How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 14 December 2009: Aww- please just run, run away! I don't even think you need to confront her. What good is it going to do? She's consistently messing you about. Just get the heck out of there.
I don't see why everyone is so fond of playing games in their relation... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 13 December 2009: Hey, I'm really sorry to hear that things turned so sour. I agree with you wholeheartedly- she's made herself perfectly clear. Get far away from her and don't look back!
However, I disagree with all these game playing ideas that the most recent p... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 8 December 2009: Kudos to you, male anonymous. It's hard to hold your own after so long growing dependent upon your other's love. Especially as they start to take it for granted that you will always be there wanting them.
You're leading a brave route which di... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 26 November 2009: So- has she completely ended things with the ex? Is she officially making a go of things with you? -And does the other chap know that she is making a go of things with you?
I hope it works out for you. I know what you mean about losing interest... (read in full...)
He wants to drop child support in case his wife finds out!
Q. I had a child with a married man. He has to pay child support and he wants me to drop child support because he doesn't want his wife to find out. He tell's me I need to do the right thing or he'll never see his child again (he only see's once a ...
A. 23 November 2009: If your ex doesn’t want to be around for his child then he knows that you’ll have years in which to tell him the truth about why his dad wasn’t prepared to provide for him/ her anyway- because he resents paying child support and because he is ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 23 November 2009: Honestly, I think maybe she's just found out that, temporarily at least; she can get away with two boyfriends, AND have all the power and attention. And I suspect that's she's exploiting this for all its worth.
Generally hunches that people a... (read in full...)
He wants to drop child support in case his wife finds out!
Q. I had a child with a married man. He has to pay child support and he wants me to drop child support because he doesn't want his wife to find out. He tell's me I need to do the right thing or he'll never see his child again (he only see's once a ...
A. 22 November 2009: Hmm. So on the one hand, he is offering to leave his wife and marry you, yet... on the other hand he is concerned to stop child support payments in case she finds out?
Could he possibly be saying the former to keep you sleeping with him, and the ... (read in full...)
What movies are good to go too?
Q. Hey People!!! this is just a weird question but...i know everyone loves movies and i was just wondering.... do you think movies have been bad lately...(well suckish...you know)and... if you could produce a movie what would it be about??...
A. 22 November 2009: Hmm... Well- this year; Coraline, 500 days of summer, Harry Potter (yes!), and, yeah- the men who stared at goats was pretty funny, Q1605. And far less CG characters in favour of REAL costume/ puppets, right, thenotsogreat? Saying that, the new Cl... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 22 November 2009: Well... you've done everything right. But ...I just don't feel that she's living up to expectations. This should be the second 'honeymoon' period for your relationship... has she even broken things off with the rebound guy at all? -If she hasn't- ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 20 November 2009: I agree- she could at least contact you to keep you informed what's going on. -Even if it's just a quick text just to let you know that she's okay, or that she will contact you soon or whatever.
As much as I agree with what Duce00 is saying, ... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 19 November 2009: I'm actually reading a story about a man who has fallen in love with a lady from the past- after hearing her music at a festival. He reads her life journals which have been published due to her various academic successes. She led an unusual ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 18 November 2009: Yep- firmly agreed. It's one thing to 'agree' to break up with him, quite another to Actually do so. You've got to hold her to her word for this whole stand to have been worth anything at all.
But even if there's a merry-go-round or too whilst s... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 16 November 2009: Yeah, I think that the gist of this is exactly what you need. Although ultimatums have always seemed to me as though they shouldn't be necessary if the other person genuinely has the conviction towards the answer that you're hoping for.
What ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 15 November 2009: Thank you for the follow up. My advice still stands though, and perhaps even more so than before. It sounds to me like you're letting her play you.
You’re seeing her every day, to the extent you’re probably treating her like a girlfriend in every... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 12 November 2009: Ooo- how exciting!
