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I don't want to lose my boyfriend and should I tell him.
Q. HELLLPPP!! so im in a relationship with this boy ive been seeig for 7 mnths now and a new boy who is older than i im 16 nerly 17 this new man should i say is 23 asks me if i like him and i cudnt lie i sed yes i do he sed good i like you wht do ...
A. 7 February 2008: the fact that he is asking for sex all the time and wanted to keep it a secret that sounds like he is trying to manipulate you! you should sit down and think about what you really want whether you want to be with your bf or not! but please dont ... (read in full...)
I treat her like a princess but she keeps breaking my heart. What can I do?
Q. Hey Cupids, Really need your help right now. To cut a long and complicated story short. Met a girl at uni, had a relationship, she broke up with me over the summer. She returned a few months later wanting a casual thing. I could'nt do that, but we...
A. 22 October 2007: this girl is playing with you, she knows that if she is ever lonely then you are there! i know this must be hard to hear but you do need to move on and foreget about her! a girl who can act like that is not worth it! and trust me i do know what she ... (read in full...)
She was raped by her ex father in law. How can I cope with the distress I feel for her?
Q. Hey, My fiance has a sexual past that she is not proud of and I'm not either. It's a real problem because I get these recurring disturbing images. She is coming from a really sick marriage in which her husband tried to sell her for sex and his ...
A. 22 October 2007: what she needs is some one to talk to, some one she can trust to tell any thing! whatever you do do not force hert to speak, she will talk to you when she is ready! trust me, things like this are very hard to get over and will always be in your ... (read in full...)
Is my mind having a meltdown?
Q. Okay this is one of those things that just confuses me! If you are in a 'fun bud' relationship with a guy, who knows you care about him more than casual, are these things normal behaviour or is he showing that he cares when he can't actually s...
A. 22 October 2007: i think you are very lucky to have some one thats cares about you as much as he does! personally i think you should sit down with him and discuss how you both feel and take it from there! you sound like a very lucky lady and you would be mad to let ... (read in full...)
Will he ever come looking for me?
Q. Hi when i was 15 i started going out with this boy we were madly in love for about two years in the last 6 months it became very stormy as he had a wandering eye. Any way we broke up and both moved on he has been with his girlfriend about 3 years ...
A. 22 October 2007: your first love, this is the one thats worse because no matter how old you were you will always love them, always compare your current boyfriends to them and maybe you dont even relise you're doing it!! just sit down and think about what you have ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with losing my babies and not push my fiance away??
Q. please help me I've been going through alot and really need some good advice as i cant stop hurting and cry. My fiance is very understanding and there for me but i know he is hurting too. I can't be there for him. I feel like i do try but i feel l...
A. 17 October 2007: i not not begin to imagine how you are feeling right now! no one can stop you hurting but you two need each other so talk to him! see a counciler it may seem daft but trust me they do help! the best advice i can give you is to talk about it with the ... (read in full...)
I like a guy but the age difference keeps holding me back.
Q. Hey I am a senior in high school and im 17. I like a guy who just turned 15 so im over 2 years older. Im more worried about the age difference for his sake because i can deal with what people say, but i dont know how it would affect him. I think he ...
A. 17 October 2007: it is a very strange thing going out with some one who is under 16! the best advice i can give to you is be friends till he 16 then if you both still feel the same way make a go of things... (read in full...)
How do I help my girl get over her Father's death, and convince her that she's not going to lose me as well?
Q. Ok i really need some advice. My wife and i have been married for 7 years and together since we were 16,friends before that! So i've been there through pretty much all of her life,through the ups and downs etc. Her dad died about a week ago, the ...
A. 8 October 2007: you need to understand that it will be hard for her to talk about things right now! the best thing you can do is say that you will be there when she waants to talk and will always be there for her! take her out some where treat her, let her know how ... (read in full...)
Some questions about anal sex...
Q. Can you get pregnant when having anal sex? Do I need to use a spermacide when I have anal sex? ...
A. 1 October 2007: there is no chance, dont worry about it, and if you are worried go to the doctor... (read in full...)
In love with my cousin
Q. I fell in love with my cousin, im jus 21 and she is 28 i didnt mean to fall for her. it just started like friends but we matched eachother so well, maybe to well. I still in love with her and i know she loves me to. we've slept witheachother but now ...
A. 1 October 2007: love is a strange thing probly the worst thing in the world as you cant control it! people will say it is wrong but if you are both sreious about each othere than go for it! maybe go away for a while meet new people and if you still feel the same ... (read in full...)
I'm suffering from BOREDOM! Any advice?
Q. Not really a relationship question, but more of a problem exacerbated by breaking up. I'm so bored! HELP ME! It's monday. I don't have college. It's raining. I don't have the car. My old friends who lived nearby have gone to univeristy. All ...
A. 1 October 2007: there is never any thing to do! i have had days like these where you feel asthough life is passing you by, leaving you behind, but the trick is to do some thing about it!! have you got a job? if not get one that way you will be doing some thing and ... (read in full...)
I'm hanging out my my crush tomorrow even though I have a bf! I don't know what to do!
Q. Okay guys, I love this sight for your answers to my questions - Now PLEASE Help!!!! Okay, today I was in a store with my mom and I saw my friend whom I haven't seen in a VERY long time and in that duration of long time, we both had a thing for each...
A. 27 September 2007: every one will always hold a torch for thier first love, but you need to remember that if you went back to him it might not be the same as what it used to be! you say youreally love your current boyfreind, sop compare the feelings you have for both ... (read in full...)
Cellulite: I have it, I hate it. Will it put him off?? And how can I get rid of it?
Q. Cellulite... I have it, I hate it. I know that most women have it a little bit but I still can't get over how disgusting my legs look in certain lights! It's not terrible but it's there!! Anyway, I always have sex with the lights off for this ...
A. 27 September 2007: every one has it, take a look in your magazines and even the stars have it! dont be ashamed of your body and if the man your with doesnt lik it then why you with him! but remember there is no bigger turn off than some one who is always hiding, men ... (read in full...)
I am 18, she is 15. Is it ok to date her?
Q. I've recently left my old job of which I got quite close to another person who worked there. I'm 18 but she is still 15, is it wrong if I try to make something happen- not having sex; but just having a good time together?...
A. 27 September 2007: if you really like her there is nothing wrong with it! however make sure both of your families know about it and are ok with it! and even if she says she is ready for sex wait untill she is 16! this way she will also respect you more and you will ... (read in full...)
He cheated, but he won me back... Now he's had to move 2 hours away! I love him, but I have doubts...
Q. I am so conflicted. I have been dating a man for about 4 years. Last March I found out he cheated on me with my best friend. I broke it off with him and kicked him out of my house. Afterwards he was very remorseful and fought very hard to win me ...
A. 27 September 2007: you need to be true to yourself, at the end of the day you need to be happy! you deserve to be happy so if you dont feel like you used to about this man, talk to him and let him know and do what your heart is telling you to do! all my best... (read in full...)
After I got him off, I used antibacterial lotion on my hands - could I still get pregnant from touching myself?
Q. I am on the pill and last week I was on my period. I wacked my boyfriend off and then my hands off and used an antibacterial lotion. Later, I ended up touching myself when I took a shower. Am I possibly pregnant?...
A. 27 September 2007: it is highly unlikly that you are as the semanwouldnt be able to get to your eggs and you did wash your hands! however if you are still worried go see a doctor and set your mind at rest! every thing you discuss with a doctor is confidentual! hope ... (read in full...)
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