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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?
Q. I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also...
A. 25 July 2011: You did pick up your own family over him. And it was the right choice, in fact a mandatory choice. Family vs controlling,abusive,manipulative bf ? Family wins hand down.
Stay strong. You did the right thing.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend who used to be a slut is now a prude in bed!
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A. 24 July 2011: If we want to get technical, "slut" has been used since around 1420 - slutte in Middle English - to mean " dirty, slovenly WOMAN " . Then it passed to mean "kitchen maid " or "scullery girl " ( I guess kitchens were not that clean at the time ) ... (read in full...)
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A. 23 July 2011: Excellent suggestion by Marieclaire, and don't put pressure on yourself trying to bond by a set date. It just happens, some times at birth, or after 3 months ,or 6... I don't know when. It just happens. One day, you are just there changing his/her ... (read in full...)
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Q. MY question is why do women expect us men to give them everything and anything they want that makes them happy, but they won't give us the simplest thing to make us happy; a blow job!? We go to all sorts of lengths, taking an interest in your...
A. 23 July 2011: OP, ..ah but then you have upped the ante quite a bit from your previous post.
It's not just that you feel deprived of oral attentions and you want your wife to perform your favourite sexual act. You want her to like it. To DESIRE it, in fact- to p... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I know about the porn he watches?
Q. My bf is 25 and we have sex once a month! last time I had it was 6 weeks ago. and he was drunk. it was perfect though. but the first 3 intercourses (when we just started dating)were unsuccessful, I mean he couldnt come at all. and he just stopped. I ...
A. 22 July 2011: OP, no no please ,no apologies needed, as already said to Betty Boop, I took no offence, I just found amusing that you'd put "older woman " right on par with "bestiality " - btw, not that I find amusing your whole predicament, which is in ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I know about the porn he watches?
Q. My bf is 25 and we have sex once a month! last time I had it was 6 weeks ago. and he was drunk. it was perfect though. but the first 3 intercourses (when we just started dating)were unsuccessful, I mean he couldnt come at all. and he just stopped. I ...
A. 22 July 2011: @BettyBoup : thanks BB, you are really a sweetheart for wanting to reassure me ,lol. Don't worry, I did not take any offence for the OP's comments , I was just a tad amused ,because it is TRUE that most young women think that sex is like ... (read in full...)
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Q. Hi all. This is more a self-esteem/relationship with myself kinda deal. I'm currently 220 lbs and at only 5'4", I'm a big girl. It sucks and I hate it. I was actually one of those girls you called anorexic back in elementary school because I was so ...
A. 22 July 2011: The first would be please do not try to loose 100 pounds in one year in view of your wedding. You'd wreak havoc on your thyroid gland, would probably fall into depression and would fill yourself with stretch marks. Rome was not built in one day- ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I know about the porn he watches?
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A. 22 July 2011: Ahem.. being myself a mature, curvy lady with a requited preference for younger partners, I have some objections to being filed under the same category as incest, animals and other sideshow freak sex. But OK, fair enough, when I was your age I ... (read in full...)
Nicknames for my boyfriend?
Q. My bf and i are thinking of nicknames for each other and i can't think of any for him, wanna help me out? Hes kinda nerd like science-y and he likes video games :)...
A. 22 July 2011: No no, you've got to figure out something on your own, nicknames mean nothing devoid of a personal emotional content and may be obnoxious if chosen by a third party.
My ex used to call me Big Duck, there was a long and complicated inside joke... (read in full...)
Would you remain friends with an ex who was unfaithful and disrespectful towards you?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago because I felt she was not loyal to me. She wanted to spend a lot of time with her three times ex boyfriend whom she claimed they are just friends. She was also spending a lot of time with another ...
A. 22 July 2011: No. Generally speaking, unfaithful and disrespectful people make also unfaithful and disrespectful friends and sooner or later she would betray your friendship same as she betrayed your relationship.... (read in full...)
Is this a red flag?
Q. I can't seem to relax on this issue that seems to be only in my head since I don't think my boyfriend has any idea how much this thing is bothering me that he told me the other day so here it goes... my boyfriend was talking to me about somethings ...
A. 22 July 2011: Yes and not.
You don't have to worry about this particular girl, he turned her down already, apparently once was enough for him. He understands you'd feel unconfortable around her and he suggested you did not attend the party to avoid you any awkw... (read in full...)
