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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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Are man boobs a deal breaker or not?
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My roommate keeps breaking "house rules"! How can I approach her about this?
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In both cases, the simplest way to find out what's going on, is just asking him. Not in a offended or argumentative tone... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my boyfriend won't stop talking to other women!
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If you mean... (read in full...)
I am afraid to receive oral sex.... Is this normal?
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She won't go down on me!
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It would be a double standard if the OP would hate giving her oral, yet he would do it anyway to please her, and then , when is her turn to reci... (read in full...)
She won't go down on me!
Q. Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head ...
A. 11 February 2011: I am sure that people will tell you that this isn't fair and that you should refuse to give her oral sex if she does not give it to you- tit for tat. That may even sound logical but sex is not mathematics or commerce, and if it were me I'd be ... (read in full...)
Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?
Q. There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...
A. 11 February 2011: No, Mrs. Lion, please let's not be nice. Being nice and politically correct and accepting and tolerant is probably a big contributing factor to the number of teen pregnancies in USA which is shocking for a civilized society, with massive social ... (read in full...)
Could I get into trouble seeing him if my parents find out?
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A. 11 February 2011: You are a minor and he is not , so yes, technically he's breaking the law and you'd better be on the downlow for another year. Also if , as a parent, I would not be so upset about a 2 years age difference . What I'd be furiously upset is that ... (read in full...)
Am I being too needy?
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice. Today I had an awful day. I bumped into an ex who totally screwed up my life (I moved to Uni with him and he broke up with me after two weeks when we were living together) two years ago who I'd managed not to s...
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You can't really compare your mom...and a long distance boyfriend of 8 months ! Different roles, different expectations.
Also, I don't want to sound critical, but I wonder how often you expect him " to be there fo... (read in full...)
Should I try to move on and forgive?
Q. I met him during my divorce and his divorce.We both have 2 kids from our marriages.We got serious immeditately.He moved us in after 6 months.Sex was constant and phenominal.Our kids got along fabulously.Then he found FaceBook and old crushes and new ...
A. 11 February 2011: No. You can forgive once. Maybe twice. But what do you want to do, keep forgiving him for the rest of your life ? That would not be forgiveness, that would be helping him to abuse you !... (read in full...)
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A. 11 February 2011: What can I say, darling... let's hope nothing similar will ever happen again. I would not be absolutely sure about it, though. Because once you break a taboo- and nothing happens in retribution- then it is very easy to break it again, given the ... (read in full...)
I drink a bottle of wine almost every day. Is this ok?
Q. To make this short and simple I drink a bottle of wine every day, well almost every day!!! is that to much. I dont start drinking in the morning, only at night when my son goes to bed, I contiue to carry on with my life through out the day. I get up ...
A. 10 February 2011: I don't want to sound disrespectful or confrontational, I assure I am just very curious about WHERE it is normal to drink a bottle of wine a day. In one take. Outside meals .
I am saying this because I was born and raised in Italy, in a very wine... (read in full...)
I drink a bottle of wine almost every day. Is this ok?
Q. To make this short and simple I drink a bottle of wine every day, well almost every day!!! is that to much. I dont start drinking in the morning, only at night when my son goes to bed, I contiue to carry on with my life through out the day. I get up ...
A. 10 February 2011: Way too much. A 750 cc. bottle of wine is 5 glasses,( 150 cc. wine glasses - wine is not supposed to be drunk in mugs or big tumblers ! ) a safe and reasonable daily quantity for an average sized woman is 2 . Plus, I take it you are drinking it ... (read in full...)
Friend has become a bit distant -- why am I so insecure about it?
Q. ok i worked with a guy for 18 months during which time i became very close to him and he said he loved working with me. during this time he was having bad problems at home and i supported him throgh some serious stuff. he says he values me a lot. ...
A. 10 February 2011: Because it does not sound like you only have friendly feelings for him, it sounds like you have romantic feelings.
If he were just a friend, I don't think you'd feel this way.
Because, if it were a rock-solid, for-life kind of friendsh... (read in full...)
How do I find a guy that is not bothered by my body shape?
Q. Okay im 16 years old and im 190 pounds. im also only 5 foot 3 so its even worse. i dont even know why but i really want to have a boyfriend but of course no guy wants to go out with me. im not even ugly, my eyes are pretty big and hazel brown, i ...
