Well it's interesting to me that he hid his friends list and then she's his friend.... I guess it's possible she sent him a friend request first and then before he accepted he hid is friends list. But if I say to you that maybe he hid his friend's ... (read in full...)
We are yin and yang sexually!
Q. my boyfriend just doesnt get me sexually. He likes it hard and fast and athletic and it takes him a very long time to come, I like it soft and slow. I try and guide him but he just takes over!! and Im swore and eager for it to be over :( tried to ...
A. 27 February 2013: are you not telling him you are unsatisfied?
if you don't talk to him (trying to guide him will not work) then he has NO CLUE what the problem is.
the first thing you need to do is NOT talk about this in bed.
what you need to do is ... (read in full...)
Would you apologise again or just leave things as they are?
Q. Long story short, I made a bit of an ass of myself at my friend's 40th birthday party at the weekend. We all got together on Saturday and spent the weekend together, I only really know the husband and wife who were giving the party, the other...
A. 27 February 2013: I like K_C100's idea...
and relax... I have a friend who just told me the other night about something I did back in SEPTEMBER that upset her.
AT her wedding reception.... I felt so bad but she told me and we moved on. Your friends sound mu... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband isn't interested in sex
Q. My husband and I are expecting our first child. I'm five months pregnant. The last couple months, since I've been showing, my husband hasn't been as interested in sex. Most of the time we do, I have to ask for it or he initiates early in the morning ...
A. 27 February 2013: some men just don't want to have sex with a pregnant lady
they think their penis will hit the baby or the baby can see it... it's not rational but it's their fear and they don't know how to cope.
I think you need to take care of your own nee... (read in full...)
Why did he go soft? Am I a turn off?
Q. If my boyfriend n i been together 7 yrs n lately everything is a argument. We juss had sex n i was on top seems to me everything was going well. Out of no where he gets soft.. What does that means?? Am i a turn off? Alot of thoughts are running ...
A. 27 February 2013: he had to fart and couldn't hold it any longer and got worried you would hear him....
it's NOT always about you... sometimes it just doesn't work...
and if you are fighting a lot (which why would you put this in if it didn't bother you) t... (read in full...)
Girlfriend stood me up on valentines day and now says she's too busy to make up the date?
Q. my girlfriend stood me up on valentines day saying she needed to study for exams. i had made some pretty big plans and felt really horrible. at first I didn't tell her about this but she realized something was bothering me so i finally told her...
A. 27 February 2013: I'm in agreement with those that say she's taking the cowards way out of ending this by forcing you to end it based on her not making time for you.
when I met my husband he told me he had no time for friends or relationships as he played his game... (read in full...)
My g/f likes to flash her guy friends just for fun?
Q. My gf likes to flash her guy friends just for fun I don't care but she continueisly says that she feels bad and that she dosent want to do anything that we as a couple don't agree on she asked me if I mind and even though I say I don't care she says ...
A. 27 February 2013: I know my husband would not want me to flash "his titties" at anyone else but him
and YouWish I laughed at this: "Trust me, there's no greater exhibitionism than a guy "waggling" whether it's to his wife coming out of the shower" because ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband isn't interested in sex
Q. My husband and I are expecting our first child. I'm five months pregnant. The last couple months, since I've been showing, my husband hasn't been as interested in sex. Most of the time we do, I have to ask for it or he initiates early in the morning ...
A. 27 February 2013: you got pregnant right after getting married. I assume this was not a planned pregnancy...
is he not really happy about the baby?
I sense he's feeling trapped and tricked.....
not saying that's what you did.... but it may be how he... (read in full...)
Is this how boys are? How can I get over this betrayal? He told me his actions are "part of being a liar"
Q. My b.f told me that I’m 6 month solder than he is and that he want to breakup... When we met he lied to me and said that he was 18years old, I just can’t forget all he said to me. I asked him to tell me the reason why he made a lot of promises to m...
A. 27 February 2013: Oy your ex boyfriend is a jerk…
This is not how boys in general are… this is how your ex boyfriend is. And honey he’s an ex… or he should be.
Just because he’s 6 months younger than you does not mean you have to break up…. That’s just his excu... (read in full...)
How could he break up with me again?
Q. I'm feeling a little lost after my recent breakup. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. He initially broke up with me a year in a half into the relationship saying he was unhappy. Six months of on/off playing around we officall...