You're doing and saying exactly the right things. You're absolutely right not to persue her or to put your life on hold whilst she's still seeing her 'rebound'. Its unfair on both of you and she's messing both of you about (s... (read in full...)
She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!
Q. 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...
A. 11 November 2009: Aww, I really feel for you. You sound such a lovely person and you're being put through every hardship. Even being got at and given false hope by her mother only to then be knocked down again when you talk to your ex. I feel you need to stand fi... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 11 November 2009: Okay- well; you've done it- you've dared to try. You've told her how you feel and you've asked her if she'd try again with you. Frustration over; regardless of the outcome, at least you know that you've carried out your part as best as you could ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 10 November 2009: Thank you for the update. A bit of context certainly gives us more of a clue where you're coming from. It sounds like you've both been through a lot, and that this was a very serious relationship for both of you.
Of course it's important that you... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 9 November 2009: There's a great deal of assumptions being made here, partly because you've pointedly given absolutely no indication of why you two broke up. But nonetheless; there’s a lot of ‘you need to’ and ‘you have to’ being said.
The fact of the matter i... (read in full...)
How can I tell?
Q. dear cupid, I want to have sex with my soon to be husband but the problem is that I dont know if he wants to have sex with me. How can I tell if he wants to have sex with me before the weding? ...
A. 8 November 2009: If you're not able to discuss this with you're fiancee, should you really be consenting to marry him? -at least before you even learn how to communicate with each other?
I'm not saying that you should call it off, but simply that you should g... (read in full...)
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
A. 6 November 2009: Ohhh- this girl makes me so angry! She does NOT constantly have needs that are more important than yours’ or indeed anyone’s. She is ungrateful and spoilt. If you love her like you say you do, then the best thing you can do for her IS to leave ... (read in full...)
The new world for a man, how do I learn to love?
Q. Hi every one, pardon me for coming with questions at this late time in the night... BUt I must say a few words before I can ask... I am pretty confused right now... you see, I met a girl 2 months ago, Jenny is her name. I first got to know her ...
A. 3 November 2009: Ooo- this is really difficult. The time spent with this girl sounds everything it should be- bar one thing. I can see both sides of this to be fair too. If this girl said she'd be round at 8pm and didn't turn up till 11pm because she was watching... (read in full...)
She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions agai...
A. 2 November 2009: I'm so sorry to hear that you're being treated like this. No one deserves to be treated like this! The point was made below that couples look after each other even when they're completely drunk. And of course they do! -But even if you came across ... (read in full...)
Are all the men on the internet cheaters?
Q. I met a French man who lives in Rochester NY, in a dating website. He is a CEO and chairman one of big company is NY. He told me that he separated with his wife 5 years and had an unhappy marriage and already sent divorce dox to the court just ...
A. 25 October 2009: I think this liar came off far worse out of this than you did! HE messed up his marriage (not you!), but you escaped from a horrid cheat!
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-my-wife-divorce-me-after-cheating-on.html
Read this link and th... (read in full...)
Is an hour for sex too long?
Q. Sex with my fiance' usually lasts 45 min to an hour. She complains that it takes me too long, but i have "trained myself" to last like this, and now its difficult to have an orgasm in a hurry (less than 15 min). She complains about it, but I though...
A. 25 October 2009: I also agree with Satindesire. After all, if we all thought it was too long, but your girlfriend changed her mind, you wouldn't last longer to please some irrelevant external generalisation.
Just as an additional note of caution though, you said... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?
Q. What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?...
A. 21 October 2009: ...Or they over-estimated predictive text?... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?
Q. What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?...
A. 21 October 2009: FinnMcCool, that is an excellent answer- make me chuckle!
Maybe they are just lost for words. ... (read in full...)
Should I convert to Christianity for him?
Q. Hi dear cupid. I need help again. I broke up with my boyfriend for one week but now we get back together again.(we're long distantance) We broke up, because of his family. And I told him if he stop listen to his family and move on with me (just me ...
