My bf blocked me from everywhere but he still reads my Facebook messages!
Q. my boyfriend blocked me from everywhere only because I asked one of his girls indirectly that if she is dating someone and if she is then what his name is I wanted an answer without anybody knowing it but then my boyfriend got to know about this ...
A. 26 December 2013: So let me get this straight ou asked a girl your BF had listed as a friend if she had a BF, and if she did what his name was?
WHAT is that any of your business? If she isn't a friend of yous why are you messing with "his" Facebook friends?... (read in full...)
Did I leave it to long? Is she not interested anymore?
Q. Ok so I met a girl right before Christmas. We got on pretty well and by the end of the evening we were kissing. We were both with groups of friends so we exchanged numbers and parted ways. Next day I texted her telling her how nice it was to meet ...
A. 26 December 2013: Just relax and meet up Saturday. Even if it's NOT the DATE you want, see how it feels with her.... (read in full...)
I said and then she said ..... so whose opinion matters?
Q. Hi, Basically me and my GF had a big arguement over something really pathetic. However I believe her comments towards myself were personal and hating. The arguement was over the tiny statement that I made regarding " I would never include reciepts ...
A. 26 December 2013: I agree with Cindy.
It's WAY tacky to include the receipt (for the most part).
There CAN be a time where it can be OK to do, for instance weddings (IMHO) because they could have received more of one thing if the gift list/registry is... (read in full...)
I'd like our relationship to be more focussed on respect
Q. Hey I'm in need of some advice. I'm in a relationship with someone of 22 and I'm 17, the age gap isn't the issue. I feel like a sexual object sometimes and its really concerning me. We haven't been officially together for much over a month and are ...
A. 25 December 2013: I think he IS using you for his little sex bunny and I think IF you don't like it you NEED to woman up and set some boundaries.
JUST because you are younger doesn't mean you can't take charge of what you will allow and what you don't want to do.
... (read in full...)
No one's asked to be exclusive, so ...
Q. This question is for people who are okay with premarital sex: I am single and in college. I am sort of seeing two guys. I have had sex with both of them and have gone on lunch dates and have even stayed over at their houses as well as just "hanging ...
A. 25 December 2013: I never did casual sex. There is NOTHING CASUAL about sexual intimacy. Nor did I have sex with more then one person at a time.
I honestly don't get people who treats sex like it's no big deal.
I thing DATING is one thing (going out, hang... (read in full...)
I feel like a weird stalker, which I never was!
Q. Really need help so low I can't get over this guy because of how he treated me Ok 2 years ago we were working together he helped me through personal problems and we became close friends he was texting up to 100 a day sending poems etc - we never h...
A. 25 December 2013: LOL Merry Poopsite!... (read in full...)
I feel like a weird stalker, which I never was!
Q. Really need help so low I can't get over this guy because of how he treated me Ok 2 years ago we were working together he helped me through personal problems and we became close friends he was texting up to 100 a day sending poems etc - we never h...
A. 25 December 2013: It wasn't a friendship you are filling yourself with useless reasons to why you should still HANG AROUND him.
You fancy him, he choose the GF over you. It sucks.
The best thing you CAN do for you, is remove him as much as possible from yo... (read in full...)
Is it better for me to forgive my ex or hate him?
Q. I was with my ex for 4 years(including 2 years LDR). We're in different countries. We planned to meet after he graduated from graduate school and while we're dating, he gave me commitment and talked about getting married. He dumped me 6 months ago, ...
A. 25 December 2013: Forgive him, because having hate in your heart will make YOU a bitter person. It will also hold you back from moving on and finding someone else.
Then CUT all contact, remove everything that pertains to him from your life. Either send it back, se... (read in full...)
He's recently gotten married but started contacting me again
Q. Hi, i'd really appreciate some honest opinions. Like a lot of people my age i ended up being very stupid and getting into what you could call a "casual" relationship. It was just sex for him but it wasn't for me and i ended up pretty heart broken. ...
A. 25 December 2013: How would that make you look like a weirdo? It look more like a person who REALIZED that maybe it wasn't a good idea. Besides WHO cares what he thinks, right?