A. 10 February 2011: Ok, let's dispose first of all the usual banalities : Beauty is only skin deep. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What counts is personality . Etc. etc.
I am not being cynical, I do believe all of the above. And luckily, everyday life prov... (read in full...)
In love with a girl while in rehab...but her chequered past and questionable actions have launched me into a terrible dilemma...
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 34 years old male. I was in a rehab for 5 months recently. I had been through a terrible heart break about 3 years back when the girl that I have loved since I was 14 married another guy. It's complicated, she married another ...
A. 10 February 2011: The heart wants what the mind says you should not have. That happens quite often. But blindly following the heart often takes you to uncomfortable places where you never wanted to land to begin with.
Like in rehab .
As the anonymous male rea... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't celebrate Valentine's Day and I'm disappointed!
Q. I've been having problems with my boyfriend, he smokes (cigs), drinks (even though he's underage), and uses very dirty language. I've often felt that he is dragging me down to his level. Recently, I moved out of my parent’s house into an apartment ...
A. 10 February 2011: I am surprised you are focusing over the minor issue of Valentine's Day and skimming over the major ones.
The Valentine's Day problem is not so terribly relevant. There is a lot of people who do not celebrate that day, because they think it's just... (read in full...)
Is this relationship hopeless?
Q. My boyfriend of almost 5 years, has caused me a lot of heartache. I love him dearly, but I am very attached to him. We are both in our 30's and much too old to be dealing with these issues. But overall, 3 years ago I found out everything about him ...
A. 10 February 2011: Oh...I had not seen the update. Which leaves no possible doubt. I know unluckily many women have self esteem issues (including yours sincerely ) which at times keep them stuck in bad relationships... but , to the point of risking their life ??. ... (read in full...)
Is this relationship hopeless?
Q. My boyfriend of almost 5 years, has caused me a lot of heartache. I love him dearly, but I am very attached to him. We are both in our 30's and much too old to be dealing with these issues. But overall, 3 years ago I found out everything about him ...
A. 10 February 2011: Advice ? Put your head under the cold water tap, then shake vigorously and see if this helps you come back to your senses.
He tells you he is divorced and you only find out after 2 years that's a lie... and you still bother with him ??
Ok, a... (read in full...)
My friends dislike my boyfriend and want me to dump him. What should I do?
Q. hi :) I'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He is quite rude to most people and he is always really rude to some of my closest friends. He is always getting into arguments and insulting them, especially 'Amy'. Amy is qu...
A. 10 February 2011: Ditch the rude guy, but not because your friends say so ( Amy is rude and verbally aggressive too ) - because he is rude ! Never too early to apply a "no rude dudes " policy,and to refuse associating with rude people. He is nice to you now, because ... (read in full...)
Are man boobs a deal breaker or not?
Q. hi girls if you met a guy who you found attractive and he done it for you in all ways but you take off his shirt and see small man boobs(i had a picture but the mods wont let me link them) ala the size of a teens early breast growth,you can only ...
A. 9 February 2011: I think Sammi Star and perhaps other posters may have missed the point of my post, which is :
a skinny guy with man boobs is quite possibly someone who has
gynecomastia. "True" gynecomastia ( meaning not the one that comes from an exce... (read in full...)
My ex is about to propose to another woman. How can I get him back before it's too late?
Q. Six years ago, my boyfriend of 2 years and I were going through a rough patch and were on and off til one day it just stayed off. Eventually, we broke off contact and went our separate ways, but I loved him very much still and didn't want the break ...
A. 9 February 2011: Aww please. If you were 16 I'd be more diplomatic, but you are a grown up woman of 26 , so I 'll just tell you, in fact, shout : GROW UP !
You are seeing reality through the deforming lens of your wishful thinking. You see what you want to see , an... (read in full...)
Are man boobs a deal breaker or not?
Q. hi girls if you met a guy who you found attractive and he done it for you in all ways but you take off his shirt and see small man boobs(i had a picture but the mods wont let me link them) ala the size of a teens early breast growth,you can only ...