A. 20 October 2009: Hmm- well, presuming that he thinks that this is fair for him to ask of you, ask the same of him. You convert to Christianity and he converts to Muslim. Your families will both love your partners, and you can spend hours arguing about how the other ... (read in full...)
My ex was sick and I ignored him was that bad?
Q. My ex and I had just started being friendly after months of being bitter to each other after our break-up. The other day, I asked him thru text about the shop where he bought his car. Then he replied to explain a few things then said to me he is...
A. 28 September 2009: Aww, if both of you are having trouble moving on... why did you break up? It sounds like this was a really important relationship to you both. How long were you together?
Maybe its worth a really frank chat with each other about how you both fee... (read in full...)
My ex was sick and I ignored him was that bad?
Q. My ex and I had just started being friendly after months of being bitter to each other after our break-up. The other day, I asked him thru text about the shop where he bought his car. Then he replied to explain a few things then said to me he is...
A. 28 September 2009: You're just got to follow reasonable logic here;
You saw fit to ask him for advice on your car. He tried to help you, even though he wasn't feeling well.
On hearing which, you suddenly remembered past arguments and decided to cut communicatio... (read in full...)
14, pregnant, what do I say to my mom?
Q. ok well hi everyone. Im really scarred to tell my parents im 14 and pregnant. I has sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 6 months and the condom broke on August 8th, today which is 9 days later I had implantation bleeding. The past few days ...
A. 19 August 2009: You're worrying about telling your mum about this when, ultimately in this situation, it is her job to be worried about and to be looking after you- not the other way around! If you tell you mum she can be there for you through this, be a shoulder ... (read in full...)
Is this the beginning of the end of our life together? I feel disgusted with him since he told me his fantasy.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 18 years. I know he had one partner before we married and I had also. The other night after a drink he asked me my sexual fantasy. I gave some chicky answer....on a beach or somehting. His was....Since I am ...
A. 5 August 2009: Aww, as logical as these other answers are, I totally understand why you're hurt by this.
I'm thinking that so long as you definitely don't let him actually go through with this and get anyone else involved, and so long as he doesn't suggest ... (read in full...)
Is it okay for him to keep letters and pictures of his ex?
Q. My husband still keeps his ex-girlfriends letters and photos..Is it ok? My husband kept his ex-girlfriends photos and letters over 20 years. At first I want to burn those letters and photos. I asked him permission, i am not going to burn the...
A. 4 August 2009: Your question made me think of the Beatles' song;
There are places I remember all my life,
Though some have changed Some forever, not for better
Some have gone and some remain.
All these places have their moments
Of lovers and friends I sti... (read in full...)
Am I being dramatic or am I right?
Q. me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half and lived together for a year,in the past week we have pretty much split up because i went to my parents house for a few drinks he was invited but decided he didnt want to come,just as i was ...
A. 3 August 2009: It strikes me that- if this is a one off occurrence? -then there must be something more going on to make you so upset. If it’s that you think something untoward went on when he was out so late, then it is an issue of not trusting him. (Which may,... (read in full...)
Should I act on my attraction?
Q. My husband has a friend I am extremely attracted to physically. I think he feels the same about me. My marriage over 23 years is OK not spectacular. Should I act on my attraction? Not looking for an emotional relationship just physical. ...
A. 26 July 2009:
To be honest, this question completely baffles me. It seems so obviously 'no' that I don't know why the OP has even asked it? -Is it just to be told what you already know?
I can't think that you actually expect anyone to say yes, so maybe this i... (read in full...)
Sick and tired of my stingy husband!
Q. Hello, I am posting here because I am so sick and tired of my husband being so stingy. We are both working and I am actually earning 800$ more per month than him. Together we are quite a middle-class family - total earning after tax about $6...
A. 21 July 2009: I totally agree with Desirewhitefire. You're bringing home money yourself and you have every right to spend that money how you choose. He's telling you that you can't spend your own money. You can!
