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writes:Hmm, i think i might just be paranoid but what do i do? My boyfriend of 2 n alf months doesnt text me half as much anymore, and he never really talks on msn, Hes ok on the fone and in person but its just on msn and through texts etc. When we do talk through these methods hes really nice to me etc. And also he comments my friends n things more on bebo etc. than he does me. its really upsetting me. What can i do? help please xxx
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (28 March 2007):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank-you all. and no i wasnt thank god. False alarm, i stressed for nothing. thank you again xxx
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reader, Reebe +, writes (27 March 2007):
 Hello
I think your guy just prefers to speak to you more personally. Talk to him, and put it across in a jokey way like "is my spelling that bad you don't want to text me lol" and see what he says, I'm sure he'll be baffled and won't even realise he's doing it. Try it, it's an icebreaker to begin the conversation and you won't feel silly if he comes up with a good explination!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): Do you think this could be to do with the pregnancy issue (did it turn out you were pregnant?) I think at age 14, these things are probably too much drama for a boy of a similar age to deal with. People at your age want to have fun and enjoy themselves, they don't want to have to deal with pregnancy / parenthood or abortion.
The best thing I'd say is to talk to him and tell him your observations. A boyfriend that is in to you will want to put things right and not let you feel that you are less important than you used to be.
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reader, a shoulder to cry on +, writes (27 March 2007):
the fact that he doesnt txt that much or chat on msn may just be because he prefers to communicate with you on a more personal level, i doubt thats really to much of a problem as long as he's communicating with you in person. you should tell him that his comments on websites are upsetting you, if you explain that you know it sounds silly and your just being abit jealous ul feel less embarressed about it wen he gives you a perfectly reasonable explaination. try not to jump to conclusions before you spoken to him.
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