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Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?

Q.   At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...

A.   23 February 2007: I don't have a problem my dear anon female. I simply stated my opinion. You stated yours. Granted, I should've worded it better I admit...but thats just what I think, like it or lump it. Good for you if sex is better while you're on your period. All ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?

Q.   At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...

A.   22 February 2007: Also, I don't know about anyone else but...having sex while you're on your period is pretty gross (in my opinion). It would put me right off if I was a guy, and I'd never be in the mood for it during my period anyway. I shudder at the thought! ewww. ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to become pregnant when you're on your period?

Q.   At the risk of sounding really stupid is it possible to become pregnant when you are on your period? i have always thought it was the same as when your not but my bf says it isnt. is the chance less likely? am i wrong? or is he? xxx...

A.   22 February 2007: http://www.epigee.org/menstruation/sex.html http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/pregnantduringperiod.html "Can you get pregnant during your period? The debate on whether or not a woman can get pregnant during her period has been going on for dec... (read in full...)

My grandparents can't understand that I'm gay and keep asking me when I'm going to get a girlfriend! How can I get them off my case?

Q.   I am a 17 year old guy and I have been with my boyfriend for three months. I recently came out to my parents and they were cool about it. However, my granparents are very traditional and they often make jokes about gay people. The thing is they keep ...

A.   22 February 2007: Your parents know you are gay right? So why don't you get them to explain to your grandparents? I'm pretty sure they would understand if its coming from them. Or is it your grandparents who have brought you up? If so or if you just want to tell them ... (read in full...)

My Husband is on the PC morning, noon and night!! Please help as he says im just nagging!!

Q.   I have been with my husband for eight years, we have been married 1 1/2 years I have two children from a previous marriage and we have a son together. He is 14 years older than I am. I am 31 My husband gets off work, gets a glass of tea and sits dow...

A.   22 February 2007: Not sure if this will help (I don't want to go acusing anyone of anything)but you might want to check it out. http://netaddiction.com/cyberwidows/cyberwidows/partners_test.htm "Internet Addicts become angry and resentful at others who question or t... (read in full...)

How do I move on to sex with my girl? We have kissed and hugged and stuff.

Q.   need advice for first time sex. Me and my gf have been going out months and are both ready and have contreception sorted. trouble is shes a very nervous person not just for sex but alot of things. We have done stuff like kissing and hugging etc but ...

A.   21 February 2007: Well If she gets nervous about it then maybe she's not ready. You should both be relaxed and comfortable with eachother when you're about to have first time sex, it makes it a whole lot better. Talk to her and find out if she is really as ready as ... (read in full...)

This boy and I are just friends but I'm starting to feel jealous when I see him talk with other girls. Please help.

Q.   hi, me and this guy i no from school have met up twice to kiss and cuddle. he wanted more but i told him that i just wanted to mates wiv him and meet for kissing and stuff. he repsected me for telling him the truth. im not interested in a ...

A.   21 February 2007: You need to make your mind up about how you feel for him. I think it is a case of: Because he showed interest in you and because he likes you in that way, you want him all to your self. And this is understandable. You'd like to feel specail in his ... (read in full...)

Does my teacher fancy me?

Q.   Hey, I need help! My teacher is a bit older than I am and I need to know if he likes me or not. He always talks to me and I usually talk to him, but if I don't he asks me why I'm not talking to him. He comes out to my locker to talk to me and alwa...

A.   20 February 2007: Yes he might like you, but... it's not very likely that he actually fancies you. I wouldn't read too much into it. Maybe he's just being friendly. I doubt its anything more than that. Do you fancy him though? Because when you fancy someone you tend ... (read in full...)

How do I know if a boy wants to have sex?

Q.   how do i know if a boy wants to have sex?...

A.   17 February 2007: Sex is for men, not boys. Boys should not be having sex, because boys are not old enough or mature enough for sex. Why do you want to know this anyway? Are you thinking of having sex? I'm going to back up what Agony_uncle_r just said and advise you ... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   16 February 2007: Very good Idea doctor Psych I never thought of that! And how about if the age of the question asker who asks sexual questions is shown so that we know we're not giving sex tips to a 10 year old.... (read in full...)

I think I'm depressed but what exactly are the symptoms?

Q.   How do you know when you are depressed? What are the tell tales that someone is depressed? and who can you go to, or talk to?...

A.   16 February 2007: Also http://depression.about.com/cs/diagnosis/l/bldepscreenquiz.htm... (read in full...)

I think I'm depressed but what exactly are the symptoms?

Q.   How do you know when you are depressed? What are the tell tales that someone is depressed? and who can you go to, or talk to?...

A.   16 February 2007: Here are some links that you will find useful. http://www.med.nyu.edu/psych/screens/odst.html http://www.mhsanctuary.com/tests/index.html... (read in full...)

