My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. How do I forgive him?
Q. My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. I just found about it 2 months ago. He paid her $200.00 for sex in a motel room. (Isn't that protitution?) I also found recepits where he bought her jewelry three different times. ...
A. 23 December 2010: Give him another chance but put some therapy in between... (read in full...)
Is this guy interested in me or not?
Q. There is this guy at work but we don’t work in the same building. The place I work has facilities all over. I first started thinking he liked me when I noticed him staring at me then he looked away. So then another time I said hello and he kind of ...
A. 23 December 2010: He seem uninterested. Just stop emailing, you may look desperate. If he was into 'it', he should have dropped the hint other than ignoring flat... (read in full...)
Could I have an STI?
Q. Well, i've recently had unprotected sex and my penis has been really itchy, at the tip of it, and there has been a yellow colored discharge coming out, not much but just a little bit, would this be an STI? if it is what can i do, i dont want my ...
A. 23 December 2010: You are 15 and too young to have sex, let alone Unprotected sex. It sound like a very serious infection. Go get tested before it gets worse... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by someone else, my boyfriend doesn't know and I can't have an abortion!
Q. Hey pipo m hopin u help me out on this problem....me and this guy have been datin 4 2yrs nw,n i met this nice guy we went out @ some club and took enuf beers...we later went 2 his home we had sex and now m pregnunt n my boyfriend doesnt knw about ...
A. 23 December 2010: Tell hìm you cheated.tell him you are pregnant with another man's baby... (read in full...)
He beat me, should I stay with him?
Q. im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 4 weeks now and i have a problem write ino im young but me and my bf have sex quite alot (this will make sense later) but he asked me if i wanted to come round after school on our last day but i ...
A. 23 December 2010: Leave this jerk.you are not his punching bag.you did nothing to deserve this... (read in full...)
Should I just accept that I'll never find someone who loves me?
Q. i know many of you here who have read my past posts realize that i needed to move on from my gf who has thrown me on an emotional roller coaster. Many of you also suggested i find someone new now thats the problem the way i got with my ex was ...
A. 23 December 2010: Still very young and full of life,so young to give up in love. You'll find love, lots of it.goodluck and hey happy searching:-)... (read in full...)
What do I do when my boyfriend flirts with a lot of girls??
Q. Ok,supposedly this guy is supposed to be my boyfriend but he is known around school as the biggest flirt. I am the type of girl who gets serious when I'm in a relashonship. I really like this guy be cause he acts different around me but all the ...
A. 23 December 2010: Tell him that his flirting 'nature' is bad for your relationship.if hes realy into you, he'll understand and wil stop it... (read in full...)
I was in love with a terminal cancer patient and she passed away...
Q. I need help with laying old ghosts to rest. I'm 17 years old, a senior in high school and for 4 months, I was engaged to 15 year old girl who had terminal Leukemia and CIPA (she couldn't feel any pain or sensation in her entire body 8 months ago, my ...
A. 22 December 2010: Wow, a real life super hero. Be proud of your acts. You did more than what most ppl could have. Put the smile on your face for the sake of her soul. Goodluck and merry xmas ... (read in full...)
My minute man doesn't last long enough to satisfy me and won't do what will!
Q. my boyfriend have sex with me for only a minute ,and im not satisfied .we came up on ways he can satisfy me but he dont want to what must i do leave him or stay...
A. 22 December 2010: Leave. Unless you want to continue this one-sided sexlife r/ship... (read in full...)
Young and in love and my parents won't let me see him!
Q. I am 13 and in love with someone but mum and dad say I'm too young and I won't see him till next year what can I do...
A. 22 December 2010: Yes, you are way too young. What can you do? Do as your parents say: wait until next year ... (read in full...)
My first love from 30 years ago contacted me...He's free, I'm not. I still love him. Don't know how to quit him. Help!
Q. I have been with my husband for over 20 years. We have a good marriage now, not always easy (I guess that's marriage afterall), but we are making it work. We also have children. Last year, I was contacted by the first man I ever loved. There wa...