A. 27 February 2013: you should not have done anything differently other than assume that getting back together would work.
usually when couples break up it's for a good reason... a reason that can't be fixed...
the best thing to do is know it's over for good..... (read in full...)
He's confusing me. Has he lost interest in me? Or is his change of approach because he likes me?
Q. I met this guy about 2-3 months ago, and when we first started hanging out I think we hit it off really well. We would spend 2-3 days out of the week together. I usually don't sleep with men so quickly, but for some reason I decided to with him...
A. 27 February 2013: yeah it seems to me it's over and done....
the first couple of months of any relationship are good...
throw early sex in and it's great....
only time can tell if the relationship can sustain itself...
if he's not making time for you, th... (read in full...)
Its been 18 months since the break up. How long before I get my ex out of my head?
Q. How long til I can finally get my ex out of my head? We were only together two years, during which time we had a relatively up and down relationship, mainly due to circumstances. He was close to his ex which I didn't like, I often put my friends ...
A. 27 February 2013: If he ignores you completely then you have his final answer so to speak.
he's done.
many times folks say "let's be friends" as a way to ease their pain of breaking up.... it's never a good thing... I've never seen it really happen and when ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up saying he had never felt like marrying me..something was wrong. I want him back though!
Q. My ex boyfriend and I celebrated our two year anniversary at the beginning of February and he dumped me over the phone 11 days later. We were in what I considered to be a very committed relationship--sure we had never talked about marriage but to ...
A. 27 February 2013: to be blunt it's hopeless.
at your age after two years of committed serious relationship time, he knows your not the one and he's setting you free to heal and have time to find someone else.... he's doing you a favor.
I'm going to be h... (read in full...)
What can I do? I'm scared my boyfriend's just gonna be like this the rest of his life
Q. My boyfriend is 24 years old. He dropped outta High School due to severe insomnia. He has no license, no job, and syill lives with his parents. He has big plans for his future but it seems he doesn't care to do anything about yet he always complains ...
A. 27 February 2013: Dear OP,
He’s already thrown his life away.. if you stay with him you will end up playing x-box living in his parents basement and supporting him.
You say
“He dropped outta (sic) High School due to severe insomnia.”
Umm.. so he couldn’t ... (read in full...)
Now guys at work see me in a different light. How could my own brother embarass me at work about things I told him in private about my private life?
Q. Dear Cupid,my brother and I are employed at the same place we have private conversations between each other at home about our relationships with different people in our lives so that's cool. However he then went to work and told one of the cowo...
A. 27 February 2013: ouch...
brother didn't think much did he.... I do not think he did it to be mean... he just didn't think
if the men look at you like a piece of meat.. just ignore them.... looks can't hurt you
if they come on to you... fix them in the ey... (read in full...)
Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?
Q. My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...
A. 27 February 2013: love is not about "getting even" the fact that he says that is very upsetting for me....
if you got clean (congrats) and he is still using, it's not good for you.
I was not doing things i do now before i was with my husband... thing... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable or reasonable to have a crush on someone else whilst in a committed longterm relationship?
Q. Hi everyone. I basically just wanted to ask if it is ever acceptable or reasonable to have feelings for someone else (or a "crush", for want of a better word) whilst in a committed, long term relationship? Would this mean that the current rela...
A. 27 February 2013: IN general, it’s perfectly fine and acceptable in my book to have a crush on someone else while happily partnered. Its’ a crush not an affair. And I do not see a crush as emotional cheating… WHAT YOU DO about the crush is the issue. If it ... (read in full...)
I've recently come out and I'm attracted to my friend. Do I tell her?
Q. I am quite tom boyish and have become very attracted to my close girl mate. She is very much into men but I can't help my feelings for her. This is very new to me as my relationships have always been with men and recently I have come out to some ...
A. 27 February 2013: I would not say anything to her about it... if she knows you came out and she's not bisexual, then it may make her feel uncomfortable.
I'm bisexual and my very straight girlfriends need to forget about that or they treat me a bit differen... (read in full...)
How do you deal with constipation caused by too much time together?
Q. Hi =] I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half months now and things between us are going great =] However I do have an unusual problem and wondered if anyone else had experienced this. I know it's not very pleasant, but I get constip...
A. 27 February 2013: you do not have to have a bowel movement daily to be healthy.
I am sensing you don't go because "the walls are really thin" and you don't want him to hear it.
we went away two weekends ago to a friends house and were there from saturday af... (read in full...)