She has done oral sex and I am against that. Should I still date her?

Q.   Hello everyone. I am dating this girl,who show a lot of interest in me,and she is good looking the problem is that she has told me that she has done oral sex once in her past, the thing is I am against oral sex practice. Should I continue to date ...

A.   16 February 2007: I see you're Jamaican, me too and I understand your views about oral sex. But the way I see it if you really like her then you should go out with her. Are you going to let this great girl out of your life over something like one blow job? I mean she ... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   14 February 2007: errmm...we just said no chat rooms. Sorry. :)Got anymore suggestions though?... (read in full...)

She asked if I would call her and I said maybe, then she got really offended! Now she won't answer my calls! Whats up with her?

Q.   Ok, for about 3 months, I dated this girl maybe twice a month, I wasn't happy with my living situation and couldn't get into any kind of relationship. In December, I moved into a new place, immediately felt better about myself and opened myself up ...

A.   13 February 2007: An email isn't enough. :) Leave a message on her phone saying you've arranged something special for her. I don't know like... fine dinning at a posh/moderately posh reatuarant or buy here some red and white roses, a card apologising. Do you have her ... (read in full...)

I got my cousin pregnant - we're both 17 and don't know what to do! Help!

Q.   My cousin and i recently were both at a party. After the party she came back to my house to sleepover as both our parents were away for the night. As you can already guess one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together, the only problem ...

A.   13 February 2007: Try and convince her not to have the baby! You must!... (read in full...)

I got my cousin pregnant - we're both 17 and don't know what to do! Help!

Q.   My cousin and i recently were both at a party. After the party she came back to my house to sleepover as both our parents were away for the night. As you can already guess one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together, the only problem ...

A.   12 February 2007: I know some people won't agree with me here but...Don't tell your family about this, until it is absolutely necessary. Get her to take a pregnancy test and if it comes up positive then you should both go to your local clinic, tell them you're ... (read in full...)

I just lost my virginity...and the sex was awful!! Will it get better?

Q.   i just lost my virginity, is it normal for it to do nothing for you? i didnt enjoy it at all! and im not thinking wil i ever enjoy sex!?...

A.   12 February 2007: Practice makes perfect! And this saying applies to sex as well. The more you do it the more you'll get the hang of it and you'll both enjoy it more. Try new things and see what he likes and in time he will learn what you like. Buy a magazine with ... (read in full...)

Help... I feel very uneasy doing these things to my boyfriend.

Q.   I Love My Boyfriend and everything and were both 12 BUT The other day we started to make out and he took it a bit far... He started to feel my body and he started with my neck and worked his way down to my gentals and placed his fingers inside and I ...

A.   12 February 2007: DO NOT do anything you are not comfortable doing. If you don't want to do it don't do it. Please don't let him force you to do anything. If you feel that something is not right then it probably isn't. You are right, at 12 you shouldn't be doing that ... (read in full...)

Why do I hate the taste of toothpaste? Is their something wrong?

Q.   I brush my teeth twice a day, but for the last couple of months it has been weird. Every brand of toothpaste I use starts to taste disgusting. This happens with toothpaste I have used for years. It tastes like I am brushing my teeth with handsoap...

A.   12 February 2007: If you don't like using toothpaste I've heard somewhere that you can use baking soda. You can buy it in the supermarket. You know what it is right? Ok, just checking. :) Also is Listerine ok with you or is it a problem too? You could also try Brus... (read in full...)

She asked if I would call her and I said maybe, then she got really offended! Now she won't answer my calls! Whats up with her?

Q.   Ok, for about 3 months, I dated this girl maybe twice a month, I wasn't happy with my living situation and couldn't get into any kind of relationship. In December, I moved into a new place, immediately felt better about myself and opened myself up ...

A.   12 February 2007: You shouldn't have said maybe. Why did you say maybe? I mean, you seem to really like her and want to be with her but when she asked if you'd call her, you said maybe! Why? You've known eachother long enough now and if you've spend nights together ... (read in full...)

My gf and her friend talk like little girls to each other and have shared a bed together!!

Q.   I just need too know if this is normal. First off my girlfriend and her friend hardely ever see each other now since they left school and they saw each other for the first time since last october. They generally talk too each other like young little ...

A.   12 February 2007: Yes this is normal behaviour. This is generally how girls are with eachother especially when they are such close friends. Its the same way how girls hold hands with eachother when they walk. It doesn't mean that they are lesbians! lol Girls also ... (read in full...)

I enjoy reading about murders--is there something wrong with me?

Q.   i know this isnt the kind of question normally asked on here and some people may find it disturbing in some way but i really need some advice. the thing is, i love reading/researching/watching things about murders, like i love researching the ...

