What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again?
Q. What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again. I'm a sexual person who loves being touched by men. Is it bad to have sex with them if you use protection? Why is there such a stigma to meaningless sex? Yes, its ...
A. 4 December 2013: Maybe you need to try celibacy for 6 months. (or more) Focus on other things then sex, hooking up, partying, being the center of attention.
Have you thought of volunteering? You get LOADS of healthy attention, you will met people who will benefit ... (read in full...)
Was it wrong to admit I like him?
Q. So one of my best guy friends and I talk quite a bit. Well so I don't have a boyfriend or anything. He has a girlfriend though. Anyway so for about two weeks or so he's been asking me who I like. I kept telling him that I wasn't going to say who. ...
A. 3 December 2013: Since he has a GF I wouldn't have told him, but it's kind of too late for that now.
I agree with Maureen you should jut have told him none of your beeswax instead of playing games.
If things start to get awkward, you will know why.... (read in full...)
People tell me she's fake because she had a nose job
Q. So I've started dating this girl who is so beautiful, funny and one of the sweetest girls i've met she's so down to earth and adorably innocent but daring if you understand that. She told me the other day on our second date she's had a nose job, ...
A. 3 December 2013: Seriously?
I know at least 4 women in the 35+ age group that wears extensions, you wouldn't know it to look at the hair, but their have them. It doesn't make them fake, it makes them happy to be able to have the hair they WANTED to have. I have t... (read in full...)
I'm 70 years old struggling with erectile dysfunction and I feel terrible that I cannot satisfy my girlfriend sexually
Q. Hello. I am 70 years old and active,however I have recently developed the old man's problem Erectile Dysfunction. I have been living with an East European lady whom I adore very much,for over a year now. Anyway with my problem,proper sex is no...
A. 2 December 2013: Contact your doctor. Don't try pills or anything else til you do.
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Do I leave him alone for good? Have I done too much damage? And is there a way to win him back over? I
Q. I started dating this man back in August. Things were going really well. He seemed to genuinely care for me. We spent a lot of time together at first. Going out to eat, doing fun things, and he even took me away for a long weekend. Well needless to ...
A. 2 December 2013: I think you have lost your chance with that guy for good, so respect that fact that he's already turned you down and leave him be.
If you WANT a "title" in a relationship BE upfront about it and don't SLEEP with a guy til it's settled or it will ... (read in full...)
What about AFTER an affair?
Q. How do you think men feel after having a long term affair on their partner? Do the feel regret? Do they even care? What if their current relationship was on the rocks and they were together "for the kids".... would there be less guilt? ...
A. 2 December 2013: I think it all comes down to the man and what KIND of man he is. Everything else is really speculation.
I don't really think there is a GOOD excuse or justification for cheating. Staying for the kids or rocky marriage doesn't mean that cheating... (read in full...)
My husband and I are more like friends than a married couple. Why does this bother other people?
Q. How to deal with society ? The story is that my husband and I became more friends than a married couple. Sex is long not in a picture, which doesn't seem to bother any of us. It's not like it's gone forever, sometimes we do it when get tipsy or...
A. 2 December 2013: I think people keep commenting on it because it's not the "norm".
However as long as you and your husband LIKE your arrangement that is all that should matter. Is it something you two have talked about or just a pattern that arose and you fell... (read in full...)
Can you forgive a cheating husband?
Q. Hey all, im devastated , found my husband of 6 years cheating, he had changed for a while and i suspected something. I took his mobile while asleep and found love msgs.. I was soo shocked, im young and we hav two adorable girls... He then started ...
A. 2 December 2013: I think if you CAN forgive him then do it. NOT for his sake but for yours. Accept that he did what he did and that YOU did not MAKE him cheat. Cheating is a choice.
Now whether you want to remain with him and remain married is UP to you. You migh... (read in full...)
He's leaving in two months and I'll never see him again! When should I tell him I like him?