A. 9 February 2011: You ask honesty , and I'll be honest : it's unattractive.
Said by the mother of a guy who has the same problem , so if even mom says it does not look that good - it does not. My son is getting surgery for this in a few weeks. Supposedly, it is a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me for another girl saying " he's happier and in love with her, she's a better kisser, better body and more beautiful"..Any chance he might come back to me after all this?
Q. With my ex for quite a while I was his longest relationship. We had a fight and we decided to break up and than talk 2 days later. He begged for me back but when he came to the day to talk he said he needed time. Little did I know that his best mate ...
A. 9 February 2011: And why would you take back such a shallow , insensitive, uncaring idiot ? Do you really give yourself so little value ? Ok, you don't say you'd take him back, you just want him to want you . WHY ? Wounded ego ? It hurts but it will pass, if you ... (read in full...)
In love with a girl while in rehab...but her chequered past and questionable actions have launched me into a terrible dilemma...
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 34 years old male. I was in a rehab for 5 months recently. I had been through a terrible heart break about 3 years back when the girl that I have loved since I was 14 married another guy. It's complicated, she married another ...
A. 9 February 2011: I think you'd better stick to the program and follow their advice not to get involved with anybody for at least two years-otherwise what's the point of joining the program to begin with,if you are gonna break the rules at the first chance you get ... (read in full...)
Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?
Q. There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...
A. 9 February 2011: Pardon me, but...
- if you know you are waaaaaay too young to have sex, WHY do you have sex.
- if you don't want to get pregnant, WHY do you keep having unprotected sex. A pack of condom is not that expensive,is it ? ... (read in full...)
What was it that I had done? Was it because I wasn't easy?
Q. I have a bit of a dilemma. I'm sorry if this is a bit long but any help would be greatly appreciated! I met this guy, through a group of mutual friends at University, and we got along really well. He began emailing and texting me a lot, and it be...
A. 9 February 2011: You haven't done anything wrong, except perhaps choosing his comfy bed over the uncomfortable sofa. You share a bed with a guy- he gets ideas and expectations. So he may have been disappointed by your backing off and thought you were
"playing game... (read in full...)
My boyfriend through me into the snow during an argument! I'm not sure what to think!
Q. I was walking outside with my boyfriend of 6 months, when we got into a small disagreement. We were holding hands, when he suddenly flung me across his body and into the snow on the side of the road. I landed, unhurt, but shaken. He is much stronger ...
A. 9 February 2011: I read Snowshoe's post with much interest and an open mind, yet I am quite puzzled. What does it mean " most men are taught and learn naturally from a very early age to settle problems phisycally ? " That's way too general, in fact that's not my ... (read in full...)
What is it about the "popular" girls that guys like so much?
Q. Why do guys like the girl who is most populari? The very pretti girl even if she is a mean? They like the easy girl. Do they not care that this girls have had so many boy-friends? They follo them like dogs and i feel girls like me Are left in the ...
A. 9 February 2011: Sweetheart, I understand your frustration, but it's nearly inevitable, it 's age related, it will go ( a bit ) better with time. In your age range, boys are just a cauldron od raging, bubbling hormons, it's normal they are attracted first to what ... (read in full...)
Is in-your-face brutal honesty really necessary??
Q. my boyfriend is a great guy and i feel like i can tell him everything.. but sometimes when i do tell him stuff like me often venting about my crazy family hes too honest. like brutally honest. i know its better to hear the truth but at the same time ...
A. 9 February 2011: I'll be brutally honest myself and I'll tell you that he does it probably because he is an undersocialized, crude,ill mannered jerk.
There is a difference between being sincere/outspoken and crossing boundaries of sensitivity and respect.
You ... (read in full...)
Is he a natural flirt? Or is he really interested in mt
Q. i think that i have found a guy who just like to flirt and that's all . we have been flirting with one another for now about 4 months, and he has not made a move to ask me out nor for my number. i think he is just a big tease . my question is, Is t...
A. 9 February 2011: Hey take it as a compliment ! maybe he flirted with you more than with the other women because he finds you more attractive ! and also perhaps he felt encouraged because ,at least at the beginning,his attentions were well received. Don't be ... (read in full...)
Is this girl flirting with me???
Q. Is this girl flirting with me? We are in the same classes at school and we see each other a lot. I have noticed she touches me more than other people (like during a conversation she will put her hand on my shoulder). She also said something t...