A. 22 December 2010: Is this not an emotional affair?does your husband know you've reconnected with an ex (30yrs later)? I call this CHEATING. Just stop the emails, and put more happines in your family... (read in full...)
One of my breasts is bigger than the other, will this affect my relationships?
Q. dear cupids, This question has been botherin me for a long time now. I have unequal breasts. One is half the size of the other. Will it affect my relationship in any way?? Do men give too much attention only to your outer appearence? Bcoz of this ...
A. 21 December 2010: Not a big deal. You are very normal. Only a looser can make an issue about it.no one is perfect ... (read in full...)
Can I forgive this?
Q. I've been with my partner for over two years but four mths ago,I discovered he'd been having cybersex with strangers,including on webcam and swapping intimate photos.I've tried to keep the relationship going,with the beginnings of therapy,he got rid ...
A. 21 December 2010: Spare yourself another heart ache by ditching him.i mean he cant choose cybersex over you.he has less respect for you as his gf and as a woman.... (read in full...)
Is he referring to oral sex?
Q. Hi, This is a question for the guys. If a guy says to a woman he wants to touch and lick you until you scream.Is he referring to oral sex? ...
A. 21 December 2010: Yeah... (read in full...)
I don't want to give up on this, I want to work through it. But what now?
Q. I have lived a heterosexual life and just came out of the closet a few years ago, not knowing I was even in. My experience so far has been quite challenging. I have a question but not sure if it's just the relationship I'm in or if it's me. I've...
A. 21 December 2010: Hey. I think you have to break up with her and send her packing.shes using you while you watch.she brought a 'stranger' who hapens to be her ex in Your own house. You dont have to feel pity for her that she has no one, she has her ex that she ... (read in full...)
I asked my husband to leave, he left without putting up a fight. why?
Q. i have been married for 7 years and known my husband since i was 15 years old. i am 31 years old now. we had a lot of trust issues before we got married. we went through marriage counseling before we married. we had a beautiful wedding. i knew when ...
A. 21 December 2010: But you askf him to, were'nt you serious? If you asked him 'to come back' and he doesnt hesitatd,were you stil gonna question that?... (read in full...)
Does what he said sound genuine to you??
Q. I found out that my ex-boyfriend (mid 30s) was in contact with a Japanese lady (at least 30yo) he hooked up with on a business trip before we became official. He met her on the internet before his trip because he wanted someone to show him around in ...
A. 20 December 2010: It doesnt matter, hes not that 'part' of your life anymore.let it go.... (read in full...)
Is she having an emotional affair?
Q. We were in married for 10 years and have 2 kids. She have a restaurant. There is no or few customers coming to the restaurant after 11:00pm. She can close before 1:00am and come home. But usually she come home after 2:00am. I know for sure for the ...
A. 20 December 2010: Hey...something fishy is boiling here.i hope shes not hiding more... She got caried away in thoughts,but cant figure out whats bordering her, huh...! Guilt.! I sense there's something she needs to tell bv just Cant.! For now if she is still ... (read in full...)
She becomes defensive when I talk to her
Q. i meet this girl a year ago anyway we now live together i pay all the bills and take care of her and her 2 kids she says she loves but do,s not sleep with me and always wants money and leaves me for awhile comes back and hides in the bathroom and ...
A. 20 December 2010: Leave her. Tell her you dont wanna be with her anymore.shes using you big time... (read in full...)
Can I get an STD by having unprotected sex?
Q. Hey so I lost my virginity to this guy that I'm not even dateing . And he fucked a lot of girls and I didn't no that till after I had sex with him .. And we used no condom twice .. Is that bad?? He told me befor he cumed tho but I dnt want to get a...
A. 19 December 2010: Yeah you can but only if your mating partner has an infection or any sti. Next time use protection hey... (read in full...)
I've slept with 3 different guys in 3 weeks!
Q. I'm 30 year old female and have slept with 3 different guys in 3 weeks. I'm wondering if I have problem or if is this something I should just feel content about? ...
