Do you think that she would like to make it work, or is she scared of how her parents will react ?
Q. I really want to go out wth a grl who is 17 and I am 27. She said she won't date men who are over 22, Another day she told me over 23 and another day over 25. Also, she said that if she dated me, her parents would disown her! She knows that I...
A. 29 March 2007: I don't think she wants to be with you, I'm sorry, but I think your reading too much into this. Step back and see if she actually tells you she likes you. Or just ask her straight if she wants to go on a date or something.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I emailed her asking her back and she hasn't replied! Does that mean she can't be bothered?
Q. How do you know if your ex still likes you? I emailed my girlfriend 5 Months ago and said i loved her i cared for her much and would do anything to get back with her, but i think you dont feel the same. i said i think we should move on now, take ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
I don't know why she would phone, she may think that you would be over her my now and you wouldn't be bothered if she called you. Maybe she did it because she wanted things to be final between you before she deleted your number, and she neve... (read in full...)
Why do men tell their gf's-- they are the most beautiful woman and then turn around and gawk at other women?
Q. Why is it no matter how smart and beautiful we may be as a mate, men still gawk at other women? They will tell you how beautiful you are and how much they love you and then in the same breath they will turn around and drool over some other woman? ...
A. 29 March 2007: HI
He does love you and thinks your beautful, but looking occasionally at other women is pretty harmless, it's not like he's doing anything. Do you not look at other men? It's human nature to look at the opposite sex, all men and women do it even... (read in full...)
My hubby and a work colleague email explicit notes and photos to each other! How do I handle this?
Q. I have a serious problem with my husband, can't talk to my family or friends as I feel too ashamed. My husband has been texting and calling this old work collegue of his for over two years now...things have now progressed to a very intimate state ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello there
What an awful situation to be in. Your husband is cheating on you, maybe not physically but emotionally and mentally.
You need to confront your husband and tell him that you know what he is doing and you want him to stop. Tell him you ... (read in full...)
He almost left us for her! we are trying to work it out but he still hangs out with her! Any advice?
Q. My bf was going to leave me and our children for someone he was cheating with. We are trying to work things out but he wants to still hang out with her. My nerves are shot because he won't stay away from her. Should I stay or should I go?...
A. 29 March 2007: Hi
This is a very unhealthy situation for you and your children.
You need to tell him it's you or her I'm afraid an ultimation is the only way forward, if you are trying to repair your relationship he should not still be seeing the person he cheat... (read in full...)
How do I ask my bf to use a condomw when we have sex?
Q. hey, Ive resently had sex and it was with my bf and we didnt use a condom and how do i ask him that i want him to use one what shall i say???Please Help Me. xxx ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
firstly you shouldn't be having sex at your age, and you definalty shouldn't be having sex with out any protection! You could already be pregnant or have caught something off him and visa versa.
Get some condoms and before he enters you pass... (read in full...)
I told her that I wanted us to move on...but she still calls me! Does she not get it?
Q. If you are a girl and your ex-boyfiend says its time to move on say in a text or Email. Would you move on or would you still phone him, even though he says move on? I thought move on means move on its over leave me alone, just that my ex-girlfriend ...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
Of course she still likes you and she seems to be having trouble letting you go.
Have you said to her "I don't want to be with you anymore" because if not that's what it might take.
You need to try to be kind here, do you answer her c... (read in full...)
Just married last year and he loves me so much. But I don't think I love him! Any advice?
Q. Im 20 and I got married last year and I don't think I love him anymore his family is amazing and I knoe he loves me so much but I just dont love him as a husband what can I do?...
A. 29 March 2007: Hello
Did you rush into marriage by any chance?
Is there anything you and your husband can try to rekindle your love for him? Or do you just not feel that way about him? Did you love him before you got married?
There's alot of questions yo... (read in full...)
I touched something inside her.... is she still a virgin ?
Q. hey.. i have a girlfriend and were still together like more than 2 years and shes worried because i put entered my finger in her thing..and it was about 3.5 inches..and i felt something its hard to explain what but it was a little deep and i hardly...
A. 28 March 2007: She is still a virgin because she hasn't had sex! The hymen when it breaks can vary on how much it bleeds. Just because this has broken does not mean she's not a virgin. There is a chance you could of broken it, or she could of broken it along time ... (read in full...)
He left me and our little daughter! I'm a mess..how do I cope?