Confused about my actions being perceived
Q. Hello! I have a question that hopefully the community can provide some insight. A friend of mine recently became single. Yes I have feelings for her. I first told myself that I would be a friend first, feelings come second because it's the right t...
A. 22 July 2011: I'd say you are overthinking it.
I don't think she has made so many assumptions about your reasons for contacting her .
I think, more simply, either she just is not interested in you and does not want you give you any "in" by replying your mes... (read in full...)
I can't seem to become attached to this child inside me
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A. 22 July 2011: Honey , welcome to the wonderful world of pregnancy :) What you feel may be scary but it's far from unusual. Your hormons are all over the place, you are young and inexperienced and worried, you are a single mom, maybe you don't feel too well ... (read in full...)
How can I improve my accent?
Q. OK so am a legal immigrant to the USA. But I have this problem with my african accent. I speak good English people undesrtand what I say but others tell me to speak up cause they didn't hear what I said especilly when am talking to them on the ...
A. 22 July 2011: I forgot: if you can't find a speech coach, or it's too expensive, you can buy accent reduction books with CDS or audiocassettes.
I know of one called " Mastering the American Accent " by Lisa Mojsin- but check on Amazon.com and other book site... (read in full...)
How can I improve my accent?
Q. OK so am a legal immigrant to the USA. But I have this problem with my african accent. I speak good English people undesrtand what I say but others tell me to speak up cause they didn't hear what I said especilly when am talking to them on the ...
A. 22 July 2011: Take an accent reduction class, there are everywhere in big cities. It may be trickier to locate one in a smaller location, but if you contact the nearest drama school, or the local college, they should be able to help you .... (read in full...)
Do I leave this marriage or stay out of guilt?
Q. I was married when I was 19 years old ( I am 24 now) and I am losing hope for my marriage. When I got into this relationship I truly did love my husband. However, we fight very often, and the fights have sometimes become physical on both sides ...
A. 22 July 2011: Personally I don't find the way you feel strange at all , I'd be surprised if you felt differently. Who cares if it happened a year ago ? The important thing is that, it HAPPENED. And IMO once it happens you have passed the point of no return. You ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend who used to be a slut is now a prude in bed!
Q. My gf used to be a slut and was used by many men in the past as an object, which in turn lowered her self esteem even more. when i met her she was sexually open but now she has worked through her issues with self esteem is truely a bit of a prude in ...
A. 22 July 2011: Maybe she does not want the man she loves to think of her or define her his "slut" girlfriend. Maybe in her mind - and obviously in yours too- those sexual acts she used to do are typical of being a slut, which now she does not identify with ... (read in full...)
How can I sit with my mum and tell her I have been lying for a year??
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now, hes 36 and I'm 20. I love him more than anything. We had our up and downs but we are always there for each other and find a way to work our differences. He knows my family and they all love him, ...
A. 21 July 2011: No,your mom won't approve. 16 years older, with 3 kids ? Heck, I am tempted of disapproving myself :), and I am not even remotely related to you ! I am not your mom, but I am a mom, and us moms have our typical quirks . One is that of disliking 36 ... (read in full...)
We've dated 9 months and still haven't kissed
Q. I have known my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we have dated for 9 months, and are both 15 years old. It is both of our first relationship to be in so neither of us are experienced. The problem is: we still haven't kissed. We have actually talked ...
A. 21 July 2011: Kiss him first :). Ok with taking it slow, but, 9 months for a kiss... what is your boyfriend, a turtle ?... (read in full...)
What is the average amount of sex to have per week?
Q. Hi Guys, What is an average amount of sex to have per week? My boyfriend and I have lived together for a year and have sex once every 1-1.5 weeks. I feel like this isn't enough but maybe I'm the one with high hopes and will always be disapp...
A. 21 July 2011: I know I am supposed to be politically correct and say that it's not the quantity but the quality, and that there's no set number etc., and I believe it too, within limits, but, let's keep it real : 3 times a month in the 22-25 age bracket ( ... (read in full...)
Is it too much to expect the man who wants to marry me to treat me to a gift once-in-a-while?
Q. I’m trying to figure something out concerning my relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We don’t live in the same town and see each other at weekends. We get along well, he does housework, he cooks, he calls me in his lunch hour just to say h...
A. 21 July 2011: I have a strong dislike for tightwads so it's not as I want to defend this guy at any cost, but... are you sure he could afford the kind of things you want ? You say he went through tough times financially, and he may not be fully back on his ... (read in full...)
