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I gave him bj but he couldn't stay hard and didn't cum
Q. hey i have this boyfriend.. we have been together for 2 years and we havent had sex till now... i am not quite ready for it and well my guy hasnt pressured me either... which is nice. we are both virgins and we are both 23. yesterday was ...
A. 21 September 2009: Hello Samantha, usually its difficult for virgins to adapt the "sex" thing, as first times are really the hardest, so I think your boyfriend was frustrated and sometimes that runs through the guy's brain (disturbing the blood flow) and it stops the ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to notice or talk about big boobs, mines are small!
Q. ok so im 18...and I wear a 34 A.. im beautiful yes but im so self concious.. I wish I at least had a B. my mom had smaller boobs than me all the way up til she was 30 then she got a boob job but i hate wen my boyfriend is around his friends they all ...
A. 11 September 2009: Hey Junkie you need not worry too much about that, boys will always be boys. It doesn't mean your boyfriend dislikes your boobs or anything like that. Believe me when I tell you he loves you the way you are because if he didn't, he would have gone ... (read in full...)
He has gone off sex, but masturbates all the time. Help guys!
Q. So I need advice from all the guys out there please... My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half - and have lived together for nearly half of that time - he's 27 and I'm 25. Our sex life is pretty inconsistent I would say - ...
A. 11 September 2009: Hello there, it could be a question of whether he's small down there or does he watch porn on his mobile. I personally think this guy doesn't have any problem, it could be that he doesn't get the results he expect when having sex with you. Do you ... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin?
Q. Am 22yrs old guy and have never had sex with a girl, but i do go through romance. But recently what all my friends talk about is their sex life. So i decided to disvirgin myself, so i met one girl and decided 2 sleep with her, but the girl has...
A. 1 September 2009: I'm also 22 years old and I recently had sex for the first time, and believe me! It wasn't that exciting as both of us were virgins, when I put a condom on, my penis couldn't be hard again, at some stage I managed to put in for a few seconds but I ... (read in full...)
I'm rubbish at socialising, how can I become more gregarious?
Q. I am a 27 year old attractive male, with a good job, nice flat, my problem is I'm rubbish at socialising and making friends, people seem to find me awkward or boring and I don't know how to change this or if I ever will be able to? My gf even broke ...
A. 1 September 2009: Hello there, I am worried of what is happening to you, don't you think this has got to do with balancing your priorities. For example, it might be possible that you concerntrate too much on your work or the serious things in life, another thing ... (read in full...)
Our first attempt at sex was difficult...but is she still a virgin now or not?
Q. Hello everyone I'm 21 and my girlfriend is going to turn 18 soon, we have been together for about 8 months now, I've never met such a wonderful girl that is open to talk about anything, yesterday we decided to "try" as we are both virgins, We ...
A. 30 August 2009: Thank you everyone for the information, I just want to know what must I do next time not to be frustated?... (read in full...)
We didn't have sex before marriage and now I discover husband isn't creative or that interested!
Q. Hi All, Please advice. I have been married to my husband for a year and a half now. I love him. Ever since we have been dating and married I am the one who initiates sex or kissing cuddling etc . We never had sex before marriage. Ev...
A. 26 July 2009: Helo it seems you are having a bit of a hard situation, usually when a man does that it means he's hitting on someone or he masturbates too much, does he like being alone? but however it could be a case of him no longer interested in you. Please try ... (read in full...)
He's a perfect gentlemen, only problem is he's 21 and I'm 16 going on 17!
Q. Hi. I really need some help here. i recently met this guy who seems perfect for me. we're both really into art and the outdoors, and he's a perfect gentleman. the only problem is, i'm 16 (about to be 17) and he's 21. i feel really iffy about this ...
A. 25 July 2009: Hello young lady this really depends on the culture you are in, I don't see it could be a problem because the age difference is just normal, like you are saying.. Why would you let a gentleman like that pass you knowing that he could be Mr. Right? I ... (read in full...)
I've got this great guy, but all I think about is my ex!
Q. dear cupid i need your help. im nowhere near over my ex, "robert", and we were on and off for almost two years and inseperable bestfriends for two years before we decided to turn romantic. i love him with everything i have and i mean truly madly ...
A. 20 July 2009: Hello there, it seems you really have a strong bond to this guy. I suggest you should follow your heart and date him again but then again you have a new guy whom I think you made a mistake of dating him while still having a strong connection for ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I am ready...
Q. I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...
A. 4 July 2009: Please don't have it, you are way too young to be worried abt these lifechanging matters, now if ur bf really loves u, he wl respect u n WAIT for you.... (read in full...)
Falling for boyfriend's friend. Please help!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him Ed) for almost two months now, and have recently met his friends. One of his friends, (let's call him Jay), just stood out as the most sensetive, sweetest, cutest, and awsomest guy ever. Jay has always ...
A. 1 July 2009: When you say Jay's exs are b**ches, what are you implying to because what you are doing right now to Ed is similar to what you are saying for Jay's eXs. Stop falling for Ed's friend as he might not even be interested on you, ending up loosing Ed, ... (read in full...)
How can I hint to him to buy me some flowers?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and he hasn't brought me any presents or anything. For valentines day I sent him a card as we are in a long distance relationship and he didn't know what he wanted. I thought he would have brought me a ...
A. 1 July 2009: Hey young lady nt all men think about buying gifts and cards, is he romantic? Then if he is, you need not worry that much, maybe he might be preparing a big suprise for you, maybe not. I was once in a long distance relationship and I have to be ... (read in full...)
Where did I go wrong? Everything was great at first and now he has me in limbo....
Q. what is happening??? I met this guy in january, he has the most bright smile i have ever seen, we just click, or at list a thought, he ask my help for a project he wanned to start, and we start to spend a lot of time together, he call me for what...
A. 27 June 2009: That is very sad but the truth of the matter is you must move on, there is nothing wrong you did, feelings are feelings, that guy did that for the best, rather than pretending to you, which would hurt you even more if you would have to find (imagine ... (read in full...)
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