Should I walk away or try to help him?

A female age 51-59, *sassy writes:

I need to know if I'm wasting my time with my boyfriend. Here is a little about us we meet online june of 08 I didn't know he was married I just broke up with my husband of 22 yrs cause of his cheating. I find out he is married and I know I should have walked away then but I keep believing he loved me and that one day we would be together. Well in dec. Of 09 his wife kicked him out cause he wouldn't break up with me. We have been living together since jan 2010 and it has been very rocky with him moving out twice cause he says he needed to get his head clear. Then him perusing other women a lot. Me staying and forgiving and not only forgiving but the one giving in and he never aplogized for any of this. He tells me he loves and wants an us. Then today tells me he has been having dreams of his wife (yes they are still married) and feeling guilty for what he did to her and his family. So now I have no idea if I should just walk away from the man I love so much or stay and try to help him?

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