A. 19 December 2010: Nothing wrong. As long as you do it safely and not hurting yoself on the process.have fun ... (read in full...)
Was I really the bad guy and should he treat me like this?
Q. After breaking up with my ex 2 years ago, we kept in touch because I wasn't ready to break from him completely. We talked online and by phone, supporting each other, whilst my hope increasing that we may reunite after I finish school( he even tried ...
A. 19 December 2010: The best thing you can do is to give him space. I guess he cant be angry forever, if he stil wants to be friends, hel come around.for now do yourself a favour by 'getting over him'...hope it helps... (read in full...)
Diamonds are a girl's best friend???
Q. I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me, we have an amazing connection and we are best friends. He even says that I am his perfect match and he truly wants to marry me in a few years. He had one very serious relationship before me (they lived ...
A. 19 December 2010: True love and happiness is better tha diamonds... (read in full...)
He forgets to call, should I be worried?
Q. I have been in a relationship for two years and a half and recently every time my bf goes on trips for a couple of days he forgets to call. We live together. I am worried he doesn`t miss me or love me for that matter. What is it???...
A. 19 December 2010: Does he call frequently when hes not away? My ex was never used to calling me unless ther was an emergency.for him was to pay the phone bill. Try explain that you realy want to hear from him(especialy when hes away)..hope it helps. Goodluck... (read in full...)
Why is my wife so bitchy?
Q. Why has my wife turned so bitchy, and what can I do about it? My wife has always had a strong temper and did not hold back if she was REALLY mad. However, she was easy going most of the time. Now, in the last 6 months or so, she is mad all t...
A. 19 December 2010: Menopause? Mid life-crisis? Take her out for a romantic dinner, ask her whats wrong.tell her you find her 'unsexy when shes bitchy', ofcourse in a jocking manner! Goodluck... (read in full...)
Trying to date a real life celebrity... Advice desperatly needed. I think she is playing me!
Q. Hi guys, I'm in desperate need of advice, so please can everyone write a response... i'll be forever greatfull! My question is... am i being played?! And is it desperate to take the earliest date she is free? How should I play it? Back Stor...
A. 19 December 2010: Shes not interested but playing the 'stringing along game' if that makes sense... (read in full...)
Is she having an emotional affair?
Q. We were in married for 10 years and have 2 kids. She have a restaurant. There is no or few customers coming to the restaurant after 11:00pm. She can close before 1:00am and come home. But usually she come home after 2:00am. I know for sure for the ...
A. 19 December 2010: It appears to me that Yes, there's an emotional affair here! Why else should she be over protective of her phone? why doesnt she show you the messages? She thinks you'll be upset, because they are back and forth flirts. Tell her to stop spending time... (read in full...)
What should I do about my persistent ex?
Q. My ex keeps calling me like 5 times a day and wants me to be his gf, what should I do?...
A. 17 December 2010: Tell him to stop calling you. And that you dont wanna his girlfriend anymore... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I'm going insane staying with him! WHY am I still with him?
Q. Why the hell am i still in love with this guy 1. who never wants to marry me since im older to him 2. who breaks up with me whenver he feels that i am pressureing him for commitment and gets back after few days as if nothing hpnd 3. Never c...
A. 15 December 2010: He is emotionally blackmailing you.so mean and manipulative he is...leave this jerk.he doesnt deserve you. Go find your happiness somewhere, He DOESNT deserve you ... (read in full...)
Sex with a younger guy? but not just any younger guy!
Q. My story is this: I am currently divorced from my second marriage. My first marriage was over in 2003. And I had a son and daughter and my husband had a son and daughter. So basically I had a step son and step daughter for a little ovr 6 yea...
A. 15 December 2010: OMG.! If your ex husband was sleeping with your daughter, were you gonna like it?calling it 'sex with an Older guy but not just an older guy'...? I find this kind of an insult and self degrading!... (read in full...)
Am I going to be alone forever?
Q. I need a lot of advice. I am good for an afternoon and then I get sad again. I broke up with my ex of 6 years and after 3 miscarriages. I now have a beautifull 15 month son. I will graduate in March with my Masters degree. I have a very close ...
