Should I walk away or try to help him?
Q. I need to know if I'm wasting my time with my boyfriend. Here is a little about us we meet online june of 08 I didn't know he was married I just broke up with my husband of 22 yrs cause of his cheating. I find out he is married and I know I should ...
A. 13 September 2010: Walk away , As Soon As U can!... (read in full...)
How do I dump my violent boyfriend?
Q. Hi, my boyfriend is a farm boy. He is stuborn very traditional with diffent backgrounds. He knows that a man is a man no one can stand before him. He is aggressive with high temper, when ever we have an argument he will start beating me up. When ...
A. 29 August 2010: Report abuse straight to the police.then leave him.no one deserve to be beaten up in a relationship.goodluck... (read in full...)
How do I sow my wild oats?
Q. most of the people who sow their wild oats are happy because they know what its out there and even though they claim they changed their ways they are still happy for doing some experimenting. well, i need tips on how to sow my wild oats because ...
A. 23 August 2010: What is "to sow a wild oats"... (read in full...)
If I swim will it get all the left over sperm out of me?
Q. Hi. I'm just very curious. I just had sex with my bf few weeks ago.A day after having sex, i went swimming for hours.Can this actually helps to wash away those sperm left inside me? ...
A. 23 August 2010: Absolutely NO!!!... (read in full...)
Its only been 4 months since I found out he cheated and I am having a hard time trusting him, but now he is blaming me and says if I carry on he will cheat again!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5years and recently i found out he had cheated on me twice. I love him so much and i stayed with him as he promised to never do it again. But i find it so hard to trust him now and i think i am pushing him away as i ...
A. 20 August 2010: Leave him... (read in full...)
She gave him a hand job but said it wasn't cheating
Q. I have been married for eight years now, recently my wife found this guy at work, she felt sorry for him, so she moves him into our apartment, so he can heal from an operation on his shoulder. Well let me back up, before he moved in he was stay...
A. 15 August 2010: CHEATING ... (read in full...)
I agreed to help her financially, but she'll leave me if I stop.
Q. Hi I have met a girl online and we chat for about 3 weeks and she came to find me in my country. We met up and hit it quite well and she asked me to be her boyfriend which I agreed that we should try out. During this period of time, she told...
A. 15 August 2010: She is using you big time! Let her go or you wil loose evrything,fail to raise money then she'l eventualy leave u.... (read in full...)
My wife is very abusive towards me - please help.
Q. [OP original title] Someone please give me some advice... I have been living in an abusive relationship for nearly 15 months. I am not sure where to start because so much has happened during this time. But at the same time I am not sure how to s...
A. 15 August 2010: 1. Report the next abuse to the police
2.divorce her
there's no excuse of her behaviour.she doesnt deserve u!... (read in full...)
5 years of dating and he still won't divorce
Q. Been dating this great guy on and off for five years. He had been separated for six months when we met and I asked him if he left his ex and son pre-maturely. He was very depressed and always seemed like he was somewhere else when we were together. ...
A. 11 August 2010: You have given him enough time to sort his life but he seem to doesnot recognise your worth.move on with your life.you deserve beter than this... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex at 13 but I don't have anybody to share my first time with!
Q. I AM READY for sex, but i don't have anybody to share my first time with. What should i do? I truly am ready, but i want the first time to be with a guy but i really am ready... what do i do?...
A. 12 July 2010: Just yesterday you wrote to us that your periods are two months late and that you are confused. you dont even understand how periods goes.you wrote to me that you've never had sex and caled 'the girls in your school that are already having sex ... (read in full...)
Mum suspects me not being a virgin after random family converstation in hospital
Q. I have a really big problem at the moment, me and my mum and dad went to visit my aunt in hospital and other family members poped in and a random conversation about babies and sex started.. I looked so guilty and everything. My mum now suspects me ...
A. 11 July 2010: Tel her the truth of what she may ask otherwise the guilt will be havier when you lie.she was once a teenager,she knows beta than u can hide!... (read in full...)
I am 2 months late!
Q. Okay, well i am soo confused and i just want to know what is the best thing i should do. I have a friend who misses periods at a time but she always get hers sooner or later, but... I am 2 months late. What should i do? What could be wrong? Help m...
A. 11 July 2010: If you are sexualy active then you need to have pregnancy tested.its likely that you might be... (read in full...)
