My girlfriend gets in a mood if I don't act super excited about what she's talking about! It's annoying putting on an act, though. Advice?
Q. I feel most of the time when im with my girlfriend (of 1 year) I have too put on an act. Im not a loud hyperactive speaking person and just say it as it is. But my girlfriend is the opposite and when im not jumping up and down over somthing she is ...
A. 6 January 2007: By "high maintenance" i just meant she didn't sound very easy going, as for the pajama thing it's good that she feels comfortable enough to do that. Maybe suggest days where one time you plan something to do and another time she plans something, ... (read in full...)
After four years, my divorced ex tracked me down. He's my soulmate, but under the circumstances I'm very confused about what to do!
Q. I have been dating a man on and off for approx. 10yrs. The first time we broke up it was so he could move due to the fact that he missed his child who lived several states away. The second time we broke up because the ex he dumped shortly before we ...
A. 5 January 2007: To be honest I think he wants you when nothing else is on offer, you seem very sweet and maybe he takes advantage of your good nature because you make him feel good about himself. I would be very very wary of giving yourself to this man again.
I... (read in full...)
He gave me money for my birthday. Now his mom thinks I'm sponging off him! What should I do?
Q. my partner is away overseas and i have recently had my hours cut at work.he gave me money for my birthday as i was having troubles paying bills. his mother now thinks that i am "sponging" off him. both myself and my partner are hurt over this ...
A. 5 January 2007: Try and explain to her that you asked for money for your birthday instead of a present.
If she won't listen then just ignore it.
You and your partner know the truth so that's all that matters. Don't get upset about it or it will feel like it's mor... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets in a mood if I don't act super excited about what she's talking about! It's annoying putting on an act, though. Advice?
Q. I feel most of the time when im with my girlfriend (of 1 year) I have too put on an act. Im not a loud hyperactive speaking person and just say it as it is. But my girlfriend is the opposite and when im not jumping up and down over somthing she is ...
A. 5 January 2007: You 2 seem pretty incompatable.
She seems to demand a lot of attention from you and thats not fun for either of you.
She is what some people would call "high maintenance" which after a year and can understand why it's getting weary.
Try to en... (read in full...)
I want to have a child with my ex but she is hesitant about it!
Q. Ok My And My Ex Girlfriend of 3 week's are over she doesn't wanna get back together that's fine by me. i keep saying 2 her we sould keep trying for a kid. y because i always wanted 1 and she want's 1. new year's eve i nearly got her 2 say yes i ...
A. 4 January 2007: Please don't have a child with your Ex she is only 20 years old!
Let her wait a few years and move on to a stable relationship before she thinks about having children.
You are happy to have sex with who ever comes along by what you have written... (read in full...)
I was depressed and treated my wife like a jerk. After realizing it, I went to therapy. Things are different w/ us now, though. Should I just walk away?
Q. Ok, well this is one of those things where I have no Idea to start, so we'll start at the begenning. Good a place as any, right? My wife and I were friends from the start, from there it turned into "friends with benefits". I knew she wanted m...
A. 4 January 2007: I agree with lily223 show her what you've written, I think she needs to read it.
Her saying she doesn't feel the same about you anymore may be true, she may tho still love you just in a different way. and as much as you love someone your first inst... (read in full...)
I've always been sexually attracted to girls and even kissed on, but have only been out with boys. I'm confused about my sexual orientation!
Q. Hello i have always been sexually attracted to girls but have never thought about it too much as was scared and i thought it was just a fanatasy or something and i didnt know whether it was real or not.I have had long term relationships with boys ...
A. 4 January 2007: Don't be in such a rush!
There's no need to define who you are, you are what you are!
You will meet people regarless of their sex if your attracted to them, then get to know each other.
This may be just a "phase" that you feel you want to try ... (read in full...)
My ex said he thinks of me and misses me, too. Does this mean something?
Q. Okay, I have written on here about my ex who broke up with me suddenly after 9 months stating that he couldn't see spending the rest of his life with me. Well, I finally have left him alone. Except, on Sunday I texted him just asking to pick up ...
A. 4 January 2007: Hmmm i wouldn't read too much into this, he said he wants to hang out not get back together.
By all means go and spend sometime with him if you think you can handle it, but it may not mean he wants you back, he may just want to hang out with you ... (read in full...)
My kids' father left 15 years ago and now he's back and in love w/ me. But he feels bad asking his current lover to move out!
Q. My 2 childrens father walked out on us 15 years ago and on Nov 7, 2006 came back into our lives. He owns a home and has a woman and her son (18yrs old)living with him. Not far from where we live. He says they are not happy and we have connected ...
A. 4 January 2007: Oh dear!
Please be sure this guy is serious about you again, and is not just looking for the easy way out!
The only thing i can sujest is to talk to him tell him your serious about your future with him and you will not tolerate him doing anything... (read in full...)
I like a popular guy but am afraid his friends would put him off me - so how do I get over him?
Q. i like this guy at school but hes really really really popular, popular enough to make a girl he dated for 8 months the most popular girl in school! and everyone evnvies her but i dont want that, id rather not be popular im happy the way i am but ...
A. 4 January 2007: I think most of us have been in this situation!
You could try and get him on his own and ask him whether he would like to do something together, find out what his hobbies are and if they match your own ask him if he'd like to do that.