Q. hi my partner has just left me after 4 years together we have a 2 year old daughter as well.. i just cant seem to cope im lonly i love him so much and i would do any thing to have him back he rang the other nite saying he regrets it and wants to ...
A. 28 March 2007: Oh well done you!
Take control of your own life and it will all fall into place.
you will hurt for a while but in time you'll have a huge smile on your face you should be proud of yourself :-)... (read in full...)
Ive fallen for my friends Ex, I dont want to lose either, what do I do ?
Q. I have fallen in love with the ex of my friend. They were a pair 3 years ago and only for a short time. First she said that it’s ok if I meet him but now she wants to conclude our friendship if we get a pair. I don’t know what to do because both of ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello
Firstly I would sit your friend down and ask her why she has a problem with you seeing her ex, it ended a while ago but maybe there's some feelings still there?
If your friends reasons seem genuine to you then you will need to think who is m... (read in full...)
Is this "breakthrough bleeding" due to the pill or the sex ?
Q. Hi, I just went on a birth control pill last week. My boyfriend and I were having sex last night, and I started to bleed. Is this a common side effect of the pill? He was not exactly thrilled when he saw the blood - it was kind of gross......
A. 28 March 2007: Hello
You don't say how much blood it was but I'm sure it seemed more than it was.
Going on the pill effects your hormones and menstrual cycle and it takes a couple of months or so for your body to get used to the changes.
Unless he was really f... (read in full...)
He blurted out about another girl being 18 and a virgin and laughed! But so am I, whats he gonna think!?
Q. Ok firstly I want you to know that this man I'm with is not a d*** head so please don't suggest that I get rid of him based on his ignorance... ...ok now to what I have to say. I have known this guy for a couple of years but only over the past co...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
Making immature jokes when your drinking infront of your mates is one thing, but someone you care about telling you the same thing is another.
I would tell him as soon as you feel ready to, just so he's aware, I doubt very much that he'll ju... (read in full...)
We got back together 5 months ago(initally together 3yrs) Just found out hes been texting another girl!!
Q. My exbf and i got got back together 5 months ago (we had previously been together for 3 yrs but split up because he couldnt commit). He moved in with me as soon as we got back together,he said he was so happy that i had given him a 2nd chance that ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello
It all depend what these texts contained. Whether they were friendly or more intimate. You need to speak to him about these texts before jumping to any conclusions.... (read in full...)
Why am I too scared to leave him, even though I know I'm not happy!?
Q. Say your in a bad relationship and you know that the person your with is not the one for you. All you do is argue and when it gets bad you physically fight. The thing you hate the most is not being able to communicate – little things you need to ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
The relationship sounds very distructive. I would seriously think about how you are going to get out of it. The chances are you love the man he was, not the man he has become.
Your scared because you have security, your probably thinking... (read in full...)
He dumped me got with her straight away, now he wont dump her for me and says hes confused!!!!
Q. Hiya, i was goin out with this lad for nealry a year, we had some rocky times, a couple of weeks ago i found out he was txting a girl which i new from school, that now goes to his college. i broke up with him on friday nearly 3 weeks ago and 2 days ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
This guy is playing you. There's a reason why you 2 split up and I think you should remember that. I wouldn't waste any more time on this guy. Your young go out and have some fun and find some one who isn't going to mess with your head! You don'... (read in full...)
I told him some of my past, his face said it all, Im also insecure, How can I get past all this with this fab guy!?
Q. hi, i am with this amazing guy who means the world to me, and he is truely the best thing that has ever happened to me ( relationship wise ), we get along so well and i have always told him everything about me and my past, even the fact that i h...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello
firstly if this guy is as good as you think then you need to tread very carefully.
He is feeling like this because he obviously doesn't like to think that you have ever had sex with anyone before, as do most men, the fact that you had a 3s... (read in full...)
How much effort should he make with me being Long distance!?
Q. hi guys, How much effort is it reasonable to expect your bf to make when you are long distance, even if only for a short time? My bf and me have been together for only a couple of months, but have been really close (spent most of our time ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
I don't understand why he won't tell anyone about you, I think I would be pretty annoyed about this.
You don't say why he had to spend time away, maybe he is genuinely busy. Each person needs different things in a relationship maybe he's thi... (read in full...)
Im seeing an older guy and all we do is have sex, plus Im not sure if I trust him!
