How can you forget somebody you love?
Q. I split from my ex because I was constantly cheated on and lied to. She slept with a guy over 100 times over the space of 6 months. I finished her many times, only to take her back about 90 times. I felt like I needed her in my life, because there ...
A. 4 January 2007: I'm a little confused here. Are you talking about an ex wife or girlfriend or both? You separated from your wife (so shes your ex wife) and met your ex girlfriend? How can you meet your ex girlfriend? Do you mean you separated from your wife and got ... (read in full...)
My partner says if I keep the baby-I'm raising it on my own! I don't know what to do?
Q. ive been with my partner three and a half years and fell pregnant recently and my partner does not want the baby an dsays if i keep it ill be bringing it up on my own i love this man and dont wont to lose him butknowing i have to get rid of the baby ...
A. 20 December 2006: Do you want to raise the child on your own? No
Do you want to loose your partner? No
Is he being selfish? Is he being unreasonable by making you get an abortion? Are you being selfsih? Are you being unreasonable for wanting to keep the baby?
Y... (read in full...)
Im 34 and have never had a boyfriend, what the hell am I doing wrong!!!?
Q. I'm 34 and have never had a boyfriend. I have a very good full-time job, a lucrative business on the side, spend a lot on my clothes, hair and appearance, have interesting hobbies, read newspapers and books, go to the gym and generally take care of ...
A. 20 December 2006: I agree with Martini, it is difficult to advise you on this issue. Good things come to those who wait but not for those who wait too late. It's time for you to make the first move. When you like a guy maybe you should be the one to ask him out and ... (read in full...)
I look so young for my age...any way I can make myself look older?
Q. I need help, asap. The thing is, I look really young for my age. I'm 19, 20 in November and I still get asked for ID. Most of the time I even get asked ID for a 15 rated movie. When I got to clubs it's really embarrassing to be stopped infront of ...
A. 20 December 2006: I'm the opposite. I look older for my age. It comes in handy when going to clubs and stuff but...y'know. Anyway to look older it helps if you don't wear hoodies and trainers and tracksuits and stuff like that. I never wear that sort of thing. Not ... (read in full...)
Im only 15 but there are lots of girls that ask me to have sex with them... What should I do ??
Q. i am 15 years old and there are alot of girls that ask me if i want to have sex with them should i just not pay atention to them or wat should i do? ...
A. 20 December 2006: If you don't want to have sex with them then don't. If you want to have sex with them then I'd say go ahead but...15 is below the age on consent so it would be illegal. So basically don't have sex until you are the legal age. And also don't have sex ... (read in full...)
Im 19, Took a vow of celibacy from birth due to religion, now I wonder is an orgasm worth the wait!?
Q. Im 19 and have taken the vow of celibacy sice i was born as it is my religion. This means i have never had sex which means i've never orgasmed. I wonder what it feels like and if it is worth the wait. please can you help me and answer my question...
A. 20 December 2006: Yes it is worth the wait. However...I don't mean to disappoint you here but some women even though they've had sex many times never actually experience orgasms. An orgasm for a woman is not automatic and it is not guaranteed. It doesn't matter how ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but is messing around with others, does he really love me!!!??
Q. does he really love me???? he says he loves me but he keeps playing games...and i dont know when he is telling the truth or not...but right now we are not together but he says he wants to be with me but he been missing around with girls and we have ...
A. 20 December 2006: A guy who loves you wold not play mind games. There would be no other girl for him but you. How comes he loves you but you are not together in a relationship? Also if you two are not together do you expect him not be get with other girls? He's not ... (read in full...)
We had sex..no condom-now my period is 3 days late! Am I pregnant?
Q. Well my and my boyfriend had sex without a condom but he didnt ejaculate or anything but my period was suppose to start 3 to 4 days ago! Could be pregnant or am i over reacting? Please Answer As Soon As Possible!...