Chin up and don't worry about things you CAN NOT control. Only thing you CAN control ... (read in full...)
Is he just in this for the sex?
Q. Hey guys. So I met this guy Mark a while ago via my next door neighbor Andrea (we were hanging out once and she invited him). The night I met him we were really into each other and I ended up going home with him. My neighbor made him promise ...
A. 24 December 2013: Well you slept with him on the first night you met, so I don't really blame him for thinking you are JUST fine with this casual sex thing.
But IF you have developed feelings (and it looks like you have) then I think it's kind of unfair of you to a... (read in full...)
My friend gets out of prison in 7 weeks and wants me in his life
Q. Help! I am very very confused I have a friend and he's in prison. He has been there for me in the past and I consider him a very good friend and a special person although he has done some major wrong things in his life. We have given each other su...
A. 24 December 2013: Um, I think I would talk to him what exactly he expect of you. If it entail moving in, I would decline.
If it means talk and see each other (like friends do) then I don't see anything wrong in that.
But, no I would let him move in, nor would I ... (read in full...)
His dislike of me makes me uncomfortable with my group of friends.
Q. my friendship group has recentally broken down with lots of different people involved in individual fights. during this time i have been dealing with issues with work and my ex so i have spent that much time around it all. however a few weeks ago, ...
A. 24 December 2013: Don't worry about it, given that you will met more people in your life time that YOU don't like and who in turn don't like you, it's NOT a big deal. Don't avoid your friends. If he is there just ignore him.
So he doesn't like you? Screw that. ... (read in full...)
I think our friends daughter who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it...
Q. I think our friends daughter- who is 9 is stealing from us and I'm not sure the best way to deal with it... Over the year I have noticed that after they visit, small things go missing from our house. At the beginning of the year I noticed that ...
A. 24 December 2013: I agree with blonde30s - don't have them in your home again if you can avoid it.
They won't believe or or they already know and are ignoring it.
Visit them, go to their home (if the kid is with them) and if they do not have her with them THEN t... (read in full...)
What's the deal with this crazy girl and how to I get her to stop if I can't prove anything?
Q. A few months ago, I met a girl at my step-dad's church function and we hit it off really well and decided to go to dinner at another time. Her phone was shut off, so she just told me where she lived and said that she was sorry she couldn't let me ...
A. 24 December 2013: Call the Police and ask what you need to do, De-friends her and BLOCK her on FB - change your number, check your credit report and see if there are any more odd charges, call your bank, you might have to have them change your bank account number.
... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting to this text message that went wrong?
Q. Okay aunts and uncles, I really need help with a text message gone really wrong. Here is a layout of our relationship okay. He lives 4 hours away. We met one time before but we were not alone together remember that. He is coming down to spend a ...
A. 23 December 2013: I agree 100% with YouWish statement:
*** 4 hours away is an excuse not to meet every week. 4 hours away and matching schedules is a reason not to meet every fortnight, but once in a YEAR is suspicious, let alone once in SIX YEARS.***
ONCE in... (read in full...)
He said I was being controlling ....
Q. I lost a friendship with one of my very good friends. We got in a big fight and both stopped talking to each other. I deleted her of off my facebook, and asked my boyfriend (of 2 years) to do the same. Instead he said i was being controlling and we ...
A. 23 December 2013: Yes it was controlling. You are not his MOM and who he CHOOSES to have on Facebook is HIS choice.
So you fell out with a friend and ended the friendship. Good for you, if she was a bad friend, but DICTATING to your BF that HE HAS to delete h... (read in full...)
I've had a horrible year and he is making it worse!
Q. My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He told me that he wanted to see me today at first. He was supposed to see me yesterday. He didn't send me a message yesterday though. He wrote to me today and told me that he had a cold yesterday, and he said he ...
A. 23 December 2013: I think you are being 100% unrealistic about him and your expectations OF him.
If he really IS bipolar and on med (or not on meds) HE ISN'T going to be like a guy who ISN'T bipolar. Their brains don't WORK the same way.
You are having all these... (read in full...)
Should I come out to him, or is he just being jokey?