Q. I have been seeing a guy alot older than me 4 about 2mths now, however all we do is just have sex.. he has made suggestions of going out but we haven't yet, the only thing that bothers me is he lives with his baby's mum and says he is there for ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
I hate to say it but I wouldn't trust this guy either. Something isn't quite right about him stil living with his ex, if she even is his ex.
I would stop sleeping with this guy just say you don't feel like it one night and that you fancy go... (read in full...)
I have a disability, I think its holding me back due to what people might be thinking!
Q. I know a disability shouldn't stop you from meeting people, and I know people are alright with it when I tell them, but I have a subconscious feeling that they may not like me as I can't do stuff that other people can...
A. 28 March 2007: Hey
Well it doesn't mean you can't join in, just means you have to be realistic about it. This wouldn't stop any one who knows the real you, not care about you!
... (read in full...)
How likely is it that the baby I'm having is my ex-boyfriend's?
Q. i recentl found out i was pregnant me and my current boyfriend didn't use a condom but i slept with my ex-boyfriend and we did use a condom how likely is it that the baby i'm having is my ex-boyfriend?...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello
It's more likely that that the baby is your boyfriends but nothing can be guaranteed. I would say it was 50/50 chance either of them could be the father. You will never know unless you have a paternity test.
Why were you sleeping with bot... (read in full...)
Do you think that she would like to make it work, or is she scared of how her parents will react ?
Q. I really want to go out wth a grl who is 17 and I am 27. She said she won't date men who are over 22, Another day she told me over 23 and another day over 25. Also, she said that if she dated me, her parents would disown her! She knows that I...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
I think maybe she is scared of what her parents would say, but also I think this is a way of her saying she's not interested. At 17 a 27 year old would be quite a scary prospect and you will have totally different interests. She is probably flat... (read in full...)
I have a disability, I think its holding me back due to what people might be thinking!
Q. I know a disability shouldn't stop you from meeting people, and I know people are alright with it when I tell them, but I have a subconscious feeling that they may not like me as I can't do stuff that other people can...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
You don't say what your disability is and whether your referring to friends or boyfriends. I think it depends on how you feel about yourself, everyone has something they don't feel comfortable with and if it wasn't your disability I'm sure it w... (read in full...)
Im going to be moving away from GF at Christmas, I love her so much, I need advice of what to do to ease the pain!
Q. ok heres the situation...Im currently living in the same area as my GF...but at christmas time I am moving to Wellington to be with my mums family...My family has said it is OK for her to come with us, however...she doesnt know if she can...and I ...
A. 28 March 2007: She probably doesn't want to think about it. It seems it's going to be up to you then how you deal with this situation. I hope you can do whats best for you.... (read in full...)
We split 2 years ago, Should I try and win her back ?
Q. Would you try win your girlfriend back even though its 2 years since split up? My ex still keeps in touch, she moved to spain for a while and sent me a text to keep in touch. she once said i liked you soooooooooooo much its a shame we argued all ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi there
I think after 2 years you both already have moved on.
You said you argued all the time and there's normally a reason as to why you argued alot.
If she's living in Spain then a relationship is going to be tricky and do you know if she ... (read in full...)
Im going to be moving away from GF at Christmas, I love her so much, I need advice of what to do to ease the pain!
Q. ok heres the situation...Im currently living in the same area as my GF...but at christmas time I am moving to Wellington to be with my mums family...My family has said it is OK for her to come with us, however...she doesnt know if she can...and I ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello there,
this is a tricky one, I would talk to her about what she wants and ask her what she thinks will happen when you move away.
If you both decide you should end things, then maybe see each other a little less and try and break things o... (read in full...)
He my brother's best frind and my mate dates him. I like him a lot-so what should I do?
Q. I like this guy that is my brother's friend. I only get to see him about once or twice a week. Sometimes he gets close to me and acts like I wold think that someone who likes me would act. But then other times he'll ignore me. Another problem is he ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello there
I don't think you should do anything about how you feel about this boy. You could lose your friend, and this boy's friendship, and also really annoy your brother.
I suggest you just remain friends with this guy and soon enough someone ... (read in full...)
Im depressed all the time, I think my relationship could be the problem, what can I do ?
Q. i feel really depressed at the moment i just cant seem to snap out of it.ive not woked for a while and that is getting me down tho i should be starting a new job in a few weeks. my relationship is not going well as i feel my boyf of just over year ...