Q. Hi. I've decided to finally let a guy know that I like him. Trouble is, when? Because he's leaving to go study far (600 miles away). In exactly 2 months, then I'll never, ever see him again. I've liked him for over a year now and I was too scared t...
A. 2 December 2013: What the point? Honestly?
You think a 2 months summer fling won't hurt you when he leave? Think again.
I think having a crush on someone is lovely, but there is not always good reasoning in telling them.... (read in full...)
Is my ex worth the second chance?
Q. I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago. He had a temper and we found ourselves in regular arguments, every week or 2 weeks. It was never physical, but he said some pretty hurtful comments. I was done with crying all the time and ended it. The ...
A. 2 December 2013: Having time to "reflect" doesn't mean shit. Certainly doesn't mean he won't go back to his "old" ways as soon as you two get comfortable again.
You had this guy in your life, he was verbally abusive and treated your poorly, so because neither ... (read in full...)
He's got a girlfriend is friendly when we are out but then barely says hello next day. What's up?
Q. I started a new university course a few weeks ago, and during the first week we all went for a night out. i started talking to a guy (also from the course) and we got along well and spent the whole night out together, most of it just the 2 of us. ...
A. 2 December 2013: He might be looking for a little on the side. If he can ONLY talk to you when clubs and alcohol is involved I would guess... He is up to no good.
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My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!
Q. My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week ...
A. 2 December 2013: Well, THAT might explain it a LOT more then anything else. My guess is still that he got away with it growing up, it becomes a pattern. Most people Autistic or not like patterns.
Have you sat him down and talked about it? Other then the "having ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again?
Q. What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again. I'm a sexual person who loves being touched by men. Is it bad to have sex with them if you use protection? Why is there such a stigma to meaningless sex? Yes, its ...
A. 2 December 2013: Nothing wrong in enjoying attention, but what IS wrong (and you know this) is that you seem to think that ANY ATTENTION will do. Which means you will sleep with a guy just because he payed attention to you? Am I reading you right?
And that you... (read in full...)
Afraid he's lost interest! Should I stop seeing him before I get hurt?
Q. Hi aunties and uncles: I have been going on dates with a guy 4-5 times. He has been a gentleman. I am traditional and not okay with physical intimacy but since the first time we hang out, he always pecks me on cheek to say goodbye. However, as ...
A. 2 December 2013: I agree with SVC you need to learn how to communicate.
And I'm thinking you are grasping at excuses to end it. Maybe he IS NOT for you because you have very different taste and interests and that is OK to, but you are NITPICKING him. Looking ... (read in full...)
Would a guy think it's weird that I have no relationship experience?
Q. Hello all, my question is would a guy think it's weird that I have no experience? To clarify I am talking to a guy and I really like him and he has asked about my previous relationships but I have never been in a relationship before so I just say ...
A. 2 December 2013: I think you should be honest with him it's the best way to start of knowing someone. If he thinks you are weird then by all means cut him lose.
I don't think there is anything weird in not having dated at 21, it may not be COMMON, but not weird.
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Do recurring dreams about a crush mean anything?
Q. I had a dream about my crush. I saw him at the bus loading area at our school. We made eye contact then him and his friend approached me and my friend and he told us hi and gave me a hug but with one arm so not a full hug, I guess a side hug? and...
A. 2 December 2013: I think it's pretty normal to have a crush show up in your dreams, after all they (the crush) occupy a bit of your awake state so it is only natural that is will filter over into your dream state.
It's not a sign or a hint that the crush is more ... (read in full...)
I don't want to start a relationship with her, only to find she's crazy!
Q. Ok so I've met a girl and we get on really well. I want to ask her out, but there is a problem: Some people I know, who also know her, have told me she is a little crazy. Apparently she caused a whole load of problems with her ex boyfriend, and some ...
A. 2 December 2013: You want to date someone who seems 16? Whether she is nuts or not, THAT right there would stop me cold. Dating a child, that is what you are looking at.