Most ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is being affected by our families..how do we deal with this?
Q. HELP! I am feeling like my blossoming anew relationship, which has already weathered several storms is now being torn and shredded by our unaware families -- my family has a Christmas I want to be apart of, but with rigid schedules that he can'...
A. 4 January 2007: Hmmm maybe your making to much of this?
I sujest next year you both have christmas together and stuff your families!... (read in full...)
I don't find their jokes about our age difference (18/25) funny!
Q. Hi, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and (hopefully) responding! I’ve just been feeling a bit down lately. I’m 18 years old and for the past 10 months I’ve been in a great relationship. We were close friends for a while beforeha...
A. 4 January 2007: You've been together for a while and they're still teasing you, then you must be giving some sort of reaction!
My boy friend is 5 years older than me and i don't even notice the age difference!
You need to try not to be so sensitve as they know tha... (read in full...)
I have issues with how I look that are making me paranoid!
Q. ive got really bad self esteem issues but i dont know what to do about them. I hate myself so much that the only part of me that i can look at in a mirror is my face and even then it has to be in dark lighting and from the front view. i hate the ...
A. 4 January 2007: I think most people feel like this at some point and everyone is right, about loving yourself, everyone had great qualities about them, although they're all different and that's what makes the world go round!
Start by setting little challeng... (read in full...)
We're at a crossroads in our relationship. Should I end it or carry on?
Q. I am currently in a relationship that I have realized needs to either go forward or come to an end. We have been together a little over a year. We just recently discussed breaking up and at first, he was wanting to break up as well. After talking a ...
A. 4 January 2007: I think you already know that you have lost faith in this guy. And you already know you want to end things.
It will be painful to move on but if you genuinelt can't see youeselves together in a few months then you should finish things.
Don't... (read in full...)
He says he'll make more of an effort but I'm not sure...stay or go?
Q. My boyfriend of nine months and I broke up on new years day. We didn't spend New Years Eve together as he had the opportunity to go to Amsterdam for free with his brother's band. On New Years Eve I spent ages trying to call him as I had no reception ...
A. 4 January 2007: You are putting yourself and him underway too much pressure!
of course we all want to hear someone we love tell us that they love us, but surely it would mean much more if he said it because he meant it and not because he felf he HAD to say it. ... (read in full...)
Woman I love doesn't understand that where I live doesn't have anything to do with us.
Q. i have been seeing a woman for about 10 years i love her but she doesn't understand that where i live has nothing to do with us.i got a girl pregnant many years ago her family disowned her.we made a home together for the baby.i can no longer work ...
A. 4 January 2007: She doesn't want you to buy things for her, or too take her places.
She wants to spend time with you and to know that you are commited to her, and she has every right to feel insecure as you have a child with another woman who you continue to live... (read in full...)
Should I wait and hope things change or shouls I just end it now?
Q. I met a man in August while out with friends. By the end of the night, one thing lead to another and I spent the night with him. i didn't hear from him again until September when he called because he had found the jewellery i had left at his ...
A. 4 January 2007: I think you may have found a good guy here.
You spend time together, so you know it's not just about sex.
He told you the truth about his business, when he could of easily of strung you along.
You say you both have "trust issues" maybe it's g... (read in full...)
Worried I'm too tight for sex...
Q. hi, bit of an embarassing question but recently me and my boyfriend have tried having sex but im too tight and cant even get anything in! so i tried stretching myself with my fingers, so far i can fit them all in fully individually but im more ...
A. 4 January 2007: No your not to tight.
Your just tense, and worrying even more will make you tighter still.
Try having a "make out" session with your boy friend. Ask him if you can just kiss and caress each other, ask him to stroke you and get to know each others b... (read in full...)
My ex and I have slept together..and nothing has progressed. Does he love me?
Q. Ex and I split 8 months ago, very suddenly. It left me devastated. 4 months later on his 30th,he was drunk, said he loved me and i slept with him. Nothing else happened. We argued as i thought he used me. We became friends again. i slept with him 4 ...
A. 4 January 2007: To me this guy sounds like he wants his cake and eat it!
If I was you I would start to distance yourself from this guy before you get even more hurt.
I don't mean you can't be friends but stop sleeping with him!
Look around for someone new ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend dlept with guy over 2 years ago! I can't get him out of my mind!
Q. hi there. please help me get my head around this, as its making me completely miserable and paranoid! i have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. we are really close and most of the time it is perfect. However before i met her she slep...
A. 4 January 2007: I think you need to remember she did this before she met you. Yes it's natural to be a bit jealous of partners ex's, but the only person you are hurting here is you!
Your girlfrirnd must pick up on the fact that you are being insecure, does this... (read in full...)
Girlfriend dlept with guy over 2 years ago! I can't get him out of my mind!
Q. hi there. please help me get my head around this, as its making me completely miserable and paranoid! i have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now. we are really close and most of the time it is perfect. However before i met her she slep...
A. 4 January 2007: I think you need to remember she did this before she met you. Yes it's natural to be a bit jealous of partners ex's, but the only person you are hurting here is you! Your girlfriend must pick up on the fact that you are being insecure, does this cau... (read in full...)
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