A.   12 February 2007: Hey you are not weird at all! I like that kind of thing too! I just find it soo interesting. Fascination with the unknown and fascination of what is feared is completely normal. You are normal. I like gory, Ghoulish , graphic, disturbing stuff. I ... (read in full...)

I want more from my 'friend with benefits' but he's not ready!!

Q.   I really like this guy i meet a few months ago and he liked me , so we slept together after a few weeks anyway , after that he told me he just wants to be mates who pleasure each other , which i agreed to at first but now i really fallen for him and ...

A.   12 February 2007: Hey anon female...I have been there and done that so I know exactly how you feel right now and like many other women who have, I got hurt. And that very pain drove me to find Dear Cupid for some advice. I've been here ever since. :) Unfortunately it ... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   11 February 2007: What can be done if question askers don't feel they have recieved enough responses to their question? For instance if the question asker only gets 1 or 2 answers? And more importantly, what if a question gets no responses or days go by without any? ... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   11 February 2007: Hey 'Hopelessromance'Moderators don't approve answers that are not helpful neither do they approve questions that don't make sense, so there really shouldn't be a need for deleting questions and answers. Question askers should make sure their ... (read in full...)

Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?

Q.   Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...

A.   11 February 2007: This isn't what you want to hear right now but I'm going to say it anyway. Oh my God you are so possesive! This perfect guy in your mind does NOT exist, just because a guy is your boyfrined that doesn't mean you own him. He has a life to live too ... (read in full...)

I think I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm scared...

Q.   i think im ready to lose my virginity with my bf but im scared that it wont fit in beacuse i mite get stressed or something, is there anything i could do to help?...

A.   10 February 2007: How big is your boyfriend? Have you seen it? Lubrication will make penetration a lot easier. But if you think you'll get stressed about it and also if you have to come on the internet to ask then I don't think you're completely ready for sex. To ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend fingered me and I didn't get any pleasure from it...

Q.   Hi, i'll just get straight to the point, my boyffriend fingered me and i didnt get any pleasure at all from it, im a virgin too, also i started to bleed a little. Is this normal? ...

A.   10 February 2007: Yes because you are a virgin your hymen broke and because of that you bled. It is perfectly normal. Alot of women do not orgasm from penetration alone and that is probbaly why you did not feel any pleasure from him fingering you. You see, the fema... (read in full...)

I have a crush on this boy and I can't control it... Help!!!

Q.   Rightt , I know This Sounds strange But.. I have a Dead Big Crush On a Lad and I Really Like Him and I want him to Like me Too. But Im soo Obessed with Him that I 'Follow' Him Around School and After! I asked My Friend If I can get in trouble for...

A.   10 February 2007: Well stalking is a sure way of pushing him away from you. He's not going to want to go out with a girl who is obsessed with him to the point where she follows him around! Think about it...put yourself in his shoes, wouldn't you be totally creeped ... (read in full...)

I am obsessed by this guy, what am I gonna do???

Q.   I'm so unlucky with guys.its really getting me down..iv liked this guy for ages, we fell out a few weeks ago, and then he rang me at 5 in the morning the other day to make friends..i thought i had another chance. I emailed one of his mates to try ...

A.   10 February 2007: I totally know how you feel, I was obsessed with a guy once the same way how you are now. I too used to spend ages looking at his profile and his pictures and just stare at the screen for ages and imagine all sorts of crazy things! lol. Anyway...You ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's masturbating all the time was getting me down, he's told me he's stopped now, should I believe him?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, for all of that time, i have had alot of problems with him masturbating, it makes me very depressed and i feel as if he doesnt care for me and it just gives me extremely low self esteem. I know that ...

A.   10 February 2007: Its a bit unreasonable to ask him to stop masturbating really. I mean it's his penis and he can do with it what he wants (when alone of course). I know you want to be the only one to give him pleasure and I know him masturbating kind of makes you ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to fantasise about another when you're having sex with your girlfriend?

Q.   I am a single guy and have formed a habit of visualizing having sex with some girls i find attractive. I mimic it in my mind and masturbate. This has been a source of my pleasure in absence of real sex. Now i am planning to have a committe...

A.   10 February 2007: Ok well it is your mind and it is your imagination, therefore you control it. Your girfriend doesn't know what you are thinking and what she doesn't know won't hurt her. However...if she could read your mind and if she was aware of your thou... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   9 February 2007: Can we see which agony aunts are online now and when their last login was, maybe question askers want to ask a specific agony aunt a question and it might help if they know when they're online? And also just for people like me who are just curious! ... (read in full...)

I had sex for the first time the other night and I didn't feel nothing, is this normal?

Q.   lost my virginity the other night went quite well however i didnt feel nothing! i mean it hurt for a bit then was fine, but every1 seems 2 enjoy sex and i felt nothing! is this normal...