If there ARE things about her you like then go slow slow slow. Get to know her. As for rumo... (read in full...)
Husband and I agreed to break off our affairs but now his mistress is pregnant!
Q. I am 41 and I have been married for 6 1/2 yrs..been with my husband for 11yrs total. We have no children together..both our children are all adults. I found he was cheating on me in April so I confronted him. He lied to me that he wouldn't do it ...
A. 2 December 2013: I'm with pinktopaz
I wouldn't touch him with a 40 foot pole and I CERTAINLY wouldn't stay married to him either. REGARDLESS of whether she has the baby or an abortion.
I actually feel really sorry for the girl he dated, who had no clue he was m... (read in full...)
I found a lipstick in my partner's car and my gut feeling is telling me there's more to this. What do I do?
Q. I don't know what to make of this situation so hoping someone can give me some advice. My partner and I have been together for 3 years. We've had a great relationship and friendship. This morning I found a lipstick in his car. I have no r...
A. 2 December 2013: I will also say go with your gut, there is MORE to this them he is letting on. His reaction was WAY strange if he was innocent. Specially the whole it's YOURS argument. I don't know ANY women who wouldn't recognize their OWN lipstick/make up. We are ... (read in full...)
I'm nasty when I'm drunk and my boyfriend hates it
Q. Hey! I've got a really, really serious problem and I wish someone could help me because I really don't know what to do. I'm 19 years old and the guy I'm dating is 27 (quite a big difference with ages but that doesn't bother us). We have been dat...
A. 2 December 2013: Easy solution stop drinking if you can't control your alcohol intake.
Seems to me that blacking out either means your body doesn't process alcohol well OR you don't know how to just have a few (like 2-3).
Plus drinking vodka (which really do... (read in full...)
I'm 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend has asked for a break in our relationship
Q. My boyfriend of nearly two years has asked for a break in our relationship and I dont don't know or understand why. He said he loves me not to see other people just have a break and we aint over just to give him that. Im so upset at 8months pregnant ...
A. 2 December 2013: Well you can't really tell him, no breaks, can you?
You might have to prepare yourself for being a single mother though. Are you ready to have this baby in a month and take car of it by yourself? He said to not see other people, but my guess is... (read in full...)
Why do many people find atheism offensive?
Q. Why do many people find atheism offensive? When I'm asked about my religion, I say that I'm not religious. When I'm asked further, I simply state that I'm atheist. If the asker is religious then they seem put off. Yet they asked. It's not something ...
A. 2 December 2013: Religion and politics are two things that will drive people nuts discussing. And it's also one of those subjects that can start a war, kill a person and make people mad.
But here is my guess, MANY Christians don't understand Atheism, they don't ev... (read in full...)
Made out with a coworker and he told people about it. Do I forgive him, avoid him, or resign?
Q. I don't know if I should forgive this guy named J. We sort of both liked each other, nothing official came from it and he ended up telling people we made out. That's not a lie but he promised he wouldn't kiss and tell considering we both voluntee...
A. 2 December 2013: Don't crap where you eat.(aka don't date where you work) That is what I told your firefighter J.
Regard J as a work colleague and nothing more. SCREW what people might think over a couple of young people making out ONE time. JUST DO NOT do it ag... (read in full...)
Afraid he's lost interest! Should I stop seeing him before I get hurt?
Q. Hi aunties and uncles: I have been going on dates with a guy 4-5 times. He has been a gentleman. I am traditional and not okay with physical intimacy but since the first time we hang out, he always pecks me on cheek to say goodbye. However, as ...
A. 2 December 2013: I think that he has NO clue what you want.
Have you actually TOLD him that you want to go really slow? That you are not OK with physical intimacy? He is NOT a mind reader and my guess is he thinks you are not really interested in him so he backe... (read in full...)
What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again?
