Tips for my first kiss?
Q. Any tips for a first kiss ? Xxxxx...
A. 11 December 2010: Let loose and go with the flow... (read in full...)
When do I stop a love/sex triangle
Q. Hi, before reading this i can only say its rather long but in the end a pretty good situation that im stuck in and need help from more then one person with. Hi, I am an early 20's male inseek of much advice,When I was 15 I met a girl named Megan...
A. 10 December 2010: Does your kimmy knows that you still sleep with megan or u doing it behind her back? Poor kimmy! Selfish you!..stop this now.focus on the one you want to be with!... (read in full...)
Mom said she would throw me out the house if I ever fell pregnant... and I just found out I AM!!!
Q. I am 15 and pregnant. My boyfriend and I had sex with him and the condom fell off. So I got scared and took a pregnancy test. I turned out to be pregnant. I have not told my mom yet because the last time we talked she told me if I get pregnant I ...
A. 10 December 2010: So you fell pregnant to prove if she throws you out? Theres always a Plan B.you didnt even consider. I take that when a girl decide to be sexual active, they shall be knowing of all sexual facts.go and tell yo mom that you are pregnant!... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and need to tell my parents I'm pregnant
Q. Okay, so im 14 and may possibly be pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 7 months now. I've been on birth control for about a year and a half. Although, i stopped taking it 3 weeks ago because I am getting a new prescription. Me and ...
A. 10 December 2010: Do a pregnancy test before you get so worked up. Periods can be irregular! ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I need your female insight on this one!
Q. Female insight needed please!!! I broke up with my gf (of nearly 3yrs) 5 months ago as I felt I wasn't making her happy and that made me unhappy. Iv'e since done a lot of soul searching but know deep down I still love her. We agreed to me...
A. 9 December 2010: She wants to be civil with you, she wants to stay friends... (read in full...)
If he is genuinely interested in me, then why doesn't he ever call me?
Q. I met this guy online and have been talking to him for about 4 months now. We've gone on 1 date a few days ago, and it went pretty well: met up for a casual dinner. Then he pleaded with me to come back to my place which I agreed, and we made out ...
A. 9 December 2010: Give him sometime.if hes interested, surely he'l call.if he doesnt in few days then its a 'red flag'...... (read in full...)
13 year old son sexting. What should his punishment be?
Q. Just caught my 13 year old sexting with a girl in his class. They sent each other pictures of each other and everything. Not sure what his punishment should be. His phone was taken indefinitely. Not sure what else I should do. What do u all think?...
A. 9 December 2010: Take the phone away.hes way too young to have a camera phone! ... (read in full...)
Why can't I put this cheating abusive man out of my head?
Q. well, my story goes like this, im a single mother,hard worker good all around person i will like to think. i meet this guy many years ago when i was married and we were friends...many years went by and we got intouch about 1 month before he went to ...
A. 9 December 2010: Stick to No Contact rule...you dont want this Loser back in your life...put the smile on your face and move on, goodluck ... (read in full...)
I like my girlfriend's sister
Q. I have a church mate, my co-member in the music ministry for about 3 years. We seems to have physical and personality attraction i guess. We have a good team up and one time her sister is teasing me to her. her sister even call's me up as a brother ...
A. 8 December 2010: You knew both women before you made your choice.what are you confused about now?get real man!!... (read in full...)
Should I send him packing or make it work?
Q. My husband and i separated in September 2010. We have two small children and have stayed in contact and continued to have sex frequently. We were both trying to "work" out our issues. He just recently moved back and we decided we would give it ...
A. 8 December 2010: Give him another chance. Everyone has their downfall.he realized he was making a mistake by 'staying away'...just get STD tested.you dont wanna raise your kids without their father...please just let it go and start afresh.goodluck... (read in full...)
When I don't give b/f money for drugs he tells me I don't belong in this country
Q. Iam Chinese but I grew up here! I have a American boyfriend. who iam datinG for one year! I love him. He doesn't work since I met him. He uses drugs and drinks every night and when I tell him to stop using drugs and drinking he tells me you have no ...
A. 4 December 2010: Leave him before you get emotionally and financially drained.... (read in full...)
Why do I always have this white stuff after sex?
Q. every time my boyfriend and I have sex I get white stuff in my vagina about a day later. we don't use a condom and the white stuff smells kind of fishy? it usually goes away in about a week, but this time it hasn't gone away yet and it's been a ...
A. 3 December 2010: Go for STI checks. It sounds serious.!... (read in full...)
I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!
Q. i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...
A. 29 November 2010: You cant expect him to give up his family for you.the reason he lied in the 1st place mayb because he wanted a 'casual chat partner', he then told u hes marie coz he didnt want u to be so atached to him.just take this 2weeks of No Contact as the ... (read in full...)
Married man wants me to move into his house with his wife and kids and his wife is ok with it??
Q. i am 17 and i and this marrierd man are in love i mean he loved me and was regretig why he had married but i definitely know that this love won't lead to anywhere. he also understands that it won't lead to anywhere but he swear to take me as his ...
A. 29 November 2010: Why do you have to move in with him?where's yo family? Lot of people will be hurt here. Please stay away!... (read in full...)