A. 15 December 2010: No, you wont die alone. You gonna find your soulmate and be happier.goodluck... (read in full...)
Am I weird?
Q. people make me feel a bit weird just because iv never had a boyfriend or done anything with a boy and its starting to get to me. i want to know if anyone thinks this is weird too. (I'm 18 if you're wondering) ...
A. 15 December 2010: No you are not weird. Its normal. You just chose not to rush into things, thumbs up!... (read in full...)
Is she having an emotional affair?
Q. We were in married for 10 years and have 2 kids. She have a restaurant. There is no or few customers coming to the restaurant after 11:00pm. She can close before 1:00am and come home. But usually she come home after 2:00am. I know for sure for the ...
A. 15 December 2010: Hey tough one. I suggest checking the phone bill, thats where you'll get the most dialled/smsd number.take it from there.goodluck... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time thinking that she's been with someone else...
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years, and are in love. I was the first guy she had sex with and she was the first one i had sex with, and this was always really special to me. Recently she told me she was raped when she was 15 and was ...
A. 15 December 2010: Come on! Its not like she chose to be raped. She opened up to you coz she feels connected to you and that she can trust you.let go of 'those' thoughts ... (read in full...)
A few things are worrying me about my friend's older man, does anyone else find this strange?
Q. Well let me start off by saying that I'm seeking some opinions. My best friend has always been into younger men, she is 18 like me. Over the summer she met a 38 year old man at another friends job. She was hesitant because he is so much older but ...
A. 15 December 2010: I find it strange too.thank goodness hes not my bf...its just that you wont know the matters of the heart, it doesnt choose who 'it loves'. As long as they are happy together...who are we to judge them anyway ... (read in full...)
It seems like our paths are meant to diverge?
Q. Two months ago I met a really great guy. We are taking things slow but are developing strong feelings for each other. I think that I can def see him in my future (although it's too early to be sure). The problem is that I need to get a Master's d...
A. 15 December 2010: Take things slowly, go have your masters as he'll be busy with his training and assignments...if you are meant to be together, some how someday somewher 'your paths' will meet.goodluck... (read in full...)
He can't spend time with me until next year??
Q. This is th first time I have devoted my energy to write a letter open for everyone to see about my love. This love has provided me with happiness, strength and smile for almost a year now. I write now because I have discovered that I have become t...
A. 15 December 2010: If you realy love him surely you'll wait. You have already been able to cope for the past 3moths, its just 3weeks to be January.hang on there and see what 'next year' will be.goodluck ... (read in full...)
He wants me to go to a music festival where the tickets are over $100!
Q. Simple question: My boyfriend wants to go to a music festival this summer and I really don't want to go. Do I cave in and say yes to going or keep saying no? Some of his friends are going and he thinks it'll be good. We've been to many festiva...
A. 14 December 2010: You can only go if he offers to pay, otherwise $100 is so much money to spend on the tickets to watch the band you dont like... (read in full...)
Is he a womanizer or just polite?
Q. Can anyone please help me decide if this man I am quite friendly with at the moment is a womaniser and not just being friendly. I look after this man's son at the nursery I work at. He started offering to give me a lift home a few months ago (he p...
A. 14 December 2010: Your collegue is jelouse of you being friends with this guy. You mention that hes never flirted with you, just ignore your collegue and 'enjoy the lifts whìle they last'..., but beware of emotional atachment!... (read in full...)
Is this a case of wanting what I can't have?
Q. Recently a very close guy friend of mine got a girlfriend, in the past we have been very close and occasionally i'd think we could be more than friends. He told me he liked me on a few occassions and was always confused as to 'what we were' ...
A. 13 December 2010: Accept the fact that hes with her, not you. Their hapiness is their busines, stop hurting yourself by 'wanting wat you cant have'...... (read in full...)
Tips for my first kiss?
Q. Any tips for a first kiss ? Xxxxx...
A. 11 December 2010: Let loose and go with the flow... (read in full...)
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