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Does it hurt to kiss with braces that have rubber band on them?

Q.   today.. we kissed with my boyfriend, we really love each other but there is a problem my boyfriend has braces, he had a headgear before we were friends, now just braces. well in a week Im having braces 2!!!! WITH RUBBER BANDS!! :( does anyone have ...

A.   13 July 2010: when i got my first kiss, i hadd braces, but not with rubber bands. my boyfriend however, had braces with rubberbands. he never complained or said anything about it bothering himm. so i think you should be fine. i was always scared that our braces ... (read in full...)

I want to be on the pill to regulate my periods, but I know my mom will flip!

Q.   I'm 14, soon to be 15, and my mom loves to act like I'm still five. I want to be put on birth control, not because I'm having sex but to regulate aunt flow. But I know If I ask my mom will automaticly skip to conclusions, and start yelling at me for ...

A.   28 April 2010: i'm 15, almost 16, but i got on the pill when i turend 15. and my situation was exactly the same, i promise you, my mom didnt react at all like i expected. i thought she would throw me in the basement and never let me out. but suprisingly, she under ... (read in full...)

How does the pill work exactly?

Q.   How does the pill work exactly? i mean, i know it helps prevent pregnancy,, but to what extent?like, can the pill take a guy fully cumming inside you without a condom? or does it just work with the pre ejaculate?...

A.   24 April 2010: thanks guys. and i'm 15, almost 16. haha, just incase you thought i was like 13. but i have been on the pill for a while now and i was just wondering:)... (read in full...)

Where can we go to make love and have some privacy???

Q.   hi everyone.. i am in a relationship since 3 years.. both of us are perfect for each other.. we share a great bonding together.. i am 21 years old and he is 22.. we study in the same college.. we live with our families in a small town in india.. we ...

A.   20 April 2010: your 21 and 22, your parents are bound to figure out you do it. just come clean. or maybe a car? haha:)... (read in full...)

Why do I like him?

Q.   ok this is going 2 sound abit wierd and im sorry about the length, but im in love with a guy im embarrassed to like, because a few weeks ago there was this award thing at my school an we both won a award along with alot of oher people and my parents ...

A.   4 January 2010: everyone has a different taste is guys and girls. dont care about what people think or say about you liking him. just do what your heart tellls you, you like him? ask him out. you dont wanna miss an opportunity because of stupid high schoool kids.... (read in full...)

Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex

Q.   I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were ...

A.   4 January 2010: just make sure that when you do do it, he's the one, because if you do it with him and he turns around and wants his ex back, yourr just a poor little girl that he just used; and i dont think you want that. i'm 15, almost 16, my boyfriend is almost ... (read in full...)

I just started birth control and haven't had my period yet

Q.   so i started birth control the end of last month/ the begining if this month. and this sunday i should have started my period, but its tuesday and still nothing. i havent fully had sex yet. like my boyfriends when half way in. but he never ised a ...

A.   4 January 2010: I GOT MY PERIOD!:DDDDD... (read in full...)

Is it normal to want someone to love and hold you?

Q.   Okay so Im 14, and I have an issue I hate. I wanna no if its normal to want someone to love you and hold you like a boyfriend haha. Like half of the day I wish I had someone like that. And when someone shows interest in me, im to scared to talk to ...

A.   4 January 2010: welll, i had the same problem when i was like 13, i'm 15 now and i stilll get buttterflys when i go to see my boyfriend. allthough i love it when he hugs me and we cuddle, i stil am nervous. and we've beeen dating for almost 5 months. bahahaa. just ... (read in full...)

I use masturbation to relieve stress...but I feel guilty afterwards. Any advice?

Q.   Hi, i'm 15 years old and i've been masterbating since I was 2...Literally. I tried to stop last year but I still do it up to this day, although I feel guilty, dirty, and ashamed after. I heard it's a stress reliever , it does take away all my other ...

A.   29 December 2009: masterbation is normal, i'm 15 tooo(: and i do it too. there is no reason to feeel guilty, everyone does it. just because you do it more, doesnt make you a bad person. hahaa, yerr just reallly gonna enjoy sexx. bahaaa. i hope i helpped, goood luck, ... (read in full...)

He'll be 18 and I"m scared he'll want sex!

Q.   Me and this boy have been talking about dating and all that stuff, the fathest we've gone is makeout. i really like him, but i'm 15 and he's 17. thats not bad, but he'll be 18 in March and i'll still be 15 until junee. i'm a sophmorevand he's a ...

A.   29 December 2009: just for an update, we started dating August 22nd, and we just passed our four month; without sex:)... (read in full...)

My friend threw a tantrum and I am still reeling from it!

Q.   Tonight I went out with my friends, "Jane" and "Mary." I live the farthest and was coming in to pick them up. Originally, I told Mary I would pick her up first and then we would get Jane. While driving, I realized I would be going back and forth, so ...

A.   6 December 2009: Nahh, its not your fault. Its no one fault. it was nice of her too appologize for her rude behavior because she had no right too flip her lid. maybe it was PMS? idkk, but dont feel like its your fault cause you were only thinking of a faster, eas... (read in full...)

How can I get her to be my GF

Q.   how could i impress a girl to b my girlfriend/?...

A.   19 August 2009: well, its not impressing as much as it is the way you look/act. being nice is an exanple. tell her you like her, get too know her, and let her know yoou. (:... (read in full...)

How can I make this not hurt?

Q.   heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...

A.   3 August 2009: i cant wear tampons either, they hurt and are uncomfy.... (read in full...)

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