Q. Hello, I'm having a little trouble. I'm 17 and Gay and I have this 18 year old "straight" friend. I've known this guy for about a year he used to go out with my old bestie. For a few months know he's being very flirtatious. Sending me topless ...
A. 23 December 2013: If he REALLY wanted to he would talk to you in private and not make a big joke about it.
If he is in your circles of friends that is mostly heterosexually orientated I would CERTAINLY not make anything out of this. ... (read in full...)
My colleague seems to be eavesdropping on my conversations
Q. There is this guy at work who seems to eavesdrop on my conversations and recently he's started butting in on my conversations. He had stopped talking to me but now he inserts himself in my conversations. I'll give you a back story: I had a crush ...
A. 23 December 2013: He doesn't like that you now ignore him, after having known you liked him BEFORE you found out about the gf/fiancee. So now he just likes to insert himself to get you to pay attention to him.
Rather childish of you ask me.
I would just be ov... (read in full...)
My boyfriend informed me he'll be spending New Year's Eve with his friends and their wives
Q. We have been dating for ten months, we had a fight last week that I was mad at him for not doing much with me. So we make up and have a great weekend together and I ask him what we are doing for new years and he said he is going out with his frie...
A. 23 December 2013: Yeah that would not be OK, I would wish him a Happy New year and welcome to being Single again.
The fact is you two are not a good match. HIS social circle doesn't WANT you around so he RATHER please them by keeping you away. YOU don't like HIS... (read in full...)
Money is tight so eating healthy food hasn't been happening
Q. I know this isn't exactly a love or relationship question, but I really respect the answers and opinions of the people here and would love some input. My father is drastically overweight. It is affecting his health and quality of living. He has b...
A. 23 December 2013: A home made dinner (healthy options too) IS WAY cheaper then drive through. I cook HEALTHY meals for 5 people for less then a big Mac Menu meal.
Frozen veggies are cheaper then fresh, but have the same amount of vitamins and NONE of the salts of... (read in full...)
I worry my hearing aids may put men off!
Q. I need help please! For about six years now I've been deaf in both ears due to otosclerosis - a genetic condition where the bones in the ears stop moving. The way that this works is that I'm not completely deaf, but certain tones and pitches are ...
A. 23 December 2013: Oh honey, I suffer from the same condition (hereditary my aunt had it too) I am 80% deaf in one ear and 60 in the other, I LOVE the peace and quiet I get, when I don't use the hearing aids.
My hearing aids are tiny ( those "triangles" behind t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's boss was very flirty with me.
Q. Ok, awkward situation! Went to my partners christmas party Saturday night and i'd never met any of his colleagues or managers before. When we got in I went to check my coat whilst he went to check the table plan. As I got there, there was a long...
A. 23 December 2013: I would tell my BF that his boss is a horny old goat. You know I can just see this guy try and create a little "alpha male" attitude with your BF and then YOU will look a little guilty for not telling.
Though I think you did the right thing in... (read in full...)
My husband has told me he is gay!
Q. Last night my husband admitted to me he was gay. He said he didn't want to have these feelings and won't follow up on them, he wants to stay married to me and have sex with me. He said he does like women, but only certain select women, has never had ...
A. 23 December 2013: I think he is BI as well, but unsure of his emotions. I DO think you two need to sit down and talk about this and how it will affect the BOTH of you.
You are worried he will go off with a man down the line, honestly he could as easily go off with... (read in full...)
He keeps telling me he is going to break up with me!
Q. My boyfriend kissed me when he was trying to break up with me yesterday. I found that to be confusing in itself. Then 15 minutes later he changed his mind and was all over me and said he wants to be with me and wants me to be his girlfriend!!! ...
A. 23 December 2013: I agree with Caring Guy too.
STOP playing his games. He is manipulating you like crazy. First of all, HE WANTS you to be on edge, that way you might be happy with whatever little crumbs he tosses your way.
And secondly, WHO cares if his fir... (read in full...)
He's recently gotten married but started contacting me again
Q. Hi, i'd really appreciate some honest opinions. Like a lot of people my age i ended up being very stupid and getting into what you could call a "casual" relationship. It was just sex for him but it wasn't for me and i ended up pretty heart broken. ...
