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Why is my ex talking about marriafe and then being all hot and cold?

Q.   I broke up with my ex 3 years ago. It was a gut wrenching breakup because we really liked each other. But it had to be done because he was emotionally incapable, and I was not going to try to make him change. We didn't talk for 3 years. I turned ...

A.   19 August 2010: I know he's full of crap. That's why I dumped him 3 years ago in the first place. And continued to reject his attempts to be friends again. I just don't get why he's still doing this stupid stuff. I mean, it's not like he can't get other girls. He's ... (read in full...)

Why is my ex talking about marriafe and then being all hot and cold?

Q.   I broke up with my ex 3 years ago. It was a gut wrenching breakup because we really liked each other. But it had to be done because he was emotionally incapable, and I was not going to try to make him change. We didn't talk for 3 years. I turned ...

A.   18 August 2010: To be honest, I don't plan on marrying him. I know this. He's never going to change and I'm not going to chase him either. I just really wanted to stay on civil terms with him. But he keeps on bringing up the past, not me. He's the one who initiates ... (read in full...)

How can I make him enjoy sex with me again??

Q.   Ive been seeing my boyfriend for more that three years now. When we started dating we had great sex, but now theres just little foreplay close to none at all. Just when I start enjoying myself during sex, he stops. I feel that its more about him ...

A.   18 August 2010: Hold out on him for 2 weeks! Two weeks of nothingness should make him a little bit crazy. Act just a little bit bitchy towards him. Not mean, just a little bit. When he starts desiring you and chasing you again and with some level of struggle, you ... (read in full...)

Shoul I be worried?

Q.   i have had my growth spuirt im getting facial hair and all that stuff im 5'10" and my voice still hasnt changed should i be worried? also im gonna be 15 in 2 months...

A.   18 August 2010: No worries! Your voice will change later. Maybe in a year or so. There's nothing wrong!... (read in full...)

Am I supposed to assume that he's moved on??

Q.   I met a guy on holiday 3 months ago. It was very brief but there was an obvious attraction. He works out there and is not due to come home (to where I am) until October. He gave me his number and we have been texting ever since and have spoken ...

A.   18 August 2010: Hi dear, I think you should stop texting him. I think he's over you and it's time to move on. Don't seem desperate! Plenty of fish in the sea. Nice fish, too!... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he call me now?

Q.   I met a guy last year around November at a gathering. He facebooked me afterwards and we started talking. He seems like an interesting guy and kind too. We exchanged long messages for days for about two weeks and he decided to ask me to go see a ...

A.   23 January 2009: PunkyPippi: He's not even picking up the calls from a mutual friend. I think he's just down for some reason. He hasn't been active on facebook or chat programs either... Kind of just MIA. Yeah I'll give him til next week and if he doesn't say ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he call me now?

Q.   I met a guy last year around November at a gathering. He facebooked me afterwards and we started talking. He seems like an interesting guy and kind too. We exchanged long messages for days for about two weeks and he decided to ask me to go see a ...

A.   23 January 2009: PunkyPippi: He's not even picking up the calls from a mutual friend. I think he's just down for some reason. He hasn't been active on facebook or chat programs either... Kind of just MIA. Yeah I'll give him til next week and if he doesn't say ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he call me now?

Q.   I met a guy last year around November at a gathering. He facebooked me afterwards and we started talking. He seems like an interesting guy and kind too. We exchanged long messages for days for about two weeks and he decided to ask me to go see a ...

A.   23 January 2009: Ahh Shaleen, I don't know why he's doing this. It's been a whole week and he hasn't gotten back to me besides Monday night when he replied "Good night" when I texted him good night... I want to talk to him but he won't reply my texts or emails and ... (read in full...)

Is 5 years too much?

Q.   Hey everyone, I've just started dating this guy that I feel like I've known my whole life I think I'm really falling for him! The problem is he's 18 and I'm only 13. Is it wrong?...

A.   4 November 2008: I agree. This is not a good idea. A friend of mine who is 24 got emotionally attached to a minor and she is about to face potential legal charges from the parents. Even though her relationship with him was entirely innocent. Just don't do this. ... (read in full...)

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