A.   9 February 2007: Yeah its normal...a lot of women don't reach orgasm from having sex. Sad but true, either that or maybe your boyfriend wasn't that impressive. (but you should know). Though it could be a combination of both. Next time you have sex really engage your ... (read in full...)

He's online and I sent him a message and he won't reply! What does that mean?

Q.   ok this is another question like the one before i know this guy is for real i know it i sent him a message but he hasent replyed and i know he is online so wot do i do i really have the hots for him and i know he will understand me its just so hard ...

A.   9 February 2007: Was it an instnat message or an email? If its instant then he's probably just busy and he'll get back to you, I'm sure he's not deliberately ignoring you. Is his status set to busy or away? Have you tried sending him a nudge? I'm just guessing here... (read in full...)

The only time he calls is to ask me to come over and have sex. Is he just using me?

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for about 10months now,when I met him I was a virgin, I held out in our relationship for about 5 months Before we had sex. In the beginning the relationship was going great we got along and spent time together almost ...

A.   9 February 2007: Sorry but it does seem like he is using you. You already know it too, all the signs are there. Its unfortunate that you lost your virginity with such a jerk. But the best thing you can do now is dump him and find someone who truly deserves you and ... (read in full...)

This is my first date and I don't know how to react!

Q.   hi all, im 15 i live in the uk and i have my first date on valentines day and i have no idea wat to do!!! This may sound really naive but im so worried that he wont like me,or i wont know how to act or anything i've never met this lad hes like a f...

A.   7 February 2007: So is this a blind date type thing then? Has he seen your pictures before? Do you have web cam? Maybe you should send him some pictures of you and talk to him on msn about the date and what you'll do on that day. Plan it with him so that you'll know ... (read in full...)

He wants to have anal intercourse with no condom! Should I be worried?

Q.   He wants to have anal intercourse with no condom, but I'm worried that it will be gross for him! We've done it with a condom, and it was really clean, but I've heard of 'pimp shitz' or something where stuff gets forced up into his penis. But I ...

A.   7 February 2007: I have never ever heard of 'pimp shitz!' So I cannot advise you on that side of things. All I know is if you don't want to do it without a condom and if you are not comfortable doing it without a condom then simply don't do it. If you don't want it ... (read in full...)

Shall I send sexy pics to my b/f for valentines day?

Q.   hey everyone for valentine's day i was wondering if i should send my b/f a pic of me with something sexy on..like a school girl outfit or something like that vj vanessa minillo did...i know i wont look as hot as these girls in magazines do but...

A.   7 February 2007: Yeah definately! Good idea, he'll love it. How are you planning to send him the pictures? Via email or phone? If you're doing it like that you could leave a sexy message at the end. :)... (read in full...)

He wants to meet me but I am scared he will be disappointed. How do I stop thinking this way?

Q.   I met this guy last summer,and we talk a lot on the phone and on the internet even still now this long on. He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me but also says he loves me so much and I'm so sexy, I'm scared he will be disapointed, and another ...

A.   7 February 2007: Oops my bad...you did say you met in the summer but we just assumed that you meant you met online on a certain website or something. You didn't say you met in person. ... (read in full...)

He wants to meet me but I am scared he will be disappointed. How do I stop thinking this way?

Q.   I met this guy last summer,and we talk a lot on the phone and on the internet even still now this long on. He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me but also says he loves me so much and I'm so sexy, I'm scared he will be disapointed, and another ...

A.   7 February 2007: Well if you've already met him in person what are you worried about? LOL Stop with the insecurities already. Of course he won't be dissapointed. He's already met you, he knows what you're like already. There is nothing to worry about! :) Do you mean ... (read in full...)

I want to fall in love so bad, but I can't! Is thinking this way a hinderance?

Q.   heya im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been datimg for over a month now, its going really well and for some reason i just really want to fall in love with him! I keep thinking to myself "i really just wanna fall in love with him cos everyone say...

A.   6 February 2007: Love is not instant, love is not guaranteed, love comes naturally. You can't force it, you can't rush it, you just have to let it be. Love comes in its own sweet time and when you least suspect it. But you'll know when it arrives. Is he your firs... (read in full...)

He wants to meet me but I am scared he will be disappointed. How do I stop thinking this way?

Q.   I met this guy last summer,and we talk a lot on the phone and on the internet even still now this long on. He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me but also says he loves me so much and I'm so sexy, I'm scared he will be disapointed, and another ...

A.   5 February 2007: Well if you're certain he loves you as you say then I don't think he'd be too dissapointed in you in any major way. If you really are worrying about it how about you take some pictures of yourself (recent ones) and send them to him. Or do you have ... (read in full...)

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