A. 8 February 2011: I think she is definitely flirting. Body language says a lot and ,if she is not the touchy-feely type, yet she does touch you more than she touches other people,...it means something. Also the mint thing- a joke, but sort of coy.
How deep this... (read in full...)
Is he a natural flirt? Or is he really interested in mt
Q. i think that i have found a guy who just like to flirt and that's all . we have been flirting with one another for now about 4 months, and he has not made a move to ask me out nor for my number. i think he is just a big tease . my question is, Is t...
A. 8 February 2011: If he were a teenager , or even a guy in his 20s, I'd say he is shy and I'd tell you to encourage him openly, or take the initiative yourself. But assuming he is a guy your age, yes, I am afraid he is just a big tease, or -not even that, probably ... (read in full...)
How do I break up? Our relationship has stalled.
Q. My bf and I just had our 2 year anniversary, but I've wanted to break up for a while. I thought things would get better but it feels like things have stalled. And the relationship is stale. We have lots in common but it's the little things. When...
A. 8 February 2011: You do have a good reason to break up with him. The reason is , that you are not being happy with him, and at your age it's really a shame to give up the pursuit of happiness in favour of emotional stability. You are not in love with him, and in ... (read in full...)
Aren't you supposed to know when you've found "the one"?
Q. Which One Do I Choose??!! Me and my curent boyfriend have been dating off and on for 7 years, we've broken up and gotten back together 13 times now and every time its the same reason; we weren't ready or old enough for the very sereous relation...
A. 2 February 2011: No rush.Relax and keep doing what you are alreday doing, i.e, living the best life you can, you cannnot ever go wrong with that:). You don't have to stop communicating with them or exclude them from your circle of friends, you just have to ... (read in full...)
I will be alone on Valentines Day, which also happens to be my crush's birthday! What am I supposed to do?
Q. Okay, so this guy i used to be friends with doesn't talk to me anymore. I thought him and I were just friends. Only friends. He doesn't date and well I was fine with that. But then he stopped talking to me. It was sad and I got over it. Now that ...
A. 25 January 2011: Throw an Unvalentine's party. Start sending invitations now to your few single friends, with instructions for each one to bring another single acquaintance, and so on. Tell them not to be picky,they do not need to be "cool" singles , or "hot " ... (read in full...)
Aren't you supposed to know when you've found "the one"?
Q. Which One Do I Choose??!! Me and my curent boyfriend have been dating off and on for 7 years, we've broken up and gotten back together 13 times now and every time its the same reason; we weren't ready or old enough for the very sereous relation...
A. 16 January 2011: Proceed with caution :). With this guy you had pre-existing trust issues and drama issues, now there is also a drug use issues. Ok, everybody can make mistakes then pick themselves up and change their course - but drug users and ex- drug users ... (read in full...)
Aren't you supposed to know when you've found "the one"?
Q. Which One Do I Choose??!! Me and my curent boyfriend have been dating off and on for 7 years, we've broken up and gotten back together 13 times now and every time its the same reason; we weren't ready or old enough for the very sereous relation...
A. 16 January 2011: Ah my dear,I wish I had THAT figured out, LOL . I could write a self help book- "7 steps to instant orgasm " and make millions.
Funny,no ? , how at times you think you are attracted to the guy, and you want to be attracted and you both want... (read in full...)
Aren't you supposed to know when you've found "the one"?
Q. Which One Do I Choose??!! Me and my curent boyfriend have been dating off and on for 7 years, we've broken up and gotten back together 13 times now and every time its the same reason; we weren't ready or old enough for the very sereous relation...
A. 16 January 2011: You are taking a break for your happiness, your job and your future. If these guys care about you they will understand and will not be hurt . Anyway, you can't date people just to be nice and spare them a disappointment ,can you ?....... (read in full...)
Aren't you supposed to know when you've found "the one"?
Q. Which One Do I Choose??!! Me and my curent boyfriend have been dating off and on for 7 years, we've broken up and gotten back together 13 times now and every time its the same reason; we weren't ready or old enough for the very sereous relation...
A. 15 January 2011: If you broke up 13 times, and you never lasted more than 6 months together, we can safely assume he is not "the one " for you. I don't know if when you meet "the one " you feel it right away, ...but I am positive that a 7 years constant off/on is ... (read in full...)
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