I love him but life is passing me by. I don't know how much longer I can wait around hoping things will change.
Q. Hey Guys I have a dilemma. My bf and I have been going out for 5 years now and I've reached a point where I'm seriously starting to question where this relationship is going. Our problem is that we're not financially equipped to marry or even re...
A. 21 July 2011: Janis Joplin, that, regardless of the bad end she did, was a very intelligent woman, said "Don't compromise yourself. Yourself it's all you got ".
It's sad ,but true. There is no guarantee that your boyfriend will still be with you in 5, 10, ... (read in full...)
Do I leave this marriage or stay out of guilt?
Q. I was married when I was 19 years old ( I am 24 now) and I am losing hope for my marriage. When I got into this relationship I truly did love my husband. However, we fight very often, and the fights have sometimes become physical on both sides ...
A. 21 July 2011: You have valid reasons to leave- and unfortunately your husband has as many to let you leave with a sigh of relief, because the physical abuse has been mutual. I feel no marriage can be fixed, or is worth fixing, once you get to this point of ... (read in full...)
Why are so many women so selfish? Even the great ones we love dearly!
Q. MY question is why do women expect us men to give them everything and anything they want that makes them happy, but they won't give us the simplest thing to make us happy; a blow job!? We go to all sorts of lengths, taking an interest in your...
A. 21 July 2011: OP, in the context you have provided in your follow up - then it can't be that bad ,can it ?
I'd say you have two courses of action.
- always remember what you told us : she is your wife, she loves you, she is beautiful, she takes good care of ... (read in full...)
Should I Dump her or is it just another ego boost for me?
Q. I wanna dump my girlfriend. We are together for 18 months. She is nice , beautiful and there’s hardly anything I can find wrong in her but wanna dump her to make it 1-1. My first girlfriend had dumped 6 months before she came into my life . S...
A. 21 July 2011: Excuse me but..what have you been smoking ??
Suppose that yesterday you got mugged. You got your wallet stolen, and you got beaten up too. So, what do you do today ? ...You assault some old lady and snatch her purse, because yesss, that's gonn... (read in full...)
We split-up but I'm confused as to what he wants...
Q. im so confussed, me and my ex boyfriend split about 2 months ago. we stop contacted for about a month but then got back in contact. we have been talking and texting but both said we cant get back together. but one night on a night out i seen...
A. 21 July 2011: You said yourself : hanging on to your ex stops you from moving on and from starting a better relationship with someone else. You should cut contact , and move on for real.
You don't know what he wants, but you know what he does NOT want : gett... (read in full...)
He can keep going for an hour! That's too long for me....
Q. This isn't much of a problem but, the guy I am seeing can last for an hour even more with no signs of him cumming anytime soon. When we have sex he really goes to town and it's great he even makes sure to go down on me beforehand he's really ...
A. 21 July 2011: He probably is, or was used to, masturbating A LOT, and can't reproduce by intercourse the firm grip ,and speed, of his own hand. He got himself trained to respond to a certain specific kind of stimulation, so with a different one, as pleasant as it ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with unwanted judgment?
Q. Im a 15 year old teen mum. I have a little boy who is 7 months old and the father stuck around so thats all good; but something that really bothers me is how everyone judges us not adults but people at school, like they are always telling me how i ...
A. 20 July 2011: I would not take it so personally.
People will comment about unusual things. You are perfectly free to make unusual choices, and people are perfectly free to find them inappropriate,inadequate or bizarre. If you want general approval, you conf... (read in full...)
She invited me to stay with her in the past, how do I remind her of that?
Q. What is going on with my friend ?. I live in England, and she lives in Norway ( Although, she isn't from there originally ). We have been intouch online for a few years now, but we have only met in person once. We know each other because we like the ...
A. 20 July 2011: I would not insist, she did not renew her invitation, in fact she informed you that she already has guests and I guess this is a diplomatic way to let you know you not to expect to stay at hers.
Now, if the problem is cash ( you can't afford to g... (read in full...)
Are they doing it?
Q. Further to my previous question about threesomes, Sometimes I see a girl walking down the street holding hands with 2 men on both sides of her and i always wonder... Are they doing it together? Many thanks...
A. 20 July 2011: Curious. Must be cultural. Here, the last time I saw a girl holding hands with the two boys at her sides, it was when I used to pick up my kid from nursery school.... (read in full...)
Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?