A. 28 March 2007: Oh well done you!
I'm glad you spoke to him and now maybe you don't feel so alone.
Good luck in the new job, this is certainly a turning point and things can only get better!
... (read in full...)
How do I convince her to trust me again?
Q. Adult Help And Advice Required Please I need some Help and Advice with my relationship. I have been seeing my Gf for about 2 years now and got engadged at christmas, we were meant to be getting married sometime this year. our relationship has ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi there
Oh dear I think she got the wrong end of the stick, you seem to be genuine in what you are saying, maybe you should show your girfriend what you have written here?
I think maybe with getting engaged it all got a bit too much for her, as ... (read in full...)
I invited my long distance friend to come and be my date for a college dance! Was that weird of me to ask him?
Q. I'm an 18 year old girl (woman?) and just finishing my first year of college. At the end of this year we have a big fancy dance sort of thing (like a prom). Well, about a year ago I met this guy, and he lives on the other side of the country so w...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi there
Who cares if it was a little weird, you like this guy and he likes you so why shouldn't you of asked him?
He obviously didn't think there was anything wrong in this.
Just be safe and careful. Stop worrying about it, You never know you cou... (read in full...)
The guy im seeing is 16 years older than me, potential relationship in the pipes what do you guys think ?
Q. My question is simple. I am goin to be 19 in a couple wks and i am currently kind of seeing a guy who is 16 yrs older than me. Thus he is 34. We were friends for aprox. 4mths before anything happened so one can say we have a good friendship; the ...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello
I think if you like this guy then age really doesn't matter.
I would take things very slowly, get used to the idea don't jump into a sexual relationship and get to know each other well.
If your friends and famiy have problems with this re... (read in full...)
My mum wants me to stop seeing my gf as shes older, Im just worried that she may hurt herself if I do ?
Q. what should i do when my mom dosent want me to continue my relationship with my girlfriend because of our age gap..... n how can i tell my gf that we need to break up knowing that she would hurt herself? the reason why i went into a relationship w...
A. 28 March 2007: Hello there,
You need to be honest with this woman and say you have plans and your young and your not ready for a serious relationship, if that's what you want. If you want to stay with this woman then you shouldn't let anyone push you into endi... (read in full...)
My husband and I have different careers, his will take him away, Ive found a distraction (maybe even back up plan) what should I do ?
Q. I love my husband very much and I've been longing for the day we can be together (We're currently working in different cities ... for another 2 months). Last month, I was switched to a different project and took on different role. I love th...
A. 28 March 2007: Hi
It's always hard when you apart from the one you love, and especially if it's for some time. I think your missing him and your looking for other ways to feel some comfort. You say your boss is gentle and seems interesting, you don't say that it's... (read in full...)
What is the difference between LOVE and SEX?
Q. hello i am asking all of you to explain to me the definition between LOVE and SEX and how they feel? thank you...
A. 27 March 2007: To me
Sex - is the physical act of sex
Love - is the physical act and the mental connection, which is much more powerful.
If you need to ask that question you've never been in love!... (read in full...)
He left me and our little daughter! I'm a mess..how do I cope?
Q. hi my partner has just left me after 4 years together we have a 2 year old daughter as well.. i just cant seem to cope im lonly i love him so much and i would do any thing to have him back he rang the other nite saying he regrets it and wants to ...
A. 27 March 2007: Stop right now what you are doing!
You need to eat and sleep and take care of you and your child, no man is worth that. I know you think everything sucks and life is incredibly unfair right now. Please don't do anything silly your child needs you,... (read in full...)
We talk well in person but not so great online! This upsets me..what can I do?
Q. Hmm, i think i might just be paranoid but what do i do? My boyfriend of 2 n alf months doesnt text me half as much anymore, and he never really talks on msn, Hes ok on the fone and in person but its just on msn and through texts etc. When we do talk ...
A. 27 March 2007: Hello
I think your guy just prefers to speak to you more personally. Talk to him, and put it across in a jokey way like "is my spelling that bad you don't want to text me lol" and see what he says, I'm sure he'll be baffled and won't even real... (read in full...)
He forgets to reply to my texts! Should I let him contact me or shall I keep trying?
Q. Need some help please. I like this guy (actually im in love with him). He has asked me out many times. But we havent actually met up. Why does he keep asking me and not meeting me? There have been times where there has been genuine reason w...
