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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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The " if he really loved me " is tricky in this sens... (read in full...)
Can masturbation interfere with a relationship?
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A. 5 September 2012: Well,of course it must be a problem if he almost never wants sex ( regardless if the cause for lack of desire is masturbation or something else ). Unless his partner has a similarly low libido and agrees with almost never having sex. Otherwise, the ... (read in full...)
Why do people always say its good to be a virgin? what's so great about it?
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A. 5 June 2012: Why is it impossible for you to lose your virginity ?
As history has proven... What history, for Pete's sake ? ! You are all of ...18 !. So your "history " will be, what, one year or 18 months or so of half hearted , half assed attempts at dati... (read in full...)
Why do people always say its good to be a virgin? what's so great about it?
Q. Im an 18yr old guy, just out of school, and I'm still a virgin...I don't understand why it's so hard...why I dislike it so much...I feel like I'm missing out...like everyone else is in on something that I'm not a part of. Then people say its a good ...
A. 5 June 2012: I don't quite understand your predicament.
You seem to give a disproportionate attention to what " people " say or think. What do YOU think ? People say all sort of things- some say that Justin Bieber is a great singer :). All opinions are resp... (read in full...)
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