A. 20 December 2006: Well I think it is fairly obvious what to do when you think you're pregnant. DO A PREGNANCY TEST. That should be the first thing you think of. If you think you're pregnant: DO A PREGNANCY TEST. If in doubt: do a pregnancy test. You want to know if ... (read in full...)
Guys ask for my number and then never call! What's wrong with me?
Q. I know this problem sounds weird, but I have met so many guys and they have given me there number. I was certain they would contact me, but they didn't contact me. I am 19 years old and been told by a lot of people i'm really good-looking. What's ...
A. 19 December 2006: Also it's understandable. Put yourself in their shoes. You just met this girl, you like her and she's gorgeous so you ask her for her number, she gives it to you. Then you've got the difficult nerve racking task of actaully calling her. "What if she ... (read in full...)
Guys ask for my number and then never call! What's wrong with me?
Q. I know this problem sounds weird, but I have met so many guys and they have given me there number. I was certain they would contact me, but they didn't contact me. I am 19 years old and been told by a lot of people i'm really good-looking. What's ...
A. 19 December 2006: Sometimes guys take your number to prove to themselves that they've still got it. "Yeah I got that girls' number. She's well fit" But they might have just done it for the challenge. Also because you're so good looking they might not have had the ... (read in full...)
Worried about: my weight, lack of a girlfriend, sex, and shyness... Help!
Q. Hi, i am worried about my weight, im not really fat or anything but im alight over what i normally should be, i am currently on a diet but its taking its time and i havent had a proper girlfriend, i always worry what girls think and i just want to ...
A. 19 December 2006: You're 17 and you've never had sex. So! It doesnt really matter. I'm a girl and I don't think that's anything to be ashamed of. It doesn't hinder your chances of finding a girl who loves you. It really doesn't. So don't worry about that side of ... (read in full...)
Slept with a friend's ex bf and now I think I'm pregnant...what can I do?
Q. i slept with my ex-mate's boyfriend, she doesnt know but i think im pregnant! what do i do?...
A. 19 December 2006: You think you're pregnant? How long has it been since you had sex with him? Go and buy a pregnancy test or go to the nearest clinic and get tested. It's best if you know for definate if you're pregnant or not. It could be a false alarm.
If it's only... (read in full...)
She want's to let her hair down and live the single life! I am devastated! What can I do?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now, im 22, shes nearly 19 and gorgeous. She has just told me that she has been txting another lad from college more often than she should be. She told me that she likes him because he makes ...
A. 19 December 2006: I'm afraid so. Sit and wait and hope for the best. She needs to make her decision and only she can make it. Don't push her away right now but at the same time give her some space to think. Give her time to make up her mind. Talk about it together ... (read in full...)
I really don't want to be a lesbian!
Q. im nearly 18 and im so confused about my sexuality! im defo straight cause i loveee boyss! but lately i hav been having feelings for girls in the same way! :| i think i fancy girls too! i really dont want to be a lesbian! but i cant help my feelings ...
A. 19 December 2006: Yeah you're probbaly just looking at what's on offer. It's probably just a phase. This is quite normal for some people so no need to worry.... (read in full...)
Our religion is against drinking but I found out my best friend has been getting drunk!
Q. i have a very close friend. we are both 16. she told me she never drinks alcohol. it is strictly against our religion. but i found out last friday night she got drunk and it's not the first time! i am disgusted. we are just so close, she bought me a ...
A. 19 December 2006: If your friend wants to drink she can. YES it is against your religion and for this reason and ONLY for this reason it is wrong. However, it is her life and she is free to live it how she wants to. Stop trying to control her. Live your own life and ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to meet with me...is it because he doesn't love me?
Q. well my boyfriend lives only 10 miles away and he never seems to want to meet me anywhere...is it because he doesn't love me?...
A. 19 December 2006: Not necessarily. Background info would enable me to give you a more accurate and helpful answer.... (read in full...)
Talked to like dirt! Help me be more assertive!