A. 27 March 2007: Hi
You seem to be making alot of excuses as to why he has done this or that, maybe they are genuine, but if some guy kept putting off meeting me, then I think I would of given up long ago.
The reason maybe because he is moving and feels it will be ... (read in full...)
He wants a 3some but-I'm worried he'll like the other girl better! Any thoughts?
Q. My bf wants a 3some. and to be honest im not to bothered by this as i wouldnt mind one myself. we do have a slight disagreement though. i want another lad and he wants another lass. i wouldnt mind that but im really scared that he'll shag one of my ...
A. 27 March 2007: If your not happy about this then please, please don't do it. Fantasy is one thing and reality is another. Most things in your head seem a good idea til you do them!
Just explain to your boyfriend that your not comfortable with doing it and you don'... (read in full...)
He wants sex all the time...I want talking and emotional stuff! Is he using me?
Q. hi please help me i really do not know what to do. There is a man i am really in love with but I think he's using me. Every time I see him all he wants is 20 minutes of talking and the rest of the day having sex. I mean sex is great with him but ...
A. 27 March 2007: Hi
You don't say how long you've been seeing this man, but he's obviously not making you feel very good about yourself. Next time he asks you to go over, and he tries to initiate sex tell him you really don't feel like it and maybe you could just... (read in full...)
I sex talk with a guy online and it's really spiced up things with my hubby! Is this considered cheating?
Q. I have the instant messenger thing and I have all my friends on there. I’ve made some new ones and there’s this one guy that w/in the past month or so we have been talking on a regular schedule. Im married and he’s married and we both talk about how ...
A. 27 March 2007: I personally would not be happy if I found out my other half was doing this. How would you feel if your husband was doing it to you? would it still be harmless fun? I think you know you shouldn't be doing it, but your making out it means nothing to ... (read in full...)
She talks about other guys all the time and I'm jealous! Does this mean she doesn't want to date me?
Q. There's a girl i like who I'm hoping likes me as well. The problem is that she frequently tells me about how cute other boys are that she's met and in spite of myself i find myself feeling jealous. I haven't yet asked her out cos i first want to ...
A. 27 March 2007: I think she's saying these things to get a reaction out of you, and to see how you feel about her!
Ask her out! the worst that can happen is she'll say no. Then you'll know and be able to move on :-)
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Im so confused! Do I try to get back with my ex fiance or go for this new guy who's 47!
Q. I'm 17 and was with my boyfriend for 3 years, we even got engaged. I was having trouble coming to terms with my mums death and he thought sex was more important than my feelings. We then went on a break for a week and he moved into his mums. Then 5 ...
A. 27 March 2007: Oh dear your very confused. Take a deep breath.
your ex boyfriend doesn't seem to have much respect for you, going through a death of a parent is one of the hardest things and he didn't sound like he was very supportive. I wouldn't try and get back... (read in full...)
I touched something inside her.... is she still a virgin ?
Q. hey.. i have a girlfriend and were still together like more than 2 years and shes worried because i put entered my finger in her thing..and it was about 3.5 inches..and i felt something its hard to explain what but it was a little deep and i hardly...
A. 27 March 2007: Normally the skin that breaks when a girl loses her virginity is further up her vagina, but this could of happened, but splitting the skin can happen easily through such things as horse riding, or riding a bike.
If she has started her periods the ... (read in full...)
Im depressed all the time, I think my relationship could be the problem, what can I do ?
Q. i feel really depressed at the moment i just cant seem to snap out of it.ive not woked for a while and that is getting me down tho i should be starting a new job in a few weeks. my relationship is not going well as i feel my boyf of just over year ...
A. 27 March 2007: Oh dear you seem to be a bit stuck in a rut right now. Firstly you don't seem that bothered about your boyfriend and to be honest he's not doing much for your self asteem. I think you should think about finishing things with him you need someone in ... (read in full...)
He left me and our little daughter! I'm a mess..how do I cope?
Q. hi my partner has just left me after 4 years together we have a 2 year old daughter as well.. i just cant seem to cope im lonly i love him so much and i would do any thing to have him back he rang the other nite saying he regrets it and wants to ...
A. 27 March 2007: Don't be so hard on yourself, relationships are hard when they end and things seem like they will never get better, they will it just takes time.
Your partner seems confused right now, and doesn't seem to know what he wants. I suggest right now you ... (read in full...)
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