Q. What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again. I'm a sexual person who loves being touched by men. Is it bad to have sex with them if you use protection? Why is there such a stigma to meaningless sex? Yes, its ...
A. 2 December 2013: Have you ever tried to get to know a person you slept with? Or a guy BEFORE sleeping with him? Obviously you don't have a problem taking them TO bed but everything else you do seem to not be able to grasp.
You have never had a male friend? ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again?
Q. What's wrong with having meaningless sex with someone you never want to see again. I'm a sexual person who loves being touched by men. Is it bad to have sex with them if you use protection? Why is there such a stigma to meaningless sex? Yes, its ...
A. 2 December 2013: I have learned many things in life, one of the more important things goes to regrets. IF you know something you are wanting to do or thinking you will do and you KNOW beyond doubt that you WILL regret it (maybe you have done the same thing in the ... (read in full...)
I wanted to be his girlfriend, not his mother
Q. Hello and thank you for any responses in advance, I appreciate all honest opinions. 6 years ago I met a man in the Caribbean, he fell on love with me but I didn't feel the same way, however we became great friends. This year I fell in love with...
A. 1 December 2013: I think you hit the typical vacation romance. Once reality set it and you were back home to your own responsibilities you saw more of the "real him" and you didn't like what you saw.
He "spoiled" you when you were there but with attention (long wa... (read in full...)
My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!
Q. My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week ...
A. 1 December 2013: I agree with Auntie BimBim. YOU two need to have a LONG TALK.
My guess is he was raised this way. (LEARNED behavior) If he threw a fit he got what he wanted. And if he dated someone before you... he properly did it to her too. YOU even give in ... (read in full...)
Should I still visit my boyfriend every weekend when he's busier than I am?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. He is currently studying for his LSAT everyday, while I am busy with just school. I sleep over his place every weekend; I come late at night, and then leave the next afternoon. Although, I am c...
A. 1 December 2013: Seems like he really doesn't give a "hoot" if you come over or not. YOU are the one ALWAYS going to see him? I understand that he is busy but if he isn't telling you YES, I want you to come over or I'll come pick you up, then how interested is he ... (read in full...)
If you were me, what would you do?
Q. Hey Cupids, Not sure what I am asking for here but I wanted to share something with you. I have a friend who I was close with for the last 3 years, let’s call him Ed. We became close friends after issues happening in our lives made us need suppo...
A. 1 December 2013: I think you have tried to be there for Ed for so long it becomes habit (hence the once a week contact) If he hasn't put forth ANY effort to contact you back or reply then yes, I would let Ed go. If he misses the friendship he KNOWS where to find ... (read in full...)
How do Atheist men date when most women are Christians or believers?
Q. Many women are believers or Christians etc. I'm not saying you can't date at all, that's absurd, all I'm trying to convey is that your dating pool is rather limited. Like at my college, most women seem to be believers. I know this because in ...
A. 1 December 2013: One thing is being a believer, another is actually worshiping and living according to the Bible. I have met many women who call themselves Christians but they are only "really" Christians once a week on Sundays.
I think your dating pool might be... (read in full...)
Boyfriend had a secret porn blog and we barely have sex anymore. Should I leave him?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We've been fighting a lot lately. I found out he had a porn blog on tumblr and i got upset I made him chose me or delete it. He deleted it but he's been such an ass. Hes had an attitude...
A. 1 December 2013: I don't even WANT to google a "porn blog" but judging by Anonymous 123 and YouWish's reactions, I don't think I WILL check and see what it is.
I don't think the problem is his blog per se. I think it's that he USES his blog to push you away, to... (read in full...)
If you were me, what would you do?
Q. Hey Cupids, Not sure what I am asking for here but I wanted to share something with you. I have a friend who I was close with for the last 3 years, let’s call him Ed. We became close friends after issues happening in our lives made us need suppo...
A. 30 November 2013: You weren't dating Ed, so I don't think it really matters. I don't think you have to explain anything to Greg either.