Q. My BF's friends talk down to me. How do I get them to stop talking to me in a condescending manner? These last couple of years I have had a problem with people talking down to me. Before that I had no problems. What has changed in personality that...
A. 18 December 2006: The way you carry yourself is the way you are perceived. People don't talk down to people for no reason.
I think that you are allowing people to talk to you like this. If you give out the impression that says "I'm weak, I'm a push over, talk to m... (read in full...)
They treat me like I'm dumb!
Q. I am not sure if my husband respects me. My family loves him and I don't want people to know this. He treats me like I am dumb. I never realized it before but I have fed into. I find myself saying things like don't ask me like I would know. My ...
A. 18 December 2006: Have a talk with them and explain to them how this is making you feel. I'm sure they care about you and wouldn't dream of making you feel dumb so if you talk to them about it then they ought to stop. Don't let them get away with treating you like ... (read in full...)
I am a control freak! Can you halp me change?
Q. i am a very controlling boyfriend and i want to change so bad but its really hard for me. i love my girlfriend and i want to spend the rest of my life with her but i have been trying to change for two months now but i just cant change. i really want ...
A. 18 December 2006: First you have to think about all the reasons as to why you are a control freak. What are you afraid of? What is causing you to be this way? When you are not in control what's the worst that could happen? Then deliberately put yourself in that ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my boyfriend's brother!
Q. advice needed when you are attracted to your boyfriend's brother and he tells you he feels the same help..... ...
A. 11 December 2006: I don't think it's worth destroying the relationship between two brothers. Would you like to be the one responsible for that? I think you should let it go and not go after him for moral reasons. Do you have a sister? Would you feel betrayed by her ... (read in full...)
Ideas needed for xmas presents to give to two special females in my life..
Q. i'm goin on holiday 3days before christmas. i wanna get 2 people presents. one is my very close friend. the other is her best mate and the girl i fancy. both are girls we all 16. any ideas? what do girls really like? i want it to be special for my ...
A. 11 December 2006: Perfume. Pop down to Boots and test the perfumes. Spray it, smell it, see if you like it and then buy it. I would suggest some really nice ones that I've tried but I don't want it to seem like I'm advertising or anything.
And a card, a nice one.... (read in full...)
I'm 15-he's 23. We've had sex and we're very nervous as we're unsure if it was legal?
Q. Hey....I am currently 15, I will be 16 in 6 days. I have been seeing this guy who is 23 for the past 3 weeks and we have slept together. We are nervous about people finding out because we are unsure if it is legal. I was wondering if it is ok for ...
A. 11 December 2006: If you're in England then no it's not legal. The legal age is 16. But you're gonna be 16 in a couple of days so...I guess it's ok. Not ideal, but ok. If you're in America then the lagal age is 18. And again, no it wouldn't be legal and you've got a ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and need to know..how you get rid of a double chin?
Q. k i have a problem, a double chin =P anyone have any ideas how to get rid of it? i am 15, and im healthy weight but this extra chin bothers me big time! advice on how to lose it?...
A. 11 December 2006: How can you be a healthy weight and have a double chin? I've honestly never seen that before. Well if you are as healthy as you say you are then I think it's just a case of you being over critical of yourself and maybe your "double chin" is not ... (read in full...)
How do I get the bullying to stop?! I'm so fed up!!
Q. i'm being bullied in school and i'm fed up of it i get in trouble from things i didn't do and its really getting to me i don't know how to stop the bullying i want to stop them i've told my mum and she's like had a complain with the school but its ...
A. 8 December 2006: I think the bullies should have constant adult supervision during school so that you can be left in peace. Or go to the school again with your parent/s and threaten to take legal action against the school if nothing is being done. They can get in ... (read in full...)
I dont want to say yes
Q. i get calls on my mobile every lunch time by this girl in the year below. i'm 16 she's 15. she tells me she loves me. she knows exactly what i get for lunch which is spooky! she's is nuts about me. but say's she wants to meet me. she wont tell me ...