Q. I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also...
A. 20 July 2011: That's a cinch,darling.
Just tell your parents that you had to break up because your ex wanted to prevent you from attending family events and wanted to make you choose between him and your family.... and they'll be making a bonfire with his ... (read in full...)
Why are so many women so selfish? Even the great ones we love dearly!
Q. MY question is why do women expect us men to give them everything and anything they want that makes them happy, but they won't give us the simplest thing to make us happy; a blow job!? We go to all sorts of lengths, taking an interest in your...
A. 20 July 2011: That's a way of seeing things that frankly I can't relate to. Personally I think nobody should do or be asked to do what sexually turns them off. "Straining" "effort" and "sacrifice " should stay out of the bedroom, and people should be very car... (read in full...)
How do I catch THAT fish?
Q. The saying 'There's plenty of fish in the sea', followed by 'I dont care, I want THAT fish!' My problem is that the above saying very much rings true to my situation at the moment (in regards to a girl). Any suggestions on how one catches T...
A. 20 July 2011: Slightly off topic, but...I am afraid it goes to show how girls - or fish - can't ever win.
If a woman is distant, unresponsive, indifferent to your attentions and emotions- she is conceited, egocentric, a "princess", a stuck up b...h. If she is w... (read in full...)
Is cybersex cheating?
Q. I have a cybersex habit. I had it before I met my wife and I still have it. I have a very high sex drive and my wife just doesn't keep up with me by any stretch. To me it is just a step beyond jerking myself off. In fact, that's what it is. Some...
A. 20 July 2011: Yes, I'd call it cheating too.
But,why are we getting so hung up on labels and definitions ?
The issue here is that you are married, therefore you are not supposed to do anything behind your spouse's back, except organizing her birthday surprise... (read in full...)
Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?
Q. im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be ...
A. 19 July 2011: I am still curious to know who shells out the cash for your little bundle of joy ( not you for sure )
And if these persons/institutions who will have to pay on your behalf, are exactly as elated as you at the idea of this pregnancy.... (read in full...)
He accused my son of theft but thats not the only issue..
Q. I love my bf and we have been together on and off for the past 4 years. Recently he is spending a lot of time with me except when he says he is out of the country or business meetings at night. He says he spends time with me to prove to me that...
A. 19 July 2011: I would save my breath - or ink. The theft accusations may be the straw which broke the camel's back but even without that, it does not sound like this relationship was going particularly anywhere.
Also, the best , most effective time to remo... (read in full...)
Is this best option? Am I wrong in now not wanting to attend my son's wedding after all the humiliation he has put me through?
Q. I recently split up with my partner of 7 years. I've kept myself busy with preparations of my sons wedding in 2 weeks.It has stopped me from mourning my loss, and helped me fight the tears and pain that are tearing me up inside. I loved my partner ...
A. 19 July 2011: Chalk it up to stress,his for the upcoming wedding and yours for your break up. Some times a minor disagreement that normally would be settled in a matter of seconds gets blown over any proportion and causes unnecessary mayhem- just because of ... (read in full...)
How can I reconnect with him?
Q. I am willing to do whatever it takes to relate and understand the mind of my man. He has recently withdrawn, but doesnt ignore me, still seems interested. I am very curious to know how i am able to regnite or inspire emoctional attraction to ...
A. 19 July 2011: I guess that to be of any help we should have more details about your relationship, and
this perceived "withdrawal "- what does he do exactly to make you think he is withdrawing ? was it out of the blue, or after an argument, or a pers... (read in full...)
My best friend's husband is a jerk and she just doesn't see it!!
Q. Hello everyone, just want to thank u ahead of time for reading... Ok here we go.. There's 5 of us girls who we have been best friends since high school.. We've known each other since elementary.. But all of us got really close after high school.....
A. 19 July 2011: No no, please do not butt in. Katy may have low self esteem, but she is an adult, sane of mind, and was not forced at gun pont to get married. She made a decision, that may very possibly turn out bad- but that's her problem and her responsibility. ... (read in full...)
Trapped in a sexless marriage for almost 20 years, wife won't have sex and won't say why she doesn't want to. Should I leave?
Q. I have been with my wife for almost 20 years now. We have had a sexless marriage for most of that time. We were arguing about it even just 1 year into the relationship. It's not that we never, ever have sex, but we go years in-between having i...
A. 19 July 2011: The thing is, counselling works only if people want it to work and are committed to make it work. Which I don't think is your wife's case.