Why does everyone think that men and women can't be friends?
Q. Ok, so I'm just wondering... I have seen A LOT of posts involving opposite sex friendships... and I have seen A LOT of answers that claim guys and girls can't be friends ... my question is this: films aside, where has this ridiculous idea come from? ...
A. 27 February 2013: ya know they all make GREAT points...
why in the world if you are his BEST friend do you not know his wife or do things together with them?... (read in full...)
The man I'm supposed to marry in 2 months has been cheating on me!
Q. I need help. I love my fiance and he loves me. We have been together for seven years. I recently found out he has been flirting on his job sites and got a girls number and was texting her. And he hit on a friend of ours. He keeps telling me how ...
A. 27 February 2013: How in the world can you say this man loves you…
He’s “flirting on his job sites” well that could mean anything… define flirting.. is he trying to hit on these women? Or just passing the time? I tend to defend flirting till I know what fol... (read in full...)
I'm so scared we made a mistake. Yes we married. But was I his "last resort" choice?
Q. I met a man two years ago during a year long course. For the year he would follow me out for breaks, chat, flirt. I gave him my number and he called and invited me out. First night he told me about his drinking, drugs, problems with his dad, ch...
A. 27 February 2013: ok these women were from BEFORE YOU were committed and married?
if so then yeah you are over reacting.
if you are married now and happy and he's clean and sober (lucky you, my alcoholic is still actively drinking even though it's killing ... (read in full...)
Why does everyone think that men and women can't be friends?
Q. Ok, so I'm just wondering... I have seen A LOT of posts involving opposite sex friendships... and I have seen A LOT of answers that claim guys and girls can't be friends ... my question is this: films aside, where has this ridiculous idea come from? ...
A. 27 February 2013: OP, anything that you can't won't or don't tell your partner is lying in my book
I trust my husband implicitly. He trusts me.
Just last week jokingly I said "in the spirit of total honesty you should know i was texting with my ex husband t... (read in full...)
I want to see him again. Shall I turn up at his home unannounced? Or text him when I am nearby to give him a choice of seeing me or not?
Q. I'm in a recent FWB relationship, with a good friend of mine. Both of us have been hurt in the last year by bad relationships so we don't want anything other then just sex. Both of us have been real busy so in the last two weeks since we discusse...
A. 27 February 2013: just because I don't have to work does not mean I'll be home on a day off...
why didn't you two make plans to meet up if you were free and he was free and it's been so long?
why in the world would you ambush him like this and actually try to ... (read in full...)
Why does everyone think that men and women can't be friends?
Q. Ok, so I'm just wondering... I have seen A LOT of posts involving opposite sex friendships... and I have seen A LOT of answers that claim guys and girls can't be friends ... my question is this: films aside, where has this ridiculous idea come from? ...
A. 27 February 2013: Op I have read your follow up and i have to agree if you don't know his wife and do not know if he is hiding your friendship from him, then you can't use your friendship with him as an example.
I think men and women can be friends... I... (read in full...)
My g/f likes to flash her guy friends just for fun?
Q. My gf likes to flash her guy friends just for fun I don't care but she continueisly says that she feels bad and that she dosent want to do anything that we as a couple don't agree on she asked me if I mind and even though I say I don't care she says ...
A. 27 February 2013: I used to be friends with an adult woman who never wears a bra and flashes everyone.
she once pulled up her top and turned and was face to boobs with my then 16 year old stepdaughter. It traumatized my kid to see "aunt michele's boobs in my fa... (read in full...)
He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?
Q. I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kin...
A. 27 February 2013: My first question… do your parents know about this boyfriend? IF NOT, then until they know about him, there is no way you should see him. If they do not know..why have you not told them? I know that my parents were very fair (in retrospect) ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not acknowledge me on facebook
Q. I have been with a man for 1 year ..we get together every other weekend as my 10 yr son goes to his fathers house. I have travelled with this man and still I find it troubling he wont ackowledge my relationship status on facebook, I am getting upset ...
A. 25 February 2013: my husband doesn't even have a facebook page...
I read your post and had to check your age... .
It’s facebook… it’s not real life…
You say “I catch him on facebook” and “to know he’s been caught”
Wow that’s rather parental of y... (read in full...)
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