A. 8 December 2006: This girl has a mad crush on you to the point where she seems obsessed.Scary or what?! But then again you're right, it could be a prank.
One suggestion would be that you wait and see if the person reveals themselves OR just ignore her (DON'T resp... (read in full...)
He lied to me, He was married with 3 kids all along!!... Im hurting and empty and feel I will never find the right guy!!!
Q. hello. i just broke it off with my bf. we were dating for quite sometime now and few days ago i found out he is married with three children and all the things he told me about himself were all lies at least his name was real, when i asked him he d...
A. 8 December 2006: Firstly, I am sorry you had to go through this and you didn't deserve to be lied to and hurt in this way.
And as for not finding someone who will truly loves you...You and I both know that that is a load of BS. Of course you will find someone who ... (read in full...)
I get so shy around people i have feelings for - help!
Q. why do i get so shy around people i like!! and just make a fool or myself lol when i dont have feelings for someone im so much more open! its really annoys me! anything you can do to feel more comfortable around people you actualy have feelings for?...
A. 7 December 2006: I have this problem aswell but luckily I don't end up making a fool of myself. :) You get shy and nervous around people you have feelings for because you are afraid of something bad (embarassing) happening. You have to reassure yourself that nothing ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I like him?
Q. there is a boy in my class i have major hots for.everyone knows i like him except him.my friends told him i liked him but he didnt really believe them because people joke like that all the time.i think he has a small feeling for me but im so unsure! ...
A. 7 December 2006: One day when he is by himself (none of his mates around him), go up to him and have a little chat with him. Y'know about stuff in general, nothing in particular. Like "Hey. How's it going?" Keep having these chats over a period of time, get to know ... (read in full...)
Do women talk indirectly to you if they like you?
Q. Do females talk indirectly to you if they like you? And when they do talk to you(in the midst of her conversation with your mutual friend) she asks you something that you thought she already knew. Example, she asks oh do u play football too? and ...
A. 7 December 2006: When I like a guy I will be very indirect because I am shy. I will drop hints and ask questions I already know the answers to so I can engange in conversation with the guy I like. "So you play footbal?" (Even though I've already finished eyeing him ... (read in full...)
He stopped contacting me as much in the past 3 weeks. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I was seeing a guy and about 3 weeks ago he seemed to stop contacting me as much and now hardly at all. Ok I am not very good at contacting him either and usually wait for him to contact me. Why should I, thats what I think! Anyway it i...
A. 6 December 2006: Yeah for real..guys don't like it when you chase them. You like him a lot but he's not contacting you, not a good sign. Get on with your life but at the same time leave a vaccancy for him when he's ready to talk. You don't want to look desperate ... (read in full...)
Hes cheated several times before, I told him he needs to earn trust, but hes hanging out with other girls again!!!!
Q. I'll give u brief intro of things so u know whats been happening - boyfriend cheated on me many times in 3 years whilst long distance, so we parted. 2 years later we decide to try again (he back home long term). I say he has to earn his trust back, ...
A. 6 December 2006: Like Shandypop said "Once a cheater always a cheater."
Trust is out the door and you can't get it back no matter how many times you try again with this relationship. You'll have to end it because the trust is gone. He's cheated before, what's to s... (read in full...)
Even though we both say we are just friends, are these signs of him feeling more???
Q. I have been going to church lately and found out one of my classmates from college goes to the same church I do. We never really talked in class or had any contact, but since we found out we're the same religion (he just recently got baptized in ...
A. 6 December 2006: Hmmm...this is a tough one. There is definately a chance that he likes you in that way. It's 50/50 from what I see. He could just be a really friendly nice guy innocently being a good friend to you but at the same time he could fancy you and want to ... (read in full...)
I like this guy whos invited my out, but his friend is going who likes me, should I go???