A. 23 December 2013: Best way to "butter up" a person is to pretend to be friends. Once they feel comfortable around you again, that is when he will try..
He was never really a friend, because friends don't fuck friends.
If he wanted to really be friends he would... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my lack of sexual experience makes me a less than satisfactory lover
Q. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 4 months ago, he's 2 years older than me and I know he has had sex before so he knew what he was doing. Since then, we've been sexually active and have sex 4-5 times a week. However, I feel like I'm not ...
A. 23 December 2013: First of all, he could have had 50 partners and STILL not be a good lover.
Being a good lover means you LISTEN to your partner, you READ them when you try new things to see what reaction you get, it's not hard to see if a guy LIKES what you are ... (read in full...)
How do I inform my friends and family that I'm now a vegan?
Q. Basically I converted to veganism 2 months ago because i nolonger want to contribute to the violence towards animals, with the bonus of improving my health and being one step closer to saving the planet. Now i've keep this a secret from ever...
A. 22 December 2013: YOou don't need to inform anyone officially, but I DO think it's a good idea to let people know if they invite you for dinner/lunch that you are a vegan (and you will bring your own food, because let's face it, it's YOUR choice to go Vegan.)
It's ... (read in full...)
Did I overreact over his drunk texts?
Q. My boyfriend went out drinking yesterday. We had some disagreement two days ago. He first texted me if I was having a bad week back then, which I told him I did before. So I just simply replied "yes". He then texted me "I hope your week gets b...
A. 22 December 2013: The fact that he calls you a kid, kind shows that he thinks of you as a child. That you are therefore always wrong and he is always right.
Are you dating a guy who is way older then you?
I do agree that IT IS childish to "argue" over tex... (read in full...)
He's recently gotten married but started contacting me again
Q. Hi, i'd really appreciate some honest opinions. Like a lot of people my age i ended up being very stupid and getting into what you could call a "casual" relationship. It was just sex for him but it wasn't for me and i ended up pretty heart broken. ...
A. 22 December 2013: What do I think? I think he was hoping for a booty call and I think you actually know that.
Why not block his number, un-friend him on FB and move on, if he does contact you ignore ignore ignore.
All he wants is to use you some more.
He will... (read in full...)
Its make or break time for our relationship.
Q. i need help desperatley!! my 2 yr relationship is on rocks.....2 kids involved 1 is his. constantli arguing, he starts them, i get blamed. his attitude has changed, so has mine because of all the crap im getting. the kids get it to. my 5yr old is b...
A. 22 December 2013: The kids won't hate you. I don't know where you get that idea from. When they hit their TEEN years they might question why you left and you can tell them that you didn't feel it was safe for you all to stay with him.
They won't remember much of ... (read in full...)
He left when they were babies, and now wants to be "dad"!
Q. I live in (MOD NOTE: City was deleted for privacy) Florida and have 3 daughters; twins [non-identical] aged 23 and a 19-year-old daughter who is their half-sister born to my husband (the twins' stepdad). The twins were born in 1989, and the father ...
A. 22 December 2013: Has this man payed child support in all those years? Or did he just vanish?
I like the idea of him writing them a letter and letting the girls decide if they WANT to see him or not, you do NOT OWE him anything or access.
I would NOT invite... (read in full...)
Flakey girls and the men who fall for them!
Q. Just got back from going out, and my situation off that bat is I'm 27/m, never had a g/f, date, kissed, held hands, had sex, etc... And I don't want to be left out. So I'm approached by a girl who seemed at the time to be into me, got her something ...
A. 22 December 2013: If I were you, I wouldn't ignore the "uncles" on DC, they are pretty darn smart:)
But back to your question.
The BF was a douche, but honestly, so was SHE. She was OK with a stranger hitting on her and plying her with drinks (hey free drinks... (read in full...)
I promised my girlfriend to never kiss or do anything sexual with her or masturbate, any comments?
Q. I have no idea what to do or dont do. I made a few promises to my girlfriend and two of them are to never do anything sexual to her (including kissing) and never masterbate. Since my girlfriend thinks sex is gross and painful, I respected her ...
