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writes: does he really love me???? he says he loves me but he keeps playing games...and i dont know when he is telling the truth or not...but right now we are not together but he says he wants to be with me but he been missing around with girls and we have a kid what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): No, he doesn't really love you.
From my experience, when I am in love...there is no other and cannot conceive of looking at another as "hmmm...he's hot I should do him".
I also know, by being in love with a Good, Loving, Honest, Committed man...he can not consider another woman or want to touch another woman.
Kick him and then kick him to the curb. He's garbage and you deserve a loving, honest, faithful man.
Best of Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): When you do get to see him tell him want a chat. He needs to grow up. You have a child to think about and that must come first. He needke s to take hold of his responsiblities. If you need to get him out of your life for good then you will have to make sure that he has visiting rights to see your child but that is all. Life isn't so bad being on your own. I was a single mum for 5 years and i loved every minute of it. It is very rewarding. Get family and friends to rally round. Get out there and who know you may meet someone that you so deserve.
Take care and think of yourself and your child
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 A guy who loves you wold not play mind games. There would be no other girl for him but you. How comes he loves you but you are not together in a relationship? Also if you two are not together do you expect him not be get with other girls? He's not in a relationship with you right now so it shouldn't really surprise you if he wants to get with other girls. However, he does tell you that he loves you in which case him being with other girls is a contradiction.
A guy who loves you would definately want to be in a relatinship with you and he would definately want to be with you and only you. He says he wants to be in a relationship with you but it looks like he's all talk and no action.
It also seems like you don't feel you can trust him. That's not a good sign. Saying he loves you is one thing but actually showing you is another. If he is not showing you that he loves you to the point where you doubt his loyalty then I don't think he does love you. I suggest you have a talk with him about how you are feeling and ask him to stop doing what he is doing because it is hurting you. Tell him that you want to be in a relationship with him. Tell him exactly what you want. Tell him you want him to show you that he loves you instead of just saying it. Please have a talk with him about it, communication is very important in relationships.
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