He won't move out and the police don't help..how do I evict my 46yr old drug addicted roommate?
Q. Please help with this problem. I live with a guy who smokes crack frequently. It didn't start out this way years ago when I met him. He was in AA and clean. He started this, unbenownst to me at the time, when he took his first drink again after ...
A. 10 July 2010: Where was he staying before he met you?
is he yo real 'roommate' or the person you wer romanticaly involved the the relationship failed?... (read in full...)
Does he no longer love me?
Q. my boyfriend for the past year Travis is a very possessive jealouse unconfadent violent angry a bully aswell as does abuse me physicially or has in the past he doesnt work or helpto provide food or pay rent or anything like that. Reciently Travis ...
A. 10 July 2010: This travis is bad news, u need to stay away from hìm before you become emotionaly drained.i say leave hìm!... (read in full...)
Am I making too much of a lunch?
Q. My 3 year relationship ended 10 months ago with a woman I loved and still do. I had not heard one word from her since. I had heard 3 or 4 months after we split that she was engaged. I was stunned, but I never bothered her or tried to contact her. i ...
A. 9 July 2010: She needs a 'proper' closure... (read in full...)
I am only 24 and have 5 young children, should I abort the child I am currently pregnant with?
Q. i am pregnant but i already have 5 young children and im only young. I thought about an abortion but dont think i can do it, what should i do my man isnt much help ...
A. 9 July 2010: Are all these five kids from the same father?... (read in full...)
I am only 24 and have 5 young children, should I abort the child I am currently pregnant with?
Q. i am pregnant but i already have 5 young children and im only young. I thought about an abortion but dont think i can do it, what should i do my man isnt much help ...
A. 9 July 2010: Are these five kids from the same father?... (read in full...)
During sex wife called out ex-boyfriends name
Q. how can I trust my wife, during sex she call me one of his ex-boy friend name. can i trust her any more ...
A. 8 July 2010: Scream yo ex's and see if she'll like it.... (read in full...)
Conflict between my sister and my father!
Q. My sister has married. But I think my father doesn't like her husband, he disagree with her by money, and They say each other you are not my father and you are not my daughter. They are ignore still now. He don't want to listen about her and she ...
A. 5 July 2010: I think you need to involve an elderly family member: aunts,uncles or grandparents.they wil sit them down and try to find the solution to the conflict.goodluck... (read in full...)
She hurts me so much and I don't know what to do!
Q. I've been with my girlfirend for about 8months now. When we started dating she was a sweetheart and was so nice. After the third month she began to fight with me with for just about anything small or big. She would start the fight, get me heated and ...
A. 5 July 2010: She doesnt deserve you.stay away from her before she destroys yo confidence.shes a psycho that wil do u more harm than u can imagine.its not love wen you are not hapy with the person you ar in lov with ... (read in full...)
My husband feels more like a friend to me than a lover, and now I have met someone else....
Q. I am 31 and have been married for 7-years. Our relationship is good – we talk, laugh and generally get on well. The problem is that I feel we are more friends than lovers and for the last 4-years we have not had sex. 6-weeks ago, I met another man ...
A. 30 June 2010: Stop this affair with the new guy before you fall deeper with him.think with your head not with your emotions:you know your your husband loves you.... (read in full...)
Farewell from an aunt
Q. After being an aunt on this wonderful site for well over 5 years, I've decided to finally see the writing on the wall and call it quits. I truly gave it my best shot and spoke the truth as I know it to be. I will always treasure my time here and the ...
A. 20 June 2010: What a loss! We'll dearly miss those words of wisdom.goodluck and lots of happiness,cheers... (read in full...)
Any suggestions about this??
Q. Its been about four days since my last post. And my husband has currently convinced me to move back in... We still sleep in the same bed. But I do not allow him to touch me. A kiss or too I'd fine. As for sexually UHUN!. The day I posted that post ...
A. 6 June 2010: If you realy want to be with yo husband you need to be forgiving whole heartedly.be positive and dont let negetive thoughts destructs you.think about the good times you had together.talking about with him wil help a lot.goodluck!... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about the secret bank account?
Q. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and we always talk about everything, we are totally honest but that doesn't mean we agree or we come to a compromise. I am the most financially stable thinker between the both of us, I ...
A. 4 June 2010: I dont see anything wrong here because yo bf seem to be overspending.as long as he daznt find out! ... (read in full...)
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