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He stopped contacting me as much in the past 3 weeks. What should I do?

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Question - (5 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi,

I was seeing a guy and about 3 weeks ago he seemed to stop contacting me as much and now hardly at all. Ok I am not very good at contacting him either and usually wait for him to contact me. Why should I, thats what I think!

Anyway it is starting to drive me insane as I did really like him and not knowing if we are still meant to be seeing one another is annoying me so much. I have jsut got back from holiday and sent him a text before I went asking if he wanted to meet and got nothing back. It was all going really well and he told me he really liked me, I was amazing etc.

I think he has become scared as he hasn't been serious with anyone for years. We are in late 20's. Don't know what to do as it has made me really down and unhappy. I think about him a lot and it's affected my sleep and I don't want to eat!! I have never told him how I feel, so he could think I am not that bothered.

Help me with what to do. Thank u. x

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A female reader, vina_101 United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2006):

vina_101 agony auntYeah for real..guys don't like it when you chase them. You like him a lot but he's not contacting you, not a good sign. Get on with your life but at the same time leave a vaccancy for him when he's ready to talk. You don't want to look desperate like your world revolves around him and you have nothing to do, so just leave him. He'll get back to you soon I hope. Don't worry about it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006):

MEN DO NOT LIKE GIRLS WHO FOLLOW THEM. Once you understand this, the world will be yours. Be strong and let HIM do the chasing. Believe me it's true.

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