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I want to be cool and trust him but I don't

Q.   Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and him and I started off as bestfriends before. When we were friends right before we dated we had sex. Then awhile later we dated and we have sooo many feelings for eachother and I am crazy ...

A.   27 September 2010: girlll, your too obsessed it's chill braa... (read in full...)

Should I tell him why I deleted him?

Q.   So there is this guy that I was working with on a project for the past two months. In these two months we became pretty close and somehow we developed a great friendship. In the last two weeks of our working together he told me that he liked me...

A.   30 May 2010: I would avoid him and try hardest to move on, it sounds tragic but it's the best way. Your the 'other' girl in his case. He cares more about his 3 year girlfriend then you. Your just the girl he can have fun with. Tell him the reason why you ... (read in full...)

I don't feel pleasure during intercourse!

Q.   aaaahhh! i need help! ok so my fiance and i just started having sex i guess 5 months ago. he's the second guy i have had sex with. i get in the mood but everytime i feel him inside but there is NO pleasure! i know he's not too small because th...

A.   30 May 2010: You guys probably aren't doing the right position. Some positions I don't get pleasure out of, until I found one and it's amazinggg! So try new things with your lover.... (read in full...)

Lost my virginity to him and now we don't even talk!

Q.   Its been almost over a month since I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend, and now we don't even talk. And yet i'm still stuck on him. I can't get him out of my head, I tryed to move on, but every thing reminds me off him. I know i'm not in love, so ...

A.   30 May 2010: Okay so a lot of guys just want sex, but then there's the guys you find who will stay with you.. you found that 90% who just want ass. He just wanted sex from you, and hey! He got it. I have been through the sameeee thing girl. And the best thing to ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose between them?

Q.   There are two guys and they are both so wonderful in different ways, they both love me and I don't know what to do. What should I look for in the way they act around me and treat me???...

A.   30 May 2010: Compare both of them, think to yourself, "Would he get along with my family?", "Will he always accept me for who I am?", "Will he still be with me after a fight?".. Think to yourself questions like that and it will help you decide which one is your ... (read in full...)

Vaginal noise, really embarassing. Why does it happen?

Q.   Hi, I have quite an embarrising problem after i've had sex. Well the thing is, during sex air seems to get trapped in my vagina and afterwards it all comes out! It sounds like i've broken wind but i honestly haven't! It's really embarrising and i ...

A.   30 May 2010: You can't stop it unless you stop having sex. When the female and male liquids combine it gets superr duperr wet and it creates a tiny airway when the male keeps putting his dick in and out and it creates a Queef. It's natural, when I have sex and ... (read in full...)

What's a queef?

Q.   What is a queef? How does one queef? Does you vagina have to be loose to queef? How do you prevent a queef?...

A.   30 May 2010: It happens after you have sex because the two liquids from the male and female combine and create that. It's natural.... (read in full...)

We are arguing over pointless things. I don't want to lose him!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having problems lately. We've been dating for five months and I know I'm in love with him. We have been so happy, until a couple weeks ago. I really don't know what happened. I just fell under alot of stress and press...

A.   29 May 2010: I have had the same problem girl! What I would do is try to STOP the fighting. When you know there's a fight thats about to happen, YOU stop it. And be the bigger person in your relationship. And tell him no matter what goes on, no matter what ... (read in full...)

How can I make him stop loving me?

Q.   My ex and I broke up about a month ago. He's suffering so much because he loves me a lot and it seems he has a difficult time accepting it's over. I love him too, but I don't want a relationship with him anymore (we had many issues because he was ...

A.   29 May 2010: Tell him the problems you have had with him and tell him he hurt you a lot and you don't wanna go back and get hurt again and maybe he might change himself.... (read in full...)

Should I go with another guy because his parents like me?

Q.   so there's this guy.. I like him so much its not even funny..he lives about 50 minutes from me..he can drive but his parents are super strict and we can never EVER see each other.. He just got grounded for cussing out his dad because he couldn't see ...

A.   29 May 2010: Okay it sounds like your in a pickle! I would honestly stay with the first guy because your in love with him and it's deep. And I would try to put an effect towards the guy your in love with to get to know his parents and meet them and talk to them. ... (read in full...)

Is he scared because he's never been attracted to a woman before?

Q.   Basically my gay bff and I used to be super close, practically like a couple. Over the past week or so he's started acting a bit off with me, we're more like passing strangers or people who have just met than the friends we used to be. He sent me ...

A.   29 May 2010: Some gays have this, my gay friend acts like he is my boyfriend sometimes because we are extremely close to each other. He might be bisexual, and you might no even know about it. Or it just could be a stage he is going through.... (read in full...)

Scars from cutting..will it put guys off?

Q.   i have a bad history of sexual abuse as well as physical abuse when i tried to prevent the sexual abuse from taking place.. because of this i started self-harming. ive cut myself pretty badly and deep and have really ugly scars from it on my arms ...

A.   29 May 2010: If you meet a guy who truly likes the person who you are, show him the scars, or if he asks tell him the story behind it. The other option is there's scar removal surgery. I have a couple scars on my wrist from depression from asshole guys, but I ... (read in full...)

Hi obsessed ex has been making MY life hell forever, is there anything I can do here?

Q.   Okay i need some help with this one. I've been with my boyfriend just over a year. We're in a long distance relationship between the Uk and the US and ive just spent 5 months over there with him. (Let me explain the story) He split up with hi...

A.   29 May 2010: I would get the popo (police) involved in this for harassment. That's all you need :) I've had situations like that before, no worries!... (read in full...)

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