A. 22 December 2013: You are 16-17 and she is basically asking you to be abstinent for the rest of your life for HER sake? Do you think that is fair? Are you asexual? No desires? If she wanted you to jump of a bridge, would you do it?
Does she love ice cream, but beca... (read in full...)
He says his use of gay sex sites is an addiction
Q. I'm engaged to this really wonderful man. We've been in a relationship for 2 years and counting. We hit off really well as a couple and have had really good times together. The problem started when I discovered that he had online sex chats with ...
A. 22 December 2013: ************* Well, the main problem here isn't that if he's gay or not. The problem is if I should leave or stay and help him out with this addiction problem of his.***********
I would say, you CAN'T help him. Addiction is not for others to fi... (read in full...)
We have a secret friendship.
Q. A long time ago I briefly met a guy at the end of a festival. He lives on the other side of the country. We exchanged numbers and ended up talking online for almost a year. We both were in relationships when we met and I still am though he is single ...
A. 22 December 2013: Yep, I'm with YOUWISH.
YOU are cheating. Really suggestive text messages is not JUST for shits and grins, you are deluding yourself. But I guess it's easier telling yourself that it's ALL so harmless, then owning up to the fact that you are chea... (read in full...)
Its make or break time for our relationship.
Q. i need help desperatley!! my 2 yr relationship is on rocks.....2 kids involved 1 is his. constantli arguing, he starts them, i get blamed. his attitude has changed, so has mine because of all the crap im getting. the kids get it to. my 5yr old is b...
A. 22 December 2013: First of all you NEED to get your kids away from him. YELLING at a 13 months old because she wakes up at night is ridiculous and I can JUST see him doing something worse (like shake her) if she sin't quiet when he wants her to be. He doesn't sound ... (read in full...)
Am I being mean or is she trying to use me?
Q. I know lots of you guys can give me insight because we all in some way felt there was a person who wanted to use us in some way. I appreciate all advice. Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating a good month or two. We hardly spend any time ...
A. 22 December 2013: A month or two in and she wants to borrow money, not a good sign. She has asked twice in 3 weeks, not good.
A month or two in and all she wants is to come over and have sex, not go out on dates.
Sounds like she is using you. Sorry.
If she... (read in full...)
Every girl needs a bad boy...... right?
Q. Okay so i need help, theres this boy who i like and he likes me too but people including my friends tell me that he's not a nice person and that he will ruin everything for me such as see other girls. However, when i talk to him i never see that ...
A. 22 December 2013: I have dated one "bad boy" (1 out of 4 men) and that was the BIGGEST mistake I have ever made in partners. EVER.
No girl NEEDS a bad boy, she might WANT one, but for the wrong reasons. YOU think you can change him, that he will be faithful... (read in full...)
His ex wife wants him back!
Q. Well hello I really need some help... I been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he has two kids with his ex wife... Things have been great with us and he has been there for me through everything... I love his children too... The day w...
A. 22 December 2013: I would tell him to decide RIGHT now who he wants, and if he wants her, he needs to get the F out of the house ( if it is HIS place YOU need to find another place to stay).
YOU ARE playing second fiddle to her. He is JUST waiting for things t... (read in full...)
My fiancee is being abused by her mother
Q. Well, I recently found out that my fiancee is being emotionally and verbally abused by her mother. I looked up under section 6 felony. But does this mean that my fiancee mom go to jail or get a warning etc? But this is crazy how my fiancee's mom is ...
A. 21 December 2013: So why not move her in with you? Be her knight in shining armor instead of being so busy going after her mom?
... (read in full...)
He says his use of gay sex sites is an addiction
Q. I'm engaged to this really wonderful man. We've been in a relationship for 2 years and counting. We hit off really well as a couple and have had really good times together. The problem started when I discovered that he had online sex chats with ...
A. 19 December 2013: I too find it hard to believe that he is straight. I could believe it he only WATCHED some gay porn here and there, but signing up for gay sites and swapping pictures, well THERE IT IS. He is without a doubt (in my mind) bisexual.
This is not some... (read in full...)
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