Seeing as he is so eager to save money, explaini... (read in full...)
Jealous of another student!
Q. i was the smartest girl in class just after miss intelligent came over im alittle jealousd and all the teachers like her now even though i'm better than her in everything other than studies, what do i do? ...
A. 13 July 2009: Urghh! I hate this attitude!
I had a friend in school that held similar views in this and her attitude eventually drove me away. And yes- everything revolved around her.
Between one test and the next, despite actually going up in 90-something ... (read in full...)
Summer time FUN!
Q. This is just an observation, as I am not currently in a relationship of any sorts and haven't been for a long long while, can all the young women from ages 18 to 65, please stop dressing so provocatively. It's bad enough my hormones are in ...
A. 12 July 2009: Ahh, Bernard is awesome. Possibly the best person ever. Anywhere.
Imagine if Bernard posted on here- or became an aunt! Ohh, how very very unbelievably funny that would be! -actually I imagine that Mani would post and Bernard would offer him some... (read in full...)
My wife has left me after her mother's death!
Q. My wifes mother was diagnosed with cancer in October last year and died on January 13th of this year on Mothers Day she said she does feel the same anymore everythings changed and she doesn't love me anymore. We only got married in December, she ...
A. 8 July 2009: I really feel for you over this situation. You don't deserve this at all.
Just athought when you described how she's effectively safe to keep the house to herself and- well, if not wallow; at least hide from the world?
I'm wondering if she... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to go away together now, should I just step back?
Q. Hello aunts I have been seeing someone I have known forever for the past 3 months. He and I get on fabulously well, have fun and the best loving times together - I am smitten. He split up with his ex a year ago after she cheated numerous times. ...
A. 20 June 2009:
Honestly, I think you should talk to him again about this. It does come across that he just went along with your decision not to go, and that he may've just done this as he thought that he was supporting your wishes in this.
Yes, he has a lot to... (read in full...)
What should I write in my crushes year book?
Q. okay, so my crush gave me her yearbook to sign, and i'm thinking now could be the chance to let her know how i feel, but what should i write? any ideas? ...
A. 16 June 2009: Okay- fast forward 12/ 18 months; you're seeing this girl, you've fallen in love, everything is awesome... your girlfriend looks in your eyes and says, 'I've always felt so touched by those words that you first wrote in my yearbook- you're such a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's mother driving me insane!
Q. My boyfriends mum is driving me insane. I am pregnant and this is her first grandchild so I understand that she is super excited. But she's being so controlling, it's unreal. She treats my boyfriend like he is a child (he's 23), she speaks to...
A. 15 June 2009: Geez- anonymous poster's reply winds me up! If you're committed to each other, why would you need to sign a binding agreement to stop you from leaving each other?? Surely if you don't feel secure in a relationship without getting married then you ... (read in full...)
Will objectivism interfere with my relationships?
Q. Hello. I am a very strong Objectivist. I really beleive in it, and have an attitude of "If the world does not care, screw them" and "No people, no welfare, no emotions". I end up hating myself for loving/liking people and becoming attached to them, ...
A. 27 April 2009:
I suspect that there certainly CAN be light at the end of this tunnel, providing that you meet an appropriate girl and let yourself develop deep enough feelings and relationship with her.
It’s not an easy path of thought that you are followin... (read in full...)
Relationship truth opens up world of upset.
Q. This problem is so hard for me right now, but it doesn't just effect myself. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years, engadged for 1.25 years and love her so very much. It is a long distance relationship that goes from UK to the US so we dont ...
A. 24 April 2009: You sound a lovely man, and I'm very sorry for all the trouble that you're going through.
But it strikes me that she's being very unfair on you and just keeps taking from you. -and I can't imagine that you would ever treat her as badly as she's trea... (read in full...)
Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?
Q. I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...
A. 9 April 2009: Aww, bless! You must both be so happy now! What a lovely end to the story! :-)... (read in full...)
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