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writes:My GF of a year, has been divorced for almost 3 years and has 3 children. Today her and her kids were going to a apple festival. Well last night her daughter told me that her dad was going with them. Just a little background, he is not from this country and doesn't have any family over here. GF feels bad about this and invites him to different holidays and family get together's. Now I'm not jealous of him and worried about her getting back with him. But it bothers me that I found out he was going from her daughter, and not from her. When I brought this up to her she got mad at me and turned it around saying that I don't trust her, and she doesn't have to answer to me. It's not that I don't trust her, but just out of respect for me, I would like for her to tell me about him going and not someone else. Now I think I am pretty understanding about him coming to different things, and don't think that I am asking too much here. Am I out of line here?
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 She must tell you whenever she has to be out with him.i dont think she was gonna like it if it was the other way round.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 I cannot really say. Somehow, I agree with your wife in part but I can see why it bothers you. I do not like the fact that she grew angry about it because you were simply expressing how you felt about it. She probably thought that it was not much of a problem and it would not really be something you would just bring up and it would be hard and almost unnecessary because you KNOW that she would not get back with him right? I think that is why she decided that she would not have to mention it because it would have been sort of random, in a way. I'm sorry if this is not clear enough.
I hope that helps.
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