Q. One of my guy friends just say me for the first time in 7 months. I gave him my number before school ended cuz we graducated this past june. He never called me. Well tonite at work he came up to me and we talked and stuff and hugged. It was g...
A. 6 December 2006: Maybe try explaining to the guy about your situation. If you really want to go to the movies with this guy then you'll have to explain and tell him now before he asks his buddy if he wants to come. Tell him exactly what you've just said now so that ... (read in full...)
He was flirting with me - eventually I asked him out. He said no! I feel depressed and embarassed - help!
Q. hi, well ive been flirting with this boy i met and he flirts back every time i see him. we went out the other nite and had an amzing night, we were huggng and everything. so all his friends were telling me how much he faniced me and that i should a...
A. 5 December 2006: It's not like you can't get another guy right? You're young, you're attractive, you're hot stuff. Quit moping over this one guy. He ain't all that!
Rejection happens, it's part of life but it is certainly NOT the end of it. Everyone gets reje... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and this man from Turkey tells me he loves me...on MSN. What should I do?
Q. Ok, im 13 right? This man from Turkey added me on MSN and we have been speaking for around a month or two, and he tells me he loves me, he is 18, and i know he is because he showed me his ID and he also speaks turkish and lives in Istanbul, Digorlu....
A. 5 December 2006: I just had to laugh when I saw this. Lmpao! Sorry... anyway on a more serious note: Delete this guy from your contacts list. I don't think he loves you. And I don't think you love him either. I mean it's only been a month or so and you hardly know ... (read in full...)
I'm confident socially with friends but I am too nervous when asking a girl out!
Q. I'm 19, and I'll admit I'm fairly confident when talking to new people, and I don't cower down if someone has a go at me. Yet I'm always too nervous to ask a girl out. Is this normal?...
A. 5 December 2006: Maybe it would help if you had a confidence boost and some reassurance. Rejection is what you fear when you ask a girl out right? Well guess what dude? Rejection is not the end of the world! There are other girls out there just waiting for a guy ... (read in full...)
Would the age difference be too weird?
Q. I am 16 years old and in grade 11 in high school, and my problem is that I have a crush on a guy in grade 9, and I know that he likes me too. If we were to get together, would it work out, or would the age difference be too weird?...
A. 5 December 2006: Yeah the age gap would be weird at first but if you like him and if he likes you then it would work. You like each other, you get along well, you have a lot in common, you enjoy each others' company...I don't see why not. Give it a try.... (read in full...)
My skincare routine has got rid of spots but made my face red!
Q. I have pale skin, and I like this about my self. However, recently my face has become quite red after starting a new skin care regime. My spots have cleared up, however my skin looks and feels very tired. And red. Help!?!...
A. 5 December 2006: If something is making your skin red then that's not a good sign. "If irritation occurs discontinue use." I see that all the time on skin care products. I think it's time to stop using whatever it is you're using. Or use it less frequently. Try ... (read in full...)
I am 13. Is it ok to date a 16 yo?
Q. is going out with a 16 year old guy weird.if im only 13?...
A. 5 December 2006: No I don't think it's weird. If you like each other then I don't see why not. I mean it's not like he's 30 or something. lol. Because if he was then that would be kinda weird. Don't worry. You dating a 16 year old is not weird at all.... (read in full...)
I told him how he felt and he changed!
Q. i have a guy friend. i really felt something to him. one day i told him about my feelings and i told him that i hope you never change of what you treat me before. but when he knew about my feelings he change of what he treat me before. we always ...
A. 5 December 2006: Am I correct to assume English is not your first language? But I think I roughly understand what you are saying here. So basically you like this guy and you're not sure if he likes you back because he is giving you mixed signals.
Maybe he has chan... (read in full...)
How do I stop being afraid to date someone?
Q. i am afraid to date girl, and when i see them i am afraid, tell me what to do and how to date the one i love....
A. 5 December 2006: How old are you first of all? When did this problem start? What do you think has caused you to fear women? More info plz. :)... (read in full...)
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