Just take to slow and see where it goes.
If he seems as "needy" (in lack of a better word) as Ed, taper of the contact and ... (read in full...)
Why is he so angry when he wanted it to end?
Q. Hi so this is definitely the last question about this particular man that I will ask! I'm just trying to get my head round this last development to be honest. So my ex and i were seeing each other for 5 months, it was mainly lovely, we went on...
A. 30 November 2013: YOU DO have EVERY right to have half of the costs back, but I'm just saying I don't think this guy will own up to the fact that he OWES you this money.
You said you took him aside, well that doesn't mean that others didn't overhear. I know he ... (read in full...)
Why is he so angry when he wanted it to end?
Q. Hi so this is definitely the last question about this particular man that I will ask! I'm just trying to get my head round this last development to be honest. So my ex and i were seeing each other for 5 months, it was mainly lovely, we went on...
A. 30 November 2013: Well bringing up the money in front of a couple of girls he was trying to woe was a low blow (not that I really blame you). But I think realistically you need to accept that you will NEVER see that money.
He is angry because people now know he ... (read in full...)
Her lack of support in this situation is making me re-think dating her
Q. HELLO EVERY ONE,well ive been seeing some one for acouple weeks, was ask over to her daughters house for thanksgiven, she lives their. Well every thing was going great, then her daughter ex husband showed up, invited, but with in five minutes he ...
A. 30 November 2013: Errr TYPO I meant she shouldn't have stuck up for you....
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Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me ...
A. 30 November 2013: I have to agree with Janniepg, if he WANTS her in his life, I would exit. He obviously have pisspoor judgement when it comes to that woman.
Because IF they start dating you know she will try to make your life miserable again. Why put yourself... (read in full...)
Is he exaggerating or could a 15 year old really mean it?
Q. How serious is a fifteen year old boy when he says he would marry you in a heartbeat and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you? We are really close friends so he knows what I am truly like and all my flaws and I don't know whether he ...
A. 30 November 2013: Honey, when you are 15 you think you are on top of the world and that EVERYTHING will last forever.
Give him about 10 years and he will know that REALITY is very different.
At 15 you think you can fly :)
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Her lack of support in this situation is making me re-think dating her
Q. HELLO EVERY ONE,well ive been seeing some one for acouple weeks, was ask over to her daughters house for thanksgiven, she lives their. Well every thing was going great, then her daughter ex husband showed up, invited, but with in five minutes he ...
A. 30 November 2013: Who yells at a total stranger?
I mean really? I don't just refer to you, but to the ex-husband. The thing is though as RUDE as he was, the women WERE/ARE used to him being an ass, but for you to join in, that was over the top.
You are old e... (read in full...)
Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?
Q. I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first ...
A. 30 November 2013: Do you use condoms? Because that can minimize the risk of UTI. I have to say though if I had a constant UTI I wouldn't really want sex either, BUT there are other things you can do in the bedroom to keep each other sexually "happy".
Do you kn... (read in full...)
He believes what people told him about me and wants a divorce
Q. So my husband was in Afghanistan for 9 months. He just recently got back. Some ppl I know told him I had been cheating on him, which I didn't. He is so cold now, and just wants a divorce. We don't talk, he has changed so much. Should I just get a ...
A. 29 November 2013: There must be more going on then what you put in here. Either HE has been cheating while deployed and put the blame on you because that is WAY easier for him to deal with or there are some serious viscous people on your circle of "friends". Or ... (read in full...)
We're not married but he put me on his life insurance. Is this a big deal?
Q. Just a simple question... my fiancee of 6 years has put me on his life insurance but we are not married. He keeps saying that no other man will do that to me and that im lucky to have him, he keep saying i wont find another man like him. But he...
A. 29 November 2013: So you should stay with him out of gratitude? WTF?
Is it worth being with him hoping he will die (basically) so you can gain money down the line? I hope the answer is no. Because living in hell with a man like that isn't worth it.
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