Do I have to dump my married man?
Q. Im inlove with married man,we have been together for some mnths now,judging by his actions i think he loves me,god im so much inlove with him,he dont want to talk much about his marriage,is he using me for sex?do i have to dump him b4 it 2 late?...
A. 28 November 2010: Yeah, drop it like its hot. You are being screwed. Run and hey, never look back!... (read in full...)
Wife has cheated on me twice, I'm struggling to take her back
Q. I met my wife when we were both 19 which was 16 years ago. We were together happily for about 6 years and then one night my wife got drunk and kissed my best friend in front of me. I think I battled with that for a while but we worked through ...
A. 28 November 2010: No, dont take her back. You gave her enough chances but she took advantage of that.dont let her in your life again, she doesnt deserve you!... (read in full...)
Does this sound like pre-proposal behavior?
Q. Hi everyone, so next week is my boyfriend and I's 1yr. anniversary. We get along so great and I've never been happier. We are going away for the weekend to a hotel. I'm just curious if any of his behaviours,words etc. could be indicative of him ...
A. 28 November 2010: Dont let your hopes go higher coz you maybe disappointed.goodluck and please let us know ...!... (read in full...)
Due to antibiotics, birth bill was inneffective, NOW I'm 2 months pregnant!!! How do I tell him?
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. We met in 7th grade but didn't start dating until a month before freshman year started. We're both nearly half way through our senior year now. We lost our virginities to each other on ju...
A. 27 November 2010: The sooner you let your parents and bf know about the pregnancy, the BETTER. Goodluck... (read in full...)
What cologne should I get my boyfriend for christmas?
Q. Not really a relationship question as such but something most people will have an opinion on I hope. I want to get my boyfriend some cologne as part of his xmas present, but I'm completely clueless when it's comes to male fragrance and was hoping ...
A. 23 November 2010: I love Dolce and gabbana Navy or Hugo boss.they smell like haven!... (read in full...)
I have to do everything for her!
Q. i am 28 years old and i am married. i love my fiance but i have to do everything for her. I cook, clean, do all the laundry, pay bills, do all the house work and maintain the cars that we have. when i dont do something for her she starts getting ...
A. 23 November 2010: She acts like a spoilt high school brat.tell her to do her share of chores,tell her how frustrating she has become.tell her if she doesnt change her attitude,surely you will leave.the world has been freed from slavery since the 1800s.you deserve ... (read in full...)
Is there something mentally wrong with my ex?
Q. So listen i been dating this guy for a year and some change. Well it's been a rough patch. A week before sweetest day i broke up with him, He was very verbally abusive and talked about my child, not to mention I was pregnant with his child. Well ...
A. 21 November 2010: This man is bad news.if u take him back for some reason u argue, he wil strangle you..what he did for your car is unthinkable.stop talking to him... (read in full...)
Things started out complicated and now he won't marry me because of it!
Q. I have gotten myself into a pickle. I have two close friends who used to be a couple. They broke up about a year ago, though they were always more of friends than a romantic couple. I'm not sure how they even lasted as long as they did. They ...
A. 19 November 2010: Dont walk away, RUN!... (read in full...)
Can the depo shot stop your period right from the first time you take it?
Q. So, just got my depo shot on the firtst (first time ever). And I still made the mistake of having sex before my week was up (3 days before). My period was supposed to come around this week and hasn't shown. Needless to say, I miss Aunt Flo and am ...
A. 18 November 2010: Do a pregnancy test ... (read in full...)
Workmate gave me a bruise because I wouldn't do what he said
Q. hi so i have this guy friend at work and the other day we got into an argument cause he wanted to take his break with me but he wanted to take it at 5 and i wanted to take it at 430 so then he got mad and squeezed my arm and when i said to let go he ...
A. 14 November 2010: Report him or else next time he will do more harm... (read in full...)
Is there any end to our sufferings?
Q. Hi there.. I am a 19 yrs old girl. I need your help and prayers. I need your time. Plz help me. I am surrounded with so many problems that i've forgotten myself. My mother died when i was small. After that, we are suffering continunusly. My father...
A. 12 November 2010: My situation is almost similar to yours.only hope keep us alive, dont loose hope,may God watch over you!... (read in full...)
Do I tell her that I know about her cheating, and that I'm OK with it?
Q. I have a strange situation that i can't talk to anybody about and I dont know what to do. I have been married for a few years now, to a gorgeous woman. I however, am not the best looking man in the world. I have always been self concious about m...
A. 3 November 2010: She married you for yo money.now shes sleeping with Different men in your house but not you and you still ok with it?come on,you are being used here.leave her and find yourself a worthy woman who'll respect,love and appriciate you! ... (read in full...)
Does wearing tampons make your vagina looser?
Q. I decided to wear Pads instead of Tampons because i think if i use Tampons for almost a week out the month 'it will cause my Vagina to be looser.. so my Q is Does it matter or make a difference if i dont use Tampons because i dont want my Vagina to ...
A. 2 November 2010: Hell NO !!!... (read in full...)
How can I ever be her special guy when she was a prostitute who slept with 300-400 men?