This disfunctional situation apparently has some sort of advantage for her. It sounds like for reasons of h... (read in full...)
Husband says he didn't buy extras at a strip club, but he spent a lot of money.
Q. My husband went to a strip club (more than once) and spent alot of money. He says he had beers and a few dances, but no extras. I'm having a hard time believing his story, but don't want to end our 38 years of marriage, if he is telling the truth. ...
A. 19 July 2011: After reading about the 38 years of marriage my first impulse was to tell you to cut him some slack. If he has kept a clean marital record for 38 years, he deserves some leniency, maybe after having been good all this time, he just wanted to know ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my bf's dad who controls his life?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4yrs. It hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it. Thing is, his father is very controlling of him. He's now 22 and his father still controls everything he does. He's not allowed to come out with my ...
A. 19 July 2011: Apparently the solution is very simple. Your bf only needs to become self supporting and move out from the family home, then he can do whatever he wants. And since he is 22, the time is close when he'll have to do that anyway, he just needs to ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of always having to tell them to stop or back off.
Q. I have a boyfriend that I'm deeply in love with. But I'm also the type of girl that gets along better with guys than I do with girls. here's the problem, every time I meet a guy that I want to be friends with he either ends up liking me way too ...
A. 19 July 2011: Well, tune it down ! You can be yourself without being overfriendly or overexhuberant or overcuddly.
I have a friend who complains about your very same problem, she too says "...but I am not doing anything, I am just being myself ! ". It turn... (read in full...)
What you guys would do if your girlfriend tried to set you up?
Q. I have been with my partner for 3 years we have a wonderful relationship and only had one bad patch and now its all back on track- he loves me and tells me so and I love him very much too. I recently made friends with a girl and I think she is ...
A. 19 July 2011: I think maybe this is like when you are afraid your partner is going to leave you and, to shorten the agony /protect your pride...you jump the gun and dump him first. Maybe you are afraid that when he sees this girl he'll be attracted to her more ... (read in full...)
We are engaged but he hasn't even told his parents about me!
Q. please help! I have been with the same guy for a little over 2 years. We have been engaged for over a year of the 2 years we have been together, but he still hasnt told his parents. he doesnt plan on getting married anytime soon. He says it will ...
A. 18 July 2011: If he did not tell his parents and he is not planning to get married anytime soon... then you are NOT actually engaged, you are simply playing "fiancees" same as I used to do in 3rd grade when I had the boy sitting next to me "propose" with a ... (read in full...)
If the embassy is going to deny my visa would they tell me right away?
Q. hey, i'm lebanese, my gf is filippina, i'm gonna visit her this summer, that;s why i applied for a tourist visa: -i'm a 22 years old woman (student) -i've beem to france(12 yo) and syria(21 yo) -i mentioned i gave them all the papers they...
A. 18 July 2011: I still think they would not tell you anything . Take it with a pinch of salt , because I have no idea of how thePhilippine embassy works . But normally, you submit your application, THEN they process it, THEN they tell you if it has been accepted ... (read in full...)
If the embassy is going to deny my visa would they tell me right away?
Q. hey, i'm lebanese, my gf is filippina, i'm gonna visit her this summer, that;s why i applied for a tourist visa: -i'm a 22 years old woman (student) -i've beem to france(12 yo) and syria(21 yo) -i mentioned i gave them all the papers they...
A. 18 July 2011: I don't know about this specific Embassy regulations , but no, normally they would not tell you in advance if your request it's going to be denied, for the simple reason the guy who collects your application, info and papers neither knows nor has ... (read in full...)
Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?
Q. I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also...
A. 18 July 2011: Don't go find excuses for him.
"That's the way he grew up ". Oh really ? Did he grow up thinking it's Ok to dictate other people whom they can see ,how close should they be to their family , what his girlfriend can eat ?... Where did he grow up, ... (read in full...)
Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?
Q. I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also...
A. 18 July 2011: Your bf is a bully .
I sort of see where is coming from, I am not much into family gatherings myself, and I had a SO who had seven (!)siblings who were forever getting married,having birthdays and celebrating together everything , even the purc... (read in full...)
Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?
Q. im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be ...
A. 7 June 2011: And... who pays for your little bundle of joy ?
Not you for sure. At 15 you'll be in school.. and if you weren't I strongly doubt that you can earn enough to support yourself, let alone a baby.
So, who's gonna pay for your prenatal care, hospital... (read in full...)
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