Q. Hi All - this is a follow up question from one of my previous ones - How do I cope with my girlfirends past - those that read my last message will remember that she used to be a bargirl in both the Philippines and Singapore and has admitted to ...
A. 28 October 2010: Man stop being so naive and self centred like a desperate high schoolboy.you knew her too well before you married her and got her pregnant with yo child.she joined the prostitute profesion because she wanted to put food on the table.you paid her out ... (read in full...)
I left a bad relationship with a now deceased ex and I'm troubled by my feelings
Q. I left my fiance in 2006 for a guy who I thought was great. At first everything was great, then came the excessive drinking and drug use. I wasn't one to do drugs, but I did end up doing them with this guy. After 3 mos together I caught him ...
A. 22 October 2010: You need profesional help.seek councelling.goodluck ... (read in full...)
Should I waken him up and confront him?
Q. I spent the night at my boyfriend's apartment. I slept in the bedroom while he slept in the front room. I got up this morning to find a condom wrapper beside the bed. Then i found a receipt to a lingere shop. He is sleep now. Should i wake him up ...
A. 19 October 2010: Yeah, wake him.let him explain now whe the evidence is stil 'visible'...! But remain calm,dont let your emotions over-rule you,goodluck... (read in full...)
When is my bad luck going to end?
Q. when is my bad luck going to end, nothing in my life has been simple. people may say "oh just get over it, your life is what you make it" but nothing i do ends up being simple, i reckon iv gone through more in my 20years of being on this earth then ...
A. 17 October 2010: Well said ohgetreal... (read in full...)
Why didn't my younger lover come to see me?
Q. Hello, I dated a guy who is 15 years younger then me. I was his very first true love (as he said). We started dating when he was 20. The relationship was wonderful as i feel myself young again and wanted him so much. I had a strong sexual at...
A. 16 October 2010: You are married for haven's sake! Run back to your husband before he gets suspicious. I gues he met gorgeous gals his age.he didnt want to waste his youthful time with a married woman.step back, and enjoy your chosen family life ... (read in full...)
Do I stink or does my colleague have a problem with me?
Q. I'm a female 25 years old. I'm a travel agent by proffession..went to school then college for two years and got a travel n tourism diploma. That was just for background info. I have a problem at work.. i'm the only black consultant in the company of ...
A. 15 October 2010: Its not you.that 'white gal' has an attitude.how much i hate people like her!... (read in full...)
Was losing your virginity as you expected it to be?
Q. Was losing your Virginity as you expected it to be and would you change your mind if you could go back?...
A. 15 October 2010: I lost it to a virgin too, very awkward. If i was stil a virgin i wasnt gonna refrain.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my in-laws their daughter cheated on me?
Q. I found out my wife been cheating on me. Do I tell her father and mother? ...
A. 15 October 2010: Yes, tell them... (read in full...)
I've been married 2 years and I'm still a virgin
Q. i am 23year old married from 2 years and still a virgin. my husband is being patient with me but i get frustrated.my husband even had a affair but he was not sexually involved with gal but now its all over.he says he loves me.ours is love marriage ...
A. 15 October 2010: Why are you still a virgin?are you not sexually attracted to yo husband? Are you physically or psychologically not ready?i find it strange!... (read in full...)
Should my girlfriend have told me that her ex was going with her?
Q. My GF of a year, has been divorced for almost 3 years and has 3 children. Today her and her kids were going to a apple festival. Well last night her daughter told me that her dad was going with them. Just a little background, he is not from this ...
A. 10 October 2010: She must tell you whenever she has to be out with him.i dont think she was gonna like it if it was the other way round.... (read in full...)
6 months into the relationship and he has stopped giving me good sex
Q. I'm a 31yr old woman, with a extremely high sex drive. I'm with an older guy, well 7 month older....6 months into the relationship he is no longer getting morning wood....he thinks this is a problem. So this means no sex for me. He is not even ...
A. 29 September 2010: Talk to him to find out whats wrong with him.i think the doctor can help too, goodluck... (read in full...)
I passed gas while on a date and now I'm embarrassed to see the guy!
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and I really like this guy who's 29. I ended up working in a physics department where he works as well. He's really sweet and nice, and he saw me looking at him continuously again and again, I just go red and turn my head the other ...
A. 21 September 2010: No big deal hey.thats normal.its a pity if it scared him off.hopes he takes it easy... (read in full...)
Wife cheating on me and planning on leaving me. How do I get over this?
Q. Recently I found out that my wife is cheating on me with some other guy. Though, I think they have not slept yet but she is madly in love with him. We have been married for almost 15 yrs now and have kids. Our marriage has not been the best in ...
A. 18 September 2010: 1. Dont pay
2. Divorce her, immidiately!... (read in full...)
Should I walk away or try to help him?
Q. I need to know if I'm wasting my time with my boyfriend. Here is a little about us we meet online june of 08 I didn't know he was married I just broke up with my husband of 22 yrs cause of his cheating. I find out he is married and I know I should ...
A. 13 September 2010: Walk away , As Soon As U can!... (read in full...)
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